₦airaland Forum

Jostoman:
make Una Carry una covid-419 comot for nairaland.

You no get sense

inoki247:
lol like play like play Aso Rock fit turn next bus stop for Bandits and Boko Haram...


With the way things are going Buhari go soon relocate all him baring cow to UK....

This one wey baba hear say dem kidnap school students e run go count him cow to see if none is missing.....

OMG
Almost choked on my drink

donestk:
I fear this second wave may be Nigeria's real arrival of C-19.

The world's wealthiest country has recorded 300k deaths to this virus.

Stock up people and observe safety protocols.

I'm afraid if this happens, wahala don shele ooo. With the ignorance and nonchalance being exhibited lately towards the pandemic eeeehn
A lot of people I have come across have no iota of care towards Covid-19 albeit their educational level. Chai!

evuna:
Most of those people saying that it's normal are not igbos or some of those woke people. My aunt met her husband in germany but they did their traditional marriage in the village. someone stood for them. I have watched some British events and they always praise their tradition.


Don't let anyone deceive you, stand your ground. Not everyone should go home. Besides, colleagues can attend the white wedding in the city.


I am sorry to as, which state are you from. Enugu or anambra person will never conceive such. Marriage is not between two people in igboland. it is between two communities. That's why we value the concept of "ogo".


Once allowed, always allowed. Except your sister isn't getting married to an igbo person. Think about when her children atttends a kindred meeting, someone will remind him that her mother wasn't properly married. No matter how polished you are, respect traditional institution unless it goes against your Faith.


People even travel from abroad to do igba nkwu in igboland, let alone those in Nigeria. Go to the North, they respect their tradition, same with the south West, but they are here telling you that it doesn't matter. Can your sister's children sit in an igbo gathering, that issue will come up.


what about August meetings, can your sister fully participate? She is very young and might feel she doesn't need village people but time will tell. Those highly read people in my community finally succumbed and are even spreading traditional views.


You are the Okpara, if you allow it. You have not done well. Act like an Okpara.

Don't mind them. Distance didn't stop our in-laws from Sierra Leone to make appearance to pay for my sister's bride price. Nairaland indeed is not a good place to seek meaningful solutions to challenges anymore.

Mynd44:
It is her wedding and her choice. I know you might feel a bit skirmish about it but it is still her choice.

And how is this an "Igbo tradition" to marry at home? I think the tradition is the marriage itself, the travelling home for it is the culture (I stand corrected). Anywhere you live and you are welcome is where your home lies.

If your worry is about who attends, invite those people over.

But still talk to her and try to find a middle point, make compromise which might include, an introduction in the village before the wedding while it might not be the actual event but she and her husband visits to meet everyone. This can also be agreed on after the wedding.

I have Igbo friends whose traditional marriage was done in Lagos because they felt the logistics was off. Some felt their friends, bosses, mentors, colleagues who they feel are more impactful in their lives than some of the family members they have not seen or even met might not be able to share in their special day especially if the "elders" who will attend even in the village are few and can be convince to travel to the city if they insist.

Anyways, let us know how this goes and remember, it is her wedding and while you want what is best overall, she is an adult and able to make her decisions. Make compromise and listen too her arguments well.

Only an irresponsible man will agree to pay bride price outside the wifet-to-be's birthplace. If he's from a responsible home, his family will forbid such. Stop turning things upside down. It's not right. I do know some people do it.

Bkayyy:
This is old. It happened three days ago.
It is the demolition of 23 road market after Ndigbo bought up all the complex.
Reason why the OP is happy.
Afonjas and wickedness plus Envy.
Tụfịakwa.
They hate to see an Igbo man shine and do what God sent them to do in this world i.e Dominate

...so, Igbos ka kpochiri nti na azu property agharaghara ebe a
Ngwanu, ha continue

Be like they already know Nigerians are keypad warriors

nairaman66:
This guy shouldn’t tarnish the legacy Fela left behind. If the Igbo he smoked is strong, let him head to the lagoon!

...tell me more

millionboi2:
APC failed

Lailai! They have met all their campaign promises

FarahAideed:
I thought the police said claims if kidnap untrue so why vacate schools?

I wonder ooo

MJBOLT:

your peace of mind is far more valuable than any bride price,never forgive or take back a hoe because hoes will be hoes.if you can afford it,do a DNA test on your child.

Seems he can take it

Jazzafizzy:
Igala Woman doing this ?

No. They are 100% perfect

GeneralKoko:
Just imagine
Trying to find your bearing after school
What were you doing when you were a student
That's the problem I have with most Nigerians .
When una dae school you won't start setting your compass and look for your footing in life you'd wait to graduate first. Nawa!!!!

Shut up

GodWrites:
I would have suspected that maybe, he's been molested by the priest, but since this fellow has always been a failure all his life, then it's probably because he wants more freedom, perhaps to be more useless.

The fact is that your brother is dull; he probably needs an environment where he will have total freedom to do whatever he likes.

You can't live with a priest and behave as you like, as they are very strict with time and responsibility. I have stayed with two priests for a year without any odd experience

They are too kind, highly disciplined, and hardly make out time for fun.

As for those who are already sure that the priest is smashing his butt hole, I have nothing to say to you.

That you know a priest that did such doesn't mean all priests are gays or pedophiles. That someone rejected a pussy to become a priest doesn't mean he's gay. WTF!

It's a damn fallacy to judge an entire profession or group of people because of the action of a few. The same way foreigners see every Nigerian youth as a scammer, do you like it?

Now here you are, committing the same sin. It's time you guys pay priests more respect.

Peace!

... Don't mind them ooo
They forget if molesting him was the issue, he'd have said it to hasten his exit.
The lad will only make the op struggle x 2. Some human beings are the inconsiderate.

Asquare84:
My advice to you is to visit the ongoing shiloh in any living faith church, you will be marvel at your healing

luk at diswan
They say na 10 yr old tori your mod had a brainsport on, you dey talk Shiloh

lekki1444:
bros you have already failed before you started.. this man that they just stole his bike on the first day is who you are getting advice from in logistics business ? 419 kee you dia

Hey, godu

Mutemenot:
He that gave him bike should be questioned . With that dread alone, he's not worth working my compound not to talk of taking a job

Off the mic before dreadlocks advocates fly in
Me can never have anything to do with someone who grew dreadlocks

NewBeijing:
He must have a bad teeth. The blood is coming from an injured gum

... and that's enough to make him loose weight and hairs, wow. Just wow

How is she a 'wife'
While together, they were never married. I'm sure you are aware that union is over. He's made sure she never sees her kids. Why are you two-faced? FFK got entangled and was dropped immediately like a bad habit yet you don't see any wrong in him only to see in the ex-wife, a whole lot of shortcomings. You better move along

Lordsview:
Looking at the circumstances that surround the issue at hand,some of the people blaming you are more than guilty of the same offence,but the first thing to do is to seek for forgiveness from God,if you're sincere,the Lord will surely touch and humble the heart of your husband.
Secondly,either your sister keep mute or not,there is nothing kept in secret that will not be exposed,so,confess to your husband,if he has a pastor he respect so much, kindly plead with him to intercede on your behalf.The ground of whereby he had two issue while you were not with him is a loop hole that favours you.
Lastly,it is better to do so fast,so that your sister will not use your lapses to score points.Shalom.

lilyheaven:
Hian! How can you be afraid of abortion, and you were not afraid of adultery .
What about her father?
Two things is involved
Either you tell your husband the truth or you keep lying.
If bringing your sisters child will calm her down, tell your husband to apply for her, but bear in mind she will keep manipulating you.
If I were you, I would save my health by confessing, since it has gotten to this stage.

... don't mind her . In her mind, abortion is a sin while adultery isn't
Moomoo woman. Okwa Diick and loneliness don UnCloth you for public
Her Mum and sister worse pass her

StagethemTVee:
About a year ago or so, Ronke's car( A Sienna) broke down beside the church i attend and a member recognized her. I did not know her but i asked a couple of guys to help her out. Come and see how she snubbed them forming Nollywood Super Duper Star.

... you get time . One them wey be my Aunty never see me for over two years and na same Lagos we dey
Next time you see any one of them, make them feel invisible. I lived with her and I know how they think and feel about others

There's no Umulolo LGA in Imo State
Could be a community. They better document this greedy fellow properly

Nonsense

BaddieFreak:
I can't do that. I am talking about my mom here

Do the thugs thinggy to him. He's mad abi? Make he taste madness

JovialJune:
Are you sure you're ok upstairs

I am. Can't say that about you

BaddieFreak:
I will see to this. The only problem is that hope they won't ask for my mom's consent because if they do, my mom will deny that my step dad beats her. She has done that couple of times when I called the police in

... leave her to it. Could be her destiny to die by her lover's machinations. Allow her fulfill this destiny.

Upon the hiding na baby Yoda we come see

Righteousness89:
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This is one of the Most Unfortunate Death that any Male or Female could Experience.

Died while in the act of Immorality!
What Exactly will you tell GOD ?
How will you Face GOD?

Live this Privilege life with the Conciousness of Eternity.
Live a life that Pleases GOD..

Don't allow 5mins or 8 mins of so called Enjoyment to Destroy your Soul Forever..
Flee Immorality!
Flee Sin of anykind

Heaven is Real!!
Hell is Real!!

Eternity is Forever and Ever..

They that Have Ears to Hear! Let d m Heat!

Which death is fortunate

Theboy21:
Take your big old fat ass outta here, Burna Boy ain't dating you

seems it just dawned on her empty-head

TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

... and if this turns out yet another boy, she hounds you for another...