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Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by dmcdad: 7:57pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:True. The difference between you and me is that, I don't watch TV unless its for games, and I seldom get bored. Boredom is a non-existent word in my dico. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by dmcdad: 8:00pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Snowangel4:Thats because you like standing aloof. I was there at some point in time, but thank goddness I was able to work on it to a greater extent. That doesnt mean some still dont complain, but not like it was before. Then, I dey snub people like mad! 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by hardeymorlar(m): 9:10pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Nice 2 know i'm not alone...thought I was weird or something |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by lekjons(m): 10:00pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
dmcdad: |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by lekjons(m): 10:04pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
dmcdad:badt guy! |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by dmcdad: 10:32pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by 2sex(m): 12:34am On Sep 09, 2015 |
Introverts are critical thinkers, exceptional planners and compassionate beings... But the world do not understand them. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by faith551(m): 9:37am On Sep 09, 2015 |
lampardizik: I know that feeling bro, you're an original. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 10:28am On Sep 09, 2015 |
shy type..people dont undstnd dis ..dey tell me i form a lot .. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 10:56am On Sep 09, 2015 |
1.I hate the fact that i don't know how to keep conversations going if i meet new people. 2.people feel like i don't like them because i don't converse with them. 3. Not having many friends 4 people feel you are dumb because you don't talk much. E.t.c. All the same its all fun jare. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by spencekat(m): 11:23am On Sep 09, 2015 |
ekundayoalo:It does. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by spencekat(m): 12:08pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
mta003:They also write you off.They see you as somebody you can't express himself or herself.The antidote is only you know whom you are and you ought to care less about what people say about you. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Eniqurl(f): 12:16pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
I hate the fact that people think am proud. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by danchuzzy(m): 12:39pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: i still can't believe you are introverted... 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 12:41pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
spencekat:I remember something that happened while i was still younger, we were having a career talk and we were asked what we wanted to become in future when it got to my turn the anchor just said ' you cannot know' all because i don't talk like the others meanwhile the anchor was just in SS 1 while i was in JSS 3. I was like...... is this girl okay at all because i no dey talk no mean i no get brain or future ambition. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Nobody: 12:43pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
danchuzzy: Well, I am. Believe it or not. I do like being around people though, but I have my limits before I start burning out & need to recharge. I just can't deal with people every day. I need plenty of space before I'm "fit" enough to go mingle again. It's an on/off thing. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by danchuzzy(m): 12:53pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Antoinne: c'mon now man... take it easy on them okay!! you think it's easy? 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by mrkay101(m): 1:13pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Eniqurl: Damn Girl u fine!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Spiff20(m): 3:08pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
lilzeel:mehn...dis guy is just me |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Spiff20(m): 3:20pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
angelofurlife:so sorry about that, pray u find an introvert who understands you perfectly |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Spiff20(m): 3:32pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Hate the fact that i want to make friends, dance,be popular,walk up to girls and strike a convo and do so many things extroverts do but no guts, after rehearsing great lines i just stand there and watch the girl pass me by like i was bewitched. In all people think am funny, intelligent and cute. They prefer me online than in person. Major reason for my introverted nature is my stature. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by dmcdad: 3:39pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Spiff20:You know you dont have to let your stature waiegh you down right? There is o excuse to feel downcasted or something... Always look at the positive side of things. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by dhebo(m): 3:42pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
I Dont hate anything..as an introvert my earpiece is my best friend saves me from unnecessary talks.I Dont get mai self worked up bout what people feel bout me.most feel am proud.just,love being alone with mai thought 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Spiff20(m): 3:47pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
lampardizik:Just what i thought, let's create an introvert club/group preferably on whatsapp and call it THE INTROVERT'S LOUNGE it'll be a world of ours, people of like minds and temperament, no extroverts to make us jealous. Just us feeling at home, sharing ideas and experiences, lending helping hands. We are great persons with tremendous talents a combo of us will be explosive. 08176538870 thats my number if the group thing works out. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Spiff20(m): 3:53pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
dmcdad:am funny, creative in writing, intelligent and more. Midst of my friends am an extrovert, they just can't get enough of me. But the fact that am way smaller than my age keeps me depressed, that akward feeling wen u ar the smallest in ur clique of guys even when u are older than all of them. ThankGod 4 nairaland where people like us can express ourselves discreetly. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by dmcdad: 4:12pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Spiff20:Bro, I still maintain that, that shouldn't be an excuse to be depressed about. C'mon, I am 5 years younger than my age. Does that mean people look down on me? Nope! When I speak people marvel and wanna listen. My friends are mostly super-extroverts, and they are very funny guys to be with. I am very humourous myself albeit I am an introvert. Its all about keeping a balance. Although I am not small per body stature. I am 6' tall, broad shoulders added to a great physique. Yet, I appear far younger than my age (looks). When I get to meet new people nowadays and tell them of my age, most doubt me. Infact, it seems everyone I come across now think I am 5-6 years younger as their guesses has always been off by 5-6 years. Does it worry me one bit? Not at all. On the contrary, it makes me feel great about myself. Where I convince people hook, line and sinker are areas that require mature views and experience in dealing with. Also, aside making fun and bringing about humour, I am a very serious and a no-nonsense individual. Yours might be different, in the sense that you might be be small (stature-wise) but it still doesn't spoil anything to be honest. Just see the positive side of things. I feel great about myself and wouldn't trade myself for any other person. You need to see yourself this way, and people too will begin to see you in such light. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Antoinne: 4:15pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
danchuzzy: It's easy. I'm an introvert myself and I don't go around with a tag around my neck asking for help. They need to chill out, seriously. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by dmcdad: 4:16pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Spiff20:You need to change your perception bruv. No extrovert, I mean none will ever make me feel jealous. For what its worth, they should be the ones jealous of you and not the other way round. I could match them in many of their areas of strength. They could only match my areas of strength in their dreams. Well, maybe because I am more of a redeemed (to an extent) melancholy than just a regular one. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by dmcdad: 4:19pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Antoinne:I am with you on that bruv. I saw your earlier post and sincerely I had the intention of doing same before seeing yours. It seems very many people think they are at lose for being introverts. Why is the reverse the case for me? |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Antoinne: 4:37pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
dmcdad: I wonder ooOOooo. I'd give anything to come back to this life as an introvert. I have absolutely no problem being one. All my friends complain daily about money, cos they spend recklessly at the clubs. I don't go to clubs much, and I like to keep my own money. Doesn't even come across to me like I'm not living. Really living my life to the fullest, doing my own things and spending my time on what I choose to, not on what I'm pressured to. Really don't have any apologies. Certainly with you on this. One thing many of them don't realize is that: just as they wish they were extrovert enough to be the life of a party, there are a great many extroverts who wish they'd just be introvert enough to have quiet and to not have to be the life of a party. |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by Antoinne: 4:54pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:You see, turning down the party invitation has nothing to do with being introvert, but more to do with being timid or lacking of will. And that's not a good thing for your future self. If you do want to go to that party, nothing should stop you from going, exercising your freedom while there and not crossing the boundaries you've set for yourself. Bascially, living your life. And if what you want to do is to simply sit at home, then that's what you should just do and enjoy same while at it. Without feeling left out. Just had to put that out there |
Re: What Do You Hate About Being An Introvert by dmcdad: 4:54pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
Antoinne:This is spot on. Bruv, to be frank with you, I love my life like no other. I posted something earlier on in response to someone's post. That, boredom is a non-existing word in my Dictionary. I have friends who call sometimes and tell me they wanna come around as they are bored. Then I ask myself; why don't I get bored too? When I tell people I have never been to a club before, they say I am missing out. What the heck! Missing out on what? You have to figure out what makes you happy and do that as much as possible to always stay happy. Like you rightly stated, the person you wish to become more like could just be wishing they could be like you. People need to see the positive side of things. Introversion is not a burden, neither is it a curse. Its a great blessing. 1 Like |
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