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[quote author=I.Oludayo]I have learnt never to borrow people an amount of money which i can't afford to lose. & while I can make any sacrifice for my WIFE, her fiscal discipline\biz acumen must be excellent. Besides, I wl be an advisor in d venture, with access to her books, not because I want a repayment but because I didn't win a lottery or steal d money. I worked for it.[/quote]Sometimes, u just allow her.
Dont even ask about her proposal.
Im not saying u shldnt be concerned.
Give her the money and talk rather talk and talk before giving the money.
''Baba Kudi, o le fi oro se eyan lese ni tori wipe a fe gba owo obe let alone of 5,000 fun oja si igba''
Make God enrich all of us jare!

acidtalk: Well let's just say, this is an open platform for different views and like they say, everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion. We can't all speak towards one direction. That's the beauty of life.


On the other hand, do you know a great percentage of people shouting "me and my partner are one", "why won't I?", "I will give and never request for a refund" are all going to be worse than her in reality?

Some people don't have now so they assume they are generous and humble. When they get small money you will see the wolf in that so called partner of yours.

You never know ANYONE (even yourself) until you test him with money.

Ur post reminds me of that 9ice and Wizkid song......
Everything on point noni!
U r so on point brother!

slimyem: wetin you dey talk?
....and who says the post makes me happy?
Abeg,go lick stew...
I nor dey for this your nonsense!

There is no point to be happy about the post.
U r who u r!

acidtalk: Babe, You harsh oh!
Did she snatch your boyfriend ni?
Kwanu! See as you attack her.

Well I just feel she is making this judgement from past bitter experiences.
She might have been a victim of "lovelost" all due to financial mistrust.

So what?
Na today?
Come sit ur husband down dey give am lecture on how to invest and save abi!

Idowuogbo: Mama still dey write essays ni? Abegiiiii! Rainy or dry day, U no go give ur guy money cus u stingy. Listen to urself, u will push him to great ideas how? Lets say ur guy comes to u in need cus he urgently needs to settle a tight corner, u'll say NO! And offer dis useless lecture abi? SMH!

Thank God I looked down before I replied.it wld have been rhetoric!

U even try finish d tori..
I stood up go put water for stove at the point where she go introduce him to biz!

Tobiegal: I don't lend...

I give my hubby if he needs it.

And would not even bother to ask for it back.

To answer your question: Yes, my Boo is credit worthy...though, i'd rather give than borrow.

cheers

U ladies here have been so surprising!

dabrake: i no dey take my wife play oh. Make i warn you 1st. I get hot temper

Egbetielele!
Ur blood dey hot o.
Haba mana aboki.
Me sef no go even try play with another man's wife.
Biko oga Dabrake....make u apply brake o...I never talk anything.
She be my person too!

Mayflowa: You are such a good woman!
Sadly, this altitude of yours is not good. You may easily be used and pushed around by fake men. You should be shrewd as a woman and decerning. That way you can lead the home front with your loyal support not gullible support!

Men are like babies, u have to handle them with care less u may live a miserable live. Don't accept anything that come ur way no matter how good u are. Be STRONG woman. Dont be a softy!

Later, u will say our ladies are too .......

acidtalk: gerrout what is making you happy

he will see the true slimyem after you go visiting that ganja joint with that gay boy.

So una dey meet for dia?
No wonder!
I have been observing Slimy's character of late!

slimyem:

Why should u edit my post...ehn?
no try me o!

drzed: For me the keyword here is 'girlfriend'.

If she was his wife, then he can 'borrow' her the money but a man who really loves his wife wont actually expect it back. In marriage, all is for one and one is for all. His things are hers and her things are his, at least technically and in many instances, practically.

As for the girlfriend, what if she dumps him tomorrow?
So the question now for the person in dilemma is: just how much does he TRUST this babe to deliver the money she borrowed?
Therefore, the person who is involved should make his decision based on TRUST (i.e. use your head) and not on LOVE (i.e. dont use your heart).

Of course there are some people wealthy enough to lend out this kind of money without even remembering (e.g. Dangote's pikin). But for most of us mere mortals, N750,000 no be small money o. It can wreck many people's lives and I am sure the person concerned asked for advice because the money matters to him a lot. So use your head and not your heart. Give her the money ONLY if you TRUST her to pay back.

Or better yet, give it to her indirectly. Tell her you dont have that kind of money, but you can talk to someone (e.g. your Area Fada uncle or your Agbero senior brother). Then hire one snarling, teeth-grinding, red-eyed, mustachioed, biceped and triceped no-nonsense-looking guy to pose as the borrower. That is insurance for you.

Thank me later, when she has returned it to you.

Guy u too sabi o!
If na gel wey no send u....
''you are on ur own'' she concluded!

beblessed: I will give any amount i can afford to give. I believe in sharing ALL dat i hv wit my partner, because i should know his abilities by now. If money finish through him, we go drink d garri n groundnut together!

Hmmmm!
I tot all our ladies have gone haywire before!
Im so surprise!

[quote author=~Bluetooth]The husband is not complaining,so why are you embarrassed ? Anyways,the husband may even see the snoring as a night blues.[/quote]Night blues indeed!
LOL!
Like twisted bt Keith Sweat!

hrhobi1: UR NOTHING BUT A STARK ILLETERATE

U shld know when someone is catching fun!

binger: Snoring is a good technique 4 scaring lil spirits away especialy when u sound like a roaring lion...snore harder

LOL!

balogunsam: one lady finally said something constructive and worthy to be recognized...now,this is the kinda lady who'll make a good wife..thumbs up! let odas move into d boysquarters cuz their hubbies snore...smh...

Those gels were just playing around!

Emmyk: hahahahaahaahhahahahaahahah . Lawd have mercy.

Na real '' hahahahaahaahhahahahaahahah'' o.
The LAWD will surely show mercy!
Don laff tire here!
Because I snore like pig?

slimyem: this is serious!
Although a lot of people cannot stand people who snore,i believe,there's someone somewhere who will tolerate you-snoring and all!

Can u?

ukpaku: U can tap d felow to change his/her sleeping positiong.posibly d felow should face down rada dan facin up.

Yeah, that helps wella!

Elmos: This is a BIG issue in my life, I snore, and it is very embarrassing, I have done everything humanly possible, but it wouldn't go. The guy I love to marry left me because she could not cope, I reside in the US, everyday on TV they advertise several devices they claimed could solved my snoring problem, each time I buy one, I will need to invite someone to come and sleep in the same room with me and on each occasion, their report were not I wished for. One day I was in a public bus in London and mistakenly, I slept off, by the time I woke up, every seat next to me front and back are empty while there were empty seat all over people were standing, I understand their reasons, I slept on plane too, it was the same, and for the snoring problem, I don't sleep outside of my house or hotel not in anyone house. I am equally not married because no one want to stay with a snoring man. The one that did eventually left because we were living in different rooms, eventually she left. Please if anyone know the solution to it to say it out am tired.

Go for medical check up just like sucezTP gave above!
U dont need to hate yourself for this!
Its a reflex action, and try jogging to burn down those dirts!

ijebabe: Hahaha! Everyone knows Cork is crazy and harmless. Please leave killz out of this, he's my paddy

U really do have fans, and not just mere accidental follower like me!

ijebabe: Ayo, why i no go laff? First you accuse me with Mynd u no wan make i rest shey?
Is this payback for ur thing with Dubem?

Common! I dont do ''payback''!
Its good having fans though....
Go gel!
''....ur thing with Dubem?''?
NAUTHIN!

dowjones: wow @born2fcuk, this should be the most reasonable comment I've seen you post.

that lady was not desperate. I can assure you she was not. I have aunt who said she'd wait till 40 before she got married and she actually got married at 40 to a 32 year old man. women with money feel they can do anything... this lady was just unlucky. she'd get married again.. very soon !

WHAT!
D most reasonable?

slimyem: hehehe...
Igboro marriage ti daru...

Odaru gan ni.
Won de ti je semo won tan!

kokoA: Guy. Dem no dey use dis kind tin play o.. Am passing out next week o. Are you telling me 200k will be credited to my account?! Behave yourself oo.. No make me faint here o.

Thank God you are already ''passing out''!

ziediolike: It is true i comfirmed it it is gona take effect from year 2021 when 200k wld b lyk 5k

Do u have to beat my rated post for the day!

tlops: At least they were shown objectively but D'banj could only be seen deductively. you need to shine your eyes "wella" to be able to see him. I am just assuming that he was the one since most of you saw him.

U can imagine a Cameo based on assumption!

9jadelta: Pusher T, Big sean, and Kanye west himself featured in Oliver twist video without saying a word. Does it make them less of a superstar ? If u wanna hate, hate objectively. Don jazzy is man from same town but doesn't stop from loving dbanj becos he is making africa proud

Nobody hates.
How I wish u know my kind of part-time job.
Besides,movie is different song clip.
Mind u, Kanye didnt feature, its a ''clipshop''.
Have u watched, Pakurumo and Chuddy K clips?
Those are CAMEO!
Pls, NOBODY hates!

ideylaff: I understand the industry.., and this is no cameo apperance....in my books

its like hey u wanna be in the video...come hop along

even if Dbanj wants the big stage, bigger fame and world wide covereage... nor be to be like ds now

He should ask himself the following questions

1. What has Kanye done with the boys he met @ Good Music careerwise other than use then as ego boosting, I have my own crew people

2. None of the boys don get real or solid banging album.ever under the label..

3. So Dbanj is/must be on the queue for now

4. Also he said his deal with Good Music is not just an artist but a co venture..ds looks like a "yes sir/kanye venture to me oo"

No wonder hes about to do collabo with Sarkodi to stay relevant in afriuca wia he belongs....is that what he wants to sell in the States/worldwide

Oliver twist was a success cos it had the catchy beats and he needs to step up or he will be a paserbye oooo

Even Kanyes imposed end of Oliver Twist Appereance was better than this... Kanye was not on set we know that, its was superimposed by the Video Director lovely boy/director (Ses baba) 'Sesan Ogunro" [b]

Wake up Dbanj....ur not a rapper....

Lastly I think since Don Jazzy still has his deal with Good records as as producer, they will make up so Don Jazzy can produce a few tracks for Dbanj....on his new label

We are waiting and I wish Dbanj well, just not happy with all ds serere /follow follow/ embarassing hes doing with Kanye... all the other guys he met at Good records are not as established as he his already so why reduse yourself to bum licking like the rest of the good music crew

Why we nor dey see Q Tip or John Legend for Kanye back all the time

Wake up Aburo ! Wake brother !! Wake Up Son !!! We/I wish you well all the same, but it looks like you are confused so far

Congrats on Oliver twist, we need more and want more...

The guy no wan wake o!
Confused is an under-adjective!
I dey try envisage the guy where e dey now.....its not funny!

abiki: Lol. Na him dey jump around like tarzan in 2.50-2.57.

Are u simply implying that D'banj is a monkey?
LOL!

[quote author=Ejiné]I know I've said in previous threads that D'Banj sucks fat vulture balls and I didn't like his crap music, but c'mon, for an artiste of his fame, this is just degrading.

Cameo or not, this is plain insulting.

Is this the shiit he's going to be putting up with? Abandoning his shining career in Africa and coming to serve as a no-life-having houseboy to this arrogant Kanye West?

To the people shouting "cameo", let me ask you something - How come we are yet to hear ONE (just ONE) song or beat from him in his new base? Cuz all he's been doing is releasing beats previously made by Don Jazzy in a desperate bid to stay relevant.

How come we haven't heard a single fresh beat made from Mercury? Cuz the Oliver Twist remix was still made by Don Jazzy. The other 2 year old song was still made by Don Jazzy!

Atleast we know Jazzy was quick to float his pilot MAVIN crew with new beats and potential hits (D'Prince) to show he's still musically strong without D'Banj, but the same can't be said about D'Banj who's only been regurgitating old Don Jazzy beats and following Kanye West around like a malnourished houseboy. And to make matters worse, the best he's been able to achieve so far is 47-microsecond screen time in Kanye's video.

Shame shame shame [/quote]And dis 47-microsecond screen time is being termed as ''cameo appearance''.
SMH
U r mouthed!
D'banj fit go hang if he reads this!