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Subomi-luv:
Lol i guess it would not really affect you since you are an atheist and all

I dont understand? We get married too. Men are just not as soppy as women are about such things. But it was beautiful and there was a lot of love in their eyes too... I'm assuming

Subomi-luv:
Did you watch the video? It was so touching especially the ending

Some other time maybe. But it looks smashing.

A lot of them lack the stamina in the bedroom.

A beautiful wedding. I wish them all the best.

Before of course. Why wait?

mondi_cheeks: go to a coffee shop soon after that

It is getting a bit late for coffee. I might have to try something stronger

HBD dude

Tpfkakambo: Your right its a catholic heaven.
Dyu know that when the catholic church ran out of money once they sold bans (certificates) granting the holder
access to heaven?
This is the junk u get wen an apostacy is believed...

no be only atheists in heaven.
Son prostitutes and politicians who've looted the treasury will begin buyg plots in glory land!!

And these pentecostal prosperity preachers with their tithes and seeds are doing any better? Many have sold plots to GEJ and other politicians... meanwhile, they have all their investments and business empires on earth

Kinetic nwafor: Repent God is coming soon can't u see d signs.

I am willing to repent if you can please describe heaven for me. Accordin to scripture of course. I might just take Pascals wager and rescind my Atheism.... if you can convince me adequately

Hackomania: Groping in the dark, without a guide, is silly, yes. And the world is full of so many uncertainties. The only thing I'm very certain of is that all will end one day (whether with death, or related events). I am not even sure of tomorrow. That's why I leave all to Christ, and follow him (Trust me, faith is a concept not comprehensible by physical thinking and analysis). Only the Spirit of God can be a guide in the walk through the uncertainties and darkness of life

Interesting, the man groping may move slow but his chances of injury are much reduced. How will Christ illuminate a dark room? Try my experiment with faith and see the results. Post it on youtube if you want.

Hackomania: Define "wrong". Do you mean "what if there was no heaven or hell" or "what if God didn't exist"

Yes, that is what he means.

mondi_cheeks: go to the kitchen. Put water in the kettle, plug it and boil the water...then take a cup put coffee, sugar and milk in it. Add water, stir
And there u have it

I am in a clients office... and they only have decaff

effisyman: Am suspecting u!

Lol. No need to suspect. I dont roll that way.

She has a long way to go... but she is not all that bad. At least if she can maintain her figure she might make a suitable wife for some guy. How old is she? She looks at least 28.

Mynd_44: No

Precisely. But... are there any situations where moderate dressing should be encouraged? Like for instance around younger children, in jobs and school etc?

How can they be sure these babies are not being used for rituals?

You are on a long ting!!! Until people go outside their offices and picket them, they will never respond. They are waiting for their budget to be released so they can go on a spending spree.

It is a sad day when we have to rely on the Nigerian High Commission to do anything.

mondi_cheeks:

I want my coffee

Mynd_44: But even if it is higher than that, is it excusable?

It isnt of course, thath is my point. The real question is... how can that 5% be prevented and must women be forced to dress moderately just because of the 5%?

Monicasque: no i m not a teen and no i do not date married men. I am in my early 20s and dating a guy 4 years older than me. He is an entrepreneur and never around. he gives me time 4 times in a week and will tell me how busy or tired he is the other 3 days. i love him, he has a good future but he is just always too busy for me. always in an out, meetings etc. when he has time he will tell me how he tired, busy bla bla so i do not want to dump him but i cant take all his unavailability and NOOO i do not cohabit with him. we stay in the same complex opposite to each other so i know for sure there is no other woman there. he just does not have time. always claiming that he needs to work work work. when i force to spend time especialy on weekends his body will be with me but his hands, eyes and brains will be on his laptop. that is hurting and boring so i lv him alone and go to the hairdresser bf who always has time for me saterday and sunday afternoons. we do fun stuff together. he knows i loves movies, shopping and going out generaly but he has not realised my reasons for always choosing places which are far from my neighbourhood yet . i just do nt want to bump into anyone who knows me and my man in our area. i have tried to be understanding and be there for my number 1 bf but what is the use of being around someone who is just there physicaly but does not hear a word you say coz he is somehow preoccupied?.

Sounds difficult. I have been in your bfs position before. Here it is;

1. Spent a lot of time with my gf because of love and companionship. It was a whirlwind romance, we virtually did everything together. The love was strong. Financially things started to falter as I lacked the time for my business. Financial burdens kicked in and the relationship started to suffer. She got bored of me and dumped me for a more loaded dude

2. Next girl; I was determined to be financially buoyant, working hard with the belief that if I had enough to make the girl comfortable she wont stray. Too much time went into my businesses and career. Eventually we drifted apart, she started cheating on me

So, what is the solution? There must be a balance. And it must be determined by both parties. Why dont you end the relationship if you feel totally neglected and that he cant change? Also, exactly how much of him do you see per week, per month etc? How can you get his attention when he is around you? Is the bedroom good or is that affected too? Is he constantly distracted by business thoughts while getting jiggy ignore me

You have to find a solution to this. It will end badly if you continue. Also, have you ever been in an ideal relationship or is this how all of them are?

mondi_cheeks: she jus said we both use the same pin

My mistake. Early morning and coffee hasnt kicked in yet

mondi_cheeks: It has nothing to do wit the dressing of a woman...many children get raped, that goes on to show u it has nothing to do wit the victim's way of dressing, the rapist simply has a psychological disorder...some rapists do it so they can have a sense of superiority and some just like to see their victim in pain

There is a % of rape cases that would be fuelled by the dressing and of course lewd nature of the raped. This however would be less than 5% .

Shir£ll£ baby:
y
not,he has mai atm pin and sometimes does d withdrawal for me.we both
use d same pin..i love my openess with him and that's ow it will remain till
he #F# up which i pray he doesnt..till den..d trust remains intact and d
love in shape

Sweet. Do you have his?

Monicasque: work 8 to 5. Get home around 6. Cook, eat and bath and 8pm am all relaxed and needing comfort what must i do? sleep? so my life is a life of a woman who sleeps or watches soapies all her life? sunday i have all the time in my hands i cant always go to the mall, movies etc alone. My girls will be with their loved ones so i can't always gatecrash. i do not want a child yet coz i still wana do more with my life so you mean to tell me with all this time i have in my hands i should do what?don's ladies also have a say ? it seems the only thing the world cares about is ''HIM''. When it suits him he does what he wants and what about the lady. If he will not be around all the time i am free ( which is also the time many people are supposed to be relaxed with their loved ones) then what's a girl to do? please suggest something because clearly you have better ideas and woman who know that they deserve attention seem to be taken wrong by society

Mynd is 100% right. It is not the duty of the man to keep you "busy and entertained". Also, from your point of view, you can only find comfort and friendship in the arms of another man . What happened to friends, colleagues, family? When you have kids, will you even have as much time for your philandering ways? Have you ever even been close to a man? Maybe your previous men have been a bit distant and hence you have been able to have multiple men to offset that but you need to find a balance, that one man and numerous fun activities side by side with support for your man at home and elsewhere.

What do you reckon? I am on point or not?

Mynd_44: This is what happens when women don't have a life of their own (no offence). Before you marry, build yourself, get a job or start something that will kepp you busy and you can go to when alone so you don't drive yourself insane

My thoughts exactly. She sounds like a teenager dating married men. She has no idea what to do with her life to keep her busy and satisfied. It seems she is a looooong way off from marriage.

chronique: Wow! Can it be that bad? Anyways,since your class governor talks to her,find a way of helping him deliver a message to her(since you don't have the boldness to walk up to her). Maybe her test script or something. Let's paint this picture: her name is Titi and she has a friend called Aisha or Gbenga. Take Aisha's/Gbenga's script from your class rep and take Titi's script too.(Gbenga or Aisha needs to participate in this your play-play system of chyking). Tell them both that the rep says you should give them their scripts and hand it over to them. Engage Gbenga in a little convo and say hi to her. You can ask them about their scores if they did well. After some time,excuse yourself and say bye to them while Gbenga continues his convo with her. The most important thing is that you make sure you say hi to her. The next time two of you see,say hi again. As often as you say hi to her and exchange pleasantries,the tension starts leaving you. Also try to get close to guys/girls you see her hanging out with. In no time,you would have successfully blended with her clique of friends like boko haram in the midst of civilians in Borno. Try to get involved in discussions where you notice she's active. You can intentionally disagree with her even when she's right but don't do it in a stupid way. Next time,agree with her even when she's wrong. Find a way to make her nonsense make sense. While you do all these,do not constitute a nuisance or else you're screwed. Take it nice and slow and don't try to make it obvious you're after her. Be calculated in all your steps and wait for the opportunity to be alone with her(you can arrange this) and find a way of breaking the ice. Before breaking the ice,you need to be comfortable around her(not being edgy and having sweaty palms). If you're humourous,you'd stand a better chance. You can do something like:
You: that your gbagaun was classic
Her: me? When n where?
You: are you not the one that said "excuse me pls,I want to go and bought a yam"?
She:


*battery low* @ op: abeg gimme money for fuel make I take charge my fone. I go give you part two later.


Hey! Don't know if you have the patience to follow that boring post up there. Just try gather liver sha or alternatively,walk up to her and sing Akon's I wana f**k u,f**k u;u already know.... Please ensure she's not wearing a high heel weaponlike shoe sha.

Well put but just too long. Chatting girls up should be an experience he needs to go through the hard way. That way he learns to grow some ba.lls. He will be facing women his whole life, the sooner he can do it the better.

sexymoma: hahahaha i laff in an african omo ekiti way. You are sitting on a long thing.

I got a billion dollars and a presidency staked for another gal, I offer you my account and bank cards, you girls play hard ball

I might have to bring out the big guns if this continues

On a side note, if you had access to your partners account, would you misuse it to shop and all sorts or would you be strict and stringent

sexymoma: does this principles applies to her too, if not you are on your own

Why not? It applies