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Obinoscopy: Fair enough .

However life aint fair. Sometimes those who don't deserve anything gets everything while those who deserves everything gets nothing .

So what do you deserve? A virgin or no virgin?

Alright then, you can have a virgin . But only 1 for now. If you take good care of her you may get more.

havilla: Its slowly becoming a crime to be very pretty in nigeria.

So says a pretty girl. It is not a crime as long as you dont expect a loaded man to take care of all your dreams just on beauty alone. And when you do that... it is still nto a crime

Sanboy25: Wow, it's been a while How are you ? [b]didn't have internet in south london ?
Lol yes it was me but mr cork made me realise the dangers of leaving my pic on a faceless forum...
he is the only one to blame here...
[/b]

I think monsieur cork that is based in South London. You should ask him

I have been a bit busy. So no pic on the forum Damn. Oh well. No you seem so much like sanb. Little to distinguish th two of you.

So are you based in Paris?

Obinoscopy: Chai, dis guy don judge me finis. Who tell u say I get a "seasoned" girl who dey give me practical sessions?

Ok. If you say so. There is something to be said for experience

Obinoscopy: Besides, I'm not that kinda guy who wld use the promise of marriage to sleep with a girl neither am I the rapist kinda guy. Sex between myself and a girl is based on mutual consent, afterall both parties are meant to enjoy it. So I don't think I wld be under any moral obligation to marry any "seasoned" girl .

Don't get me wrong, I preach against pre-marital sex. Whether I practice what I preach is irrelevant .

Hmmm.... so why preach what you cant practice... or dont practice?

deols: I was going to say, If you aren't a virgin, you don't deserve one.

You put it better

ogugua88: The title doesn't suggest that, and I know most didn't see the "philosophical reply" part. May I change the title before our Naija bloggers catch onto this and call it truth? Lol.

I think you should. It is likely to confuse people. I was nearly confused

Monicasque: for now i am not ready for marriage. I have a lot that i still want to accomplish as an individual but i know in a few years time , maybe 5 i will be ready. The thing which i seem to pick up most of the time is that people get married when they are not ready and end up having to put some of their plans in the back sit. I have never liked sacrificing and i am not ready to start doing so. I need to lv my life, do all sorts of crazy stuff then when i am done. I wana be someone's wifey and someone's's mama

And when will you be done?

I am not for marriage but I believe it works. It takes a lot of sacrifice and these days everyone wants to be too smart.

ogugua88: What makes you think JP Morgan wrote this? There's no source. I did a search and found it on goof sites and blogs.

I saw typos in that letter. I'd assume the CEO had editors, writers, and proofreaders around him.

Its a spoof

Obinoscopy: I never said I must have a virgin. Virginity is not a priority for me, infact fidelity is a virtue I prefer more to virginity. However like I said earlier, a virtuous lady who happens to be a virgin earns more of my respect and awe.

Ok. If she prefers to keep it then good for her. But I just hope you wont dump your "seasoned" girl you used to gain all that experience and look for a fresh virgin when the time for marriage comes

Monicasque: lol i wasn't saying sorry to you personally . i was saying sorry to those who have experienced it

So are you a fan of marriage or are you sort of more for the single life?

20 mill naira of raw cash and 200 mill naira in investments. Plus 2 billion naira worth of wall street portfolios and of course some politicians as the relatives

Who would say no to that

Monicasque: sorry about that

Not to me

I am too smart for that

But it has happened in the West to a lot of relaxed and caring married men. Marriage is becoming too burdensome.

Obinoscopy: Maybe I am, maybe I'm not. But I don't think this is about me or my virginity.

Yes it is. If you arent a virgin, dont expect a virgin

Monicasque: hahahahahahhaha funny Ath

It happens a lot unfortunately... and then they blame the man by saying he is not passionate enough and they never loved him

@OP

But will she chop flowers lol. At least get her a KFC with those flowers. That should do the trick.

Monicasque: yep. I have always believed that a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything and a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has got nothing

I am impressed. I never thought of it that way.

Monicasque: you know the old saying '' if you love something , let it go. If it comes back to you then it was meant for you but if it never comes back, it means it was never meant for you in the first place''.

Sure sure, sounds somewhat ancient but we could go with that.

A more modern interpretation would be if you dont leave her now, she will cheat on you and father 2-3 of the guys kids with you. And then leave you after 10 years taking the kids, house, car and half your income.

dplomaticVal: IF you were
to be d buyer
wld u've returned
d Ring

No. I bought it legally and will realise its full financial value... in a pawn brokers

Monicasque: How long does he wait? What if he doesnt have time? WHy cant he be proactive and go after the ex


fighting never solved anything. Its better to let the fiance's heart decide. Whichever choice the fiance makes, atleast i know that should it bite them in the assss tomorrow my hands are clean and the questio about the phone > long term it means disaster coz i would never be able to trust the person again

Fight, fight, FIGHT



You are right. No point fighting if her heart isnt there. I think it is better to call it all off and end the relationship. If she has doubts before the wedding her heart is not fully in it and all sorts of problems will arise.

Obinoscopy: I respect and appreciate ladies who are virgins and are ready to keep it so till their wedding day. I hope other men do too.

However it wld be wrong to condemn those who aren't. My future wife mustn't be a virgin. But it wld be an added virtue if she is.

Are you a virgin?

Monicasque: you are correct. Which is the reason why i made it clear that it should never be about the finance. Her post was all wrong as it makes one to sound as if she is selling her self ( prostitution)

She would be off once his money expired.

Monicasque: 1- Fiance having slept with best friend before we knew each other = that is no big issue , atleast we did know each other then and its the past

Ok. I could go with that. But if they are still close then HELL no.

Monicasque: 2- Ex lover coming into town a few weeks before wedding > patience is a virtue and i would patiently wait for the fiance to decide. If i am not chosen , i will cut my losses and move on. Obvioulsly it will not be easy but its better to say goodbye than have a bitter marriage

How long does he wait? What if he doesnt have time? WHy cant he be proactive and go after the ex

Monicasque: 3- Spouse talking to someone on our wedding night then smashing the phone > helllllll no that is some serious shit and i would probably go mad and scatter the bedroom

That is some scary stuff. What the hell was she talking about and with whom? What could it mean long term?

Sanboy25: Anyway I've already took down my profile picture, hope you enjoyed it because it was the first and last time you had this occasion!

It was so sweet. Why did you do it babes? We all loved it.

I bet it wasnt you

gree-die:
before she met u? how is dat a problem

The EX factor

Monicasque: true love comes from the heart not money , not beauty. A woman is her charactor and not what can easly be harmed ( the outside). I am not saying its wrong for woman to be pretty. Hell no. I do not blv beauty and ugliness nor money should be the issue.The issue is both their charactors. What is the use of marrying someone you do not love or someone who will not treat you right? regardless of their financial status

How can she give him true love if she only wants his money? She does not have that commodity to sell. I have seen true love... it has no stipulations, requirements or barriers. Love, not faith, can move mountains.

Abbott: She prolly would have had a case if she was offering love and not beauty...

She has no case. So if it was love for money, she would abandon her love once she met a man with more money. Also, he might get the same love from someone else. How does she quantify her love?

Ericmillion: i wil give her just 5days to think over it,if the funy state stil lingers,although dificult it wil b, i wil cancel the wedin,married is just too sacred to make the wrong decision.

5 days. Is that enough time? What if you only had 5 days until the wedding?

Dygeasy: OP the above comments are to tell you you aint got no problems at all.

Precisely. There are problems... and there are PROBLEMS.

straneur: Because aint no rich fool, that is why they are rich. Except its inheritance

There can be a rich fool. It happens. But a rich fool has to be rich to be a "rich fool".

ASPdabest: sorry the only safe sex is sex in marriage.. and outside that no sex is safe am proud to be part of this movement and am proud to be both sexually pure and a virgin *if u dey beef* chop fish [color=#990000][/color]

Then why dont you wait until you are married before having se.x? Be realistic and stop deceiving people.