₦airaland Forum

Swiftlee: Yes...In Borno where there are kauri people and native hausa, you would see so many native names(traditional) buduwara for example is a native borno name, when you go to yobe dominated by kanuri too..you will see so many traditional native names like pyam still a name in Plateau state. Jigawa is also a place for traditional names not taking away Adamawa and Taraba..where you see Bawa,Tafawa Babangida, Babanawa among many Baba..the North West is a place where you see less of traditional names; states like Sokoto, Kebbi, Katsina and Zamfara. Locating a traditional name there would be very difficult though that is the home of hausa where the names are supposed to be numerous..the hausa bakwai...i hope by this few points of mine you are convinced and not confused beyond normal peoples doubt that there are a lot of traditional names up dia...by the way, i have been to almost all northern states#justsaying sha..no vex abeg

lynpetra: I am not gonna teach anyman how to be romantic! As long as I have pointed that to him , I expect him to do exactly what is expected of him.And if chooses not to do that(before marriage,cos I wud never marry a stupid man),another man go help am clear him bush!period!I won't even miss him!

lynpetra: Ofcourse,be romantic to a man who doesn't know the meaning of the word?I hear you.For me,that wasting of my precious time,rather find someone who knows and appreciates it.

lynpetra: Then he need not have a companion na so that he can deal with is issue alone.So whatAm sure no man wants office problems and domestic issues at the same time. A man needs to relax when he is home,and if cuddling and petting ur gf/wife wud give u that much needed peace,then do it!

lynpetra: But the op explicitly pointed out that little things sets him off edge.Haba!He is git tge character of a pregnant Scorpion.A man needs always to be relaxed.

lynpetra: I don't think the help shud come from a soft person!like spending years believing you can change a stiff,unromantic and,short tempered man??That is a long road to hell. Op needs a loving and romantic man.Those men hardly change,even if they do,it wud take so long a time. She better leave that relationship for a woman that fits him.

lynpetra: Abeg leave all those ones jare,it might only make her suffer emotionally.She shud continue to pet him like a child.Better still anytime he shouts unnecessary she shud be like"darling,please come suck breeest",rubbish!The guy is temperamental and obviously a sadist!Someone that doesn't even call her any pet names atallllllllllllll!Ha!
I will repeat again,fire go definitely quench thus fire!

ayili: I wander who should do the petting In a relationship the guy or the girl (owing to the fact that girls are more romantic) ... if the man pets you, care for you, take care of your needs. then what are you doing to ensure the success of the relationship?
@op you know your guys problem (he is not as romantic as you are) why dont u take the lead in that aspect of the relationship ...? you dont have to complain (making him feel frustrated as if he no dey try) ...
you cuddle him pampa him and I bet u (1 kobo) he will soften up with time

C'est moi:
Wow!.....#teardrops.Thanks to all those who contributed.May God replenish your pocket in a million folds.This act of support and kindness really touched me.And Op,I'll put you in my prayers that your portal be opened soon.Just know that this is just a phase in your life that you have to pass through.Better things are coming your way IJN.amen.Stay strong and focused.
P.S- Wish I could help,but circumstances surrounding me too are enormous.

Don karizma: Most guys do it and i am nt an exception.I do greet my guys first and than greet the lady or ladies without shaking there hands, especially when the lady is a stranger.But if i know the lady i will shake her hand or hug her. I believe its a personal thing and has nothing to do with being shy.

lynpetra: I wasn't advising her.
I only pointed out the kind of women that fits her kind of man.Kapish??

lynpetra: Sorry but she can't change him.She doesn't have the character that would change him.
Her bf is the type that needs someone like him.He needs a woman that is headstrong like him.You know when he shouts,,a woman that wud start breaking all the breakable in the house in other to subdue his voice.He needs a woman that wud stand his fists,so y he us sleeping peacefully after being drugged,she wud raise his head,and continue to give him countless blows and slaps as he struggles weakly,a woman that wud set long nails at the edge of his tyres so he wud have to visit tyre shops monthly,a woman that is fearless and doesn't care!Am sure after months if bringing down the roof,if the love still exists,both wud sit on the floor of his fighting arena,tired exhausted, finished,bruised,worn-out,ashame,teary,then an understanding might be reached.

Nimen: APC should just forget SE and SS if they bring out a Northern Muslim as a Presidential candidate

#TEAMGEJ

Lionbite: It's either the government adopt these kids before boko haram seize them for their evil ambitions. With this prototype of the rocket they can upgrade it in such a way they shoot it from their base at kaduna and it lands here in my parlour at mushin. Abeg do something before something do us o.
I Don vex

sparko1: isthis suppose to be funny or what? pack well.