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XhosaNostra:
I'm glad someone else gets it. Others seem focused on playing the little violin for her, instead of focusing on the bigger picture. Because the moment she pops out that baby, the rules will change & it's up to her to play it smart by not letting her emotions get the best of her. He could use that to his advantage in the court system, where emotions count for fuckall.

Opiletool:
Let me tell you something, I also find it difficult to filter my words. As a matter of fact, most people know me for being so direct, regardless of the recipient's emotional state. But, there is a thin line between being firm and being insensitive. I got to realise that and started analysing the emotional state of a situation before giving my thought. Not because I don't want to be harsh, but because of the likely outcome which might be devastating for the victim.

The advice you gave is not far from the truth, it is infact the outright reality. However, the way you gave it, is a bit too harsh for someone in such a delicate position. Just imagine every comment on this thread is like that, who knows if the op is suicidal? Considering the fact that people now find it easy to take their own lives. Please, look at the emotional state of a subject before dishing out your opinion, hence, the harshness might erode the reality you're trying to portray.

CiciReally:
@XhosaNostra Pls dear read carefully before judging or calling me bitter and tagging me dramatic, coming from a fellow woman, is it okey that he got me in this situation then backed out? To come back wen the storm is over, what sort of man or father is he? What will it cost him to stand by me till is time to confirm his doubt, I hav no issue if he doesn’t even pay the bills but that support mean the world, am new to this no friends or family around but him.

XhosaNostra:
If the baby is his, then you have no right to keep him out of his child's life. That is wrong. Your issues are with him. Don't involve the child in your bitterness as this may lead to your downfall. What if he chooses to fight you through the court system for full custody? Is that something you're up for? Is it even worth it? Swallow your pride & let the man be part of his child's life without your baby mama drama. It's not about you!

lefulefu:
lol its mostly ladies wey no dey attractive na dem dey form pass. I dey try imagine wich sort of guys go send op dhier nudes after seeing dat her dp

DanDeeBoss:
This is one of the things I hate with some guys on this forum.... Na to dey disgrace other guys for this forum be their own

EazyMoh:
The fact that you know Skales, you know the song and even it's lyrics means you are a fan. That's all that matters.

kay29000:
I laugh when Nigerian ladies shout Feminism up and down. Their own version of feminism is only going with the things that favor them. Like this girl said, why don't you employ a female security guard in your house and see how things turn out. Or why don't the feminists start fighting for more women to be employed in the Nigerian army to go and fight Boko Haram.

I am not trying to say that men are better than women, but there are areas men perform better, and there are also areas women perform better. These are facts. We compliment each other. Let each gender know their role and perform it judiciously, without complicating things.

HajimeSaito:
Wow. Someone just woke up and began spitting out randomly generated stupidity from her under-developed and over-worked mental resources.

Spoken like a true, idiotic mooslim who has been brain washed into accepting inferiority.

If women are not equal to men, then if you are a female university graduate who is under employment, you don't deserve to earn the same salary as a male university student with similar qualifications.

This idiot is using the biological differences between men and women as an excuse to deny the fact that in the eyes of God and in the eyes of the law, men and women are generally treated the same way.

What a dimwit.

Ceede:
....sorry try retail method next time, ewu.

AntiBrutus:
Last last, we are all recycling ourselves.

czarina:
Add another 5k to her account.

stanliwise:
on point bro.
Why would anyone wait in a relationship until the extent it gets above their neck. Then they start unleashing unnecessary anger when they should have walked away silently.

Most of the men are just oppressors and believe me they know who to show their power on, if their wife is a black belt fighter I pray fear let dem shake body.

NUJABEZ:
I think I am a gentle and quiet guy but OPs patience is amazing.

There are some times when one must muster the courage to use force.

stanliwise:
I dey laugh you. One of my guy girlfriend be like dis o. any small thing she don throw things up and down until one day the guy provoke beat this babe wella, I was surprised at him sha.
As if that was the end, the next day I heard my guy has ran away from the house o on hearing that the girl has organised a seven man team to beat this guy to pulp. No be small thing before my guy fit come out safe o.
Sometime just walk away o, no be everything be gragra o .fight should be the last resort when you have nothing to loose.

LuciferHeaven:
Stop interacting with feminists dem no go hear.

Feminists are usually aggressive due to a lack of preeq and attention that drives them mad. They will do anything for preeq & attention. How many times have I screamed it on this godforsaken forum?
Any little thing leads to violence. They can't stand the fact that men don't want them.


I'm waiting for Nairaland resident feminists - pocohantas, preshy561, funmisticqueen, uyaincomparabl, saffi - & all the other menopaused evening newspapers on Nairaland to react to this act of aggression from one of their noble colleagues.

Another thing about feminists be say dem sabi look face before dem display. pocohantas' scarcity on Nairaland frontpages for the past 12 months is not unrelated to the chill that runs down her spine whenever she sees my moniker.

Cowards.



*spits

lefulefu:
Even just looking at the girl's pix u would guess this one is a violent drug user. Na were u for see her? Abi na igbo joint? Anyway thank God for ur life say no be ur throat she slit or ur blokos she cut comot. If she still insist on coming back threaten her with police.at least u stil leave with head intact.

tosyne2much:
People should learn to steer clear abusive relationship because it gives you less worry and makes you live longer

Today makes it a week that a lady stabbed her fiance here during the heat of an argument. This lady stabbed this dude to the extent that both private and government hospitals rejected him. She even broke the mirror and threw out the furniture and electronic appliances.

There are many devilish women out there parading as angels of light, especially those violent ones. The moment you notice any trait of rebellion or arrogance in a lady, the best thing to do is walk away and don't let your emotions control you.

Toxic and rebellious women don't change. They only assure you they've changed but will come back with a stronger force.

This will serve as a lesson to all those in toxic relationships and I hope Lalasticlala can push this thread to the FP for a wider audience

Splinz:


Lefulefu coman take your thing mbok. Or shulai send it to you?

jahchild34:
My fellow guys what say you?

Davash222:
I see myself in 2024.

justiniyke29:
Perhaps the plague was extreme, but she now act shy and uncomfortable around me.

justiniyke29:
Nope i am not,we broke up after I caught her cheating with her so called bestie

justiniyke29:
OK, there is this girl where I work she is an I.T student, since January this year this chick has always being a little too close to me, every time I look up she is mostly staring at me and smiling. Well I didn't pay much attention to that as I was in a relationship then. Well since last month we became very close, though I never made any sexual advance towards her.

Simplecity:
its like his own has lost freshness na why he dey mistreat am anyhow

princetemitee:
I just use to laugh.... when i see a guy or man in a situation like this

princetemitee:
what a technique punishment

Charlesdonald:
yap but a lot of people a kind try to set up a standard that should be general which is not supposed to be so. Marriage should be all about love and not age