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i cant wait till the next one!!

justwise ur overdoin it now!

are u sure ur not half white??

lol anybody dealing or makink ofii wont be on the internet!!

i understand- but thats the way it is with nigerians i must say

takin the moral highground

white women are easy jamaican women are trailer trash

when we both know these people dont personally know any!!

besides those that lecture them and those livin next door!!

soo let them talk, they talk out of ignorance!

Nescoemmy:
inorder not 2 hurt anyones feeling just say--oh thats very nice of u & u know wat seriously i love u too.

that would be lying??

you guys are funny

you talk like cheating is easy

like a man will walk out of his matrimonial house

and standing outside will be a woman ready to sleep with him!!

i laff in chinese

just wise are u white??
why u takin everything soo personal??
you know very well nigerians like to talk dwn others to make themselves feel good!
lala stop gassin!!!

ochallo:
right now the lady is claiming that my guy is a mummy's boy and she would not be forced into walking on eggshells because of his mother
my guy is claiming that the girl is too stubborn and he wanted to prove to her that he can also be stubborn that is why he took her back home.
as at now they are still keeping up the beef

he should just tell her to wear long trousers when they go??

this is such a small issue, people can be funny atimes!

^^ lol madlady aso ake is not really made in the city
we tend to take things around us for granted
im not surprised people dont really no
the first time i travelled to nigeria as an adult
i saw a woman doin it, same wiv ankara
and i was soo amazed i stayed wiv her all day!!
but to the average nigerian, unno its nothing
so most people prob dont no

excuse me people

what reality?? bbc is showing the reality

remember the witch child situation

if not for that, theyd still be pouring acid on young children

isnt it funny how the truth is bitter

while u all sit in the confort of ur homes thats what people are doing

in a bid to survive,

deneut:
[b]is no news,men have been cheatin startin 4rm our forefather[/b]s,women too are not laggin behind.am very

yes man has been disobeying since adam
murdering since cain
conning since jacob
betraying since judas
hoing since jezebel
the list can seriously go on

so,because our ancestors did it , does it make it right?

if thats really him then he doesnt seem that bad

hes not on any breathing support so i dont think there was respiratory failure- like sum papers reported

though there might have been organ damage?? but he looks ok

are u anserin the oloriburuku (unfortunate fellow)
he's jakkin off and callin out platinmunk when he cums whats his own,
since the jauqan thread, he's been gassin, wtf is his problem??

do u no him sef??

i have a feeling hes one of the regular loosers with a different username??

lol

white people generally are open minded individuals

they are not generally any more cheap and slutty than nigerian girls are

but if u come wit ur moral highground self righteous bullcrap i understand very well why they wont be touchin u wit a bargepole!

Mhismole:
A lot. Once could be a mistake, twice exasperating, thrice. . .you'r on your own.

interesting, so ur anticipating ur husband making an inevitable mistake

clap for yaself

WOW

i hope he's ok

ode

awon asinwin

talo pe won si bi??

awon oloriburuku oonirani

ewoo ni ti yin??

gbe fila talo pe ee??

got get a life fool!

Mhismole:
OK. Let me simmer it down for you. I have heard that all men cheat. If this is true, then one man would eventually cheat on me. What can be done to stop it from happening[b] twice?
[/b]
get it now??

no not at all, uve even made it worst, wats the difference between him cheating once and cheating again?

^^ hey hows ur issue goin on??

johnterry4:
testing is gud o.some women dont taste sweet anymore.

i see- like men are o soo chocolate and vanilla!

looooooooooooooooool

where is platti!!!!!

johnterry are u fruity??

how would u know the difference?? see ur head

women are here sayin a man is fine and u are talkin

instead of saving money for that plastic surgery

abeg comot let better people talk!

thats tru, i live near the emirates stadium, its such a beautiful area at night, relatively safe lol ill do that tonite

ill also try the tea- and mango, problem is i always forget abt them when i wrap them up to ripen

and they end up spoilt!

thanx luv

^^ but how would u know?? what if she didnt love u?? or u didnt love her??

how would u respond?? what would u like to hear??

Ive just been told to 'listen to my body' absolute rubbish! (lol)

but its getting harder to tolerate stress i.e when u dont sleep, ur in constant worry, and have absolutely no time for the gym, church or topshop!

soo far ive got stress rash, summers coming up so ive got hayfever, i just got ova this stress ulcer that didnt want to go! ahhhhhhhhhhh

worst of all im constantly tired, inno i should use google but i like listenin to the bs on nl

im no longer responsive to relentless, red bull, blue kick or proplus, im takin berroca think its workin alittle and bvitamins, thinkin of doin sum yoga (mom will laff today)

so how do u deal with stress??

people are really jealous of jaquan oooo

no be small thing

its not his fault, he got the good looks from his mama (abi hin papa??)

the poor guy is probably being ogled somewhere far away . . . . . . , . . . . . *sighs*

even my parents get into it now and again for village sake

but if its something removable theres nothing wrong with removing it

if its a bigg arse tatoo on the neck then theres gna be sum seeeerious problems!!!

ok lets go back to the beggining

[quote author=Mhismole link=topic=430154.msg5895758#msg5895758]I have always wondered and pondered on this. S[b]ince it is inevitable that men would cheat[/b], then its surely goin to happen to me. iv seen soo many reactions lol, some women scream the place down, some quietly walk away, some lock up the bedroom door for days. None of them seemed to work tho, as the guys are STILL cheating. What would be the most effective reaction then?? How would you even react to such a thing?[/quote]did u see that??

a most effective reaction to what?? show how much ur hurt??

if u think something will definitely happen to you then why will u try and stop it??

InesQor go back on op posts

i seriously dont get wat u mean, are we trying to prevent or are we trying to find the best screenplay to go??

InesQor:
@ayettymama:
If the OP says a man will inevitably cheat on her, then in my opinion it is the BEST option to JUST as well prepare for the event! How does this differ from a person who says "Most men in Botswana (just saying) are HIV+ so if I must go and roll in the hay there, must I not wear a condom"?

Prevention is putting the best foot forward, and so EVEN if the OP says it is inevitable, it is only clear logic that this must be the reason why she wants to know how to deal with it!

"In her brain the man has done the deed", you say, but we both know its not like that. There are things you FEAR in your heart, but when they actually happen in reality, you're another person. Fearing something and being prepared to deal with its happenstance are two different things.

shes not trying to prepare for the cheating, shes looking to prepare some drama after cheating to stop him from cheating more
she didnt say she wants to know how to deal with it; but im beggining to think thats what she meant, in that case she needst o change it up!

and no, hell no, i dont go into relationships thinking, or fearing my guy will cheat, i dont prepare for cheating, i dont condone cheating, nd i dont believe all men cheat but if a woman does then her mind is made up and she should deal with it, not develop tantrunsy, but all the same people are different, noted- the only preparation for op is to take her husband to the hospital regularly for hIV testing and after having kids always use a condom!

InesQor:
If that guy was really serious with himself and his girlfriend, he would have given her adequate notice back at her place!

Some maturity was heavily lacking there.

yea but unno no men barely notice alot of things- he prob saw it and panicked!

Mhismole:
So i wear an anklet, waistbeads, have more than one piercing.

Would i start taking them ALL off in the car? LMAO

Its all part of my personality. He should have known that.

Maybe if he asked me earlier tho, i would have considered it.

lolz, none of my siblings will be bringin u home den!!

its ok- theres always yankee marriage!

but no its not an attack on personality- its a im not really in the mood for anyones trouble because aff parents can be judgemental!!!

InesQor:
By your logic

Does this also mean that since it's inevitable to have malaria in Nigeria

then one should not bother to protect themselves against it?

Or plan for the eventuality of dealing with it?

Even if one does not expect to be knocked down by malaria every week?

Scratch the analogy above. I'm trying to explain that inevitability does not mean one should be taken unawares.

That is, an "inevitable" circumstance does not mean one should not prepare for it.

In fact, being inevitable is GOOD REASON to prepare for something because then you will know what to do in the certain outcomes.

P.S. For the record, I don't believe cheating is inevitable. I, for one, can not.

I think the OP was just saying it offhandedly to mean there's a chance, a possibility that must be captured and dealt with to prevent making yourself an emotional wreck if it does happen.

no poster is not saying theres a chance, poster said all men cheat and she knows it will happen to her

when she assumes all men cheat and a man will inevitably cheat on her, why would she bother with stage play

malaria is very avoidable, anti malarials and mosquito nets dear

but i see ur analogy, in that case poster should start preparing immunity, learn to deal with it

inevitability certainly means poster wont be surprised, or will probably be waiting

for the expected bombshell- like if u really believe ur man will cheat why will u bother with a reaction?

u shuld have dealt with any feeling whilst u were nursing ur beliefs!

in her brain the man has already done the deed- soo she should be ova it b4 the crime is commited!

its only nigerians that say such!

wats the difference, inevitable, incessant, cheating is cheating be it 2ce with different women

or 50 times with the same woman, if ur ready for it learn to deal wit h it

if a partner cheats you should reconsider ur relationship, its not abt cheatin or keepin on cheating its the same damn thing!

one is supposed to live according to her beliefs right?