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Had this from a friend's DP...love the concept!

Thank God, page 2 was delivered from the power of "saliva"

Lol....forgetting is simply living above what happened!

As Nurilla Iryani said "forgetting is not easy, but remembering is worse"


Forgiveness and forgetting are entwined. One can’t forgive without forgetting, and one can’t forget without forgiving. Forgetting in this case doesn’t literally mean dematerializing an event. NO! And it is not simply repressing or bottling up the thoughts of events. NAH. It simply means smiling or chuckling over issues that hurt one at any point in time. Forgetting is seeing oneself above a problem, heartbreak, offence and hurt. It is like one being above and smiling down on the issues that INDEED hurt.


I heard of a story of a 16yrs old girl who was frequently raped by her father since the age of 10, but asked to shut up by her mother when she reported. Since there wasn’t anyone she could confide in, she wept all night long and decided to leave the house one day, but lost her spinal cord for being knocked down by a car while jaywalking. Her mother and father came for forgiveness. Remember, she will never be able to walk again. Could/should she forgive and forget?


You and this guy have been dating for the past years. You have put in all your best/efforts to make sure the relationship works out without ‘plan B’, and it has been just fine. Just after many years of courtship, your man married another lady within months. Would/should you forgive and forget?


Your supposed best friend, and from childhood for that matter went about slandering you, and also sets you up for a crime you didn’t commit, thereby resulting to incarceration for life. Would/should you forgive and forget?


You caught you spouse having s.ex with your best friend either on your matrimonial bed or anywhere. Would/should you forgive and forget?


Just to mention a few, we all do know that we can go on and on. But, my questions to you is this, would you forgive that person that did hurt you? By letting God, can you let go what he/she did to you and move on with your life?


Some cases are very brutal, that you would want to do anything to make sure the person pays for what he/she has done, but will you be indeed satisfied if the person is punished? Do you think it is going to make him/her a better person?


Forgiveness and forgetting is an act, and it should be one’s culture resulting to mainstream. The heart that forgives and forgets is always stronger than the opposite. People would tend to tag you “weakling” or “mumu”, but the truth of the matter is that you are stronger than they are. Being able to forgive and forget easily is a rare trait, and whosoever finds it has possibly found something more precious than finding a wife. Hope you did understand what I meant there?


A heart that doesn’t forgive or forget is not always at ease. You will always be tensed up and uncomfortable/wince sighting someone you are at loggerheads with. Then imagine resenting about 5 people on a street, 2 people at your place of work, 4 people at your place of worship. Then, your life will be in chaos. A miserable life indeed. You tend to be foolhardy when your BRAVADO is lost! These people go on about their businesses without a thought of you, while your mind is at pendulum, and having temperature over what is not. You detour at the sight of the offender. You keep quiet at the sight of the offender. You are simply sad when the offender is happy. The fact that the offender is not reciprocating your mood is an added load to what you have already. The offender is unconsciously or consciously in control of your mood/life when you refuse to forgive. Forget and move on.


Why will you want an offender to control your mood-atmosphere. It is more like being caged when the offender is around.


Who do you think benefits more when you forgive and forget? You of course!


Forgiveness is deep, and it is one of the greatest weapons to controlling people. Having this weapon, people will always be at your beck and call anytime you need them for something. Also, they will always live to respect you for the rest of their lives. You captured hearts with this weapon, and make them subjects. It might take long to realise these, but they ara always!


Above all, we need to forgive and let go so that our Father in heaven will also be able to forgive us of our sins. It is not for the cleansing of God when he forgives, but for our cleansing, but when we forgive, it is for our cleansing. Two ways we can be cleanse, when we forgive others, and when God forgives us!

Forgiving others is a prerequisite for God's forgiveness. Why would you deny yourself two dual-fold of blessing when all what you have to do is forgive others and forget!


No matter what might have happened to you, just forgive, forget, let go completely, and let God.


You not forgiving will never undo the situation, then simply do forgive and move on since there is nothing that can be done about it to make things the way they were.


And avoid those that you know wouldn’t stop hurting you. Avoiding them doesn’t mean you are not godly, or not forgiven them. Just let them go with a very pure and forgiving heart. They don’t worth being part of your life!

Remember there are some others who you did hurt, but have forgiven you long time ago.


Nothing is impossible with God. With Him, sincere forgiveness is attainable.


God bless!


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LIKE SERIOUSLY?
WHERE? NIGERIA?

THE GATE FEE SHOULD BE LOGGING INTO YOUR NL ACCOUNT WITH THE BOUNCER'S LAPTOP. OR YOU SIMPLY COME WITH YOUR PHONE SHOWING YOUR ACCOUNT WITH YOUR RECENT PICS.

WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST......ENJOY AND CATCH FUNZ!

I WILL BE AT A CORNER OBSERVING AND REPORTING LIVE!

Mileage - 211912?

Guys, please we need to start protesting against 'Bra" that wanna rob us off of our responsibilities!

Which kin thing be this!

Yes ke.....the curse go catch am, overtake and destroy him, then continuing in the lives of his children and great grand sef.

no amount of MFM's deliverance go solve this kin matter o!

U think u fit chop ur cake and still possess it. Mbanu! Rara! ko jo o!

U wanna use and dump abi.......ko de ni ragba fun o!

Yola used to be peaceful......I pray the Modibbo Adama could pacify things!

imagine a very hot state with crisis!

is this also gonna make front page since any topic that carries "a nairalander........." is always making it!
cute sha!

Do you have E 350 4matic, 2009 model. Saloon.

give me the financial breakdown.
thanks!

onila: Dr Daniel Olukoya-led Mountain of Fire and Miracle Ministries church, MFM, will today Dec. 19th begin a crusade to close down all beer parlor outlets in Lagos and turn them into their praying centres. Well, that's their plan, they can only try. Lol

The church says it took the decision to close down beer parlors because alcohol consumption & crime go hand in hand. They say the action would ultimately help depopulate the kingdom of darkness. Ogba, Ikeja is their kickoff base, so all you beer drinkers in that area, make una get ready. Hehe.

Speaking on the strategy to be adopted, Pastor Aderemi Oseni, Regional Pastor for Region 32 MFM Ogba, Lagos, he said;
"We want to convert beer parlours into our praying centres. At the end of the crusade, the kingdom of darkness would be depopulated completely. I am aware that powers of darkness have converted major roads to shines in this environment. We want to pull down all shrines".
The crusade, tagged 'Overcoming The Storm' will begin today 19 December.

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wanted asking for your source, but your post is detailed enough. To have mentioned name!

onila: Someone said she thinks I am the most beautiful woman in the world

that person is the greatest liar of the century. i cant believe you believed!

ichommy: It's up to you, follow their TOS (rules) and you will be safe, you and your entire House hold. Am not surprise when Linda Ikeji Was Ban, posting some Nude and naughty picture will get you a Ban. Anyway she get Paid Advert sha. *Sip Kunnu with Kulikuli*

Linda was banned?
I'm just hearing this!

speedyboi: ...na bankruptcy . Ijebabe co. is really struggling right now....help us pray so it won't be finally liquidated

Nwanu, this matter tire me!
This one na prayer PLUS o!

Addynamo?
Never heard of that.....which makes it kinda not as efficient as adesense!

too much hidden posts......whats happening people.
ijebabe, your being on such a low key no dey good nah!

Danhumprey: What's with the bolded? What was so special about him this year that would have made much people to have searched for him on Google?

Or what it his transfer from Real Madrid to Napoli?

people had to really investiagte him via google cos they were confused of why on earth will........................

I lost interest in the thread when I saw ".....he was heavily drunk....."

For the mature minds!

[quote author=Ms_Steph]we hate u too. *rme*[/quote]But, me love them with tuberlicious leg!
So?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Alot of things![/quote]give 3 of them......don't tell me Mr. chima somnambulate o!

yes, give the price details

my heavenly father, Jehovah bondage breaker, when are u going to deliver me from Onila!

speedyboi: And that is how this thread didn't get to frontpage

LOL!
Gud-am pal.....how have u been?

Does it mean that she is not beautiful enough for him?

I thought IWA goes beyond EWA!

Hiaaa, then if the "supposed" ugly one deserves not a handsome man, then the "supposed" foolish one deserves no better man!