SweetBuns:

The more reason why she should leave.
If your friend were that important to her in the first place, it'd have shown in her actions right from time
From what you're saying here, that is not the case here
Nobody treats someone who's important and dear to them like that
She knows your friend is softhearted and she's trying to take advantage
I repeat, she should leave that house
She's 28 for God's sake, not 16 or 17

Thank you I will try and knock sense into her head

SweetBuns:
Tell her to leave that house ASAP
That aunty is a big time manipulator.
By the time the senior kid finishes up with whatever he/she's up to, this once in a lifetime opportunity would be long gone
And who's to say that she won't come up with some new excuse as to why she shouldn't leave when the kid finally comes back?
It's not as if she's even treating her well in the first place
May God not let us come across people who wants to hold us back for their own selfish reasons

That's what I told her but the said Aunty is always complaining of sickness most of the time and the Aunty is making it seems she is wicked for trying to leave the house

I have a friend who is 28 years old, she lost her parents 7 years ago and have been staying with her Aunty, during those 7 years she has face emotional abuse upon abuse, her Aunty is the type that likes to control, you have to obey her or she will abuse and abuse you and even threatened to drive her out of her house many times.
My friend endured for years, last month, a friend of ours told her about a job opening and want her to come for the job, she went and got the job, mind you the job is in another state and she will start in a week time.
Now this my friend have told her aunty about the job and how she will be going to another state because of the job.
This is now bringing an issue because she and the Aunty are the only ones living in the house, the Aunty 2 children are all in the university and the Aunty is telling her that she shouldn't go for the job, the Aunty start telling her how she is abandoning her that she should wait for her senior child which is in 300 to finish before leaving the house.
I personally told my friend to go for the job and don't reason anything but she has a soft heart and she thinks maybe she should stay until her Aunty senior child finish school.
If you were in her shoes what will you do

BluePrincee:


It has started increasing. I hope you have not sold. Please read this thread on front page. Just hold the dollars

https://www.nairaland.com/7905233/naira-shrinks-n1135-parallel-market

Thanks I have already sold it.

I don't regret anyway, at least for the past days I don't feel stressed about whether the dollar goes up or down

Mercylike:
See madness... People are taking this thread for granted

I just saw a lady advertise a used traveling bag for 25k. She even started with 30k but now 25k


madness

Craze people everywhere......

Very funny set of people, like this is a clearance thread like things are supposed to be cheaper, I saw someone selling a used iPhone 12 pro for 630k the prize of the new one like why will I buy that used phone here when I can just go and buy a brand new one in the store.

One was selling normal cover shoe that is 5k or lesser normal, she posted it that it is 10k.

I am just laughing

Wujio:




And when you were in oanic mode almost losing your Three Million, whos counsel did you follow to bail out of the situation. God will judge you

Please and please stop bringing dollars matter here, I have already made up my mind to sell it and just wanted to know nairalanders opinion not that your comments determine what I wanted to do already

BronzeTiger:

Despite all the proofs of him/her being a scammer given?

That dude is the scammer, everything he is doing is called "bluffing" him acting rich and always the first to tell you how important and rich he is because he want to create an illusion about himself so you won't suspect him.

That guy he called and say he transact up to 3M business with, let him come and say something or he is doing all this knowing the likelihood of the person coming here is zero.

Or is it him randomly calling someone of owing him 50$ to try create another scenario of him been rich and can't be the scammer.

Everything he has been doing is bluffing, that dude don't have any chi chi.

Ginaz:


why don't you post your bank account so all these would end?

She should post bank account number instead of this certificate or Results. It is obvious signs of diverting attention to another thing

Hubeznigeria:
@BronzeTiger
@Wujio just called me using 09048920665. I assure you under God that if you are the person behind abisolababe you will never go unpunished for scamming and trying to scam more good-spirited individuals of their hard-earned monies.

How did he contacted you?
I don't see your number on your page and why out of everyone, you are the one he contacted.

BronzeTiger be careful, the scam syndicate will use their other accounts to try and whitewash this accusations, they will likely pretend to be on your side while whitewashed the OP.


I don't know think we asked for NIN, what was asked was for the OP should provide traditional bank bearing the same details with her palmpay, that is all

nedekid:

Obviously a scam.
Chopped me 10k this early Monday morning with the nice story.
After this one, I have lock down finally on ever giving money on this forum. I will advice others to do the same.

Sorry for the loss Sir, it is really painful but God will surely reward you many more times the money.

BronzeTiger:

Where I your traditional bank account number bearing Abisola Emilola olayiwola?
Where is it?

That is the question, you will notice how she/he avoids that question and start talking about other things to divert from the main point.

That dude doesn't have a account bearing that name which means she is probably a guy pretending to be a female.

Abisolababe:


You are a liar

Do you have any proof?
Are you pained that I was able to receive help?
Why are people like this?

Rest Oga, everybody here can see you are a scammer, Thank God you were caught on time before you start creating threads upon threads lying about an audio business and how you need more money to expand it

Abisolababe:



I have the proof of the money wujio sent to me, the account belong to me and not for anyone , you can do whatever you like as long as I know this is real .I'm not afraid of anything


To those that have supported me one way or the other the Lord will bless you all
And those that send me pm asking me to come for hookup before they will help me the Lord will be with you.

Both of you are obviously the same person, see you trying to manipulate people here that some guys are asking you for hookup, so you will say I rather work than do hookup,, isn't that what wujio was using to defend you that we are blocking the blessing of a lady that rather work than do hookup and here you are saying the same thing.

I don't really have much to say, Nigerians are just heartless

BronzeTiger:

You too noticed he was the first person to ask abisolababe to send her account number in the first thread she or he created right.
This is a planned scam.

Sir also check the moniker yaseer111, that wujio was also pushing nairalanders to give him money by using the same format of been the first to give.

After collecting money here, he is still trying to use his other account to collect another one

easytig:
The moment she abi na he posted the account details of a third party to collect money,I knew something was fishy,if I type her dormant account number in my bank app her names will definitely prop up,then I will have verified her names,then proceed to send to her palmpay.
Nigerians and cunny schemes

Exactly very straight forward thing, drop your dormant account as long as it's bearing the same name with your palmpay then your identity have been cleared.

Everything can be solved with her dropping her GT bank account but her saying different excuses shows she is obviously a scam and that Wujio account is probably the one behind the account.

He was the one that First ask her to drop her account details in the first thread she created and look at him defending Her and even trying to gaslight everyone that we are enemies of progress because we want to verify her identity

Wujio:




When you were about to loose your three million naira and followed the wrong advice of people that got away t wrong and the gave you accurate counsel on what to do and how to reduce further loses I wasn't a scammer then but because I show you your errors and rather than take corrections in humility, I am now a scammer. Please how much inside that your peanuts three million naira did I ask you to give you privately or publicly?


How can you a woman be so merciless against your gender ? Chai. Hard heartedness has finished the world. No wonder scripture says because of wickedness the hearts of many would grow cold. Shame on you

Oga stop with the gaslighting, nobody is an idiot here, the OP can provide her traditional account details and everybody will rest.

And I don't know you from anywhere, so stop trying to create a familiarity because you are looking for support.

The OP is obviously a scamm and you are very likely behind that account.

I hope you change your ways because money from scams won't lead you anywhere.

Wujio:



You dont have to ask. You are polluting the energy in the young girls thread. The same way i gave you counsel to save you lots of money thru loss is the same way i can put my finger on a legitimate thing



Listen. Before i made that giving that day i heard the Voice of the Lord clearly mandating me to give to her. Wheb you dont feel like pushing on with any giving turn aside, but dont castigate because you dont see the full picture.


We must kill defamation in this forum and the quickness to label people as scammer. It is wrong

At this point in time, you and the OP are probably the same person trying to scamm good nairalanders of their money because I don't see the big deal of telling someone to provide their traditional bank account.

You are just trying to gaslight people here, people work for your money, if some want to give me his or her hard earned money and ask my to drop my traditional account number to check my identity, I won't even waste time in dropping it.

All you do is attack people calling her out as if you Live under a stone and don't see how many people uses sob stories to scam in nairaland.

Any money gotten from scam will never make you prosper.

My 2 cents

Wujio:



You are wrong. I will explain why many you users use palmpay and the likes. Many young ones do not command the cash flow older ones do. As a result they create these palmpay and opay accounts since they assume its for frequent use. Until a time like this they need good inflow. Lets not be too quick to judge otherwise we fall prey of judging wrongly.


If anyone feels concerned to assist an individual let them do so with an open mind. Otherwise shun the idea without making false accusations. Defamation does a lot of damage and we must never encourage it

Sir I have been in nairaland for years and let me tell you, I have seen many scammers been caught, yes many young people uses palmpay, even I uses it but like anything good, it is also use for bad.

Since tier one account can use any name, many scammers tend to use it because a guy can claim to be a woman by registering with a lady name.

This isn't even complicated, I am not accusing the OP of been a fraud, I am only asking her to drop her traditional account number, this isn't supposed to be a big deal, all she has to do it drop the number and everybody can rest.

That is all

Abisolababe:

Sir, I'm in the market now, you will have to give me time to get to GTB and see if I could receive money into the account.
Once I'm able to get it done I will send you the account sir.
I don't have the number for alert.

There is no need to go to the bank, just drop the Gtb account details here, money won't be paid to the account, the Gtb account is more like an identity to show you are genuine and your palmpay details also match with your other bank account.

Many people uses palmpay to scam because you can create a tier one account with it, meaning you can Register with any name or gender that is not your own and still receive funds.

You trying to dodge the questions and not providing your traditional bank details is making it seems like you are not genuine.

My two cents

Abisolababe:


The traditional name on my Palmpay is Olayiwola Abisola Emilola....
That's my legal name on Palmpay

I would like to send you something but you should do what BronzeTiger tell you to do, provide a traditional bank bearing the same name with your palmpay, even if the account is dormant, just provide it.

This way you will look genuine, BronzeTiger can send money to the palmpay if he likes as long as you can provide your bank with your details matching your palmpay .

I will also send a token too

saasala:


I'm one of those people who advised that you buy dollar. I took out 8m out of my savings and bought USDT (Crypto) and now I'm currently losing about 1.4m. So madam, don't sell yet. It's going back up next week. It will first rebound back to where it's coming from and then even go a little higher before crashing back again. Just hold on a little. I promise to give you back your money if you lose. Trust me.

By the way, be careful of broke Nairaland guys who might want to take advantage of you by sending you DMs. They will look for ways to chop the remaining 2.4m

Thanks for the input but I sold it yesterday, I don't want to be feeling stressed out wondering whether it will go up or down.
Honestly I take risks but I promise myself that, that money will be use for something tangible in my life and wasting it on risky investments is something I will really feel bad about.

Thanks tho and wish you luck on your dollars

weslay:


This is like a baby deciding not to walk anymore because he fell at his first attempt of walking

I am not doing again, I have lost 100k in a ponzi scheme now I have lost another 500k.
If I use the money to buy clothes, I would have 3 big boxes of clothes than wasting it on those investments.

chronique:
It's funny how people who have no direct business dealings with dollars, end up going to buy dollar to keep as a way of making money, or salvaging their savings, and still complain that the naira is losing value. It's either you guys are outrightly stupid, or suffer from gross ignorance. If every Nigerian decides to save their naira in dollar, how much do you guys think the naira will be worth? Yes, the government has its own faults but average Nigerians too are a problem to the country. Everyone is now trying to price their goods to the dollar even when they don't have a reason to. Only people who are trading with the dollar regularly, should have a business with it. You are earning naira as a person, you are not doing any imports, yet you want to buy dollar to keep as a way of defending your naira, aren't you part of the problem? There's a fictitious/unnecessary demand for the dollar which in turn, drives the value of the naira down.

@op: sorry you listened to the advice of most people here. You would be shocked to know majority of them are kids in real life, or people who get their information from beer parlor and market women cos I don't know why any sensible person would advise you to buy dollar to store, knowing fully well that it's already around 1300. That's a very risky and bad advice. Even if you want to trade forex, you don't buy when the price is that high, knowing fully well that the government is looking for ways to crash price down cos if they don't, they would be forced to deal with an army of hungry jobless Nigerians, as a lot of businesses would crash if the slide is not arrested. The only people who should buy it at that price, are people who need it urgently. Yesterday, I asked aboki for dollar and he said 1150. I told him I wanted as much as 10k and he offered to do it 1100 even without me pricing. By evening, price had crashed to about 1000 or 950 as it was reported elsewhere. He's going to be very desperate to sell now before it crashes further and this is what would happen to most speculators. The ripple effect of this is that more dollars would be available for sale and drive price further down. My advice is to not hold it further if you still have it.

Thanks for the advice, I have sold it this morning, I lost about 500k but it's better to have peace of mind than always checking whether the dollar will increase or not.
Anything investments, I am not doing again

Wujio:



A woman at your stage seeks financial independence. This path is marked with losses and heart breaks. Your scars are proof of your pursuit. As you become more confidence in your approach and learn to master your emotions over value, you will make better moves.


Example, Rule Two, never invest more than 25% of your income as a novice investor.


Rule one : Never lose money, try as much as possible to looose only minimmal.money. Thus mentality guides you to prudence and tames greed replacing greed with risk assesstment. I have stopped losing money for almost three years straight. I hardly lose money unless third parties impact in ways beyond my control. When you stop losing money. You then enter the next stage of money that is management. If you stabilize your money with little loses and consistent profit however little, you can begin to begin to get ahead in the money game

Thanks for the advice

Wujio:




Find another business, run two to three cycles and you will be raising shoulder with the gains you will see. I have stopped raising ladies on this forum up after the last i raised has now become a problem for me.

You mean like "keke" because I don't have strength for that kind of business.

Right now I will just focus on my work and leave any business plan for next year, I have gotten too many heartbreak in just a few months

Wujio:



It will fall further tomorrow. Fall again on Monday, crash again further into next week wednesday and crash again into next week Friday. This shii is crashing to 900/850 as it prepares to crash towards 600-700 next year. I have been crying this all over the forum for a while. Forget the loss get back your money

Thanks for the advice, I guess I will just cut my loses.
It is very painful losing 400k in just a few days 😢

oliverwrites:
I have lost 800k today but note that dollar isn't going high to 1300, unless dangote refinery fails. I am only waiting till it gets to about 1100 and then exit. I forsee dollar going to 750 before March unless Dangote refinery fails.

Do you think it will even get to 1100 because I don't want to lose anymore money.

I am just feeling like a failure 😞

Last week I created a thread talking about how my japa plans have been crushed due to the increase in dollar.

Many adviced me to invest in dollar, this was the advice they gave me months ago but I did follow through because I wasn't sure.
My last thread hit front page and 90% of the comments were advising me to invest in dollars, one even quoted that in the past 10 years, the dollar haven't fallen but it increases every year.

One even called me a weak minded person and I am scared to take risks.
After everything I thought to myself, since so many people felt this dollar will keep on rising, maybe I should invest afterall life is all about risks.

Well guess what, dollar have decreased, I invested 3M in buying dollars and now in today exchange rate. I have 2.6M now and I either cash out now or hope it will increase.

Right now, I am very angry.
Those giving me advice should come and contribute the 400k for me o

Another thing, do you think the dollar will increase or should I just cut my loses.
I am so tired 😫

NAC1666:

I thought you said the money is almost 5m. You are talking of doing business with 2m,Where is the remaining balance?. When you get it,let me know

I want to start a business with 2M first, I am not planning on putting all my eggs in one basket

LoveJesus87:
no mind d comedian.
No be only mexico

It was very funny because Mexico is a very lawless country, their money is very small when compare to dollars, they speak different languages.

Even people in Mexico are trying to enter the US, that was why Donald Trump build a wall against them, so why should I try to enter that country

ManOfMan:


Don't buy dollar immediately. Government announced some policies in the last few days that are supposed to stabilize the forex market and eventually bring down the dollar again naira. Watch the market for a week or two. If these policies do not reverse the downward slide of the naira with this period and the dollar continues to rise, please quickly buy dollar with money. It means the government has no real solution to the fall of naira. Note one dollar is about 1290 to 1310 today

Thanks I saw the increase in dollar, I will wait and see if it falls.

shiki:
When Dollar slide down to #1000/$, change your money and save it in Dollars. I bought $1000 in April at the rate of #750/$ look at where we are now

Thanks