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i dont belive you

married 5yrs you say i just wonder,

hmm califonia,

ok stephen p,

dont start hitting on her in this thread

HSM must answer this question

and that cheesy smile wont work

well but then again chicken might be your middle name

You are the one being naive here. . . . . Lemme school u a bit on the marriage tip.  

Most married men will tell u MouthAction becomes less frequent after marriage.
But there is no great mystery regarding what happens to MouthAction after marriage.
It stops because women did it in the past to hook u in the first place. Once the prize has been won there's nothing else to prove.

i rest my case (with what you just wrote)

your naivety cant be helped until you get sprung

well , well well

pray tell madame

who might you be oo

feminism at its best again

badluck?

lost me again

chika98:
Sex is extremely important in marriage. You have to be compatible

word!

onyinye2:
@post

it is nice that yal work things out. i mean, divorce is a hard and hurtful thing to go through. it effects everyone involved. But i must ask, why did you let the flame of romance between yal burn out?? you should have made an effort from the start to make sure no matter what that you guys never lose interest or begin to feel bored.

thanks , would be sure to let her know

chika98:
lol, Just like someone trying to understand men is wasting their time.

nah we easy

between the peanuts and the belly

you got men covered

Ruby_Pearl:
Don't worry, Sisikill won't get to his thread

I want to be an ally too na!

lol

you lost me

Stop being hypocritical. . . . .
I am not saying marriage is all about sex. . . . . But sex plays a very huge role in marriage.
90% of the men going out there to shag are doing it simply because they are not satisfied with what they have at home.

no you are being naive

lets see, ever heard of role plays?

thats why i wont marry someone that wont match me on the sexual front to the tee

and belive me, most women would try to satisfy their men,,,,but its mindset like yours

that make men feel they have to get it elsewhere


and their is still stupid notion guys have, ___--she is my wife, mother of my children, she cant blow me anymore, i have to go get blown outside

Ruby_Pearl:
@ariblaze
One of this days, you'll end up with the enemy, a woman.

So get ready for your arrows or swrod. You'll need it

i have me a customised woman

specially designed for me

she just looks like the enemy, but she all ally

well she doesnt know it yet sha

oops(scratch that , she reads this threads too)

chika98:
Anyone trying to understand women is wasting their time.

understand them

why ever would you attempt that

rather climb the everest, barefooted with just loin clothes

covering my privies


imagine trying to understand gamine

or see reason with redhotchick

maybe match viva's sex drive

what!

Hannibal:
Tell Hannibal what??
Be deceiving yourself and think you are deceiving me.
50% of ma friends are in their 30s and all married and they tell me marriage stunts!!!

By the time couples marry, chances are that they've already had the best sex of their lives.
This is not to say that couples can't have great sex again, but they'll be setting themselves up for disappointment if they think that the sex gets better without a committed effort.

Ferocious love-making is part of the cost-of-acquisition that all women voluntarily subject themselves to.
Once their objective is accomplished (marriage), women seem to forget how much men appreciate good sex.
Then the infamous law of diminishing returns sets in.

ok come your oyinbo don dey too much

wetin you dey talk sef,

marriage being about sex, or basically about sex

just so you know marriage is not just the union of two bodies, but personalities, positives and negatives like wise

we arent born solitary creatures, stay single and stay miserable, let her boobs sag, let my hair receed the personality i knew got married too, is the person i love

Queenisha:
Now I've finally heard of a good reason to be verbally abusive.
Nairaland is really a school.
make I whip out my 40 leaves exercise book
today na today

bush girl this is what i meant

i do

oops i forgot

you are one of them , the enemies(women)

Queenisha:
Now I've finally heard of a good reason to be verbally abusive.
Nairaland is really a school.
make I whip out my 40 leaves exercise book
today na today

dint get this?[


quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=152114.msg2522344#msg2522344 date=1216338951]
been married for 5 years, loving it
[quote][/quote]please tell hannibal o

Ruby_Pearl:
ehrmm ok

smarty pants huh

Queenisha:
If the man in that story was Nigerian the first paragraph should have read

He returned home sweating profusely and throwing his briefcase, socks and shoes across the living room and with a voice that thundered through the neighborbood he roared
"How come this amala is colder than yesterday's despite my warnings"?

since we are assuming the nigerian setting here

from your perspective oo. we also assume the woman is a half literate bumpkin

he married from the village, cos thats the only reason he would thunder at her

Our men have too much agbero in them to be that romantic.

and what do our women have?

@ topic - so romantic. . . . . . . Naija guys can never be romantic which is why their marriages become tolerances. Hissssssssssss

na ha

am not suprised

Queenisha:
I wish I would have the opportunity to behold the woman Hannibal will marry.
I'll weep at the wedding for her
Poor girl

aha!

its N'land

you are correct

intun mo

relevance to thread

mid 20s huh?

oki,

i would be a lil disappointed if your writeup doesnt generate discuss

hmm, i hear you

you married?

tell me what you feel about marriage

@Hannibal


lol,

not me bro

just a story thats all

dont believe in divorce

i mate for life

arianne:
oh dear,please don't bother!

i wont, to cumbersome anyways

Please always lend a helping hand.




As I walked down the busy footpath, knowing I was late for an important meeting, my eye fell upon one of those unfortunate, homeless vagabonds that are found in every city these days.

Wearing what can only be describes as rags, carrying every worldly possesion in two plastic bags, my heart was touched by this person' s condition.

Some people turned to stare. Others quickly looked away as if the sight would somehow contaminate them.

Recalling some long ago Sunday School admonition to "care for the sick, feed the hungry and clothe the naked,"

I was moved by some powerful inner urge to reach out to this unfortunate person.

Yes, where some people saw only rags, I saw a hidden beauty.  

A small voice inside my head called out,  

"Reach out, reach out!"    



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My court case has been set for the end of the month.

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An Amazing Love Story

He met her at a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he so normal, nobody paid
Attention to him.
At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee
Shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please; let me go home, suddenly he asked the waiter.
"Would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."
Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it.

She asked him curiously; why you have this hobby? He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I like playing in the sea, and I could
Feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my
Hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there". While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.
That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has
Responsibility of home.
Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful
beginning of their story.

They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such
A good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee!
Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, and then they were living the happy life, And, every
Time she made coffee for him; she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: "My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said
To you---the salty coffee.
Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It was hard for me to change
So I just went ahead.I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I
Was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything,
Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste, But I have had the salty
Coffee for my whole life!

Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you.
Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my
Whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again".
Her tears made the letter totally wet.Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee?
It's sweet. She replied.

An Amazing Love Story

He met her at a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he so normal, nobody paid
Attention to him.
At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee
Shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please; let me go home, suddenly he asked the waiter.
"Would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."
Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it.

She asked him curiously; why you have this hobby? He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I like playing in the sea, and I could
Feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my
Hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there". While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.
That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has
Responsibility of home.
Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful
beginning of their story.

They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such
A good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee!
Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, and then they were living the happy life, And, every
Time she made coffee for him; she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: "My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said
To you---the salty coffee.
Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It was hard for me to change
So I just went ahead.I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I
Was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything,
Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste, But I have had the salty
Coffee for my whole life!

Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you.
Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my
Whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again".
Her tears made the letter totally wet.Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee?
It's sweet. She replied.

meaning you dont appreciate

the gravity of what he did

to get her?

if you miss the point

i cant help u