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searchng4love:
I sing it in my partner's ears erryday ama polygamist....biblical polygamist.... quit if you dunno like it

I guess that's why you're still searching4live.
Just thinking aloud.

What if her son's wife kill him too for cheating will she be happy to lose a child Wickedness in high places.

Wicked people. They've got no chill.
Op, well done!

phineboy1pimple:
Bro!!! The simple advise I'll give you is this.... know that ANY RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT TRUST OR BUILT ON DECEPTION will never last and Can't stand the Test of Time.....


Regardless of her Status.... The Fact that she kept it a Secret from you the Moment things got serious is a debilitating and Irrational move by her....

YOU CAN NEVER WHOLLY TRUST HER again...

Gbam!

SUPOL:
ok, ur Gud in teaching

Thanks.

ceaser:
He can still give head with minimal chances of getting infected so far he does not have mouth sores when carrying that out and most especially if the lady has veeeery low viral load.

However that is not to say he is free to do that everytime. You never say never in some things.

Ewwwwwww.

SUPOL:
hmmm, very nice. Do u teach french?

Nope.

afroditte:
I agree she wasnt right in her management of the situation but atleast they were protected. That should show she wasn't totally heartless.

You can see for yourself the level of stigma attached to this thing. It can warp the carrier's mind and make them scared of revealing it because they know for sure that they would lose the partner.

Now the OP has said it, that he wants her for a wife but the HIV is the problem. If he were my brother, I would just ask him to think about it deeply, weigh the pros and cons. Whatever he chooses I would support.

HIV is not a problem for me.

Well said. Since he has asked for our opinions, let him sieve through, pray and ours is to support his decision.

But no matter what his reactions would have been, she shouldn't have kept it away from him this long. What if the op doesn't like using protection, would she have opened up so he can see reason to?

SUPOL:
Auvour(dnt no wat am saying)

Au'revoir. It means good bye.

SUPOL:
mercy( no b d football player o)

I understand. It's 'merci'

SUPOL:
Oh great, I can sleep now. Av learnt something new

Sure. Bonne nuit.

afroditte:
na una dey carry around and cause all the stigma attached to HIV carrying people.

They are people like you and me, they live longer than even healthy people. Ask Magic Johnson.

It can be managed, they go on to have families. Pls educate yourself. HIV is not a death sentence.

Yes, it is not a death sentence and we should not stigmatize. But do they tell them to inflict others without revealing their status? What makes her think the guy wouldn't marry her even with her status? Why the deception? If my eyes are not deceiving me, I think op said they had protected sex once.
I don't think anyone will crucify the lady in question. I'm not but I do not support her deceitful actions. It's very expensive. And is this what you call love.? What advice would you give your brother if he were in op's shoes

SUPOL:
Lolz, imagine d konkonbility(in olamides voice)


Bur swiddy, wetin be "ferme ta boucha"?
Are u from Sierra leon?

Nah. That's French meaning shut your mouth.

SUPOL:
Lolz, imagine d konkonbility(in olamides voice)

as in... Someone can't air his or her opinion without insults.

SUPOL:
My guy is playing table tennis with HIV. E be like say dat disease no get power again. E no dey kill again?

It has become malaria. If the girl truly loves him, she should have told him from the beginning. If he wants you, he will stay irrespective of ur status. Deception is evil.
And one perilous perryy is quoting me. All these small boys on Nl sef.

perryy:
What are u even saying? Do you know your status? I know girls like you have unprotected sex every time. Mtcheeeeew.

Ferme ta bouche there. Are you the op? Did I quote you? I am entitled to my opinion.
Go and ask Ifa for my status. Oderinde

EfemenaXY:
@op. Harsh as it may sound, do your sanity a favour by taking a walk away from that relationship and don't look back.

She's given you the option to go, you've had a chat with the medical practitioners and yet you aren't fully convinced. Why? Because deep down within you, you know it's the right thing for you to do.

Save both yourselves further grief and just end it. You'll get over her with time. Meanwhile, there are other girls out there to pick a wife from.

Imagine? The relationship was even built on DECEIT. And op is asking for advice when reality is staring you at the face. You even had protected sex just once. That girl can kill. Just walk away and never look back. In three months time, go for another test and if the test is negative, go do thanksgiving.

stephniemoore:
Thanks for your response.based on what u have said, I will advise her to go.she has Bsc qualification and over 6 years teaching experience abroad.I wish you have given me a range so she will know what to say when the issue of salary expectation comes up.she don't have idea of salary scale in Nigeria schools.please do give me an idea of salary range.will appreciate it so much

Six figures.

stephniemoore:
Thanks but pls do u have idea of their salary range cos she needs to know.

It depends on her qualification and experience.
If you know that school, you will advise her to be on way there. The salary is great.

stephniemoore:
Pls who knows about famaks international schools abuja and what their pay is like.my little sister wants to know if its worth moving from owerri to abuja.

It is worth moving.

tbanty1:
long time vick. Please i need your assistance, i dont
kn if we can av an understandable chats through email

Please send me a pm, so we can chat. Thanks.

kilonso001:
was recently in ur shoes. I didnt tell anyone that i wont be coming to the office the next day. On the interview day, i called and told them i was caught by BRT officials for driving on he BRT lane. Come see as they swallow the bait. everyone was calling me to sympatise with me. meanwhile I was at the venue of the interview all through. try this trick. it will work

What if he isn't mobile?

Op, I will advise you stick to your job. What if the job you're pursuing, they begin to delay salaries or retrench their staff? Don't think of the present. Relax.

Sunnypar:
Avicky and Engrcharlesid.... Una dey sleep at all.

U see me for dream

swaggprofessor:
Thanks to ya'll I am closer to getting a job. I can't say the name of the group I am being hire to cos the last time I did I got banned for a week but for those who went to uniben you know what I am talking about.thanks to sunnypar, avicky and all those who have been trying their best to post vacancies here may God bless ya though I haven't gotten the job here I just I it's wise to say thank u.

Congratulations bro. God will bring ur expectations to pass.

adadioranmah:
Yes it does. ..

Thanks so much. How do you subscribe? Is there any shop you go to or you do it online?

adadioranmah:
Please could you list out areas with Gotv coverage in Nigeria? I am currently in Minna and I am wondering if it works there.

Does it work there?

Sunnypar:
them done ban Avicky! Sentenced to e-prison.

It is you that will be sentenced to e-prison. I'm not that jobless.

Sunnypar:
Cc: Avicky
VickyHills
Blessedtwins

The issue has been resolved.

Redomi:
Hello, here is the Feedback you all have been waiting for.
I left Ògùn Waterside where I formally work on march 31st.
Immediately I get back to my home city (Ondo city) I started submitting CV to schools in Ondo, including government own schools, since many of them lack teachers and Ondo state govt have not employed teachers since 2008,l. I submitted my CV there probably they may need teachers.
I even went to a govt secondary school to ask if they will needs PTA teachers, I met an Hause man there, he told me he is the vice principal of the school, the man told me they have more than enough teachers, though I argue with him on that and it almost lead to something else.
Two weeks after, I went to another govt school very close to my house, about two minutes foot work.
I met their vice principal, and I told him if I could be allowed to teach, I told him I don't care about renumeration, the man was very happy, and he promise to call me back.
Yesterday night I was online on Facebook, I met my old boss, I formally work with him as an operational manager in his company.
The man saw me online, he greeted me and I answered him, he ask about work, I told him I have resigned. He later started begging me to come back to, he promised to make me the general manager of his head office in Akure.
More to come........

Congratulations dear! The sky is your starting point.
You can see it pays to leave one's comfort zone. May God perfect all that concerneth you.
Cheers!

Btw, it's 'formerly' not formally.

2Str8:
Hope this feedback is a joke

And what if it is not?
Can you and your accomplice let this dude be

lanicky:
I think this should be thrown open to Seun. It saddens my heart when men bully women to the point of calling her dirty names because she disagrees with them. I think the owner of this forum should ban monikers that use these names and provocative words to bully women.

Yimu. And what if it persists? Aren't you aware that some individuals have more than 3 monikers to perpetrate all sorts of malicious things? So what then happens?