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criuze:
Seems meeting babe determines where and how you generally steers you life

Lol, nigga relax

criuze:
Because you meet babe and you noticed your English speaking curve retrogressed


This boy repent

Should it retrogress because I met babe?

Pussyisgud:
Keep playing, u better chase money and leave English, English cannot reduce the price of rice or beans in the market.
Who English and school help kwanu?

Until you're in an official setting with your fellow learned mates you will know better.

I used to be very fluent in speaking English. Like my flows was so impressive that during my secondary school days I always represent anything that has to do with speaking English and so on.

I made the decision to become a businessman even before going to the university, that even while at the university I was a full blooded businessperson.

I am done with university for 2 years now and I have been fully into my local businesses, haven't bothered going for NYSC sef. Supervising my businesses here and there and dealing with mainly the locals who speak only our local language everyday of the week except on Sundays that I go to church and cool off.

The few times I speak English now, maybe when I go to the bank or the initial time I meet a new babe, I notice my flows have reduced drastically that I have even started watching movies in order to improve myself.

Who else is facing this?

I used to be very fluent in speaking English. Like my flows was so impressive that during my secondary school days I always represent anything that has to do with speaking English and so on.

I made the decision to become a businessman even before going to the university, that even while at the university I was a full blooded businessperson.

I am done with university for 2 years now and I have been fully into my local businesses, haven't bothered going for NYSC sef. Supervising my businesses here and there and dealing with mainly the locals who speak only our local language everyday of the week except on Sundays that I go to church and cool off.

The few times I speak English now, maybe when I go to the bank or the initial time I meet a new babe, I notice my flows have reduced drastically that I have even started watching movies in order to improve myself.

Who else is facing this?

Pussyisgud:
Ladies these days dress finish and open chest, some drag their skirt up to the laps, some bom shorts, some big shirt and thight, bra is now an abomination.
Alot of Simps are going down because of this, tinubulation is biting but whores are biting your bank account harder. never me because im protected by the holy ghost.
These whorees are not smiling at all and their target is the next available simp.

If you're really protected as you said you wouldn't even notice they exist. Is just a matter of time you will fall into what you accused simps of

If the dick too sweet she will return for another match for free

Where are you now that people younger than you in Nigeria are becoming multi millionaires legitimately?

Marpatsyl:
I decided to engage Meta AI and it's been fun

Who else have tried engaging Meta AI in personal matters?

It's really fun. I do it a lot.

Mickolad:
This is more reason I stop giving advice to those in love. I bet 70% that this simping ops will still accept his wife back.
Rule 1. Never marry a girl because pregnancy pressure is always a distaster(who no goes no go know).
Rule 2. Never marry a lady out of pity.
Rule 3. Always make sure your woman love you more than you did.
Rule 4. As a man always put yourself first. (e get why)

You wouldn't be so sure your woman loves you more than you did for her man. Until my breakup with my ex, I always thought she loved me to pieces. But breakup cleared my eyes waaa. Women can fake for 3 years

Is obvious now that having exes is never a good sign.

Is scary at this point the sort of stories we keep hearing about the damages exes are doing to marriages and relationships.

With all of these revelations, I see why is just the best decision to settle for a virgin girl.

When all the girls are virgins it means majority of boys will also learn to be virgins too.

So sorry about this man. Chest it up and move on. I'd recommend you connect more with your loved ones at this trying time.

Op, life happens.

When a woman says she's done and you go begging her, you end up killing your self respect because she'd never respect you as before even if she accepts coming back.

Outside fidelity, mutual respect is what makes a healthy relationship strive, and if yours lacks this mutual respect it will just be too unpleasant.

Accept the bitter pill that life has happened to your relationship because change is what I myself have realised we should always brace up for in life.

Dexy4yah:
Your husband is doing ok financially and doesn't cheat on you. He takes care of you and the kids but yet you are still giving him attitude for no reason.

Some women get problem aswear.


She is one of those women that worship their pastors but at home they disrespect their husbands.
Please don't joke with your peace of mind...if she's tired of the marriage...show her the exit door.
This life is too short for someone to be taking away your peace of mind.

There's always two sides to a story. The woman might not be this extreme in her bad behaviours but when she pulled off these ones it got stucked in the man's memory and that's all his head gives him about his wife. For me is impossible for a woman to become this extreme in behaviour if the husband is a saint or if she's not seeing another guy against what the husband thinks. They need proper counselling and I strongly feel the husband is already 90% ready to go the cheating Lane and is only a matter of time. Sadly the marriage is too shaky and looks to inevitably crash.

joyousever:
Mr. Poster, clean your tears and dust your feet off that relationship! That relationship is dead, that's the reality! You can't flog a dead horse remember? And you can't force a camel to drink water.

You made a mistake by sending your whole clan to beg her! You come off as being desperate without options! I'm a lady and we view men who over beg us for a come back as sissies. You're a man, act like one! It's ok to love, but tag your senses along while loving.

Last point, have it in mind that your life isn't tied to anyone! And always put yourself first in all you do. Just move on! She has since moved on. And never ever make the mistake of ever begging her again. I know it hurts having dated her for so long and being loyal. But hey! What will be will always be. Face your reality and deal with it. Start by deleting her number and every trace of her in your life. Cry if you can, it's a healing mechanism, you know. Then forgive yourself for ever being with her and then get set to have a fresh start.

Wishing you well.
Cheers.

I have also struggled forgetting my ex and have done even funnier things to have her back. But she's with a 31 yo guy now who I guess is ready for marriage. She's insulted the hell out of me for seeking reconciliation. Now I have decided to move on at last. Tho I sheepishly call her a times because I have her number in my head.

SHIVA001:
You Dey Over Think.... Go hustle sad.. No dey Nack Anyhow . Give your self some respect as a man.

you again

Having sex with a girl with condom on her monthly flows, could it be considered as a blood covenant between the both of you?

Can having sex with a girl with condom on her monthly flows be considered a blood covenant between the both of you?

Be like Igbo prick do you something this night

Foodqueen:
Move on, she is one of those that are destined to tell a tale of throwing a good relationship away.

This!!!

Caspry5:
7 years. I think this relationship has been through the university and nysc stage with one or two years of ASUU strike .
I don't really advice women doing long term relationships. It's never in their favour if it goes south. She should move on with her life. You are not ready to do the needful. You should get a new banny. You have nothing to lose too

What do you mean he has nothing to lose? Do you think investing 7 yrs of his life to a girl is a joke?
And lastly, he might clocked the right age to settle down now.

finallybusy:
Somebody should teach me how to do long relationships. After I chook prick once, love don reduce. By the fifth encounter, I need a new face to warm my bed.

Na spiritual wife dey worry you.

Lonestar124:
Maybe man pikin don spend tire on top of the girl, you do not see where he wrote he nurture her right from university..the op never tell us wetin dey pain am most in this issue

Omo, I can relate

Bro I think the greatest indicator of any love being over is when the lady now disrespects the partner at will. If I will be honest with you I will advice you be the one to end the relationship yourself before she ends it for you. Don't go back begging her after. I know you will be severely hurt but time heals all wounds and you will be fine afterwards. Try and convince yourself she's just not meant for you.

Offpointng:
He should forgive her. imagine one year in service without flying down to greasing her hole weekly. how u want make she cope??

Left to me she's still a lady with a conscience

Lol, except you're an anyhow man.

Yes.

From my personal experience from a girl that loved me to a fault. She had endured me hurting her emotionally for long and after I as usual thought I can play with the word "is over" to get her remorseful, I didn't know it would be the end of what we've shared for more than 3 years.

I came back pleading with her to forgive me and she opened up to me about hurting her so much with my words and that she can't take it anymore. She entered a new relationship a month later and the rest has been history. I am the one feeling the whole pains now.

So for your question, I think a girl rarely forgive when their mind is made up. If you like be the man of her dreams.

I lost my dream partner to their unforgiving nature.

Also, if you have a girlfriend, whom probably you've been having it with. This is time to tell her that you both need space. That is not a breakup, but you need absolute space from her. Be determined to stop and you will.

Sirkingsnado:
Thanks brother I will surely give it a try

Cause am tired of this sex


I come to my sense after I realsed

That's the sad reality. After hitting climax you begin asking yourself questions. But don't overwork yourself. Try to become very busy always or always stay with people.

The idea of exes remaining in active communications even while in their respective new relationships is the biggest of red flags that even both of them still in active communication shouldn't overlook.

Imagine an ex not being loyal enough to his/her new relationship, and is looking to talk past memories with their ex that might lead to cheating their new partners in the process.

If you think about this, even after cheating on their new partners with you and somehow you get back with your ex, you will likely lack trust for them. Because they will likely do the same thing to you if you guys are back together with their new relationship partners they left because of reconnecting with you.

I'm very fine with an ex remaining totally an ex forever if they ever got into a new relationship after a breakup.

Never make up with an ex that have moved on with a new partner.

Try and reconcile with your family first first. I mean no matter how much you love your wife, blood is always thicker than any bond whatsoever. So make peace with your family right away.

Secondly, fix an umunna meeting and reveal your ordeal to them and plead with them to join you and visit your wife people.

Fix a visiting with your wife's family and village people and report your matter to them and seek their input to the matter.

No matter how much her family might have dodged, a meeting with a village umunna is never a joke.

Nicepoker:
As expected. Was only trying to be modest never knew it was that bad

I swear 😂

Nicepoker:
You went inside the banking hall to make noise about a failed transaction of #1,800 the next thing on your mind is to run after a girl .

Yes, went to complain about 500 naira 🤣

Reminderz:
his subsequent posts shows that he's a pvssy worshipper, this is why women keep taking him as trash.. no self-respect, no dignity... his life revolves around women, chasing women up and down because one left him, shows he's still a kid and someone whom they are still feeding... he's even a disgrace to other simps I've come across...no wonder his ex dump his stupid ass...no sense of purpose or direction...

😂😂😂 chai, Nairaland eh