₦airaland Forum

thesicilian:
You learnt photography but no money to buy a camera.
Even after working for BRT, working as a salesgirl and doing ticketing, you still didn't have enough money to buy a camera?
Seems to me you were not really focused, just looking for the fast route.

sometimes it best not to judge harshly, pray you never get to the place where hell seems to be the only escape ...there are people in this life who go from one terrible situation to the next with no hope of a better day..The wickedness of the average black man who only glories himself in the pain of another,instead helping a fellow man he looks away and pretends its non of his business. Have you for once stopped to give an extra penny to those BRT sales girls?And i still dont support reckless search for greener pastures.

akinszz:
you know nothing... you probably being fed by ur parents, if not u wouldn't be typing the rubbish u just typed here. how much are they paying ticketers?

thank you o.... Alot of people don't know what struggling or suffering is all about... When you go to bed hopeless and wake up still feeling the same way,No one to give a helping hand. Let us pray we dont get to a time where hell seems like the only comfortable place to be. Too many judges on this forum abeg

Times are changing, morals are gradually fading,we copy too much from the west but looking at it from another angle the government isn't helping matters in providing the basic amenities having a child out of wedlock for some ladies is more like an employment opportunity while for the men its just a way for them to continue living life without pressure and close supervision. Then again the media plays an important role too as these sets of people (baby mama's and papa's) are presented to the public as the ideal go getters. Courtship is an important stage where most people miss the signs mostly because of sex and money, if it's not working, its not working no need to manage. But in all some of these kids turn out right just like kids raised by both parents.

Alex is probably staying back to get better deals nothing like use and dump, staying in lagos keeps her in the spot light, its just business. People should learn to mind their business.

Your friend should realize that he is in a new phase.... The first step to recovery is, rediscovering what makes him happy, happiness shouldn't be tied to anyone or anything. He should try to be at peace with himself, learn from the lessons and make a conscious effort to want to move on. He should learn to forgive no matter who is at fault, that too brings healing to the heart and soul. Believe me there is no greater peace than self love with the realization that only you can make yourself happy. He should also keep everything that reminds him of her away for now(not necessarily throwing them away)..... He should suck it up and move on.... Life happens.

Whats necessary is to make a complaint to the police so that both her ex n his new babe will sign an undertaking not to harm her that being said she should count her losses n move on.... Its even better for her not to end up with this type of guy than marring him n later divorcing him or dying by beatings. She should take care of her health and pray for her own man.

khome:
Coca-cola treats dandruff

though you mean well but what works for A might not work for B... Ppl pls be careful with what you see online.

Freeze has a point here why do pastors say if u don't tithe God will not open the windows of heaven,haven't they heard that Gods ways are not our ways. pay if u want to but let no man speak for God like he knows him so well.i personally stopped tithing for no reason two years ago, i discovered another quick way to move God is in praise simply for who he is,the situation notwithstanding (was in terrible grief then but i still found a way to praise, it was madness then, i was mocked).Now i can tell you the secret of David in prayers n praises, another way to move God is giving to the poor, friends, family,i will rather give a friend in need, an orphanage than give tithe to a church that has multiple businesses that can generate funds for sustainace

As important as this question is you will be surprised it will not make front page instead u see alot of irrelevant topics splashed on front page,that been said in Nigerian it is believed that out parents are ours alone to care for and not the government. What they forget is just as kids, our aged parents need same if not more care and attention form capable hands who are trained to care for them,we also over look the fact that our aged parents will do well in this kind of environment and give us the time to get about our daily hustle while we make out time to visit them and once in a while bring them home to also visit. The government is just a selfish one as they only care for themselves and how much they can steal while they set the masses against themselves.

Let him that has ears... Let him hear.

Mr from your post its obvious you're too picky, over jealous, always finding a reason they are not good for you, they are above your class. I think you are waiting for the perfect woman.... News flash.. There isn't a perfect woman out there. So do the needful and let us hear word.

He is not far from the truth..... Greed which births corruption has always been our problem. Even on nairaland you hear all sort of discriminatory words, hate speeches aim at making one tribe look better than others. Why can't it just be one nigeria, one Africa.

Nice

Nice.. This should get to front page.... As some females get confused calculating the dates.

How sure are you that, that your bad friend isnt a member of nairaland, reading this story too? Try and find an anonymous way to alert the police, then for your own safety while that is on find a way to move your family else where. But come o, how come you remained friends with this bad guy... I really am Suspecting you too.

The Bible was originally written in greek,Hebrew n latin but not in English which the Catholic Church fought tirelessly to avoid it begin transcribed, it was King james(after king Henry 1st)who wasnt even a Christian that gave authority to 70 men to have it translated to English, hence the name the king james version. We talk alot of rubbish in this part of the world especially cos we don't make research.

What do you expect when the system has failed.... We focus and celebrate issues that corrupt our morals abandoning education and all its gains.

Coming to Nigerian to disrupt the wedding is pointless... It will leave you feeling victorious at first but later the pain will come bk.. So go back in time, check yourself if he wasn't cool with a particular behavior, was he always trying to tell you about changing that one thing?the sad truth is people marry who will give them peace of mind as well as other reasons, are you white or black,it might also be he is marrying this lady cos she understands and respects the culture of our land, unlike all the sad stories we from the other side even from our own black sisters. If after this you find nothing then let God be the chairman in this case and karma be his assistant chairman. Move on and find what makes you happy.

I just wonder how the gay people think..... Celebrating a child born from a woman... If we were all gay who go born pikin. May God forgive all adoption homes, women who agree to have children by this confused set of people.

Check ur immune system... As someone said earlier.... When u hv a strong immune system your body shields u from some kinds sickness.

Bamidele539:
whats your own view on this??

Wanna hear from you!

i believe in everything i wrote earlier, especially reincarnation.

If you believe some ppl that die go to heaven thats fine... If u believe some go to hell thats ok.... If you believe that some get reincarnated thats also ok... In anytin dont stop believing cos they sha go somewhere.... We will only find out when we become like them.

They even create a playlist... When u are truly filled with the spirit of praise it come natural.... Have you ever gone 2hours of praise by mouth alone, no wonder the scripture says we should fill our souls with things that build the spirit..... A word of advice to the participants,not only praise but add dance to it and watch God do wonders.... David is a perfect example.

I have been on this midnight praise journey for three years n i must say its so refreshing.... I see sense in what freeze said..... No one should give you a time to talk to God... U should create that for yourself. All this media show is not necessary.... Let me ask the participants a question, after the show is over for the weeks or months it will run, what happens to your spiritual life next?? The secret of God is in praises done at anytime with a grateful heart,every minute is for warfare for we wrestle not against flesh nd blood.......

It is good for people to go to church,it boosts our faith in God,Cos we sometimes tend to loose faith in people who we can see not to talk of who we can't see.... I tell people,of what use is going to church? Is cos u go there to worship n once u r out,tru out d rest of the week u forget God.... God shud b worshiped at anything time the spirit leads, God should be honored in our day to day lifes.... We shud practices on how to be christ like in our dealing with each other.... The truth is so many Christians dont know the things that excits God,a grateful heart filled with a mouthful of praises (done anywhere), absolute trust in him, etc...Pastors hv also help brainwash them or how else can they(Pastors) preach abt tithes n offerings more than they preach abt love,giving to the poor, moral uprightness....it will also u shock u that people hv different reasons y they go to church, some for hook ups, show off n the rest,Well to each his own.

So revealing but sadly Nigerians are not awear about the history surrounding a thing or invention... they are more interested in how much it costs and the availability of the products, who can n who can't afford the product (mostly for show off)Anything oyibo man bring is okey...The economy we operate doesn't give room for us to be concerned with these things .... If fashion police enter this country all of us go hear am. But come to tink of it even the oyibo way get fashion, i tink they r over doing it.... The next generation will b walking naked in the name of fashion.......

Nature and all its beauties,the world and its mysteries.

Where was the green card wife living before she met your boyfriend? I don't think she dropped from the sky. My sister, she is already possessing your possession so you can either walk away while its early or watch them act a new movie called I MARRIED HER BECAUSE I WAS HELPLESS. No offense dear this is just one of the many troubles couples go through when looking for a better life abroad.

Nwachukwu1986:
It tightens and the worst any alum watched pussy hardly get wet.

and the testimonies are rolling in, but wait o na man u be, which way?

Though the ppl support him cos he believes in himself, he has put in his best to win several challenges in the house, been up for eviction so many times, he has tried to show us how simple life can really be, its however sad that bbnaija now has a political undertone. If u ask me i would say they have already picked the winner from the word get go,all efe has now is God and the people,so vote.

Hmmmmm the things women do to artificially save a situation,instead of them to open when necessary than allow the whole express go through them. If you have used it and it really works then you are welcome to testify.