standd:


If you know how much I detest what the Op has done eh Just that she is pregnant and very vulnerable right now, and I know pregnant women to be extremely emotional. Just asking that we don't compound her issues.

UjSizzle:

I know it's symbolic, but is it bad to want it to look cute too?
Say, you know a girl who dislikes very conspicuous items and yet you buy a ring with a giant rock in the middle You don't think she'll experience some discomfort wearing that even if she loves you to heaven and back?
That's what I mean. I'm not talking cost here, I'm talking cut.
Or imagine buying your wife a mini dress even though she likes maxi dresses and feels uncomfortable in mini. Same thing here.
The cost isn't the issue, but you should buy your woman something she doesn't have to psyche herself to wear everyday.
If she wants a giant rock rather than full stop then I'm certain he can get a bigger rock (even if it requires buying something cheaper.)

Oooops:

Yes. That is very correct. If not for the lack of foresight by our government both past and present, this shouldn't have been an issue by now. A whole country has just few major city; Abuja, Lagos, Portharcout, Kano etc..... Just these hand few. This is so wrong... By now we should have several cities housing several companies and known for something hence their attractions. Create access road and give citizens reasons to go there, if the job is available they will. Its pathetic that our government is more concerned abt money.... hmmmm

huangcheng:


Sir whichever way you choose to look at it, everyone cannot be wrong at the same time. If you have worked in a multi-ethnic firm in Nigeria, you probably know at least one Yoruba guy who everyone hates because he's a snitch and an asslicker of the boss. It is sad but true.

BTW Why always Yorubas? This guy is a case in point of what a typical Yoruba man is at his workplace. Greedy, envious, hate-filled, tribalistic and a snitch. Learn to deal with the truth and stop attacking the messenger.

obstead200:
u can go thru my threads if u like. I don't make bigoted tribalistic comments.
I specifically pointed out that my opinion on his tribe was derived from personal experience(s) I had while working with my beloved Yoruba pple. I don't hate them for it. To me, it has become a way of life with them. I simply find it amusing.

obstead200:
I am not tribalistic. But I can swear, from my own encounter with them in the work place, that you must be a Yoru.ba man. They are the pple who view issues in the twisted way u do.

So back to the topic. Right thinking pple have said it all. Keep envy, ego and jealousy aside. Just do the job u were hired and being paid to do.
God will surely uplift and reward u in due time.

UjSizzle:
Is it such a bad thing to hope your husband to be proposes with a ring you'll love to wear?
If it means so much to the man that she wears his mark, then he has to put some effort into procuring the right one.

Marriage is not a favour please.


That said, why the boy vex?

kandiikane:


It's his arrogance that even got to me. If it was me personally, I would have told him way before, the day you bring a rubbish ring for me, my answer will be no. It's either a ring I like or no ring. If society wants me to be a slave to you I might as well get the best dang ring to show for it.

teesboy:

The fact that some questions asked and answered by peeps here do not apply to you for now do not make them irrelevant. Simply asking for how to proceed with your biometrics would have sufficed.
Now, after submitting your application online you will receive a biometrics instruction letter in your MyCIC account check under messages, print out this letter + international passport (hard copy) + two photocopies and head to VFS lekki or VFS abuja for your biometrics to be obtained. There is no extra charge if you submit online and NGN300 for SMS is optional.

berexio1:
To answer u, as soon as u apply online, u will get a message on ur CIC account with the instruction for ur biometric(Biometrics letter).It is up to u to decide when u wanna go for it as u have abt 30days to get it done,so it is still possible for online routers to do biometric same day just apply like 12am and get ur letter say by 7am and head to VFS

asid:


A well befitting conclusion

lampardizik:



Would like to join the introverts chat group on bbm?

BabaO2:

Cheap bawo. Think deeply again, when the N30m rises more than annual income of the president don't wail like fayose. That picture/ advert is not free and cheap and money from it is not illegal.

lampardizik:





So I'm guessing you call yourself extroverted,that would explain a lot...

Ps: being introverted don't mean you can't talk to a member of the opposite sex,nah you got all wrong,but then again...well i know where you stand...
Like I said you need brushing up to do on your English and make sure your aim at understanding too

Goodluck

lampardizik:



Oh...I think I'm about to bite yours off your behind!

lampardizik:




You're right you know...you need to brush up your english
...Very important

queencandace:
am a hardcore introvert and my mom is complaining alot...but i love who i am plus am a loyal friend
i would love to date an introvert they so cute.... i feel happy knowing my kind are here with me....i love u guys

Peachess:

Dude shut the fùçk up! What the hell is wrong with you? Can't remember tagging your moniker or asking for your opinion, are you crazy or something? What's the topic about? I only replied can't see where I whined about anything, or do you have comprehension problems? You're actually the one who need a psychiatrist because only a crazy person will go about not minding his business. People have different personalities, okay? IDÌÒT!

PunkyVeer:


I come across to whom? I reject them because I really don't like a place with too many people because it involves a lot of fake niceness & useless chit chat about nothing. Have you ever pretended to be interested in some lame story someone was telling, while inside you're groaning & not really caring? THAT is exactly why I don't go to big gatherings. Not everyone you're going to click with on a mental level, so I'd rather be by myself than listen to someone going blah blah blah about BS I care very little about.

Btw, who died & put you in charge of endorsing who & who isn't an introvert? Hmmm..

Turning down party invitations where I could be having so much fun, just to go sit in front the tv bored out of my mind (when the programming sucks on the day)

dmcdad:

Sometimes when I attend a party or a get-together with friends, I do enjoy of them and sometimes exclaim; mehn, flexing dey sweet die! The next time you call me for such, I might just say I ain't going. Thing is, I wouldn't even give a heck and no form of regret whatsoever.

PunkyVeer:


Excusé moi? Noboby & I mean, NO ONE, would ever describe me as lacking in will, plus being timid. Not even if they were high, drunk or sustained brain injury. Oh & I think I know what personality type I have so you can kindly keep your opinions to yourself about that.

dmcdad:

This is spot on.

Bruv, to be frank with you, I love my life like no other. I posted something earlier on in response to someone's post. That, boredom is a non-existing word in my Dictionary. I have friends who call sometimes and tell me they wanna come around as they are bored. Then I ask myself; why don't I get bored too?

When I tell people I have never been to a club before, they say I am missing out. What the heck! Missing out on what? You have to figure out what makes you happy and do that as much as possible to always stay happy. Like you rightly stated, the person you wish to become more like could just be wishing they could be like you.

People need to see the positive side of things. Introversion is not a burden, neither is it a curse. Its a great blessing.

PunkyVeer:
Turning down party invitations where I could be having so much fun, just to go sit in front the tv bored out of my mind (when the programming sucks on the day)

dmcdad:

I am with you on that bruv. I saw your earlier post and sincerely I had the intention of doing same before seeing yours.

It seems very many people think they are at lose for being introverts. Why is the reverse the case for me?

danchuzzy:



c'mon now man...


take it easy on them okay!!

you think it's easy?