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ubunja:
i read that post earlier.
i never trust a woman in my life. pvssy doesnt become loose on its own. just as boobs dont become slippers on their own.
the woman has done something wrong. she claims she never cheated yet mentioned vibrators.!!! sex tòys open up the pvssy you're as good as cheating. she's dumb.

trust a woman at your own peril.

I am not referring to the cheating aspect, buh the aspect that demands the need for her man to understand what she is passing through....Trust humans at your own peril not just women.

Wonder2018:
This men though, shout out to all the married woman out there who know/ feel they are doing well in this school called marriage, but still getting an F by their examiner the hubby.
After 6years am still not getting it.
I used' to be the sex lover, who I loved intimacy with him from our dating ratings till recently, I won't deny the fact that I observed am loosing it gradually, easily put off, easily tired, not always in this mood, I just want to get in bed and sleep, (I sincerely never saw this day coming, knowing how sexually active j used to be) put whatever, I still make sure am available, i just don't really participate. But does this mean am cheating?
Hubby woke me around 4am and wanted us to get down, I was tired, i just started this new business (logistics) its taking a ton out of me in a different way, once am tired, nothing gets wet, everywhere is dry and tight. He wanted it from behind, usually I can deal without my vibrator, but I just wasnt in the mood, so I didn't use my vibe, I just took it in that way, it was painful and uncomfortable for me, but I wanted him satisfied, after we where done, he said to be its no more like before, are you cheating on me, and since then hubby has been Moody and all gloomy, I tried to hold a convo with him, but he just isn't interested, all he knows is once my private part doesn't feel the same, them am automatically cheating. I don't think that's fair, what happened to finding out what's wrong with this lady that it seems she is loosing what she used to have, what happened to seeing It from a positive angle.
Am not happy at all, I want to leave him to get over it, but them again I taught, its not the first time he is asking me if am cheating, claiming the place feels different, when it feels loose, he would say something is different. Okay here I am stating in 6years I haven't cheated, sexually or any way possible. So if my body changed, i dont know why it did, if my pussy hole feels larger, i dont know what changed, sometimes am tight sometimes am not, i don't want to be tagged what am not, or to suffer for what am not even close to doing, cause if he wants to make you suffer like he will do it so well, you wont know when you will start begging him to forgive you for what you didn't even do, so please sex therapist in the house come and look into this for us from a different angle other than cheating, hopefully he sees this and reads comments.
Body changes does not automatically mean she's cheating. Men!!! Stop doing it

Ubunja come over,, read and understand one of the very reasons I told you women are going through a lot and deserves to be understood/called to order other than attacked and condemned.

pcguru1:
Haba I'm not that highly insecure , I just have a natural preference for beards as I like them, the same way I would have wished to be dark in complexion. Yeah true it's good to look young , however especially in my case am always presumed to be way younger than my age and that manifests in the way people talk to me which sometimes can be annoying.

LOL @the emboldened....Yeah,, sometimes people look down on you,, but that reduced so well ever since I started working on my actions and packaging, coupled with my height and voice, I get to stay on top in any group with bearded men.

pcguru1:
Not inferior there's this manly feeling with beards.

That is what you are making yourself believe, maybe outta how you are being downgraded as being beardless or how you see bearded guys respected.....I'm not tryna talk you outta doing anything to grow beards buh I'm beardless, so I know how it feels to be this old without beards....To me, there is no greater feeling than looking "Forever young."

luminouz:
I sure do!! Especially if they are divorcees or their husbands dies early.....
The worst are d married ones whose husbands are either impotent or never at home...these ones will cling like a leech to you o

To everything there is an advantage and disadvantage....The advantages of hanging out with older ladies surpasses that of hanging out with younger girls[age 20-25]

ubunja:
i can only remember how the real you unfolded shamefully when you scammed peeps here of their hard earned moola. you are on point. it was shameful.

You have a problem

Cutehector:
Lmao this girl just played you... And you fell for it. Continue trying to Mr nice guy eh.. Chei. Some boiz are slow

Is everything abou play? You think there isn't any possibility that she is real?....Find or think up a solution to the girl's play rather than make the niggie look stupid....



Op,, you believe in God, you believe in love, believe that everything will be alright....If the girl is truthful, these are drastic moments that demands drastic measures,, if it's something spiritual, you will have to go spiritual to fight it...Pray hard while dragging her along, I would be happy if things turns out positive....All the best man.

If I could relate with my relationship,, beauty wasn't what attracted me to her,, though she appears fine...Now that I look at her as an ex, she really isn't beautiful and she isn't ugly either...I prefer this kinda attractiveness.

MrCork:
...u sound like a good man..dont worry..I will link u up with one of my babes. .Jessca048
She is stuborn though but still..she is 60% wifey material .she single and ready to mingle .

Laughs...I will pass broh...When I'm ready to mingle, I will find one myself.

Greatpoet:
The Industry is timing, there was a time twas all about 2face, Psquare, and Dbanj.... They were shutting down stadiums and killing all shows.... This is the era of Wiz, Davido, and Tekno.... Fans shouldn't be fussed, Psquare played their path.

And should still be playing their part....Those guys[p.square] still have much to offer,, their talent is still too fresh to be outdated.

MrCork:
...huh? ..Bro u not man....maybe u should do sexxxxx change! (No ofeense )

I and some few other guys don't get all cocked up when we see a stark naked lady except we are in for the ride.....Besides,, do you know a lady appears more attractive when half naked than when fully naked??

pcguru1:
As in, I can't grow beards ( genetics) I envy those who have

Don't tell me you feel inferior in the midst of your beardee peers.....Do you??

MrCork:
..hang on

So u saying if naaaKed woman stand in front of us. .u will look away..correct?

Yeah,, I will look away.

ubunja:
im proving her right. she asked to see my dark side. im showcasing it here on NL courtesy of her.

Is it necessary??....

ubunja:
women will always cheat.
men do change if they meet the girl they are willing to change for.

With this your post,, be like nancyv no lie for your signature o

greiboy:
Not sure of these allegations, but there's only one guy I know with probably more than 10 accounts on nairaland.

And apparently, he is here and alive on this thread


I personally don't give a fucck tho

Laughs....Why give a Bleep broh??..

I'm seriously suspecting "people" are seriously monitoring me,, suspecting my nick to be an alternate account of some popular person here.... I experienced such happenings on 2go,, buh my greatest surprise and worry is you are gonna find agbayas and mamas behind the childish acts.

hkidola00:
OK a thread was created about guys checking there girlfriend's text, and actually, lots of guys actually supported this NOC1 guy's comment below, saying she's just your girlfriend,not yet your wife b'cos uve not wedded her or some sort, it actually gained many likes (surprised).
OK,so u plan to marry a girl, u both agreed, so just because ur not married yet means she can start flirting,it mean she can hoop from one dicckkksss to another, God help you she contracts a disease then she passes it to you before or after the marriage.
Point is if a girl is your girlfriend, and you both plan to marry later, you have absolute right to check her texts and calls once in a while, .... what if she starts flirting and those fucckkkboys Won't Leave her after she's wedded to u, you allowed that from beginning....a lot of marriage failed this days because the man didn't follow up with the girl enough, thereby unable to know much about what she's capable of..
I hope I've made a little sense?

You don't plan for marriage with a girl without being mentally prepared..You should know the girl you are planning to marry should know how to push away pressures from other guys,, checking her phone for trust issues reason is plain childishness...I for one can't date and engage a girl I can't trust.

Nigerian ladies again??....

LordKO:
Generalization is an offense punishable by law somewhere, so desist from it. Lol.

Laughs.....Did I generalize??....Am so sorry I did,,I actually meant "most girls"

LordKO:
As far as I'm concerned, the most important thing is for one who has achieved self-realization to marry another that has equally achieved self -realization, so long as they're ethically and fancifully compatible.

Yeah....But the fact remains that our mothers were taught to be decent and family values,, fastforward to this present generation,, everything including the decency morals is jumping out the window....My point is,, the girls of this day don't know the value of being "A WOMAN" until they clock 28 and above,, that is when they must have explored all their options as a girl and mature....Older ladies are the best to me in this generation of ours.

samyfreshsmooth:
yes you definitely are!!

and the weed you smoked must be from 2089

She has a point broh.

BossLaifay:
E dey shock me o

Very tiresome something.