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vodutive:
maybe you should stay in your father's house you have known all your life because you sound like you will only bring trouble to any marraige!

A marriage is about 2 people coming together and making decisions TOGETHER, if you are making unilateral decisions of this sort and you feel you don't need permission, then what you want is a husband and kids not a marriage.....many women don't understand the difference!!! You want a husband and kids so you can feel complete and fulfilled as a woman but you are clearly not ready for the commitment, sacrifices and rigors of marriage.

Understood. But in the same vein will husbands ask the opinion of the wives if they wish to change their name? The mistaken assumption is that a woman is legally compelled to change her name upon marriage. There is no such thing. Otherwise there would have been an automatic change of name at marriage. As it is, if she so wishes, she can then change it and notify the public.
Women are hyphenation their names everyday, with their husbands' consent. Real men, not boys who haven't even found one sisi to stroke their limp dikkss at night!
What do you people know about marriage. Oya when you marry divorce her because she no gree change name. Good luck with that!!

Joy1706:
Look at them. Small men suffering from small peniss syndrome. There's nothing to permit. It's MY decision if I decide to keep the surname I've been known with all my life.

Hahaha hahaha! !!!!!!!!!

Really sweet. There is something to be said for just being simply pretty.

Beremx:
700million dollars?


idonbilivit!

Same here my dear. Maybe na the boys quarters be this.

How us it too revealing? Some people swim and take part in water sports. Are they supposed to wear maxis and turtle necks to satisfy your misplaced sense of propriety? And how e take concern you sef? Nigerians sha!

Oh mine! Mine oh mine!

[quote author=MrMcJay post=47247627]OP, keep her in your house very well you hear? Wetin dey worry u sef?
E dey do me like say make I use slap jump-start ur brain.

The day her sisters advise her to kill you, you are a dead man. Rat poison is very cheap, 3 for N50. You'll just start getting dry and die behind the fridge. Alternatively, when she disconnects the brake of your car and you dance under Dangote trailer, we'll read it here on NL.

By the way, tell your wife's sister's husbands o what their wives are up to. At least if you guys want to buy your coffins in bulk, it should be cheaper.

Even if you don't value your life, pity your mother and daughter and kick out that devil even if it's a temporary separation.

Flee from temptation... and don't leave a forwarding address. [/quote
LMAO. Too funny!

Hot!

ccffwx:
Let no one be selfish here. A woman agreed to be raped so that her husband would live. Raped by more than one person. This shows that she loves him. She is also traumatised not just the husband and deserves love and not selfish egotic excuses. Sometimes I wonder if most Nigerian men are selfish. Rape is never the victim's fault.

You're wondering if most nigerian men are selfish? Wonder no more. Read this thread and add conceited, entitled, cruel and immature. A wife is there for his convenience. God forbid that he should put self aside to comfort the woman who actually suffered the rape. Reading the comments here leave me disgusted. And very sad. Even from a Nairalander I had respect for. Thank God I have sons. I pray I raise them different from all these 'men'. If I had daughters I'd encourage them to find husbands far from these shores.

Ben Ayade - 'Shoki' because of his pretentions to swag by flying his t-shirt collar, dancing and general toutish behavior.

viviangist:
Ok. The Credit is Your Concern or the Allah ....

Credit ... Facebook Wall ... is Viral there ... so i can't start mentioning all the facebook users here ...
As for Allah and God , all means the same ok ...

Bloggers are not News Manufactures .. we seek for news ..
If am at fault .... am sorry , so let there be peace ...

When you pass off someone's work or life experience as yours instead of acknowledging the original source, it is plagiarism.
Plagiarism is morally, ethically and professionally wrong and could get you into real serious trouble with the wrong person. If you intend to take your writing further in the future, I suggest you desist from this now because it could come back to haunt you and damage a promising career. Please don't gloss over it.

Arian11:
Short answer ; it can't happen

Long answer ; even before she can dream of something like that it has already been squashed

Why ?

1) religion biases - that's when you'll see sole religion saying its a taboo for a woman to rule over them

2) tribal bigotry - some tribalistic individuals would say it's not a woman's place to lead but to follow

3 ) the male ego (I am the head ) - MOST men won't wanna have the idea that "I'm being ruled by a woman " mentality

4) her fellow women - her fellow woman who would convince her and motivate her is still the same person to go and vote for her male counter part ...


Well we are still light years from civilization that I know

P.s someone said "if women ruled the world no need for weapons or attacks ...it would just be bunch of countries not talking to each other" ...lol

Too true!

Ralphdan:
Nawao! why is it that other tribes hate igbos this much?
Anyways people hate on you when your name becomes synonymous to success.

Ahh....hahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!

Reading all these views, I weep for this generation of men and I pity this generation of women. Someone actually said "stupid stupid women". Why the hate and contempt. This is an opportunity to educate yourselves. Most of y'all have never read what the bill is about. You don't know. But your masculine pride is affronted when you hear "equ.. ." and you start braying all over the place. Who is struggling headship with you? That is NOT what the bill is about. That widow who gets thrown out of the house she laboured alongside her late husband to build could very well be your mother. That 15 year old girl forced into marriage could be someone you know. Would you be happy if your sister earns less than a male colleague with the same or less qualifications and experience than she has? And what is this talk about paying bills? Most of you are not married because if you were or if you're truthful, you'll know that in a HUGE HUGE number of Nigerian marriages bills are shared. Sometimes 50/50. Some wives provide 100% because the husbands have lost their jobs. Even the rights some woman may take for granted are denied a whole lot of other women in other parts of Nigeria. Who will speak for them? Please read the bill and understand it. No one is trying to usurp your positions in the home and in the society.
Olori Wura? Is she not the same woman people on this same board and all over social media were calling olosho, gold digger etc. She's suddenly an authority? Wow

EbolaParasite:
The previous poster has a point. Fresh stew is critical for a lot of Nigerians.

Only Nigerians in Nigeria. Abroad this would be a hit. Not all cities have an abundance of Nigerian restaurants or shops

ganisucks:
As i said in another thread, the award is only for lying progressives and corrupt communist thieves. Jonathan was not even interested.

Yeah right! And if he'd been given the award you and your likes would have been wanking off all over this thread. Sickos!

ganisucks:
MEND has become an instrument for APC. Ayari Emiri A̶̲̥̅̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥D̶̲̥̅̊ co are now the ones dictating the pace. Ajumogobia who is a seasoned A̶̲̥̅̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥D̶̲̥̅̊ disciplined Nigerian noticed this, A̶̲̥̅̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥D̶̲̥̅̊ politely refused their invitation. But ☀̤̣̈̇f course, MEND which has now imbibed antecedents ☀̤̣̈̇f APC, are now launching online vituperative attacks against him. That is how APC handles rejection A̶̲̥̅̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥D̶̲̥̅̊ conflict.

You sound like a broken record.

QuotaSystem:
What are you talking about? What links Kanuri Boko Haram in the NE with Fulani predominantly in the NW? Go and learn your geography.

I can't believe the Niger Deltans suffering as their commonwealth have been diverted to the pockets of criminals, are the same ones defending Tompolo. Izonpikin you guys honestly deserve the kinds of leaders you get. Mention me no further.

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uselessgoat:
I'm recommending intelligence over military actions to limit collateral damage. The federal government can plant moles in the militants camps or use phone tapping or other technologies to nab the criminal. Imagine what the FBI or Mossad would have done if this were in their territories. How can the FG allow just one man to hold them by the balls? Shameful

Thank you! Don't we have intelligence in thus country? Why must everything be done with overt force? More will be achieved with a more who us familiar with the creeks and waterways and villages. They wan shoot gun for area where dem no know, when the militants are heavily armed with heaven knows what. Knowing 'our way', I bet most of the armed forces cannot swim.

[quote author=SAMBARRY post=46598529]So you cannot spell WEATHER yet you're heaping curses.please add your English teacher join [/quote
] She's obviously very upset

The smirk on his face! Epic!

doyinisaac:
Which of them you don f*uck before??

Not in his wildest wet dream!!!!

Timolanki:
The boy is a grown fresh boy.

The problem wif these kids abroad is that they copy the whites in everything including tattoo imprint on their fine black skin.

What's western or 'white' about tattoos? Body art originated in Africa. Only Africans used vegetable dyes and the whites that copied use needles. Old women in the villages still have these tattoos.

IamMissMarvel:
I remember when my dad was alive. He always loved my mum looking fat, cause according to him, it showed its her body his money is going to. (As a Yoruba man).

After his death, my mama respect herself trim down.

Below is a pic of my mum at 50, made up and dolled up.

Wow! Black really don't crack. She's gorgeous!

etebefia:
Good Development, the West recognizing Africans. But OP point of correction with the pictures.
Picture 1. Real
Picture 2. Real
Picture 3. Real
Picture 4. Na Lie
Picture 5. Real
Picture 6. Real
Picture 7. Real
Picture 8. Real
Picture 9. Real
Picture 10. Real
Picture 11. Na Lie

I did think that was odd. You don't see the Ooni in the 2 pictures showing the larger house and members. I hope I'm wrong because I respect him and what his work on behalf of his people. This his Olori sef. Something downright creepy about that lady...

misspicy:
[i][b]only a foolish woman will donate her kidney for the type of nigerian men we have this days


@topic OJB must have really worth that level of sacrifice

After 2 other wives and maybe some extra children that might pop up bow he's dead?

anytexy:
How come he married 3 wives when he had a caring wife like this?

Ask them. Running their mouths and calling women names when they won't do the same for their wives. How many Nigerian men will give their wives their kidney?

Really cool! Some are kind of creepy. Like the house in a bottle in the water.

STFUareyouG0d:
Oh God! What's happened to Naija youths? I fear for the future of this country

Don't mind them. Doro giver indeed. She won't even spit in their direction.

mysticgal:
I wonder why Noah had to save those creepy creatures back then

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Thank you! And roaches. Especially roaches!!!!!

Gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous!!!!

gospi:
And if you are waiting for a woman who knows her worth,financially independent and beautiful to put up with cheating ....ur bear bear go white ehnnn

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