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SOZINN:
I won't engage in cold approach anymore because I'm too hot for that. I've invested and will continue to invest my M.E.A.T in myself. I'm the complete package, I should be getting all the attention. Duh

ubunja:
the next question is, Do we then spend? And if we spend don't we become blue pill? Or how do we spend in such a way we don't simp. Or how do we get women to spend without us losing our masculinity. So many questions...

ubunja:
so what's the way forward,, how do we reconcile femininity with working women.

Maxxim:
Facts,
this is where I felt disconnected and kept wondering about the sides most Redpillers stand. To my understanding Trp ideology helps men win back their lost glory by transforming it's society back into patriarchy but these same men wants equality when it comes to spending and all that, isn't that confusing?
While it's obvious that the more she spends the less respect she develops for the man which means power shift, this shouldn't be new to many acclaimed Redpillers.
I've read it here where you said more Redpill exposure brings the society back to the jungle which I believe it breeds out traditional men, I think it shouldn't be new knowledge that once you split bills you become less of your masculinity, you'll have to compromise lot of shits, how you spend, when to fvck and all of that.

Lightway:
I will like you to explain it further, but I'll also reply to this.

Men do not fall in love.

A man that trains a girl through school has money. He goes for a girl that is below his status and tries to build her. Why does he do this? Because he sees himself as a provider. The man that does this chooses an average girl and tries to build her not because of love, but because he sees himself as the provider and doing so will make the girl loyal to him. That is what he thinks, but women are smarter.

You talk about sacrifices. There is a story of a girl that killed herself after she found out that the boy she set up a business for was cheating= on her. This was a young girl of 23. Since you say women love opportunistically, why would a woman spend her all to make a man happy to the point that the man cheating on her caused her to kill herself. This means that she was in love. But Redpill says that women don't fall in love.

The truth is that she fell for a bad boy and wanted to make him happy. He gave her the feeling of love, the fantasy of it (because love does not exist). The same way a man wants to sacrifice for a woman to make her happy. When a man sees a woman smile after he provides for her, he will be glad. That is not love. The man sees himself as the provider and providing for his girl gives him value. That's how men see themselves and that's why they are ready to sacrifice for women.

There is a story on nairaland of a guy that is struggling, but still providing for his girlfriend who is in school. The same man is still in school and sacrificing to feed her. Why does he do this? Because he sees himself as the provider. This is not love.

Providing for a woman and seeing her happy, makes a man happy. He thinks that providing for a woman is how he shows his love.

Ask a man to show love to a woman without providing for a woman and he can't. That's why you see men wail when a woman breaks their heart. That after all he spent on her. It is always after all he has spent

Men see themselves as providers and believe that by providing for a woman, they are showing love and hope that the woman will love them back.

Take note, these men hope that the women love them back. These men are also average with low self esteem and their money is their confidence. That's why you see them spending heavily on women that don't value them. It is one reason I love bad boys. They make women feel great without spending a dime These bad boys know that what men call love, is a fool's dream. It is the fantasy of love from Hollywood.

You hardly see a man that loves a women but won't spend heavily on her. In a man's mind, spending on her is how he shows his love. Which is just a fantasy in this generation. The world of old required men to be providers and protectors but never said that, "This is how a man loves a woman". The same way our grandfathers never used the word "love". In fact, many languages like Igbo don't have a word for "love".

Men don't love women. Blue-pilled men that spend on women have low-self esteem and think that by providing for a woman is the only way they can feel worthy. A woman is born with pussy, soft breasts, and a delicious mouth that can do wonders on your dick. A woman can give you kids, cook great food, and take care of your family. What does this blue-pilled man have? Nothing, so he gets money and assumes his provider position. Spending on this woman, hoping that she will give him (love) back. But women are not so straightforward.

There was a story posted here by a nairalander of his ex-girlfriend who he turned into his FWB and sleeps with her. He said she came for a round of sex and she told him of the four guys she is dating. These men are sending her money claiming they love her. One called her and talked about sex starvation but she shouted at him and he begged her. According to the poster, the girl is average in looks and curves

You can see that, this man is sacrificing his money for this girl and that's not because of love. The man chose this average girl because he has low self esteem and doesn't think that the high-class girls will want him. Those beautiful girls are being chased by guys with Range Rovers and Benz, so he is not close to their league. He goes for the average girl and tries to entice her with money. But since AWALT, she can see through his low self esteem.

When it comes to marriage, it is almost the same. Nowadays, men have fantasies of marriage rather than the reality. Men dream of playing with their kids, helping their wives with the dishes, and all that shit they see on TV. They think that, this is love. That's how love works. The reason they do this is because they believe that by making her happy, helping her out, she will love him or care for him which is not the case because women don't think that way.

I can go on and on with many examples of how a man's mind works. A man will look for an average girl to date or marry so that he can assume his provider position. This is why you see a girl will be rude to a guy but he will still go ahead to provide for her. Not just because he sees himself as a provider but also because he has low self esteem and feels worthless if he can't help his girl. He is also being drawn by his need for sex. He invests in her and can't pull out anymore. Women are smart.

Men don't love ideally. I deeply respect women because they're becoming smarter than men. They are seeing through a man's self esteem and a man's constant need to prove himself. A man wants to always show a woman that he can provide for her and he also wants sex. A woman doesn't want all men based on her preferences but she can take advantage of his urges to be a provider and need for sex and use it to enrich herself. Just like Mercy, Tasha, Erica, Nengi, Destiny Eitko, Tiwa Savage, Maria, Tonto Dikeh, Mercy Aigbe

Men need to understand that they are fooling themselves thinking that they love women. Love is just a word created from English language to make life look beautiful.

TheDarkGamer:
I strongly agree.

In the past, men respected and held their fathers on high regard which is unlike the case today.

Fathers instill on their sons strong values such as discipline, self control and stoicism in general. This contributes to much of the masculinity that is vital to a man's success in society. And we all are aware that masculinity is on the brink of extinction with each new generation of males that is formed.

It's not completely their fault though. Several factors play a part in the de-masculation of males including the media, the societal structure, feminists, and other people in the society which includes mothers.

An example of this is the media which sets out to de-humanise men by painting all sorts of pictures on them. Fathers are depicted as sexual predators who prey on their daughters, fathers are also depicted as too strict or heartless and a child experiences freed in the presence of the mother, fathers are also depicted as being overly dominant in marriages and oppressing/harrasing their wives, etc. A lot of these occur in different forms in society, which leads to mother worship, and subsequently female worship.

Nowadays, men seem to respect and love their mothers more, which indirectly contributes to the female-worship pandemic which we find around us.

There should be a healthy balance and a man should also be proud of his father and what that position of authority stands for.

If this mentality is corrected in our society among males today, it increases the probability of more males being disciplined, self reliant and in control of their lives.

Martinez39s:
As in, we are just nerds, chronic masturbators and porn addicts who know all the names of porn stars. We need to change and grind hard so we can splash cash on hoès and be the real MVPs. After splashing 60k for pusśy, I will then come and lie here that I spent #400, just a stipend. We need to change, e go better.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 280, REDPILL 2021

Women want to have sex from the standpoint of comfortability. She feels she's giving out a part of herself and needs to reassures herself that she's making the right choice.

However, the gap between this line of thought and that comfortability is the friendzone abyss: wherein she wants you to wait, she simultaneously gets into use your time, resource and emotion.

The more you sink into this abyss, the more the reassurance switch to you: "inasmuch she's collecting from me, definitely, she will fvck me at the appropriate time".

Inversely, you are now the one that needs to be comfortable by expending yourself before you get whatever you want from her. And in most cases, you simply can't get out of the friendzone.

Authority: avoid the friendzone.

Lightway:
You can never how it feels unless you feel it

Experience is the best teacher

G0LANHEIGHTS:
Lord have mercy

SOZINN:
But Dem no fit broke men
Na them get only fans
Blac Chyna dey collect 20m$ per month for there
Imagine
Just to sell porn

SOZINN:
No be porsha evans
But porsha Evans bad sha
This one dey work with Brittanya razavi
I'll leave it at that

TarOrfeeek:
Porsha Evans

The Kind of Google search I did to find this name

amen bro

May God cure us from konji.

TarOrfeeek:
Who is this model?