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Jennyclay:
Good afternoon nairalanders and Happy new year to everyone. I promise to be brief.

My fiance and I hv been dating for 2 years. He's doing well for himself, he's humble, he's quick to apologize even when you're at fault. He calls his mom and siblings regularly, but he don't talk to his Dad. If I ask, he would say forget about him


My fiance has been keeping malice with his father for 3 years now. I don't know what transpired between them because he would never tell me. He act like his father doesn't exist.

His mom and I do talk on phone once in a while. Yesterday I called her to wish her happy new year, we spoke well and she prayed for me. Abt 10 mins later she called back, but this time she was crying, She explained how his son has not been talking to his Father, she said this year 2022 would make it 3 years, she said they have called elders and pastors to talk to him but all to no avail. She said It would be her greatest joy if I also help her talk to him since he loves me so much. We were on the phone for over 45min.

Nairalanders, he's coming to seek my hand in marriage by March but I'm scared and here are my reasons. 1) His he pretending to be nice to me 2) what if we have little misunderstanding when we get married will he forgive me or keep malice with me for years

I was so angry at him, I told him that I'm giving him now till month end to reconcile every conflict or dispute he has with his father else I'm calling our relationship a quit, because this character seems to be a redflag to me. He started begging me, he said I don't understand yet he's not telling me anything.

I'm really confused. Please help a sister.

naptu2:
Very wrong. The president of Germany is the head of state, the chancellor is the head of government (equivalent of a prime minister).

ClearFlair:
This is why Nigeria needs leaders like Peter Obi.

othermen:
‘Lynched Driver’ ? He is a son, he is a father, he is the husband to another. His statistic is little in being a driver and the motivations behind the mob action is little in him being a driver. It was that he was alleged of being a ritualist or looking better. If he was in a rickety vehicle, his outcome might have varied in spite of the accident that served to introduce him to a tragic end.

That said, about a decade ago, in Unibadan, a student was stripped naked and paraded around the halls. He was involved in theft.

Such was not the norm, however, it was the case then, that a thief will be mobbed and the students leaders or hall elders would endeavor to get the culprit to a secured place so that he can be handed over to Abefele (the school security).
Students can as well put a call through to the school security to avoid an utter descent into chaos. The point however is, in a community of reserved minds molding our society character, such events do occur. Again, If such mob actions could occur in an intellectual community, it can occur anywhere else in the country.

Just some weeks ago, A 500 level student was killed in OAU by his fellow students. He was accused of being a petty thief. While the outcome is isolated, the events leading to the outcome is the norm for those alleged or caught in such misconduct.

Is it up to a year, Deborah was killed in another institution of learning- just because she felt a platform created for educational purposes shouldn’t be abused for religious purposes? There was an endorsement of the disaster she was meted by most on the side.

In Adamawa too, a former VC was stripped naked and mobbed in a case of mistaken identity. They thought he was the INEC official that declared a winner in the gubernatorial election. Many on the social media celebrated such mob action and there has been no outright condemnation from the mainstream media that is busy pandering to a movement where mobbing others for their political beliefs or endorsements or affiliations is the order.

Anybody can be a victim of mob action. In all of these cases, fewer people had the courage to intervene. Anybody can be accused and on the basis of allegations, mobbed. Anybody can also be falsely accused and on the basis of such allegations, mobbed.

In my experience of such despicable spectacles, my interventions have been nil. The orientation I was inculcated was such that, if there is a fight, do not intervene- just walk away, because there are those who have lost their lives in an effort to be peacemakers and that the blessing that Christ in his sermon on the mount assured for such peacemakers is perhaps not worth much than being alive in one piece.

So it has been, if there is a public disturbance brewing, just take the other road or street. And so it has been, if a mob action is taking place in my street, I stay indoor. However, that mob action could be on an acquaintance or a relative. And by refusing to invite law enforcement officers or take any reasonable action, I have contributed to the murder of such fellows.

Let us reconsider our orientations. This incident in Akure would not stop another mob action from occurring in Onitsha. But then, if local community leaders are charged with the responsibility for and rewarded for protecting those at the whip of mob actions, there may be a reduction.

We also have to make a spectacle of capital consequences for those that take the law into their hands, even when the victims of such mob actions are culpable. Finally, we have to as responsible citizenry endeavor to take quick actions such as escalating any event to law enforcement where a mob action is likely to occur. During ALUU 4 , such an escalation was done but the police failed to save the day.

Failures of such reputations has to be met with remarkable disapproval and even consequences for officers involved. There was perhaps a police station in proximity to where this action took place. They should also explain what actions they are taking to ensure a re-occurrence do not occur. The Police should be alert to such events. It’s public , and saying that mob actions occurs in a very brief time is just an admission of incompetence. It is such incompetence of the law enforcers and incompetence of the judiciary that mob leaders have used in justifying their actions and the recruiting of the public to participate in murder.

While such remains a deterrent to concrete actions that may be done to allay the prevalence of incidents such as have occurred with Olorunfemi, we must begin to be courageous and lend ourselves to participating in ensuring humanity is restored on occasions of blind rage.

helinues:
What you don't know is most of the brains behind all those technology are blacks

CaptainAyub:
God bless Seadogs.
God bless Brothers Across Nigeria.
May Allah punish all those other crooks causing problems in the name of confraternity.

Tgbengus151:
Yes, you would need an agent to apply to Fanshawe college but 250k is outrageous. You can use applyboard.com yourself and they would stand as your agent.

I'm currently in Fanshawe college and we have a group already. You can send me a mail with your number so I can add you up.

Ednut03:
Yeah. There are Nigerian Men in America who has not had a decent chance at sex for years. The only chance at sex they get is when they visit Naija once in a while. You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

Same apply to a woman and it's even worse. Men are thirsty, unlike Women, and she might get sexed and few attentions until the sex lasts. But she's not going to get any commitment if she doesn't match the beauty standard. So, she will be lonely too. Nigerian Men are still better positioned than her. And her woes even worsen if she's above 30. They rarely get white men. No they don't, because Nigerian women also fall short of the look And beauty standard

And if you're in dating app as an average black man (you're bleeped if you're ugly), you'll, 90% of the time be swept left over.

Hence, many Nigerian guys are frustrated and won't talk about it

Don't believe the stupid lies we peddle on here about white woman loving black for our dick game. It's a lie. If you ain't 100% attractive to her, your dick game doesn't matter. You need to be tall too, because their men are really tall. You can't be 5"9 and be expecting any reasonable result scoring a white chic, it ain't happening

johnstan:
*At immigrations in Canada I was only asked if I brought meat. I said no and I was handed my study permit.
* I applied in July, was approved in Nov.
* Used the new portal cos I did not want to fill those Pdf forms on the old Portal.
* Non accompanying siblings/fam members are good home ties, ensure you upload anything linking you to them. (Pictures, birth certificates etc)
* I can't tell if they will be contacted or not.

Cheers.

johnstan:
Compliments of the season.
Here,
https://portal-portail.apps.cic.gc.ca/signin?lang=en

johnstan:
Check IRCC here
https://www.canada.ca/en/immigration-refugees-citizenship/services/study-canada/study-permit/get-documents.html

Check page 1 of this thread.

Good luck.

HazeeyzaH:
Yes... u can now sign in into the new portal

GodswillBeDone:
Spot on there. You are absolutely right. The person that did for a friend gave a good explanation and even letters and all to back it up and he was approved but not all do this. Most just do as you stated above.

GodswillBeDone:
Yeah, there is. But I think it's better not to discuss such on an open platform like this. I can refer you to someone tested and trusted for guidance.

Olamidecanada:
Good day everyone, I know this question may come as an unusual one but how are you people able to build your account. I don’t have enough money for that but I still want to give it a shot.
Do you use an agency or what, please I’m really in need of help.

Omarjaygold:
Good afternoon my people
I learnt there is a WhatsApp group for people that got addmission into the university of manitoba . Please I would like to join the WhatsApp group.Thank you.

Okudi23:
2011.

Okudi23:
Anyone traveling on the 26th?, let's link up. For those waiting for PPR,plz my advice is this: Take a break from here for like a month to get your sanity back. We worry a lot...I guess because a lot wanna japa. What will be,will be. I have been on nairaland since 2010. At a point I was made a moderator,life happened to me..I had to focus on my personal growth. Lost millions to travel agents. I never left, still here every minute viewing as a guest. Maybe my English is not that good now, this is someone most people mistook as a graduate..but am just a secondary school certificate holder. I have always wanted to explore the world,get a better education,I come from a poor home. But I never relented. For someone who has always been taking the first position from primary one to ss3, wanted to be a writer . I believe I wrote one or two unpublished article/novels.. growing up. Name any country,I know it and everything about it. I read extensively. Knowledge is power. I am very good in geography,..it is not even about this,my brain is always eager to learn something new. I lived this life that no one would want to live. I never for one day sent web forms to IRCC, but man! depressed?,I was. Take time out, work out and try to shut out some stuff from your mind. Most people get their PPR and move on,I will not. I never got any help in my visa application from here,but I want everyone to calm down. To the religious one... well you can keep praying, but it doesn't change nothing. Just relax and don't pressure yourself.

SMJay:
Expect better services $20*800= =N=16,000 i.e about half of the minimum wage

shugaboy6102:
Obasanjo does not play tribal politics. Look at ooni supporting this old man what a shame. Osinbajo is 100 times better than this Tinubu that should be resting if not for greed and wickedness.

fergie001:
PU 001, Ward 06, Owode, Olorunda Local Government Area of Osun State.

Polling Unit Result

ADP - 0
APC - 114
A - 0
AAC - 0
PDP - 111
LP -
PRP - 0


Odo-otin LGA Ward 09 PU 05
Accord 01
ADP 02
APC 84
PDP 100

Registered voters: 444
Accredited voters: 188
Void vote 01
Valid vote 187
Total vote cast: 188


Ife South
Ward 04, PU 05

APC: 105
PDP: 63


L/G OBOKUN

Ward Ikinyinwa (003)

P.U 004

PDP:153

APC: 57. ; ADP 2 ; ARP 1; A -1 ; void 12 ; accredited voters 226; Registered voters 496



Ward 03, Ikija 11, PU 002, C.A.C Primary School I, Ifetedo, Ife-South LGA.

Election results:
ADP: 03
APC: 120
NNPP: 01
PDP: 85


Ward 05 Unit 002, Maternity Isokun, Ilesa West.

Party A 1
AAC 1
ADP 5
APC 193
APM 1
PDP 66


Isedo Ward 05 unit 03
PDP -- 131
APC -- 107


Eyindi Ward 07 unit 6
PDP -- 73
APC -- 40


unit 5, ward 5, salvation Army, Oke Fia, Osogbo
APC- 121

PDP -196

ADP-2

ZLP-1

SDP-1

Accord- 4

AAC - 1

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Shekarau is no longer in apc o.He is now teaming up with Kwankwanso for the first time in their political career.And they have the 3 Gladiators in Kano.2 of them are on one side.

Cubalabloo:
He is goin to be president of the dead when he eventually dies in no distant time.

TheRareGem1:
VP arrives in Kano: first stop is the scene of the explosion earlier this morning at Sabon Geri




https://mobile.twitter.com/akandeoj/status/1526584812085051393

adedayo77:
He was not kneeling down for Omisore. He was kneeling down for Oluwo of Iwo land.

Stop publishing fake news.

What you know nothing about don't say it
See where he was facing.

DenreleDave:
The small thing u can't read and understand....


Where you see gas Them say petrol, you dey talk gas...


Hiannnnnn