Exodus15v11:
I don't think anyone is condoning the woman for committing adultery. Adultery is a sin. The Bible itself mandates that married people should uphold faithfulness and that anything outside of this IS a sin and one that warrants divorce if the other spouse so chooses. That said, the issue with this woman's case is that she was paraded and shamed publicly, while the same thing wasn't done to the man she committed adultery with. He could've been a married man himself but irrespective of his own marital status, he too should've been made to take a public walk of shame but he was nowhere to be seen.

Were Davido, Yul, and Banky paraded and shamed publicly like this woman? Of course not! Not that anyone expected them to have experienced such; these are wealthy and successful men. Other than the verbal criticisms they received, nothing was done to these men. On the contrary, their actions were condoned by some. I read a lot of comments about Yul being able to marry as many wives as he wanted. I didn't follow Davido's or Banky's recent situation but I wouldn't be surprised if there were comments supporting the adultery that they too committed. You trying to make it seem like men are always chastised in these situations more than women, especially in a sexist and barbaric country like Nigeria, is far from the truth b/c the majority of the shame and condemnation goes towards women.

And surprisingly, I agree with you, however what I am addressing is different. I was addressing Nairaland's verbal hypocrisy whilst you're tackling her public shaming. Two different things.

In that vein, I completely agree with you, but lemme ask you this. Who led the charge in her parading? Who made the loudest noise? Who called her the most degrading names?
In the video, the man was there too. It's not like he was exempt but he wasn't pushed to the front.

So if you answer these all correctly, how is this a man's fault then? No one blamed the other women who made up the majority of the crowd who made her do the walk of shame.


Mind you, the walk of shame is actually a universal punishment, not just African.

Let's look at more cases.

Man beats wife, he's blamed.
Wife beats husband, he's blamed.
Man kills wife, he's blamed.
Wife kills husband, the dead man is blamed.
Man commits adultery, he's blamed.
Woman commits adultery, men are blamed.

Are you seeing a theme here?

There's no victim blaming in a man's case. Only in a lady's case.

Go ahead and reread that thread again, no one woman categorically condemned her actions without blaming, you guess who? Men.

Two weeks ago, Banky W was accused of suspected adultery, even to the point of getting another woman pregnant and soon Anita followed up by proving that she was indeed pregnant for Davido.

The common reaction on Nairaland was scorn for both men. The ladies here went to town dragging them through the mud and had a field day. In fact many men on Nairaland supported them.

The fact that these men didn't commit adultery by themselves was quickly forgotten. Nobody came out to condemn Anita publicly for knowingly sleeping with a married man. Instead, she became an overnight yeyebrity. So, in this life, no matter what happens, it's always a man's fault.

Note: A married person bears the burden of responsibility for an extra marital affair. They were the ones who signed a contract of faithfulness and exclusivity.

It is pertinent to write this because a lot of women on Nairaland want to get married and want their bride prices paid and yet echoed throughout that thread that "a married woman has the right to sleep with whoever she wants". 😂😂😂😂😂

Wait wait wait. So why put men through the hassle of a first and second introduction, a traditional marriage where a fee(s) are paid on the WOMAN'S head and finally a church or white wedding with a reception attached? Why? Why not just move into the man's house and keep your name?

Think about it. Imagine doing traditional marriage, bride price, being forced to humble yourself before a girls parents and extended family, her pastor and their clergy, go through the lengthy process of marriage only to be told that your wife has the right to knack whoever she wants, just divorce her and quietly move on.

What makes it even more heinous is that she's pregnant! But Nairaland's mob says that she's done nothing wrong that's worthy of condemnation. So why did they condemn Banky and David? Why are Yul and Innocent (2face) still running jokes on Nairaland?

Because there's no such thing as equality. It's always a man's fault. Know this when dealing with that other gender (that are now starting to believe in 99 other genders) and have peace.

These people have conveniently ignored the fact that the procession was led and championed by women. But no! Let's blame men.

Men are slowly becoming endangered species.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOhNjh8jlCI

Midasbaba99:
Please, How can I manage tethering on my MiFi device to conserve data during periods of inactivity? I noticed that while I was asleep and connected only to my iPhone 14, 7 gigabytes of data were consumed..

Manage your phone instead. The problem is with your phone, not the MiFi.

Na wa for wire road in Benin city


Hope this is not some whitewashing campaign. Nobody becomes a billionaire without engaging in some sharp practices.

eteebanky1:
Xiaomi redmi 12c or Xiaomi Poco c40

Which one is the better option guys

12c

Better processors
Better cameras

C40
Bigger battery, faster charge

Ihateheadslamer:
Carlo Ancelotti discovered his talent as a manager because Real Madrid is an already made club with world class footballers, he can't do better without real Madrid

Indomie generation sha

hansomb:
it can run it smoothly. It uses Helio G80 not G35 on with clock speed of 2.0

I made a mistake on that one and I accepted correction.

But...

Have you tried it?

I haven't but I do know that the Redmi 9 uses a 32-bit OS which may I'm some way pull the handbrakes on the performance of the Helio G80.

I mean the Redmi 9 cannot run eFootball and struggles with PUBG.

Philosopher1979:


Society limited a man's sexual access to how much money and resources he had
so as to be able to cater for the next generation and reduce poverty.
A man without money will impregenate women if granted access to sex and
this will create children who he cannot take care of and wallow in poverty.
To give birth to children you need money to tae care of them.
Granting poor men access to sex will lead to poverty and single mothers
as most poor men are reluctant to mary.
The poor and neglected children will then take to crime as they have no money
and have no home training
They will be like Almajiri children in the NOrth.
So yes society has a point in trying to limit a man's access to sex to money
And making sure only rich men can mary multiple wives

And I absolutely agree with you. I live in an expensive city myself and I am currently single and have no plans of marriage because I would most probably burn through my savings within 2 years of marriage. Why? My income may not keep up with inflation. Simple.

So if rich men can have multiple women, more power to them. They're already doing so.

The issue here is that one part of society is vilifying these rich men for doing exactly what you have said. That's why I said what I said.

Imagine being told that you cannot get a job because you're uneducated. Then you go and get educated, and become the best in your class and then people try to restrict the amount of jobs that you should apply for.

I dunno if you can see the logic there.

Yes

If you like your car, better go lift am

I swear

People get money oh

Sope otilor

ednut1:
I worked with many of them. They dont even see their fellow male colleagues at work as their equal or levels. They are all aiming for men who earn more than them or have gone far in their careers. But most of those men are not even looking for careers women or they just keep using and dumping them. Working class women ronu o

Preach

This is and will forever always be the truth.

As the Pansophist has correctly espoused, hypergamy is a woman's biggest ally and enemy.

No matter the level that a woman attains, she'll always want better. Always better, never equal, never lower, never settle.

Always better.

When most women rise to the point where they out earn majority of the men in society, the pool of men available to them shrinks drastically. This means that there's very little men for them to choose from and competition with other women becomes stiffer!

This is the direct opposite for men.

Men earn money to be able to (singlehandedly, if possible) afford a family. Women earn more money so that they can prim themselves like birdies for even better men. When these men don't exist, there's going to be a problem.

skywalker240:

Your next videos should be on the switch and Vita emulators and how to get their compressed roms

I'm working on a Switch video lol but my phone couldn't run the legend of Zelda: breath of the wild. E pain me sha ehn 😂😂😂😂

I need a Snapdragon 800 series phone.

atheistandproud:



https://www.pesnewupdate.com/2020/02/pes-ps2-english-version.html?m=1

Try this link

Kannex

Kannex

skywalker240:

I doubt oo

Me too

skywalker240:
A society that says a broke nigga doesn't deserve an erection, doesn't have the right to determine the myriads of erections a made nigga can give to multiple women

Your points are reality

If me as a guy tells atheistandproud, all about how my sexual escaped with Adesuwa went, Atheistandproud will just praise me and then strive to replicate my achievements on Tola or another entirely different girl that crosses his path

But if Adesuwa tell's Tola how much of a Gorilla stallion i am in bed plus in finance, Tola will be like

"Aww what a caring person he is, you must be lucky to have him"

But the worst part is that Tola will be hungry for a share of the pie from what Adesuwa eats

So Instead of going for another entirely different guy or encourage Atheist her Man to be better, Tola will rather seduce me to get some of what Adesuwa is getting

This is the bitter truth, Women wants what they don't have,

That's why most Men easily bed's their wives/GF close friends and even sisters, it's not a coincidence

I always recommend Ubunja s miseducations for these little boys that are yet to know the wiles of these weaker gender

You nailed it.

Very rarely do guys gun for their friend's babe. It's usually out of character. In cases where this happens, both friends are usually snakes that are ready to bite each other in the back. This is usually the exception, not the norm.

In the norm, if Skywalker tells me about *Adesuwa for example, I'll look to go and recreate it with *Sarah. That's generally the norm.

On the other hand, I may be free and single, *Tola who is Adesuwa's friend after listening to her will want Skywalker, instead of the free single men around her. This is true time and time again.

In my university days, from 100 level to 300 level, I was single as f*ck (2011 - 2013). As soon as 1 babe started to visit, I was suddenly surrounded by options that I didn't even know that I had. It's a female mating strategy I'll never understand. Even girls that usually ignored me (because I was mostly a loner) would go out of their way to greet me or generally be nice to me. Weird.

It's very easy to knack your gfs sisters and close friends than an outsider because they'll all want a taste of what their sister/friend sees in you. A lot of men will shamelessly take advantage.

As wiser men have said, people are only as good as their options.

If you limit a man's access to sexual opportunity by the size of wallet, what you are telling him is that when he has a big wallet, he should have limitless sexual opportunities. So after working hard to EARN these opportunities, do you really expect him to throw them away?

Women can joke sha 😂😂😂😂


* = Names with asterisks are fictitious.

KAM3KAZI:

Thank you very much, I really appreciate you taking your time and effort to help me with this

You're welcome

Gptech:

See the location here, na Isoko ooo.

You're my neighbor na. Ughelli South na I come from.

Annahh:
Redmi note 12

Use the stock camera, go to pro mode

Annahh:
Where is it on gcam or normal camera

What is the name of your device?

Lmao

Annahh:
Insect

Macro lenses are best for photos like this

Gptech:
Forced to reduce the size of this.

Na 9ja be this abi you don escape leave us

🤣🤣🤣

kannex:
Abeg make una answer me nar, please where can i download ps2 pes 2022 or 2018

Replied you on the appropriate thread. Check your mentions

Dimaya:


You can insult men all you like. But most men in Nigeria don't have a financial pathway that leads to 200k monthly.

Most men just don't. And if young women aren't ready to cooperate with young men to start families, I'm afraid there'll be a lot of unmarried Nigerians in the future

There are already a lot of unmarried Nigerians now.

Ogbemuo:


What mobile phone are you using to run those emulators

Redmi Note 9 Pro

Snapdragon 720G
Adreno 618
6GB LPDDR4x RAM (1866MHz)
128GB UFS 2.1 storage


I wouldn't advice tho. If I get money, na something with at least Snapdragon 855 I go advice.

Check "Top 100 Smartphone SoCs" on Google to see SoCs around that range

kannex:
Bro i just want know where can i download ps2 pes 2022 or 2018 online do you have any download lunk for this game

https://www.pesnewupdate.com/2020/02/pes-ps2-english-version.html?m=1

Try this link

Eyanbahose:
What is the verdict?

There's none. Everything must not have a "winner".