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RomanceRe: Why do ladies feel their man must be rich, faithful & good in bed or nothin? by AtheistD(m): 3:10pm On Jun 08, 2013
Ab025: @atheist.....far fromn that, I dnt hav any problem wit my bed performance, what captured my attention is how nowadays I read abt complaints made be ladies on all social sites abt their man's peformance on bed and how they want to leave him for a better peformer....pls how many times hav u seen men complainin abt how poor their gal is on bed or leavin a gal cos she isn't too good in bed? Mind u, if a man is leavin a lady, it is hardly becos of poor bed peformance, either he is a player or just bleepin all around.....

Even here in nairaland, ladies do advertise that they need a guy cos their guy is not too good in bed, why can't such ladies ask questions like "how can I improve my guy's sex life?"

Mind u, no one is flawless.
Lol I am just messing with you. This is a global problem. Women expect more satisfying intimacy from relationships and marriages. What is the solution? Men must make more effort to satisfy their partners in bed. It has to be mutual satisfaction.

I read somewhere the statistics of women in their later years (50+) who had never had org.asms or had so few they could count it on 1 hand shocked It was shocking.

That is just ridiculous. So both parties must talk more about the bedroom and give feedback to each other. Sometimes a little freaky stuff is needed... as long as it is not illegal tongue

Most of all men need to be more manly in doing there duties down below wink.
RomanceRe: Would You Like To Come Back To This World Again As A Guy Or A Girl? by AtheistD(m): 3:04pm On Jun 08, 2013
hot n cold: grin grin grin madt nigga
wink

Imagine if men had such stuff as the multiple org.asms. We would never stop having se.x grin
RomanceRe: How Do I Identify A Player by AtheistD(m):
SECURITY WOMAN: I don't roll like that.
People have done post doctoral dissertations on how to spot players. it always gets thrown in the bin afterwards. You know why, because it is the evolutionary war between the player and the played. As the played get smarter the players get even smarter too. smiley
RomanceRe: Can You Bathe With Your Lover? by AtheistD(m): 3:00pm On Jun 08, 2013
slymm: @Atheist be honest. Where did all the chocolate, bubble bath and scented candles story come from? Is it not lifebuoy soap and rafia bag sponge you mean? Just kidding! Sure, bathing with your lover is always fun....great sex happens in unexpected places.
Lol. Well you have to do it one way or the other. The raffia bag sponge and lifebuoy soap is not too bad. jsut expect skin like a coconut grin

jntyjnty007: Did you just swallow a killer sperm whale whole?
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HealthRe: Abortion Is Murder! Help Stop It. (picture) by AtheistD(m): 2:58pm On Jun 08, 2013
sweetcheecks: Am supprised that ladies are not getting involve in this topic. Thats an indication of something far serious than we thought.

My point is abortion should not be used as substitute or part of family planning.
It is uncomfortable for them lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Would You Like To Come Back To This World Again As A Guy Or A Girl? by AtheistD(m): 2:43pm On Jun 08, 2013
slymm: I will love to come back as a man. You men have the world as your oyster.its a mans world and the women have been conditioned to serve them, so I will surely like to come back as a man.
You wouldnt have the joy of childbirth and multiple org.asms. Are you sure you would like to miss out on that.
RomanceRe: For Nadia_sa ...... Second Runner Up Miss Nairaland!! by AtheistD(m): 2:39pm On Jun 08, 2013
mondi_cheeks: yes i do
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RomanceRe: For Nadia_sa ...... Second Runner Up Miss Nairaland!! by AtheistD(m): 2:37pm On Jun 08, 2013
mondi_cheeks: wetin?
Do you fancy her too wink
RomanceRe: For Nadia_sa ...... Second Runner Up Miss Nairaland!! by AtheistD(m): 2:34pm On Jun 08, 2013
Idowuogbo: She is!! angry
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Lesb alert

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RomanceRe: For Nadia_sa ...... Second Runner Up Miss Nairaland!! by AtheistD(m): 2:32pm On Jun 08, 2013
mondi_cheeks: She is beautiful
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RomanceRe: Would You Like To Come Back To This World Again As A Guy Or A Girl? by AtheistD(m): 2:32pm On Jun 08, 2013
hot n cold: I would love to come 10 times again as a guy.Its just fun been a guy not withstanding the challenges that comes with being a man grin grin grin.So,what will it be for you?Please contribute.
As a guy cool
RomanceRe: How Do I Identify A Player by AtheistD(m): 2:27pm On Jun 08, 2013
You cant. Just try his sugar stick and see if he stays grin
RomanceRe: Can You Bathe With Your Lover? by AtheistD(m): 2:26pm On Jun 08, 2013
jntyjnty007: Yes, if you have one, or two....
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HealthRe: Abortion Is Murder! Help Stop It. (picture) by AtheistD(m): 2:24pm On Jun 08, 2013
sweetcheecks: Thanks great suggestion and more practical.And am with you 100% there, becouse the biggest challenge is the rate and the carelessness it encourages.
Precisely and the fact that women get little support if they do decide they want to keep it. Some are forced due to financial reasons to abort. If they knew they would get financial support some might opt to have the child. This however, has other negative factors in the west (the high rate of single mums).
RomanceRe: I'm Not That Kind Of Girl by AtheistD(m): 2:17pm On Jun 08, 2013
Sanboy25: tongue I think that you'll change your views when you will REALLY become a father.... undecided I know what I'm talking about... cool
How do you know? Are you a father cool

Caracta: God bless you. People like him would keep boys away from the "ripe" daughters. He can make mouth now...allow him. Let the time come.
Not me. I am more liberal. I would protect them but I wouldnt be too involved in their dating lives.
RomanceRe: Can You Bathe With Your Lover? by AtheistD(m): 2:15pm On Jun 08, 2013
huh

If you cant bathe with your lover then how do you bonk him/her? With clothes on and the lights out undecided? Doesnt it bond and make for a more romantic relationship when things like bathing together are involved?

I recommend a dual bubble bath with scented candles, some chocolate and of course a nice bottle of wine (or bubbly) at least once a week. Choose the evening and be there for at least an hour. It will work wonders for bonding smiley.
HealthRe: Abortion Is Murder! Help Stop It. (picture) by AtheistD(m): 2:11pm On Jun 08, 2013
sweetcheecks: True as you have seen I counted all these as answers but my issue is dealing with decisions made are the real problem. People need to adopt a responsible life style. You choose to have se** you know a, b, & c might happen and have to be responsible gor your action. Abortion gives people reason to be carefree. FOR AN AXAMPLE, Imagine if HIV/AIDS being something you could get rid of by killing someone else, murder would increase and the brave would be careless bcoz they have an option to bypass the current problem.
I dunno. It sounds good on paper but is complicated in reality not to mention the gray areas. People really have to take full responsibility for this and the option should still exist... for those who really need it. It should be done more strictly with a lot of counselling and case by case studies done for repeat abortionists to fully understand why they keep getting pregnant and aborting. They do this in the UK.
RomanceRe: I'm Not That Kind Of Girl by AtheistD(m): 1:51pm On Jun 08, 2013
Sanboy25: "Talk is cheap." undecided
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HealthRe: Abortion Is Murder! Help Stop It. (picture) by AtheistD(m): 1:50pm On Jun 08, 2013
sweetcheecks: Quite correct! What I am saying we need to look at the laws of supply and demand. At the moment there has been lots of stories about kids being sold and teenagers kidnapped to be used as incubators. What that means to me is there is a need hence the crime in trying to supply it. The major problem in Africa is the stigmaassociated with those who cannot carry their own children if this was not the case and adoption was done above board within the law, adoption is still a best option in Africa.
I agree. But there is a bigger issue at play here. It isnt about abortion. If abortion was made illegal the population rate would skyrocket and we would be having a real population crisis. What we need to do is focus on the sex ed, etc. Also bear in mind rising stds HIV etc because of current lack of proper use of safe sex methods and promiscuity. So the issue isnt with abortion. Abortion is a byproduct of the issue.
RomanceRe: Do You Like A White Lady Forreals? by AtheistD(m): 1:46pm On Jun 08, 2013
Mrs..Cork:
Black americans are the best.
I thought mr cork was the best shocked
RomanceRe: I'm Not That Kind Of Girl by AtheistD(m): 1:41pm On Jun 08, 2013
jacobscros: my point is that girls should give us the goodies and stop pretending like goodies ain't sweeeeeet! !!
Exacty. They enjoy it, and then they front angry angry angry angry

They want a man with cash, but they also want a man with a big dongle shocked. So that is evident they enjoy it cool. They just want to get paid for something they enjoy. Who do they think they are.... footballers angry
RomanceRe: I'm Not That Kind Of Girl by AtheistD(m): 1:33pm On Jun 08, 2013
djeezy: so what about when you marry her and all your friends come telling you they've slept with her.lol, there won't be any dignity left na.
And how can you guarantee that with any girl? Oh yeah virgins right. So what about if your girl gets told by your exs how well you "knacked them akpako". How will she feel? Wont she be humiliated? Or you dont care smiley

If she isnt cheating on you with them and they didnt just date recently then it doesnt matter too much. The ex factor must be considered (then again it must be considered with all chicks). Chicks always get soppy with their exs.
Caracta: Choice! Then let other girls make their own choice too.
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Sure. They shouldnt just bypass me without offering me some candy angry angry angry angry
HealthRe: Abortion Is Murder! Help Stop It. (picture) by AtheistD(m): 1:22pm On Jun 08, 2013
sweetcheecks: Atheist -D you are so right bro, a lot of education is needed to both males and female. Am sorry about your experience, hope the pic does not make it worse. Humans are the most vicious animals on the planet, we even kill our defenceless young before they are born with no guilt. Its a shame! And people start blaming God when they cannot get kids when they want them after doing these.
I was kidding. I have never witnessed such. I just wanted to highlight where the religious angle fails with some people. it is not great if there is not appropriate reason but I believe we should judge. i am against women being pressured into it. But if they are steely and determined what choice is available? A backdoor means that could harm her? Taking dodgy medication that could harm her? Maybe going ahead and then dumping the child at birth? I dunno. These things need to be looked at. It is not black or white, it is gray with all sides having some strong points.

booqee: gbam!


but @op, imagine this, a POOR young girl was raped by several men, and eventually got pregnant. And she came to you for advice, on whether to abort it or not, knowing fully well dat she not okay financially?? Would you advise her to keep the child to grow up as a bastard, who would never know his real father or to keep the pregnancy. I know abortion is wrong..but unfortunately some reasons are justified.
This is good. So sweetchecks, what do you recommend? Bear in mind the almajiris in the North being recruited by Boko haram and the many orphaned children turned touts and armed robbers. If the child ha a low chance of a proper support it is important to take that into account for decisions.
RomanceRe: Can You Carry Your Wife Or Girlfriend's Hand Bags While Walking Together by AtheistD(m): 1:10pm On Jun 08, 2013
Sure, why not. No big deal.
RomanceRe: I'm Not That Kind Of Girl by AtheistD(m): 1:08pm On Jun 08, 2013
djeezy: Lol, will you marry someone who your friends are shareholders?
If she was the right person and she never cheated on me with any of them. It would be hard to guarantee the ex factor but I could.
RomanceRe: Must Guys Be Muscular Before They Get Attention From Ladies? by AtheistD(m): 1:07pm On Jun 08, 2013
booqee: no..for me u have to be tall and intelligent first to attract me. Other things can follow...like having muscles and money is a bonus
I am intelligent but average height... will that do or do I need to wear high heel shoes tongue
HealthRe: Abortion Is Murder! Help Stop It. (picture) by AtheistD(m): 1:06pm On Jun 08, 2013
bennyraz: contraceptives, pills, condoms, are not 100% safe except a man is willing to do vasectomy then there will be no pregnancy! mind you, we are talking about strictly abortion here
Yes, but you highlight that abortion wont be necessary if no premarital sex happens. I am stating that safe sex etc can lead to a greatly reduced risk of pregnancy. A much better option than the premarital nonsense which clearly doesnt work.
RomanceRe: I'm Not That Kind Of Girl by AtheistD(m): 1:04pm On Jun 08, 2013
Caracta: Do you have daughters? Pls help us out by donating them to the Konji Society.
I dont have daughters... yet. If they want to have fun they why not. They just need to learn sex ed, safe sex, the difference between emotional and physical sex and I will be there for them through difficult relationships. After that they can make their own decisions. Oh yeah, as long as they are 18 too grin
RomanceRe: Advantages Of Long Distance Relationship by AtheistD(m): 1:02pm On Jun 08, 2013
Yungwizzzy: ''Close distance'' relationships is'n working not to talk of long distance.
Long distance can work. Both partners just need to have side partners to fulfil ther bse desires and err... make sure they maintain them throughout grin

Just kidding. It does work but only for short periods.
HealthRe: Abortion Is Murder! Help Stop It. (picture) by AtheistD(m): 12:59pm On Jun 08, 2013
bennyraz: so males should be castrated abi? if it is an ongoing stuggle for women then i think women should be encouraged to say no to pre-marital sex!!! The two major factors here are pre-marital sex and Rape! if the Nigerian Government can make more stringent laws on the issue of rape, then it would be good for our country! the other factor is Pre-marital sex! and the solution is, if most women are contented with what they have and not looking up to a man to always foot their bills then pre-marital sex will reduce!! for a man, it's give and take! if a woman is independent then i see know reason why she would fall into the trap some men lay
So it is pre-marital sex that is the problem, not safe sex? We need better sex education classes. Imagine meeting a girl you harldy know and she has no problem going raw and isnt on any contraceptives... she doesnt even know her fertility cycle and has no idea when she is ovulating etc... how wont she get pregnant shocked shocked shocked shocked angry angry angry angry angry

sweetcheecks: Actually, this is majorly for guys so you should look and look hard enough so that if you happen to make a girl you do not like pregnant or someone you did not plan to marry, you will think twice before pressuring her to do an abortion as an option for you to get rid of her.
I have a very sad tale about such stuff. I am not against abortion but I have witnessed it myself. It is a truly painful and cruel deed. i curse the person that aborted my baby... WHY GOD.... WHY DID YOU ABORT MY BABY WITH MULTIPLE MISCARRIAGES.
RomanceRe: I'm Not That Kind Of Girl by AtheistD(m): 12:53pm On Jun 08, 2013
djeezy: They are saving it for their supposed husband who perhaps turns out to be the wrong man.
Stingy girls. Why cant they be generous? Share and share alike!!!!!
RomanceRe: If Virginity Is The Pride Of A Lady, What Is A Guy's Pride? by AtheistD(m):
booqee: His looks and money..and if he is a good congo shiner. grin
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booqee: [s]#but i heard virginity is not longer the the pride of women?? Is it true. shocked embarassed [/s] [/b]
Yes baby cakes... are you thinking of losing yours grin

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