₦airaland Forum

vikono:
If u're in luv with a girl on social media, be bold to tell her that u luv her and not waiting for her to upload her pix and u start commenting "WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW"
Are you ambulance?

hmm mm social media social maddness, a space where every thing is possible

Chysexy:
Wonders they said shall never end A marriage counselor has explained why married men need to have a ‘girlfriend’. According to Frank Adofoli a marriage counselor from Ghana, all couples who intend to make their marriage work need to make sure the man of the house has a girlfriend. Adofoli is not
necessarily encouraging cheating in marriage, instead he gave an insight into why you need to rediscover the ‘boo, bae’ you married and why you turned her from girlfriend to wife. Counselor Frank Adofoli “Yes, every husband needs a girlfriend, not another woman but the girl part of the wife he once fell in love with. You may buy a new lock made of steel, with its keys.

The key doesn’t spoil the lock nor vice versa but over the years, the environment and factors such as dirt, rain, change in weather, etc may cause the lock to rust. So it’s important to oil and maintain it. A similar fate occurs in our relationships. You get married to that young, fun, adventurous girlfriend. As time goes on, most ladies assume that once they earn the title of a wife, no more work is required. It even gets worse when she starts bearing children.

That thought is a lie, Marriage is work dear. You will need to work on your marriage. Remember the things he first fell in love with, things about you that captured his heart and attracted him like a magnet; what did this man see in you? Are you still doing those things, how is the fun in the marriage? What is he complaining about? Do you see him chatting with other ladies, trying to look elsewhere? It’s time to work on yourself.

Your husband is wrong to look elsewhere, and you have the power to keep him home. Exercise regularly, lose the excess weight and eat healthy. Inside beauty is not enough, external beauty is important, maintain what God gave you. Don’t let marriage makes you look older than your age. Dirt and uncleanliness is a common killer of intimacy in marriage. Some wives are too lazy to keep their surroundings organized and clean.

The presence of children in your marriage should not kill your romance or intimacy. Remember how many times you bath a day when you were going on a date? how fresh and clean you looked? If you can keep your home and yourself like that, you will bring back the intimacy. When was the last time you sent that cute sms? When was the last time you had that candle light dinner? When was last time you appreciated your partner’s efforts?

How is your sex life? Most couples crave for sex when dating but turn their bedroom into courtroom when married, it’s time to go back! Don’t let your actions part God’s union as Matthew 19:6 (ESV) cautions “So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.I will stop here until i see comments then i will post the rest but if you can't wait follow here to read the rest” http://levelhealth..com.ng/2016/07/every-mrried-man-should-have-girlfriend.html

All he is trying to say is marriage a continuous work to getting a happy home,not forgetting to spice up ur marriage doing all d fun things that got u attracted to him\her( also a continuous check in our hygiene,character,personal relationship e.t.c)

rapcy:
Two days ago, a young man who goes by the name Aminu G Idris claimed that a Chinese Supermarket in Abuja denied Nigerians entry. Today Mohammad Jamu took it upon himself to investigate the case. Here is what he has to say with photos:


"Today I became a journalist!! how I saw the news trending about a certain Chinese Shop at Gwarinpa that refuses Nigerians access posted by Aminu G Idris and copied by Aishat Aishat Alubankudi immediately an investigative spirit took over me,
as I approach Gwarinpa I was filled with excitement of seeing a shop in Nigeria that denies Nigerians entry, at the gate I saw a writing that clearly took me aback and instantly quenched my anger, it was an advice to costumers from the shop owners after being attacked by armed robbers a couple of days ago and they were merely taking precautions so they advise only an individual at a time not group of persons out of fear and tremor of what they experienced in the past, poor them being foreigners in another mans land. They were friendly on entering the shop and to my surprise other Nigerians were trickling to see for themselves too. My advise to those celebrating the story please verify contents before posting to the social media your action alone can destroy someone's Business in Islam we call it (Shaidar Zuhr ) Bearing false witness and Allah has prescribed severe punishment for those who thrive in it"

This news is new on nairaland but not on all social media,seen it on fb a day or 2 b4 seeing it here,it cud b tru since d guy in question who went was black it cud b dat as at d time they were robbed dey got scared of d black folks n decided dey didn't want to let us in since it was d same colour dat robbed dem.it cud also b they too saw on social media writings abt their shop n decided 2 write in details wat happened wit a post on their gate. It cud also b dat d guy went there to get some tin some min\ hours after d robbers had gone n so dey made that tasteless decision. If not for these n more reasons I wander y d guy neva bothered to look ard 4 d notice,he cud hv been hurt by d way dey treated him n decided to publish d story or he was just simply looking 4 attention(wat wud b his gain). Wat ever d colour we love dem all.

[quote author=Abprettyneat post=46552884]I'm a black American female and 2 months ago I met a older good looking Nigerian guy who claim to be so into me. I felt the chemistry myself even tho I didn't want to bcuz he is married. I'm separated from my husband as well so after talking to him I found out he and his wife didn't live together but traveled to America together. We spent a little time together going out on two dates that ended with us kissing and staring at each other. I'm not ready for sex and he agreed that we wouldn't. He texts me and we video chat daily but something in me just don't feel comfortable I feel like I don't know him he works a lot but he finds time to text me but I feel like it's something up. I stopped talking to him for 3 weeks but I can't stop thinking about him so I started back texting him he told me he loves me and I feel like I love him too but I realized I'm not happy with our telephone arrangement I feel like a outsider to him he asks about my day sometimes and wants me to tell him my problems but I'm not like that but being like that leaves me neglected. Is he playing with my emotions? He doesn't text me in the morning or goodnight so I feel like I'm just a afterthought. I'm interested in astrology and bcuz he is a capricorn it's in nature to be like this and bcuz I'm a scorpio it's driving me crazy a Lil bit it's exhausting but I try to go on about my day and just know he will get in touch with me when he has time but I feel so disconnected from him. Should I break it off? Is he showing me he doesn't value our relationship? [/quot]

that feeling u hv shud be take'n seriously n I think u shud give d relationship time to unfold,some married men r perfect liars. 2 things r involved here is either his is truly busy wit work or his busy trying 2make d marriage work(or 4 d benefit of d doubt he is busy wit d divorce process). Tread wit caution.

Blackberrybabes:
I am not a regular Church goer. Infact it's been more than a year since I stepped into any church. But one thing I don't joke of is my tithe. I pay that regularly and do that randomly to churches around me.

And when it comes to giving offerings, I am one of the most generous young guy you can meet. I give alms bountifully and pay some young people's school fees.

Now my question is. Are my tithes and offering acceptable to God since I don't worship in any Church.

God is a spiritual being we don't see but must worship in spirit n truth however 1 of d reason we go to church is to get serviced and boost our faith in God(cos there is a possiblity to stop believeing in him wen d trials of life hits u)my advice if u can't go always,try going once in a while.As 4 d issue of paying tithes do wat u believe in n wat works 4 u, however I must commend ur giving grace n d way u show compassion even without being constantly nagged to do so,u prove2 God u can love him by loving ur brothers who u see 1john 4:20,u give n do gud without being told 2 do so unlike many christians dat hv 2 wait for d pastors to beg dem 2 do so,even our churches these dayz only kn how to collect n not give bk or how else wud a church dat is so rich even d world calls dem rich continue 2 preach abt giving 2 d church without talking abt helping ur brothers who r in need. My take until d church tirelessly preach abt helping ur brothers a slogan during or after service they r all bunch of money making ventures.(Even d white missionaries dat brought d church sponsored kids to skool n did so many tinz for their members while d black man church is just out to collect)

osabuohein:
We dated back in my University days and our relationship went on smoothly. I used to love this girl like crazy back in those days. But something led to another and we started having problems. Trouble began when she started hanging out with some group of girls at a particular hostel called green hostel and she went as far telling them about everything that goes on in our relationship. Those girls started filling her head with all sort of stories that weren't true about me and we started having issues. It got so bad to the extent that I cried and this girl made mockery of me publicly. She told me never to disturb her and even her mom told me to leave her daughter alone.
I noticed that 3days when I wanted to leave school after my finals she called me and apologized for everything that happened between us. I remember I ended the call. Even when I was doing my Nysc she still continued calling and also bombarding my Facebook account with messages. I had to change my Facebook account and my phone number. After my Nysc I left the country for The Netherlands for my postgraduate studies and fortunately I got a a job there. One day she sent me a request on Facebook. I didn't want to initially accept but I did not to look immature. Only for her to be telling me on how she missed me and how she was childish and naive back then. That she has realized that I'm the only guy whom has ever truly loved her and that she's sorry and that we should please come back. I gave her an instant NO. We stopped talking for sometime and recently when I came to Nigeria to check my housing project and do some things, I saw her again and I don't know who gave her my number. She told her how she dropped out of school to start a fresh and how things have been difficult. I sympathized with her and told her to take heart. Now she's telling everyone that I'm her husband. I approached and she said her pastor told her I was her man. I don't understand o.

u shouldn't worry abt her killing herself,she lost out already wat u shud b concerned abt is saving ur head,4rm ur story abt her she can go diabolic on u especially now she knows u r doing fine. Commit it in prayers,talk to any family member n tell dem ur stand(wit d whole story of wat had n is still happening),get d police involved tell dem u don't feel safe wit her ard ur space(a restraining order).u wud do ur whole clan an injustice if u ever consider getting bk wit her out of pressure

marvelck:
To most girls, girls make good friends, but guys are better?...The reasons why most girls prefer to have male friends than girls is very simple. To some girls, having female friends do come with a lot of issues. And apart from the usual bickering and jealousy that are common with most girls, female friends are more of friends with benefits to some. According to a lady, some girls usually get close or become friends with a girl just to live off her, use her things, borrow money from her, wear her clothes or even use her to get connected to men. There's always a reason for them wanting to be friends with one. And at the end of the day, most of them ain't even grateful or appreciative. And you may not even need an enemy when you have some girls as friends. Cos, by the time they show you their real color, you'd be gutted. That's why most girls prefer to have male friends than girls. And apart from enjoying a guy's company, girls also see guys as close confidants. One whom they can share their secrets or private matters with freely, compare to a girl. Cos, telling a girl your secrets sometimes, is like dancing naked in the market. But most guys are naturally known to very good at keeping secrets, been supportive, as well as being a close confidant. And this is one of the reasons why most girls like hanging out with guys than girls... Ngbo na true?

u r not far from d truth n also most girls feel like hanging out wit guyz more dan their fellow girls cos d guyz r gud spenders(especially if dey get a mugu whoz believeing in d friend zone name tag)

tosyne2much:

I totally agree wit ur points,d recharge card issue is somtin else,women don't understand dat somtimes u hv to hold ur own(do tinz urself n stop depending on a man 4 as little as a r.card) it brings respect from a man who knows a tru womans worth,but somtimes life is funny u avoid all dis n still get dumped\heartbroken.anyway to each his own

lamzybaby:
Tomato pastes manufacturers in the country yesterday told the House of Representatives Joint Committees on Healthcare Services and Drugs and Narcotics that over 91.1 percent of tomato pastes in the country were fake and substandard.

Some of the tomato pastes manufacturing companies that attended the public hearing were Dangote Farms, Erisco Foods Limited and Savanna Farms.

In his submission, the legal adviser of Erisco Foods, Abdulraham Kadri told the committee that the company, alongside Dangote Farms and Savanna Farms, were not at the public hearing because of the financial damage substandard and fake tomato pastes had caused the country.

More: http://nigerianpilot.com/tomato-pastes-in-nigeria-are-fake/

this is only a plot to discredit other products n create fear in d hearts of consumers.its not enough to say its fake,give us proves,but sometimes u can't help but blame d crafty n wicked minds of d average nigerian wit d way dey import all junks from abroad

bbulldog:
WHO IS A BIG GIRL.....

The fact that different guys pick you up every Friday night does not make you a big girl. The fact that you wear all latest clothes in the market, does not make you a big girl.

And for the fact that you use the latest phone, big phones, ipad, blackberry, android, Samsung Galaxy and different men pay money into your account does not make you a big girl.
For the fact that you have entered almost all the biggest hotels in the city with different guys, does not make you a big girl. It does not even make you smart!
You are only eating up your future.
The fact that you dress half naked and you wear clothes that expose your cleavages and definitely makes you look sexy does not make you a big girl. You are just too cheap.

THEN WHO IS A BIG GIRL ??.

A big girl is a girl with enough brain in her, not the one with more money.
The girl that think of consequences before actions. She is not the one who flirt with all men around her. She is the one who respects her relationship and marriage. She is never heard but seen. You know her by what she does, her behavior speaks a lot about her.
She is every man's queen, decently dressed....always decently good looking.
A big girl respects the value of womanhood..... She carries herself with more dignity...

Stop boasting about the number of men you have slept with my dear.. Remember, cheap articles always have more buyers..... Sleeping with all your male friends doesn't mean you are sexy. Build yourself into the woman people will always respect and admire, Don't follow men who will make a mess of your life.....but be humble, be Godly....be hard-working, respect your relationship or marriage, be ambitious but contented...be bold don't make men a priority in life.............
Men will seek after you when you build yourself into the woman men will always want to take home to their mothers.
Not the one they only want to take to hotels and clubs. TRUST ME, If you trap a man with your body, he will go one day. A lady without morals and dignity is like a phone without sim card.
Sorry, if i just stepped on a toe, Am only being sincere, just and blunt.

A big girl is one who lives life in d simplest way,one who is effortlessly fly n avoids d use of Unnecessary name tags as being called a BIG GIRL.

legalspices:
Hello fellow NLs, am at a cross road here....I have been dating this Igbo guy for over 5yrs now, am Yoruba tho but we both didn't see it as a barrier what matters to us is the love and connection between us.....he is well known by my family and accepted too but the problem is his parents...his brothers and sisters are indifferent about it...but his parents frowns against any of them marrying outside Igbo...his kid sis is over 30 and still single cos of this issue.


Wont I be treated like an outcast?? My kids?? Whose MIL or FIL doesn't show up for their son's wedding?? She won't show up for my 'omugwo'??

A part of me thinks I can handle the situation, but then another part is asking me to move on.

Words of advice pls....I really love this guy

I alwayz tell ppl dat love is not enuff wen it comes to d issue of marrige,other factors shud b considered right from courtship.if after spending 5yrs wit him n his parents view hasn't changed den changes are it will neva change,so move on though it wud b hard n I wudnt advice u to separate d son from his folks. They even do it to their own child not to talk of u a stranger.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]I and my boyfriend had an argument through text messaging three days ago. He started the fight and he called me the following morning which was on Sunday while I was in church but I didn't respond because I was in church. And he texted me telling me he will never call nor text me again.

I called him back after church and told me him I was in church when he called. He didn't call nor text me back till his day. I have called him over twelve times since Sunday and he didn't respond. I texted him telling him that I miss and love him. But he neither called nor texted me back till this day.

I am beginning to heal emotionally from the heartache he caused me. So what do you think I should do about this and do you think he will ever call me back?[/color]

this is how u wud kn a malicious man\husband to be,though we don't really kn wat happened btw u 2 give him time to come ard if he doesn't,let him b.

TeeFeh:
So I went to a shop where they sell tomatoes and pepper and they said this costs 1000 I actually thought she was joking until she started to frown when I was actually laughing out loud and she insisted on 1k,so I took a picture of it with my Tecno L8 device immediately!!

Please is this what you guys are experiencing too?I haven't cooked for 3months now and I came back to my food life and met this?

What's the best alternative please?
Is the dried tomatoes good?even Gino is now #100 and it used to be #50

hmmmm