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Mariangeles:
How cute.

You even took the time to serve it beautifully in her cute little plate. What a sweet mommy you are.
I imagine her enjoying the food and sweating on her cute little nose.
Your daughter is blessed to have you.

Awwn, #blushing
She's my life.
Thanks ma, God bless you ma.
#sending you lots of love and kisses ma

pocohantas:
Honestly, I can’t remember when this happened, but I am glad you are doing better. God bless you too…

Thanks and amen ma

Acecards:
you dey keep space ?

I shed tears of joy last year. I was working as a live in housemaid and earning 15k salary as a university graduate, there was no job and I hate been lazy, so I started from somewhere, I was encouraged by a great friend I met here in nairaland, John. Can't really remember his moniker, Sunshyne200 he celebrated every job offer I got like they were huge, from the 8k per month job to the 15k per month job. His words of encouragement made me buckled up. After buying groceries for my daughter, I barely have enough to pay for school fees.
Pocohantas God bless her sweet soul.
If I keep typing, everywhere go full. But she's a blessed woman.

So I made this for my daughter on Sunday morning. #big smile

60k
50k to pay my house rent debt
10k to pay my mum's hospital bill

*A lady that is independent and self sufficient*
That is the woman i am becoming by God's grace.
Why should a woman put her responsibilities on a man?
I believe in hardwork, decent living, spending within my means and been contented.
If marriage comes, I can't become a full house wife. God forbid.
I must be working and making my OWN money as well.

Fantachapman:
My Fiancee has been attacking me regularly nagging at me each time we are out together and she sees a fine girl look at me. I don't even see the girls she is talking about. She has accused me of doing things that I never even imagine doing.

Now there was a time I sent her a message last year with my business whatsapp (that I rarely use, sometimes I deactivate it to create space on my phone to download new apps). She didn't know about this particular whatsapp because I don't really use it to chat with family and friends. In this message, I acted like a stranger/Chyker to her just to see how she would react so that i can use it and laugh with her but she discarded the person not knowing it was me.

Fast forward to last month she came to my house to spend time with me (we are in long distance relationship), I usually recharge dstv with that whatsapp, so she saw the whatsapp and she searched her phone and found out the fake chyker message I sent her last year had the same pic as the one I was using for dstv recharge. I told her I normally deactivate the whatsapp cos I don't use it often. I dont use it much anymore because the original phone number I was using with that whatsapp is no longer in use (blocked due to no usage). I told her the truth about the chyking incident. No one I know personally has the number except I want to ask questions online anonymously or when I was looking for a house, i used it to talk to agents. She accepted.

My main phone spoilt recently and i used the whatsapp to contact a repairer i met on nairaland. So we have been chatting about how to get it to him for repairs.

Now, two days ago, when I woke up in the morning, she asked me why I'm still using the whatsapp. I told her it was cos I was trying to contact a repairer. I opened the whatsapp and showed her, she saw the dstv recharge too, and the other messages that I sent to house agents were still there. So she insisted I scroll down so she could see what I have been doing on whatsapp. At this point I was upset. I told her her suspicions are getting too much, so I stretched my hand with the phone and asked her to give me her own whatsapp (Which she passwords) for me to see her messages, and then she can have and see mine. She then said she doesn't want to see mine anymore. She then left the room and when next I saw her in the parlour, she was deleting chats on her whatsapp. So I demanded to see her phone ( I bought it for her).

When I read her messages I was broken in half. There was a guy she earlier told me was a fool and an idiot, that the guy doesnt know how to talk to women and always wants to chat cos he has no one to talk to. She told me if that guy dares talk rubbish to her he will get slap. That he's not a spec to any girl at all. Now of all the people I see on her Facebook I'm always laughing when I see this particular guy's comments cos I tell her even if other guys are a threat, this is the last person I can ever fear can take you from me.

Can you believe that I read her chat with this particular guy and I was blown to shreds? She has been sex chatting the guy since when me and her first met 2 years ago and she is always the one bringing the sex chat up. She even tells him about me and they both laugh at me behind my back calling me Senior Uncle (as in old man). The house I rented for her and her family to stay, she invited the guy to bring condom and hammer when he is coming to help them arrange the house in the chat. She asked the guy to buy her condom and pant for Christmas, that year was the period I paid for the house. I bought her the phone she used to be chatting with this guy. Each time they are chatting and I come online, she will tell the guy that senior uncle is disturbing her again, that I am annoying and im talking talking not letting her sleep. I was planning to register her in school and that very night in January 2020, she told the guy that I'm disturbing her with school registration. She told him my village and where I live. Anything or plan I have for her, she will consult this guy to ask him what he thinks before she accepts what I tell her. Even when she travelled for a wedding, she returned very late to her parents house due to bus breaking down and as she was telling me their journey she was also giving this guy a blow by blow account of the journey, like for example: "we have entered Imo now, but we have not reached Ph, I am in Ph now, I am home now" and the guy responds "oh thank God". There was a chat where she was angry that the guy came to her house and didn't eat her food. This guy asks her if she is alone at home before he can come visit. She stopped working (cos they were paying her peanuts so i put her on monthly allowance) so she was always home.

I broke down in tears and smashed the phone. I still took her and the phone to the repairer of my other phone and they changed the screen, I paid. While I was reading the rest of the messages I was seeing, talk of breast and yansh and other terrible sex chats. She took the phone from me, I threatened to call her dad and she begged me not to. Next thing she deleted the messages. Her dad already saw my missed call the next morning (yesterday). He called her and she told him we had a problem. He called me and I told him everything that happened. He called her again and she said it was all a joke that she didn't mean all those chats with the guy. Her dad called me begged me to forgive her. He was crying. Her mum later called and begged me to forgive her that she said she was joking with the guy.
I called the guy with her phone and i told him i am senior uncle, he said he knows who i am, then i asked him why he destroy my marriage, he asked me which marriage? That he doesn't know who I am. I shouted on him and ended the call. I called his girlfriend and told her what he was doing to my relationship. My Fiancee has been crying and begging me since then. After that I forgave my fiancee yesterday, and her parents have called to thank me but my heart is still heavy. I don't know what to do anymore.

Note: She told me she never slept with him that it's just chat jokes.

I am glad to tell you that it will still happen again and again. And when you marry her, her boyfriend's will Bleep her right on your matrimonial bed while she use your money to pay their bills.
Congrats for been a simp.
#spits

Pls I need PPA in Abeokuta, around kuto.
Maybe a private school that pays corpers

Business strategy. If you know, you know
Federal government now gives corps members who gets married during service year #500, 000

Juliusmalema2:
U are bad, allow those that see this opportunity benefit and not someone who doesn't see it. See as u want block some people blessing. Na wa for u o

Ah Ah, how did I block people's blessings? I know this lady is really in need of it and she's helpless.
I didn't include it in my write up that the OP shouldn't give others who are also genuinely in need of it.
He is going to pay it via her school portal to verify and be sure its not a disguise and I'm not asking for a return. I just want to see everyone winning and happy.

I think you're the bad one here because your ways are not pure.
But I don't have anything to say to you. If you don't stop been bitter, good things may not come your way, its not a curse.

I pray God helps you

MrGoood:
I won’t give you cash, I will pay via your portal, Forget about cash, we need to reduce the level of illiteracy, I will choose randomly and it must be distress, Don’t take money from your parent and tell me story , I am doing distress payments not comfort pls

Please I have a friend who couldn't graduate with us since 2019 because she's owing tuition fee from 300 level till 500 level. She has been working ever since to raise money, but she hasn't been able to pay up everything.
I'll be very glad of you can help her.
I can give you her contact or collect her username and password for the school portal to pay it yourself.
She's a second class upper student.
I'll be very very grateful if you can help her.

xynerise:
There is this common feud between some mother-in-laws and wives that is still a mystery which gave rise to this question.

Ladies, if your mother-in-law is still alive, how would you feel if your husband hangs pictures of her on the wall? I can understand if she is dead but alive, would you welcome it ?


Cc: lalasticlala

Why not? I've always loved to have framed pictures of my parents in my room, both are alive.
So I see no reason why he can't have his in the house. Its a symbol of adoration of one's parent. It'll be horrible of me to tell a man not to love his parents, God forbid me saying or acting so.

LibertyRep:
If this real ( wether produced or assembled) then it's commendable.

Hopefully more will follow.

It is very real. The company is in a small town Ode-Remo in Ogun state
Heavily guarded with security measures, the fences are so high, you can't peep and workers are not allowed to take phone into the premises.
It's not far from my parents house.
They assemble and produce vehicles

FreeSpirited:
Many 30-45 year old lady are crying and praying for husband, really? We never knew o..
.
Shebi they are the minister of Feminism on Facebook and on Nairaland.
.
It's strange to hear feminist also cry for husband. Too bad mehn.

Feminism here and there, na suffer he dey suffer person last last

[quote author=TheCalculator post=100581772][/quote]You look so cute with the haircut.
Keep it up

[quote author=TheCalculator post=100581772][/quote]You look so cute with the haircut.
Keep it up

mmadu4:
then u can kill a human being ooo h

Lol, I can't hurt human being, not to talk of killing

Simple task.
I'll slaughter it, remove the intestines and cut into different sizes

Georgekyrian:
Oh I'm very happy today, not because I already made it but because I found out on the long run I'm not the first and can never be the last. I join Nairaland since 2011 and since then is my best place to be online, like my particular Bestie will always say; Gi na Nairaland mgbe obula (you and Nairaland everytime), that's when she want my attention but only to found out Nairaland has it already.
This forum had made me learn a lot, find out a lot about life, know my worth, and now I cannot stay a day without surfing through this place at most 8 times on my busy days. I have my favorites pals here and can't get to their post without a gaze at the thread, when I talk about this people @Lalasticlala (snake lord) @explorer @ilegend @anuofgod @righteousness55 and lots.. comes to my mind.
Thanks you all for been family, thanks for the times we share, thanks for the knowledge.
Life comes with all it's challenges but above all things I give my God the glory
Let love leads

Happy birthday darling. May God continue to shine His light on you.
Age gracefully, live long and prosper. May you achieve greater feats of success in life. #sending you lots of love and good wishes for your day.

powerhouse3:
..ok, I will....

Lol

powerhouse3:
Apart from the good sex ,.... short girl are no no....


I mean ,short girl are too stubborn,


Look At How They Even Refuse To Grow

Looool, such wickedness with your last sentence.
Avoid me...lol

pozehnani:
Complex issues. Always feeling intimidated by tall peeps

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