₦airaland Forum

Moji12: she/male.

Whaaaaaaaat

No, seriously... she or he?

Princess zoe: For the op to have asked this question it means that there is a mix up somewhere. Maybe the story posted here is half truth-half lie. Because if the story was intact, the man in question would have jilted the lady before now. There is another impression i would like to correct here. A woman working should not be the basic thing a man looks out for while choosing a wife. Is like a woman looking out for a wealthy man to be her husband and snobs the average or poor ones. Character, fear of God and compatibility should be the major traits. Whether she is working or not shouldn't be the case. She can secure an employment or start off a business when she is done with having babies or anytime after the wedding.That is why some men end up getting married to the wrong partners. And at the end of the day, the man will start cheating while the wife joins him in the game too. A man who centers his mind on "i must marry a business/working class lady" has 85percent chances of having a collapsed or unsettled marriage because he will be carried away during courtship by thinking that he has gotten a financial helper whereas he just signed a devasting marriage contract. Men be guided. Meanwhile not all men attach this occupation thing as a criteria in choosing a partner.

Sure, but a man managing financially does not want to be saddled with too much financial responsibility.

Abbey2sam: Albert einstein said your brain is not meant for decoration, use it to tink

just tryin to tell you about football age and making you laugh @d same time...............

Hope you can understand this one

Of course , I thought that was where you were heading lol

tpia@:
she's never met a wicked married man.

One that will put her in a headlock anytime she gets a call from a male companion

sexymma1: Too bad, thats private fairm for u, but still wish to work with them.

No country can run on a public sector alone. In Nig, half the public sector workers need to be laid off and the country needs to reinvest more money into making private businesses more successful.

No it hasnt. It has dichotomised Nigeria into North and South.

She looks 20 years older than her husband

val_dee: Parading? If really they are mercenaries, they should be phucking shot. Why parading them?

Due legal process. They need to be tried by a court, judged and sentenced. It is the due legal process.

No lady should be that adamant over a new guy. There is clearly more to the whole equation. It would be difficult to remain in this and fight for her (which you will end up being forced to do ). The best scenario is to count your losses and move on.

sexymoma: Jehoooovah!!! This is ridiculous, are you sure these are NL babes, Where did you get them from, How did you get them, What made you had crush on them, Why do you wanna put yourself into trouble. i smell "Hypertension"

lesbianboy.... hmmmm...

Some might be dudes

190: who adaobi

No you. All these ladies. Just take it easy.

^^^

you are truly a strong man

Just dont die too early

adaobi123: no sorry

sexymoma: LMAO... You are Really An Atheist

Thanks babe

But I have had a ... errr.... bad online experience before. But no need to go into that

190:

Sorry dude

adaobi123:

Its not

it aint me is it

sexymoma: Good to hear or Good to see

Hear it . I will type out "good to see it" once I can physically see any nairaland babe and personally guarantee your gender. Until then you are all on probabtion with me

dadu77: These issue is simple to deal with. When you know who someone is, what he/she says will matter or not. If this post I just read is written by an #Atheist, that sums it: I shouldn't even reply because it wouldn't mean a thing to him. I know Atheists/Free maisons/etc have seeking ways to get recognition like the major 2... Anything can be said so that we look/listen then talk: leave this "Guy"
FYI: God Almighty's not looking for "ITK" peeps to call His own..(that's what brought us here) - thanks

You do not listen to what we say, because we are atheist. you are saying that due to being atheist whaever we say is irrelevant.... interesting

sanb: I’m sure everyone loves the good things in life; be it men/women…..so it’s not just restricted to women only……

We’re now living in the 21st century; hence, no reason for a woman to think that all her needs should be directed to her BF/Partner/Spouse without her thinking that she needs to take care of some of those needs herself….

Some men dont care about stuff like that. I know a number of wealthy men who live chaste lives. Some have their wives living like queens while they live very humble lives.

The truth is that even with all the modern day opportunities, it is a mind set for some women to look for a "prince in shiny armour". They believe it is easier for them to just marry a rich guy, cinderella style. It isnt even about poverty alone. Some financially secure ladies still operate in that manner.

WackyJ1: My dear you're on your way to becoming a ho, don't fight it. Embrace the HO Side. It'll benefit a lot of guys

In fact sign me up to be number 3 man

fubbyy: if they keep a slim hot chick and a hot bbw, my dear men will queue up for the bbw, am talking from experience, there's something about bbw, when a guy see them he think sex immediately, slim girls are pretty,maybe for a relationship or marriage but bbw are more sexy, believe it or not

Really? I like moderate women. I hate skinny chicks but that South Africa style meaty thighs and bum and hips like mad are sooooo not to my taste

A moderately sized women with adequate meat on her chest is good enough for me

Lol. Bunch of yobs

Apinke4real: Hi all,

I am a lady of 34years, looking for a matured man, christian, 34 years and above.



send an email to apinke4real@gmail.com

Would you consider someone slightly younger?

Moji12: None,can't say in d nearest future oooo but for now none

So are you a babe or a dude?

sanb: I’m not sure what answer you’re expecting NLanders to provide. Do you want to hear NLanders say all is well; let him carry on with her; when it’s obvious that all isn’t okay…I.e. her character is despicable and nothing to write home about and not to forget she's also a thief...SMH.....

I pity your friend if he doesn’t walk away slowly NOW; cos all she’s currently doing now; is asking for money….it just makes me wonder sometimes why some women are greedy and selfish. What stops her from getting a job or better still getting into business to take care of these personal needs herself and be independent for once in her life?…..If your friend doesn't want to develop high blood pressure, then send her packing....I rest my case...

Because women like the good things in life and not all were brought up with the belief that you need to work to earn your way.

Look childrens fiction books:

Cinderella
Snow White
Rapunzel
Sleeping beauty
Beauty and the beast

All these highlight how the ladies met a rich prince (never mind their looks ) and their life was happy ever after. Girls grew up with similar expectations in life. In the west, society however has changed dramatically from that type of lifestyle.