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Writercruze:
If you are among the people asking the question “what does friends with benefits mean”, you will find this article helpful.

Friends with benefits (FWB) is a common type of relationship. It involves two people spending intimate time together without any form of commitment. In other words, it’s a relationship in which two people agree to have sex without commitment.

Even though the FWB relationship is fun, it’s not as easy as you think. It’s not always easy to continue this type of relationship without catching feelings.

One thing you should know about FWB is that someone will always get hurt. Sadly, only one party may see the relationship as a mere friend with benefits. And the other party may be hoping for something more, and that’s where the heartbreak comes in.

It’s natural; someone is always going to get hurt in an FWB relationship.

Challenges With Friends With Benefits Relationships

FWB relationships come with their complications. It always starts on a good note, and you guys will have fun. But as time goes on, the guy or the lady will start catching feelings. And this is the beginning of trouble.

Let me tell you a story. My friend had a terrible experience with FWB. He had an office romance with one of his colleagues at work. When the whole thing started, they agreed that there’s no string attached, to have fun. But over time, the lady started catching feelings.

She became very jealous and started fighting other girls. At some point, she was begging the guy to marry her. The guy ended things with her, though, and was heartbroken.

That’s the problem with FWB relationships. You and your partner will always have an agreement at the beginning, but someone will always get hurt.

So, I am answering the question, “what does friends with benefits mean” because I don’t want you to be the victim in the relationship.

The rules are simple; there are no strings attached. If both parties can adhere to this, nobody gets hurt. But it’s not always easy.

Rules To Make FWB Less Complicated

More often than none, friends with benefits relationships often end up in complications. But I’m going to give you some rules that will make your FWB relationships less complicated.

#1. Be Clear About It From The Start

Transparency is the first rule of Friends with benefits relationships. Ensure that both of you are on the same page. Never make the conversation one-sided, and be clear that your partner is comfortable with it.

With this understanding from the beginning, you will enjoy your FWB relationship because it will be less complicated.

#2. Don’t Expect Anything More

The greatest mistake people make in FWB relationships is that they often expect more. No matter how nice your time together seems, always keep to the original agreement.

Don’t forget that the essence of an FWB relationship is to have fun. And when you start expecting more than this, you may be living in a fool’s paradise. Do you know why? The answer is simple – most people in an FWB relationship has a serious partner somewhere.

#3. Try As Much as Possible To Check Your Feelings

It’s normal for you to catch feelings when you spend too much time with that person. There’s always a possibility of you having feelings with your FWB partner. Once you notice this, try to reevaluate the situation of things.

Remember, you are only in the relationship for fun, nothing else. So, the next time someone asks you, “what does friends with benefits mean,” tell the person that it’s a relationship when you are not allowed to fall in love with your partner.

#4. Ensure You Read Your Partner’s Feelings Always

Always ensure that you and your FWB partner are on the same page. It’s the easiest way to avoid being hurt. Try to occasionally ask your fun partner how things are going with you guys. It will help to make things less complicated for you guys.

However, once you discover that you and your partner are having feelings for each other, discuss with them and reevaluate if you guys still want FWB or something more serious.

#5. You Can Either Agree to Make It Public Or Secret

Depending on what you guys want, you can either make your affair secret or public. But it’s advisable to keep it under the wrap except you guys decide to have something more serious and committed.

During my undergraduate days, two of my hostel mates claimed to be relatives. They were always together, and nobody even thought that the boy and the girl are making out.

The affair was so secretive that nobody was able to suspect anything. Guess what happen? The girl got pregnant along the way, and they are happily married now.

So, most times, it’s better to keep your FWB relationships underwrap and see how things go. I have seen many FWB relationships that turn into a more lovely relationship. But never expect anything serious from FWB. Otherwise, you will suffer a severe heartbreak.

#6. Have Some Ground Rules

Yeah, you heard me right, ground rules is essential in every relationship. But if you are with someone for fun, you should lay more emphasis on it.

Is it cool to visit unannounced? If your partner sees you with another person, are you guys going to behave like strangers? These are some of the ground rules you should have in your FWB relationship.

#7. Know When To End Things

As beautiful and exciting, a Friend with benefits relationship seems it’s not real. Always have this in mind.

Your partner may be giving you multiple orgasms, but you guys aren’t dating. There will be no romantic communication, surprise dates, dinner together, and many more. The only call or text you receive from your FWB partner is when and where is the sex will take place.

So, always know when to end things. Otherwise, you will get carried away by the fun of the moment. And this could affect your love life significantly.

#8. Always Use Protection

Using protection is another way to make an FWB relationship less complicated. You know how complicated it will be when you missed your period. Unless you are willing to be a baby mama, always use protection.

Outside unwanted pregnancy, there’s always the possibility of having STDs and STIs. So, the use of condoms is a must in FWB relationships.

So, have I answered the question “what does friends with benefits mean”?

Final thoughts

Friends with benefits relationships are often fun. But someone is always hurt. Follow the rules in this article; you will not have issues with your FWB relationship.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/the-truth-about-friends-with-benefits-nobody-will-tell-you/

Kylekent59:
They are very lucky.

The plane would have given them extra pressure by the bleep of decompression alarm.

I wonder the type of flight that can't even detect or recognise that there is a fire .

The man standing is in a very dangerous position, he should be seated with his seat belt crossed.
Imagine if turbulence hits the plane, he would hit is head on the ceiling and that calls for serious surgery.


It is good thing they are safe, thank God they landed safely

I still prefer to travel by road to air internally.


The crew members, air hostess, Flying pilot, Non flying pilot, the captain and the said lady should all be arrested.

All these molue airplane that can't even detect fire, imagine if it was a terrorist?

Nigeria airline ain't safe ooooo. Ember month alert.

Thugnificent:
Please nairalanders I'm so stranded. I lost my wallet and keys in a cab right now with my last money in it. I just withdrew all the money in my account few minutes ago to settle some pressing needs. Right now i don't even have transportation back home. All i need is 2k please..... 0087221630 Diamond Bank

Thugnificent:
Please nairalanders I'm so stranded. I lost my wallet and keys in a cab right now with my last money in it. I just withdrew all the money in my account few minutes ago to settle some pressing needs. Right now i don't even have transportation back home. All i need is 2k please..... 0087221630 Diamond Bank

AprokoGirl:
@APROKOGIRL

They were suppose to bring joy to the faces of Nigerians but all they brought was high blood pressure and 

While some of the incidents could be down to bad luck, still, complacency and lack of focus could also be reasons – Two sides to a coin

You are suppose to be at your very best whenever you pull on that green Nigerian Jersey, and probably these players forgot that pledge.

So we present the 3 Footballers That Committed Crime Against Nigerian Football:

Sani Kaita
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Kaita introduced himself to the world while playing all seven matches for the Nigeria U-20 team at the 2005 FIFA U-20 World Cup in the Netherlands.

He was terrific and it was no surprise he earned a berth in the Super Eagles squad ahead of the 2010 World Cup in South Africa

However, his glazing career dwindled after he committed a serious CRIME in the tournament.

While Super Eagles were in a deserved and comfortable lead, Kaita got a very daft red card for kicking Greece star Vasilis Torosidis, making him the first Nigerian player to be sent off in a World Cup match.

Even worse, Greece went on to win the match 


Yakubu Aiyegbeni
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Nicknamed ‘The Yak’, Yakubu was a prolific striker who represented Super Eagles in both local and international competitions before he retired.

He scored his first international goal against Namibia on 16 June 2001.

Yakubu was a goal poacher but tend to favor club activities over country.

An example was his decision to snub the Nigeria squad ahead of the 2006 Africa Nations Cup to concentrate on his club Middlesbrough.

And surely that wasn’t his only CRIME.

At the 2010 World Cup, and In a match we had to win, Yakubu missed an open goal from three metres against South Korea in the last Group game.

We eventually crashed out of the tournament for failing to win that game 


Odion Ighalo 

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After a tasty maiden career in Premier League side Watford that suddenly became sour, Ighalo was sold to Chinese club Changchun Yatai.

Maybe that was the writings on the wall. Maybe his standards had fallen due to factors we will never know. However, what we do know is Watford became fed up and pushed him to a less competitive league.

Ighalo was lucky to be in the Super Eagles squad for the 2018 World Cup In Russia after a below par display in the qualifiers.

In Super Eagles final match in the group stages against Argentina, the game was tied at 1-1in the 2nd half.

Sadly, one of our own committed a CRIME Against us.

Ighalo, from 7 yards, missed a glorious opportunity (among others) that would have cemented Super Eagles place at the next round of the competition.

Argentina eventually scored late on and Nigeria were eliminated 

BY APROKO GIRL : https://aprokogirl.com/13033/3-nigerian-footballers-lost-important-goals-super-eagles-needed-badly/

moneychannel:
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1. Print the world cup schedule and sell.
This has been used in making money by so many in the past before and during the world cup, but it seems no one want to give it a shot this time around.
No need explaining how it looks like and all what not, the sample is attached; anyone interested can as well print with a cardboard, sell at around N50/N100 and make lots of cash. It’s a must sell I tell you.

2. Turn your shop to a free viewing center.
This option requires a step that will take your business to another level during and after the world cup.
Your shop may be a; restaurant, bar, barbing salon, betting shop, electronics shop etc…
What this does is that it brings people that normally do not visit your shop to your shop, exposing to them the products and services you offer which they may not know about. From there they’ll start patronizing you immediately (in the case of restaurant and bar), or later and viola, you’ve gained more customers. In as much as we do not promote betting, we just added it because of some other profitable businesses people may carryout therein.

3. Selling of customized (especially Nigerian) Jersey, mufflers, caps, wrist bands, flags et al
Anyone anywhere can do this once you’re bold and focused not minding if you’re making your sales in your street and any other place. With as low as 10k one can start this biz already even before the world cup proper, targeting; viewing centers, betting shops, and known football fans in your area. Then during the world cup, those areas mentioned above will still be your targeted audience.
Apart from just Nigeria customized as mentioned above, you can as well add countries like Spain, Brazil and Italy, as they have a lot of fans in Nigeria.

4. Selling sports newspaper
It may seem that many people don’t depend on newspaper to get daily news, but it’ll amaze you when you see the number of persons that patronize vendors on a daily basis. Most elderly people don’t make use of internet to get daily news. What about the businessmen, artisans, and so many others in the street that prefer newspaper to internet to get their daily news? With this, you’ll find out that there’s market out there for vendors.
So you can key-in into this biz and specialize in only sports papers during the world cup, this can fetch some cash during the one month period.

5. YouTube
Among all the options listed here, only this last one is online. When done well and followed accordingly, this can make you a millionaire in just this one month. I know many people knows how to make money on youtube, but many have not yet tapped into this.
This method actually requires some prerequisites before it can work. They are listed below:

(a) Youtube account: Once you have a Gmail account, you no need worry because you can login to youtube using same credentials. If you don’t, visit Gmail and open an account.

(b) Create a youtube channel: Unfortunately, this article is not meant to teach how to create a youtube channel but it is very easy and everyone can do it. If you can’t, you can google how to do that or read it up here.

(c) You need to get yourself 1,000 subscribers on your channel: Lucky for so many, they have this already. If you don’t you can start uploading exclusive videos in any niche and always end the video by asking viewers to subscribe. You can also use google to find out other ways you can get people to subscribe to your channel so you can get 1,000 subscribers. Note that without this, google will not pay you even if your channel have 10million views.

(d) You need at least 10,000 views: Just like above, google will not pay you even if you have more than 1,000 subscribers if your views is not up to 10 thousand. Therefore, in addition to the 1,000 subscribers, you still need 10,000 views before google will start paying you.

(e) 4000 hours of annual viewing time: This means that the viewing time of your videos will be calculated yearly. After a month, the arithmetic will be carried out to know if after one year; whether your video’s annual viewing time will equal or surpass 4000 hours.

Now that you’ve gotten the five prerequisites explained above, next is to find a way to record any goal action scored during the world cup as much as you can, as well as match highlights. If you can get all the goals in the first day and upload same on your youtube channel, without any advert I assure you of more than 100,000 views. Remember to monitize your videos before so that adverts will appear while people watch your videos. With this, your money will be counting in seconds. You can record vidoes with television, online streaming, or any other way you can think of.
With these, I believe I have done justice to my Topic; it is now left for you and me to take action.

Source: http://www.monichannel.com/2018/06/top-5-ways-to-make-money-before-and.html

softwerk:
Hope this man is being allowed his conjugal rights

Me I have said my own!

JUBILEE2000:
I just sent u a pm . I have been trying to get my transcript from the school. Pls can u help me with any contact in exams and records?

Oladimejyy:
Op,apart from copy and paste what else do you do for a living

PediakAuthor:
ahahh... school fees awon omo science... lol

However, i am not only a hero, i am also a star boy cos i can flow with 33 different kinds of LEGENDary beats...

bamoski:
All those dumb mofos saying maggi is a brand name sef

why is there star maggi, royco maggi, knorr maggi etc?



All this monkeys quoting me upandan, let it get into your thick skulls that maggi is not a brand.


Maggi is an international brand of seasonings, instant soups, and noodles that originated in Switzerland in late 19th century. The Maggi company was acquired by Nestlé in 1947


Go and educate urself