₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Why would you give him such advice when the question is instead whether he should live in a home that belongs to his wife or not?

About the husband living in his wife's house or not, is she asking him not to or what? Where exactly is the issue in this? Did his wife tell him that he has to pay her rent in order to continue living as husband and wife in the marriage or what?

Actually since things went south for the man,and the wife became the breadwinner of the family,the wife actually behaving rudely towards him,that's why I think at least he should reach an agreement with her to keep the documents if at all he's going to live under her roof.
But,it's just an advice sha,he is considering other options.

anthonyuncle:
he should move in with them, but ensures he spends very little time at home daily

Okay.

advanceDNA:
Rented house hes not paying for?? Lol....the woman has her by the balls..shes the one paying rent....
he should swallow his pride and be a good husband and hustle to change his status...

Btw...Thats the way it works in Nigeria...if funke leaves in jjc house....if they fight...na she go leave......its funke' s house...will she leave her house for JJC??

That funke and jjc episode is what is causing concern for the guy, ge even tokd me that a man living under his wife's house is nothing more than a tenant.

Mindlog:
From the story, the woman bought the land and built on it and informed the husband when it is near completion, meaning the man was not aware of the purchase of the land from the onset and separate from the one they were developing together.

Yes,he wasn't aware of the land bought by the wife until the house is near completion.

Mindlog:
If they remain in the rented apartment where they presently live in, who pays the rent?

The wife,since the man lost his job,she has been the one taking the responsibilities of the family.

As it happened in my neighborhood,a family friend.This man has a family his wife and children,he and his wife had a well paying job,and the husband is taking a very good care of the family,a very good husband and a caring father,but along the line he lost his job.
Now,all the responsibilities fell on the laps of the wife,feeding,house rent,children school fees and others.
A little time after the husband lost his job,the wife's attitude change dramatically towards the husband,but the man keep enduring everything,including all the insult and abusive words being hurl at him by the wife.Please note that the man didn't sit idly,he is trying his best to secure a job but all to no avail,but he is doing some odd jobs,so as not to be staying at home all the time and not to be asking everything from his wife.
Now,after nearly two years after the husband lost his job,the woman told the husband that she has already bought land and built house on it,the house is near completion and very soon she would like the family to move out of the rented apartment to her house.
The man is in a dilemma,especially whenever he remember all the humiliation and insults from the wife.Meanwhile,before he lost his job,both him and the wife were developing their own site,and he is the major contributor to the development of the site,but along the line,loss of job happened.
The man is seeking my opinion,but I don't know what to tell him other than to ask his wife for him to be in charge of the land's documents.
How will you advice the man,or if you are in this situation,what will you do?

Lalasticlala,what will you advice the man to do.

Kobojunkie:
Why did he have to use the dolphin as bait though?

That in bold is why a nation needs responsible government, not the touts Nigerians keep hiring to guard them, who sell even the knickers from under the people at the end of it all.

Infact Nigeria is underutilizing the potential of it's water resources,how can some foreign trawlers/fishing boats come and engage in fishing on our territorial water,u don't know,Nigeria is just a lawless country and all those foreigners are taking full advantage of our weak and corrupt government.

Hmmm,those on air personalities are human like us,just because they always smile at the camera and looked or sound (on radio) unperturbed and cheerful doesn't mean their lives are trouble free,what many of them are passing through privately is enough to cause depression for some people.
Their profession doesn't even allow them to show their emotion on air,just act as if you are the happiest person on earth.

NairaFeast:
Please whats the meaning of the name "Amusan" in English?

"Amusan" is a Yoruba name given in the olden days to those that follow Egugun (masquerades) and hold "pashan" (cane) during festivals.
The name is a family name of those that carry those canes.

Since the federal capital of Nigeria was moved to Abuja,Lagos has become the psycho capital of the country.Almost everybody in that state are not normal,including their governors,past and present.

Hmm,success they say has many parents,but failure is an orphan.Before now this man never mentioned that lady in any of his speeches,na now he remember he is her adopted father,he remain small make e talk say na him born am.
Just doing anything to get reelected.

I am just thinking,assuming (God forbid),if the International doping Agency find some banned substances in the lady's system,collect back her medals and ban her,I am 100% sure those politicians congratulating her now including her adopted father will dump her and throw her to the wolves.

Bledriel:
Chai. You forgot the football games we played with it. The younger generation got deprived alot. I recall those football.fames we used to play. The inner white section of the cassette tape was the football. In moments of free kicks, all kind of shots with cantas

Ha!Ogbologbo.
Ancestor spotted

The ripple effect of Buhari's cancelation of the metro line is still being felt in the transport sector in Lagos till today,truly that man is a disaster.Bad news.

kenny714433:



Any Nigerian that defends politicians are stupid.


Except maybe the politician is Peter Obi. And if you defend Peter Obi to the extent of picking a fight with anyone online, you're equally stupid.

Not just that, if you're always supporting your preferred candidate even when your candidate misyan (like when Tinubu said he'll recruit youths to be feeding them cassava) you're stupid.

It doesn't end there, if you are earning well, therefore you choose to stay indifferent because you think you won't be affected by what happens, you're stupid.

And if you're not earning well, because they give you 30k to defend politicians, you're equally very stupid.

In short everybody is stupid.

GNLD?
There is difference between job and work,my brother,it's better to be jobless than to be a GNLD marketer.That thing no be job,na work.

Sunday2021:
just go knack your head with the ground . Apc bishops are Islamic terrorists

E pain am.
You too can go and do the useless clapping like kindergarten children to your god in the name of praise and worship,those bishops are Christian fraudsters.

Sunday2021:
while your people are busy killing innocent people in the name of fighting for dead Muhammad.

Islam didn't condone killing innocent people,no matter their religious affiliation,those idiots killing people in the name of Islam are ignorance is their religion.
Every battle the prophet fought during his lifetime was defensive battle,he fought to defend his people and Islam against the enemies of Islam.

Nigeria that is supposed be the giant of Africa and a strong power broker in the continent is now the target of predators.
Nigerians are like orphans,any foreigner can come into the country and do anyhow with the citizens without any form of protection from the authorities that are supposed to protect them.

UptownVibes:
That is why Tinubu took them for granted, cux he knows they catch cruise with their religion unlike the Muslims. He dares not try that shit he did during unveiling of the terrorist, with the Muslim faith. They will storm that venue and might even stone him to death. The same CAN that has been making noise now en. Let him give some of them some huge amount in dollars, and watch them support rubbish..

CAN are always good at making noise,but if they see fat envelopes now,nobody will hear anything again.

FreedomfromtheT:
Christianity is never a joke sir. Fake Christianity is. You were born a sinner and it is no fault of yours. But if you don't repent and receive Christ Who died for your sins as your Lord and personal Saviour, it is then your fault and you will end up in hellfire for all eternity. May that not be your portion in Jesus' name, Amen.

Jesus didn't die for my sin,each soul is accountable for his deeds in this life.
Tell me one reason why I should worship a mere mortal like me who eat,drink,sleep and died just like everybody else,you guys are not different from pagans,because those ones also worship the creatures and not the Creator.

Sunday2021:
apc bishops are not Christians. So just shut up.

They are not Christians abi,I don't why you people always love to lie and deny what is obvious,you are not deceiving me,you are deceiving yourself.

Sunday2021:
Christianity is not a terrorists organization that is killing for their dead Muhammad.
There is freedom of expression in Christianity.
Only a terrorist organization(Islam) that kills at any opportunity,
Islam is a terrorist organization that feed their dead Muhammad with blood of innocent people.
To hell with your useless Islamic religion.
Freedom of expression is not a sin.

And your people are busy mocking their religion every time in the name of trending.
Keep deceiving yourselves.

9jatriot:
And all of these nonsense are being done by so called Christians I believe.

I swear,see as Christianity is being taken for cruise by the same Christians.

Christianity na joke,I swear.

Insecurity and Kidnapping:Two legacies that will be left by Buhari's regime among his numerous negative legacies.
Baba is not even concerned about what's happening inside the country anymore.He is just waiting for his tenure to expire so that he will retire back to Daura.
The only thing Baba is now is to travel out,sleep,wake up,eat,then sleep again,and the routine continue.
Even Baba is no longer shocked again about Nigeria's situation,he is just tired,he no wan resign.

Nice one there.
Thank God for the save delivery,I pray she and her sibling grows up to become merciful children for you,and you will not have any regret in conceiving them.
I also pray they and all the babies being born will not experience the kind suffering we are experiencing currently in this country.

I really like her,only because she resemble one of my former bosses,aunty Esther,that woman can hold grudge for Africa and she is vindictive,but this lady the exact opposite,she is free and lively at least what I saw from her acting.
Again,may God almighty keep those children for you and make them great.

Politics is a very dirty game,the day you enter politics with aspiration of vying for political post,be prepared to hear the history of your forefathers,even the ones the historians in your family couldn't remember,your opponents will unearth events that happened several decades ago.

I know a Nollywood producer that needs op's talent in inventing stories.
So you don't know your brother in law prior to the weddings of both of you?
Tell us another story bro.

I was just surfing the net,and I stumbled upon this weird mask,just bring it here to share it.
I know some ladies will like to try it out.

IamAsiri:
Most of those places are just deserts - they have no trees or forests that can burn.

What about northern Nigeria,there are forests there,and I know temperature in the north can go as high as 45 degree Celsius.
There is something those people are not telling us.