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TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 7:26pm On Jun 11, 2018
Lexusgs430:
We can't all be Ralphlauren, some of us are simply primark.......
grin grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 7:23pm On Jun 11, 2018
Ah ahn! You people! I only went missing for 2 days and you people have written up to 4 pages..! You go fear novel now! grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 7:16pm On Jun 11, 2018
DaveChapelle:
There was one guy we were following before,but he felt we were competing with him on his thread
grin you like trouble o. That’s where I even found her from. He was getting a bit too rude and didn’t like people posting on “his” thread, so most people packed the load and left.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 7:14pm On Jun 11, 2018
MadameKofo:
Aphrodite007 Thank you for referring me to this thread. Ive been reading it since morning and getting answers to so many questions. Wish i knew about it earlier mehn.

Fatima04 starting this thread was such an awesome idea. God bless you and all who have contributed to this thread. Its really informative.

Back to reading mode.
You’re welcome. Yes Fati over tried. Where would I be without the contributions here.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 7:13pm On Jun 11, 2018
DaveChapelle:
You can. Get a car for 1k too... Is it not to get you from A to B
grin grin uncle you don’t like me at all o grin
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by Aphrodite007(f): 5:59pm On Jun 10, 2018
shemafia:
Thanks to everyone here for your words of encouragement. I'm trying to be strong for both of us because hubby has been flogging himself over and over again.
Aww poor man. He really might have forgotten. It is well. Like people are saying, the UKVI should have called him to ask about the statements, unless they did and he didn’t pick up. Sorry dear.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 5:51pm On Jun 10, 2018
Mamatukwas:
Lol ok but I haven't heard good things about gumtree so be careful. If you guys have Arnold Clark dealerships where you are check them out, they are very experienced used car sellers. Jisike.
Kisses!
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 5:51pm On Jun 10, 2018
Ralphlauren:
There’s nothing wrong in buying a brand new car as your first car as long as you can afford it. Do not let Lexusgs430 and co rain on your parade. grin

My MRS went straight to the dealership to pick up a brand new car barely days after she received her driving license in the post. The car was worth around £22,000 at the time. It was a finance deal and after 3years, she returned the car back to them and went to another dealership to pick another brand new car.

The insurance wasn’t bad as a first time driver. It was around £120 or so if I remember correctly. She didn’t pick a provider from a comparison site. She asked the dealership to recommend an insurance company and she went along with the quote she was given.

Brand new cars come with its “perks”, so I won’t fault anyone that decides to get one. You have to be very very careful with used cars as it is easy to get your fingers burnt.

Imagine paying £4,000 for a car only to change all four tyres, brake pads and shocks within a year. And then shortly after you get told by the mechanic that the car’s engine is almost gone and you should prepare to SCRAP the car. This happened to a guy I know.
Wow poor guy! Lol. Thanks for this. I’ll keep it in mind
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 5:49pm On Jun 10, 2018
shaybebaby:
Check Auto trader and Ebay. Avoid dealers, they know all the tricks in the book including clocking the mileage.

Try to buy from private sellers.

Red flags to look for;
Number of previous owners: the higher the number relative to the age of the car, that's not too good.

2)Number of miles on it: chances of more wear and tear if the mileage is high although you may have to compromise mileage to get something cheaper. I personally do not go for anything with more than 50k miles.
3) Check out the history of the car, see if its has been in any accidents which has not been disclosed. If it has been, shouldn't be more than a cat c (fender bender) to avoid stories that touch.

Use this website; www.mycarcheck.co.uk. For a 20 quid, you will be able to check the history of up to 4 cars by just entering the reg number.



Lastly, haggle on the price.
Tiri cartons of Star for you sir! I’ve screenmunched this. Thank you so much
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 10:20pm On Jun 09, 2018
Lexusgs430:
Abeg, no give Oga heart attack o... £14,000..... Just look for a better Toyota Aygo (automatic), build your insurance history, get lowest insurance premiums, gather no claims bonus, year 2 (start to protect your no claims bonus)....

When you have built up enough road experience + insurance history + road network familiarisation. Buy a decent car or better still, upgrade your aygo.......
After you, na you! Thanks boss, I appreciate this- it really looks like a good plan. Thanks.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 10:19pm On Jun 09, 2018
Mamatukwas:
Abi it's a big jeep you're eyeing noni?? wink
I don’t know cars o, is hatchback jeep? grin tbh I just want a car that I’ll drive for the next 3 years in peace.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 10:17pm On Jun 09, 2018
Mamatukwas:
Nne 14k kehuh Wawu!!! Your heart is bigger than my own grin grin Abi do you want to buy brand new? We are buying a used car. And yes oh, very clean manuals for 4kish in this my zone smiley
You see why I love you guys grin, I’ve learned too much from here. I honestly was thinking that was a cheap car grin. My co-workers say that I should buy a new car from the dealers. Maybe I’ll check gumtree. Damn I feel stupid grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 9:57pm On Jun 09, 2018
wonlasewonimi:
This is not Nigeria aunty Aphrodite007..the banks are regulated by FCA / prudential regulators and depositors funds are protected upto 85k for each account holder should the bank go down same level with traditional banks.
Thank you sir.. it will take a while for the bush girl in me to adapt grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 9:56pm On Jun 09, 2018
Mamatukwas:
With you on that Auto matter... was seeing some sweet 4kish deals only to realize they are all manual. Cheapest sensible auto we've found is around 7k. Arnold Clark. I can't be hustling manual again jor... I've paid my dues.
Wait you found a car for 4K? Wow! No wonder Oga shouted when I told him I wanted a 14k car. I was thinking 14k was cheap o grin, ah they will just sell me in this country
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 9:40pm On Jun 09, 2018
Mamatukwas:
Meanwhile cheapest insurance quotes we've gotten is about £680 from a coy called insure2drive.. I'm like who are these ones again? shocked Hope they pay claims oh? Does anyone know them? Is £680 sef a good rate for we 1st timers or we should keep looking?
Why don’t you use moneysupermarket to compare insurance. Please money is not a joking matter to be wasting anyhow. There’s no room for “had I known”
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 9:39pm On Jun 09, 2018
Mamatukwas:
With you on that Auto matter... was seeing some sweet 4kish deals only to realize they are all manual. Cheapest sensible auto we've found is around 7k. Arnold Clark. I can't be hustling manual again jor... I've paid my dues.
grin I’m telling you, I just can’t cope with manual. Like I’m still scared of shifting auto gear with left hand, I will now be shifting gear every minute? issalie o, We go manage the automatic like that, expensive or not grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 9:35pm On Jun 09, 2018
wonlasewonimi:
There's absolutely nothing wrong with traditional banks. I still maintain my accounts with Halifax, HSBC, natwest and nationwide.

The analytics provided by these banks sold me.. The fact that I get notification for every transaction and the location of where the card is spent and the shop. One of their marketing slogan is that you get notified before the receipt of your purchase is out. I can freeze the card if I misplace it or stolen. These capabilities do not exist with traditional banks. I can spend overseas without charges too.

You should never own just a single account in this country. The bank can tell you they will close your account if they so desire... I know people this happened to, they were in dire straits trying to open a new account to keep getting paid after the account closure.
Thanks boss, I’ll keep this in mind. Maybe I’ll open the starling as my current account. I have just been weary of these small banks shutting down one day, haha blame my Igbo sense!
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by Aphrodite007(f): 9:33pm On Jun 09, 2018
Osinachi1290:
I'm so sorry. I already replied before I saw where you acknowlegded your mistake. Tried to delete and I couldn't.
Thanks for being really sweet about it.
Oh naa, it’s fine. I understood that was what happened, besides there’s nothing wrong in correcting me on a stupid/obvious mistake.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 9:32pm On Jun 09, 2018
Ralphlauren:
Is that for new or used cars?

Do you pay a percentage contribution?

5 years is a long time to drive the same car (in my own opinion ohhhhh). So think about it well before you commit. You might even be better off going to the car manufacturer directly via one of their own dealership.
Yeah I get you but I never planned on paying for up to 5 years, maybe 3. It’s a mixture of new and used. And yes I really have been thinking about going directly to the dealership. Thanks for the advice, I may reconsider.
TravelRe: The Adventures Of A New UK Migrant by Aphrodite007(f): 2:18pm On Jun 09, 2018
MadameKofo:
Good morning all. Also a newbie in UK on a tier 2 dependent visa. Mamatukwas you and i are in similar situations. I have 2 kids under 4.
Looking for how to attack this UK job maket as well. I just applied for my temporary license and would take the theory test soon. Mobility cannot be a hindrance

I have International drivers license from Nigeria. Im just not confident enough to drive on UK roads. The right hand steering still dey confuse me
Lol we are in the same shoes. I can’t believe I’ll have to start changing gear with my left hand. Anyway, you’re welcome Ma. Oya move to this thread. wink https://www.nairaland.com/4158866/living-uk-life-uk-immigrant
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 2:14pm On Jun 09, 2018
Ralphlauren:
I will open one with starling this weekend.

I’m happy to see challenger banks getting very good feedback. I think the main street banks are exploiting too much. Halifax has increased their monthly charges for one of their current accounts to £17. Fee that started from £10 when I first opened. Meanwhile, I have not made a single claim on the so called “added benefits”.
Really? I don’t pay anything on my Barclays o, maybe it’s cos it’s a student account. Like every damn thing in the bank is free for me. Maybe I shouldn’t migrate to the standard Barclay bank account then. Osho free men!
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 2:11pm On Jun 09, 2018
wonlasewonimi:
I have the three of them starling, monzo and revolut. They are very good. But my main bank now is starling. Go on your phone now and open atleast starling and try it for few days. You will stop using your traditional bank for daily spends.
But is there anything wrong with using the the normal traditional bank? What advantage do these online banks have over the trad banks?

Just curious sha. Cos Oga said we should open our joint account in NatWest, it’s doing me somehow, like I’m betraying Barclays grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 2:06pm On Jun 09, 2018
Lexusgs430:
The bus is good in the summer, but come the winter season....... It's like waiting in the freezer.......
I’m telling you. And I’m in the north where the cold no get part 2. I’m saving towards getting a car. In 2 months, I should be gallant enough. I have already been eyeing some cars in chapelhouse (they give 0% interest for 5 years, which is think is just super especially as na auto I wan drive, and it seems they are more expensive here!)
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by Aphrodite007(f): 2:01pm On Jun 09, 2018
Lexusgs430:
They like you within the system....... Tax and NI MUST be collected......
grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 2:01pm On Jun 09, 2018
Ralphlauren:
Moneysupermarket is the truth mehn.

I was previously with Churchill for my car insurance.

A colleague told me about comparing providers so I went to moneysupermarket.

Guess what? I got a quote with Admiral that reduced my yearly premium by half !!!! shocked shocked shocked I was shook. I also discovered I can get cheaper gas and electricity, so I’m considering switching that as well.
Toh! See how you’ve saved a lot. Me I saw a better mobile contract, called my providers and told them I wanted to leave, they now offered me a better deal. I’ll keep admiral in mind for my car insurance. Thanks
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by Aphrodite007(f): 1:59pm On Jun 09, 2018
Osinachi1290:
Not 6 months. It's 90 days per year, i.e. 3 months
Yes love, I noted my mistake. Thanks
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 1:05am On Jun 09, 2018
Lexusgs430:
Rates vary depending on loads of factors...... You would just have to use sites like moneysupermarket, compare the market or other price comparison websites.....
Exactly the advice I was going to give. Moneysupermarket is great, plus I’ve been seeing ads for confused.com (for car insurance). I intend to check them out when I’m ready to stop jumping bus!
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 1:04am On Jun 09, 2018
wonlasewonimi:
Lol I remembered they installed the monitoring spirit when I first started driving. You go online to check how you are performing, you will just be seeing red like a prostitute doing menstruation.
Hian! This description sha! grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Aphrodite007(f): 1:02am On Jun 09, 2018
nomad26:
If you have prior driving experience in Nigeria, I would suggest Aviva because they take into account total number of years you've held a licence (not necessarily a UK licence) which makes the quote much cheaper.
Also, if you buy through topcashback app, you can get 50 pounds cashback on your insurance.
Really? Been told to use the topcashback o, been doing guy! Omo menh, no time to waste money, I’m so downloading it ASAP!!
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 3 by Aphrodite007(f): 1:00am On Jun 09, 2018
OlowoB:
. Cc Aphrodite007

[/b]“Nigerians tolerating bad service is true”[b]

You schooled in the UK and should know better to stop with the generalisations. You also should have been taught that before you make conclusions, you should have all information. How did you even come to the conclusion that @akfaa tolerated bad service based on initial information given by him?

Thank God @akfaa has given further details to show it has nothing to do with accepting bad service.

Lastly, some Nigerians I know have been challenging authorities since university days. They did not need exposure to the western culture to demand what is right.

Do have a beautiful weekend.
Ehya, sorry I didn’t count the number of Nigerians that tolerate bad customer service before posting. I should do this more often and stop generalising, after all, I’m educated and speaking to people that can’t comprehend without me spelling it out to them. Sorry iye.

Next time, when I say stuff like, “Nigerians are suffering”, or “Nigeria lacks proper health infrastructure”, I’ll be sure to put out the percentage so you guys can get the drift! (“Get the drift” means to understand, comprehend. I explain this to avoid confusion. Maybe the next warning I’ll get is to not use slangs! Kmt).
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by Aphrodite007(f): 12:53am On Jun 09, 2018
teejay231:
You can't stay outside the UK for more than 90 days in a calendar year.
Oh yeah that’s true, it’s 3 months!
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 3 by Aphrodite007(f): 8:55pm On Jun 07, 2018
akfaa:
My initial post was to see if anyone had applied on the same day as me and if they were having any delay in getting their passport back. So I have picked a uni, applied for CAS and applied for a tier 4 visa. I never said the school didn't respond. I said they were not helpful because they stated that uni policy prevents them from corresponding with UKVI regarding T4 visas made outside of the UK. It's great that your university was able to do all of that for you. Mine was not a case of not providing a service because they wanted to be tardy, it was a we don't provide this service due to uni policy. Policies change all the time and this was why I asked someone here what service did his school provide for him and what his school's name was so I could let my uni know. I hope you understand. You saying "Nigerians tolerate bad service" makes me feel like the uni is offering me such poor service (when in fact they don't offer the service) and being the Nigerian that I am, I tolerate it.
Ok.

My very close friend had a similar problem with UKVI, he even resumed a week after I did but my school followed the matter. Like you said, your school doesnt offer the policy, so you either deal with that or you don’t. I was just telling you what happens in other places.

And Nigerians tolerating bad service is very true. It’s a hofstede theory. We come from an oppressive background where we seldom challenge authority unless we are exposed to the western culture (eg, Nigerians can’t even remove the president, who was placed to serve them!). So stop making emphasis on that. I did say “Nigerians” and to the best of my knowledge, I’m nigerian too.

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