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chaircover:
Guilty as charged!
For a start you have to be very close and special to me to be on my BBM in the first instance
And the picture has a DM of "God bless this very special man" or "Help me to say a big thank you to Mr ****"
Nothing wrong with that. Nothing wrong is appreciating someone. No matter how little the item is.
If he buys "Panda" earring, appreciate him, cos its the same him that will buy 22 carat one day.

Agreed, some people lie and some people tell the truth. What people should pick out of this is the positives of the "stories" and not the "he/she must by lying" and pray and work towards such in their own relationships.

You are right, just that we all need to be very careful these days.Not all friends are happy when you are happy, in fact, some of them get angry and jealous. I am saying all these things cos of what I have seen.A friend of mine called me when her hubby bought her a jeep for her 30th birthday this year and I believe she didn't tell everyone, neither did she tell everyone on bbm.When I god a good job last month, she was also the first person I told . Apart from her, I don't tell anybody anything. Imagine, I called a girl that was supposed to be my friend to tell her about my wedding date and the next thing she did on bbm was to ask me if I was pregnant, does it mean that she that had dated about 9 guys before getting married is better than that I that have been with one person for 6years cos of family issues? I was just wondering. Another one told me on bbm that I was forming for her and have become proud since I started planning my wedding and I asked her if it was a lottery I won.

It's good to appreciate your spouse but doing it publicly make people to get irritated most times because they feel the person is forming.

I have always been happy with people's achievements.

My previous message was just something I observed. When you make your life private, even when you are having issues, it will remain private.

Lol

Some will keep updating their bbm status with words

like "he is my heartbeat", "He's such an angel" .Dem

many.When the man starts misbehaving you start

seeing their status-"wish I can turn back the hands of

time", "do to others what you wish they do to you" and

so many others.

Advertising your spouse's good deed is not bad but there should be a limit cos not everybody is happy seeing you happy.All these advert for facebook and bbm is uncalled for.You see some ladies uploading pics of the cars their husbands bought for them.

Emasel:
#HardTruth

No girl has one bf!

I have only one and we are getting married this month.He has been the only one.

I don't envy girls who double date all because of latest phones, designer shoes, bags,clothes and peruvian weavon (don't know all the names of weavon cos my hair is my weavon )
Na dem sabi.

Not all girls do that bros

donifez:
wow..so happy for you..i for even like to attend,since am in nigeria now.

Thank u so much.

Mine has lasted 6years and we are heading to the altar this month.

All I know is that, it's not been easy.My younger ones are adults except our kid brother but I have to keep playing the role of a mother.Even when they have cash, they still want to take mine.They dodge house chores and I have to shout and shout before they do anything. People wey don get biebie .Any how sha, I like my position as the eldest.

It's not lack of opportunity, it's a decision.

Mondisweets:
You will never know maybe the engine was removed sef

Hahaha.Abi oooo

Where are u and how much do u charge?

But some thieves can steal that car late in the night oo.

MissSlimbody:
The stick is quite easy.

U start d same way as ur purse (matting). Wen u get ur desired lenght. U turn it n begin d double matting. Wen u're tru wit it u'll start closing it wit 1 bead in between.

The first tym I did it, it didn't give me a round shape.
Illustrate with pics if possible. Thanks

MissSlimbody:
yes, it is. After making the required number of balls, you jst pass ur fishing line true,den add d gold bead after every ball u pick.

I have made it before but without the two 'sticks' by the sides.

I have every reason to bless the name of the most high.

This 2014 brought so many goodies-Here is my testimony.

In 2011, my fiance's family accused me of things I never did and when their plan didn't work out, they started giving us hell that we shouldn't marry because we are from different tribes.It got to the point they would call me one after the other to threaten to kill me and insult me.

As I type, our wedding is just few days away, they pamper me now, they call to know how I'm doing.The mum who was even the major person castigating is now very nice to me.Once she knows I'm visiting, she'll prepare as if a queen is coming,Lol.

Secondly, all the arears the government was owing my mum has been paid this year.

Thirdly, I just got a Federal job.

I just finished my Masters degree too and my business is doing great.

God embarrassed us with so many blessings this 2014.I thank Him for journey mercies, I thank Him for the lives of my family and fiance's family members. I thank the Almighty father for His Kindness, Love and Mercy upon our lives.May His name be praised!

May God forgive the mother.I know at least three people who have stayed in marriage for more than 7years with no child to call their own yet someone decided to kill her own baby.

MissSlimbody:
The straight ones is called stick, you begin it the same way as purse.while d 1 in the middle is ball.

Is it this type of ball?

olabeece:
Here is the bead

I have not done this pattern before.There is another thread about bead making, check it if you will see this design there.

Yewandequeen:
this is beautiful

Thanks.

Lovely pictures

I love my hair.

olabeece:
Pls anthoniaz am new here and I want to learn how to to dis particular bead that am sending the picture now pls can u help me with it?

Let me see the pic first.

I'm in need of memory card.How much is 16gb and 32gb?

Very lovely.

I'm in need of it but know how to get it.

Love it!

FLOWER PENDANT

THINGS NEEDED ARE :-

1).Wire (0.90mm/0.50mm)

2).Mandrel/Pen

3).Cutter

4).Beads

Thebeadslady:
My work

Cool.

temmyben:
My work

Nice.

temmyben:
Alooo! Nys job u are doing here ma'am. I will love to be wit u here. Am I welccum? Will submit my work soon

You are welcome.

Thebeadslady:
Though i may not be able to submit each projects immediately after you teach us here,but honestly speaking you've been a great inspiration to me,may Jah reward you abundantly.i'll upload my work soon.

Amen..thnx.

Thank You Lord.

I have been looking for this thread, had to search.

Everything is going to be perfect for DJDOLA IN JESUS

NAME.AMEN.

DorisK:
.... I came out to meEt him as he came to take d kids to sch nd told him I needed to see him. He smiled as usual nd asked if I'd com ova or he shud return I told him I wil go ova to his house. I always felt uncomfortable having him ova cos my place was...kinda.... Smal shaa. I went. Nd we talkd. I told him I was sory for d break nd evry oda tin I loved him bt I stil hav sometin for my husband. He was kinda surprised. "Ur married" I nodded. "U tink my kids are bstds?" "Nop bt I tot u were widowed separated or sometin" "well ...." I hesitated" its a long story" I ended. " Look here swt, I excused mysef frm work today nd d kids won't b bac till noon. I hav all d time in d world... Jst let it go. Wat happend.. Dats if u wish to talk about I oo". Den I told him my story. I told him d whole truth nd d way evrytin happend up till wen I met him nd after dat up till dat moment. D story of my marriage nd single motherhood. Wen I finished nd looked up he had tears in his eyes as I did. He dint com to console me. He jst sat. Nd jst sed "am soryy" like three times. "But its well, wat about ur mum nd siblings" he asked after I calmed nw "wen last did u speak wit dem?" "I call my sister from time to time up till last year wen her numba stopped going. Probably she lost d line" " and all d time u neva spoke to ur mum" He sounded accusing nd disappointed. well, sometimes wen I called my sister she wanted to speak to me bt I always cut d call nd dey wudnt call me bac cos d numba is always hidden.... I dint kno wat to say to her nd I dint want to hear wat she wud say bfo she asks me to go bac to my husband. I jst asked my sis hw hey were, told her we were fine weneva she asked me where we were. The calls were neva mor dan a minute. Dats hw bad it was. Nd I told him. Long silence... Den he sed "Well am nt here to judge u. U had every right to be angry wt dem nd be sad d way u are bt permit me to say it was a lil bit too harsh. They dint ruin ur life dearie u did. U ran from ur problem instead of attacking it. U cud hav started a new life witout ur husband bt wt anoda person. Not all men aree like dat. Am sory u had to go tru all dat wit one man bt its nt always lik dat. Its well ok?. He went on nd on wit d sermon about life. I jst sat nd nodded. Den he came ova nd placed one arm on my shoulder. "I want yu to do sometin for me" he sed sexily. Bt I knew wat he meant. He cudnt be talking about sex right nw. I winced. "I don't kno if I can do it" "yes u can he encouraged. " I don't tink so it has been so long... I can't". He shook my shoulders, raised my head to look at him "Yu can" he sed into my eyes. "I don't even hav their numbers anymore. My sisters number was d only one I had off hrt bt it doesn go tru anymore" he chuckled "I don't bliv u" "its been seven yrs!" I resisted "Yes I kno. Bt It can't be true. U must hav anoda number u remember. Esp ur husband's. Am sorry I mentioned him. Bt jst check". Bt bfo dat... I missed u". Now ur talking!! At last I hugeed him nd tore off his clothes. Gush its been long. "I missed u too" I murmured inbetween nd devoured him..... I am bac!

Honestly I had no oda numba frm hom to call bt he suggested hw I cud get dem. We tried my brothers' facebook pages den got one number. I called it. He picked bt I cudnt talk. It was on d third trial dat he guessed my name "is dat u sis?" He asked "Yes" I answered. "Sis ur wicked! Ur heartless! U seriously hav no human sympathy in u. I wonder if we were siblinGs! Blah blah blah!" I just held d fon I cudnt move. I started crying. Dat was wen Sam took d fon frm me nd switched it off. So I was den d prodigal daughter only dat I was rejected. Some hours later I got a text from d number sayin I AM SORRY. I WILL CALL LAteR. I toldx Sam I cudnt answer d call bt he encouraged me. The call came nd wen I answered it was my younger sis. She was delighted to hear from me she was even crying dat they tot I was dead. Den anoda voice came on nd it was my mum. I greeted her. She shouted my name. After rejoicing for a while she started apologising. Dat I neva gave her d chance to apologise for rejecting me nd trying to force me on my husband. It was on Speakout so Sam confirm d story I told him. She sed she missed me nd had always regreted her actions. She wanted me bac. They all spoke wit me. Odas were in school so I spoke wit five of dem including my mum. They asked me where I was nd if I was cominG home or they shud visit. Sam signaled to say I was coming home which I did. They asked of George alone. Guess they neva blived Mirah Lived. I told dem I was sorry nd I wud contact dem if I was coming bac. because I dint hide d number mum pleaded I shudnt sqitch off my fon so dat they cud call from time to time. She was starting to say somtin else wen my broda hushed her nd cut d call. I was short oF words. Was I really going home. Sam was smiling at me. "Weldone he sed" I dint kno wat to feel. I just hugged him in appreciation. "Thank you" I sAid quietly. "I love yu".....TBC

Wow!