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Music in nigeria has reached lyrical menopause, the change we seek first comes from the people,we should determine what the artist sees as good music, but when you have a people who don't care about content only sound(noise) what do you expect? we need to make our artists accountable. As for the other African countries, i have no clue.

Its best you come clean and tell the truth, since you said it happened many years ago lets hope he can cope with the situation. i just dont get it why people have flings and engage in casual sex, una no dey fear?. This tention would have been avoided if people give relationships time to grow without sex, if its not working you both go your separate ways.

Girls when you tell them not all that glitter is gold they just won't believe u, flings, relationships here and there can't you just be single till the right guy comes. You knew he was married still u went ahead and slept wit him,in your mind u didnt think it will come bk and hunt u. Its best you resign, give your husband time he will come around though at first he might not be so free with u, but if he has a big heart things will go bk to normal or even get better. The thing is aside the present situation he feels ashamed cos his friend and so many other people kn about you escapades,men hate such situations.

Girls when you tell them not all that glitter is gold they just won't believe u, flings, relationships here and there can't you just be single till the right guy comes. You knew he was married still u went ahead and slept wit him,in your mind u didnt think it will come bk and hunt u. Its best you resign, give your husband time he will come around though at first he might not be so free with u, but if he has a big heart things will go bk to normal or even get better. The thing is aside the present situation he feels ashamed cos his friend and so many other people kn about you escapades,men hate such situations.

Girls this, girls that una no dey tire? Receiving of flowers isnt in our culture abeg, what works for A might not work for B.

amuijiji:
APC brown envelope journalism...

even if u didn't kn him u shud at least hv respect for d dead. Yinka was a dear classmate wit pure talent,wit d right system he cud compete wit all d best cinematographers ard the world. The system failed him else having hustled for so long one wud expect dat he b comfortable by now. So sad

Hmm mm can't believe this news,yinka was one of the best photojournalist lasu school of communication ever produced,I remember how he helped me wit my final year television projects(cameraman). RIP to a dear classmate u will b missed

Pleassss like hell I knew u were just acting a script,if u like support or don't support ur place is in d other room.

Cool, in DMX voice 'same thing thou did to dem will be done to thee.

What do you expect in a country with a high number of unemployment,let them take the risk if they can after all the banks make use of our money to trade while they give us peanuts as interests,some ppl may say its a lazy way to make money but as long as they are getting paid then abeg to each his own.

For me anorexia is more of an illness of the mind trying to control the body with an ideal way to look and be accepted by society(for personal reasons or trying to look like an ideal model).

He got busted,few weeks form now the news would be swept under the carpet and our guy still involved the government.

So sad,the need for gun control.

What is it wit women and big weddings does dat guarantee a successful marriage? Is either he was warned(from d spiritual angle),or he is afraid cos he thinks some tin cud go wrong if its dat big,or he cud b married else where n wudnt want word to get out to d other woman or he is just not into all that stress n noise. Do ur own findings n if he is clean go ahead n just marry before we begin to tell the stories that touch.

Obsession for some,vanity n more vanity for others,well to each his own.

Na wa o wen the things become this bad ??

People we aint seen notin yet,what part of nigeria do we claim dey fly even in the afternoon common get ur brooms ready cos in south africa there is a welcome development waiting for y'all,but dem for just try give am funky name. lol

Kelechi2020:
Mechie gi onu there... Keep quiet..... I know the people liking your comments will be more bitter than you........ It's the norm to spray money in weddings where I come from...... Did the couple even tell you they are poor... Busy body... Mtchewwwwww

y do u ppl always resolve to insults as a way to silence or stop people from giving their views about a post?insults are for kids u know. Y are u worried about people who like my comment?na that matter me and u con dey drag now?appreciation to them it only shows you that just as u feel its allowed to show off like dis we also think its not that nice.

jonathan111:
Shift abeggi

to where? We recognise ur type

jaymony:
....anyhow wey him wan take spray him money is none of ur business....bad belle how e take concern u...Amusuu!!

no need for name calling only kids do dat.

SuperBlack:
Madam He's an Igbo man, and he gat to Show that he gat all the Cash, stop being Jealous and show ur ya husband and present to us ya wedding date and venue we will sure attend.

lol I never wanted to mention the exact place(t)dis act is common with,my dear jealousy isn't part of it at all as for d said wedding date lol am laughing in french.

SuperBlack:
Madam He's an Igbo man, and he gat to Show that he gat all the Cash, stop being Jealous and show ur ya husband and present to us ya wedding date and venue we will sure attend.

lol I never wanted to mention the exact tribe dis act is common with,my dear jealousy isn't part of it at all as for d said wedding date lol am laughing in french.

hedonistic:
Common mechie onu dia. Go and make your own money and then whenever you want to give any couple money at their wedding, put your own money in an envelope and give it to them!

Don't come here to advise an Oracle like Arthur Eze how to spend his billions. Don't you see how stupid it makes you look?

no need to throw insults here only kids stoop so low to do dat,that being said the black man black mentality will not change,na only him be billionaire? Abegggi dis is show off pure and simple.#ifyoudontlikemethenbiteme

Ximonak:
Exactly, it's even a crime to spray(deform the note). Plus no respect for the Naira and it's "showself". The people sponsoring the wedding without coming to spray many even spend more than all that is sprayed self.

Meanwhile I told my ex I dnt want money spraying or gifts in d the wedding, if people want to contribute, a bowl will be placed by the side of the dancefloor...
She was like "for why", gift is must, money spraying is to recover what we spent
I was like "black man" in my mind

lol what u told ur ex is the exact thing I want,no gift no spraying of money. Make God just bless us make we fit afford everything from our pocket,even the asho ebi will be giving out for free.

saintfellow:
ABEG MAKE I HEAR WORD.

bros which way?

Congrats to the couple,this kind of story brings smiles to my face. The mind of a child in the pursuit of happiness

Good luck to those who sold their souls for an iphone6 now I wonder wat they would do. Lesson:fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we hv to alter it every 6months.#oscar wilde

This is so ridiculous(not sounding jealous) but if he feels he has all this to spray y not put it in an envelope n give d couple before or after their wedding,n if he has supported them with money before d wedding n still has more to give y not get dem to open an account for their kids this show off is just too much. I believe in doing good n still been'n invincible.

macarena:
He forced it on me.
I can never tell him the true state of how I feel cos he would laugh at me.
I have also asked for forgiveness but the things that happened yesterday felt like we had crossed the rubicon.
I am just too ashamed to face him

y wud he laugh at u? You both need time to calm down(maybe apart) to truly forgiving n letting go of d hurtful moment before u can move on wit or without each oda. But come if u really want to hv something to do wit him den tell him even if he laughs at u,no go dey inside river make soap enter ur eye o.

There is an old saying n it goes thus: the 1% giving the rest 99% a bad name now wit the way times hv changed it will b the 99% giving the remaining 1% a bad name.