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Jerryblaq:
This guy is one of the major sponsors of banditry in our country.
What baffles me the most is his aura of confidence and composure in airing his myopic stance. This guy is literally walking free while nnamdi kanu is behind bars in sokoto.

Nigeria is completely bleeped

one day some months ago I was about waking up and I heard a strange voice saying the day Gumi is arrested and detained Banditry will end in Nigeria

Kcash200:
Hi guys,

I have a problem i have been dealing with since i was 12. I am from a large family and when i was 12, my mum told me my Dad is not my biological father and for me to make it a secret. I did not know what to do with such an information at that age but i knew it was wrong but i couldnt talk so i am not the one who destroys the family. Everyone lives in peace but i always wonder what will happen if only they know the truth. My biological father has other children and some of them know me that i am outside. He was involved in my life financially from 12years as far as i am aware of. He sent me money then and i kept quiet too and also supported me financially a couple of times though we have no personal relationship asides 2-3mins phone calls here and there and it is been like that for years.

I know my biological father and we kept in touch while i was in secondary school. Now that i am an adult now, i feel really sad about the whole thing and sometimes i even cry on my bed. I have been living in secret and a double life and fearing i might be outed one day. Some people in my mother's family are aware which is very strange and i find it shameful as a man now but i did not choose my fate. I have always tried to forget it and just leave my life but it is always just there especially when i think about starting my own family. I am striving hard for it not to define the way i see marriage and life as i am trying to write a different story for myself.

I grew up with my father who is not my biological father and i have been a good son to him as well and still taking care of him but it bothers that my whole life is a lie and it is hard knowing what i know and i can't say anything as that will scatter the family. I met some girls from a very good home who i can marry but i am scared if i tell her or other girls, that her parent will not let me marry her with that secret.

I am scared of getting married publicly as someone can take the news to my biological father as i do not intend to invite him as my biological father but i always feel heavy anytime i think about it. I want to start a new life for myself but i don't know how to handle this. I do not plan to tell my father as he is getting old and this can kill him at his old age as he has been through a lot in life. He is finally enjoying and i am taking care of him very well and he prays for me all the time.

I am building a good life for myself as a professional and have a lot of girls around me but i don't know what to do. Should i keep quiet and tell the girl i marry after marriage ? Isn't that me building my marriage on deceit. It is a shameful thing to talk about if you look at it.

Sometimes, i feel like they caused me trauma putting me in this position but i am an adult now and will bear responsibility for how i live my life and cant continue to blame any trauma or anyone. I am the one who has to keep quiet for peace to reign in the family.

I don't want to wait too long just incase it is a dealbreaker for someone but i also don't want to be disclosing to anyone.

Aside from marriage, i still do not know what to do with that information.

My advice to you, be a wise son. know that you have two Father's, your biological father and the father who raised you, go visit your biological father and tell him you have a secret plan for marriage but you have to inform him first. The first will be that you will be having two versions of wedding the first will be for the father who raised you while the second will be for him (as honour psych him to believe that the last is for the best, even though you know it is for peace to reign). Ensure that you tell the lady you will be marrying that you have lots of men who are like father's to you but there are two that are so dearly to you and as it you will be having two weddings and you will be meeting both of them alongside with her. Discuss it with your mum too so that she won't spoil things.

If not for how we have lost lots of our cultural heritage, in Yoruba land your father is not your only father.

Be smart and move to the next stage of your life.

dreh17:
Rice rice Rice. Stomach infrastructure

that is what most Nigerians need

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Pootle:
this one always looking for cheap validation.

na apkabio wey toast you i blame.

she has been doing that for decades even before going to the senate

pansophist:
If she come his house with cutlass nko?

[hst 7s why i

Rynny:
But we sorta live together. And I really wanna quit but the feeling I be having like she’ll be really hurt, I’ve tried changing her to my Taste, all effort seems abortive 💔 am really drained n tired 😪tho she’s a nice person when it comes to other things but disrespect is the issue, she talks down on me, insults me, and blame it on anger.

you don jam narcissist

Ghosting, shut down all communication for like 90 days. No calls, no contact, block all communication means, if possible go far away and let distance do it's work

MadamExcellency:
It's N390,000 not N273,000

thanks I was using 1980 rate to calculate

The 100 Naira as at then is the same value of about 273,000 Naira at the moment

Is this not the man that was sacked for stealing public funds

PeterObi4Presid:
I wish I had brethren that we can pray together, challenge each other, people burning for God, and grow together. But this is a phase, and I hope I will pass the test. God strengthen me so I don't fail your test and assignment
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My current church is truly a test. I need the strength of Elijah. No wonder bible says iron sharpeneth iron

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At times the difference lies in upbringing, community, change in environment, meeting the right persons, doing away with scarcity mindset and adopting surplus mentality and becoming a person of value.

HgAkpobomeEr:
Chris Ngige is a man of honor. He will be vindicated.

Unfortunately, he is not

owobokiri:
Call me a hater, but i will keep saying the truth about this man and his business modus operandi. This man's desperation to force every government agency to dance to his whims and caprices is part of the problem of this country. He has basically stampeded out any potential local competitors in the different areas he invests in. There is basically no regulatory agency that is not afraid of him.

The loose ends in government oversights and management of the private sectors has made the economy so vulnerable and Dangote has been ruthlessly exploiting these. As a result, he may end up the richest man on earth while Nigeria will end up one of the poorest . This man sets sugar prices, sets floor prices, sets pasta prices, sets cement prices and is now the one who sets the pump prices of petroleum products across Nigeria!

This is extremely dangerous!
We are now living in "The Federal Republic of Dangote".

No be him fault that his fellow citizens refuse to catch up

USA loves Nigerians because of their Charisma, talents and potentials only that naturally most of us are smarter than the devil and they know. They want us in their country to make things work but as it is naturally very of us want Nigeria to actually work including those in political offices

aswani:
False, it is his step mum, who he is very close to, that is Yoruba or Tapa, he also lived for some years with her growing up in North Central somewhere

thought it was his mom

FreeStuffsNG:
Birthday 'Boy' President John Dramani Mahama recently marked his birthday.

He was born 29 November 1958. He is a Ghanaian politician who has been the president of Ghana since January 2025.

John Dramani Mahama is a member of the National Democratic Congress (NDC), he previously served as president from 2012 to 2017.

Caption this his 'birthday ' picture where he dashingly adorns full regalia of royalty, 'abeti aja' cap and matching aṣọ oke.


All Hail handsome Kabiyesi John Dramani Mahama.


Mynd44 nlfpmod

His mother is Yoruba, Ghanaians have strong Affiliation with Yoruba land, even their biggest market has a Yoruba name

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losak9111:
One of my greatest regrets in life, even to this day, is how I lost a five-year relationship and had my United Kingdom 🇬🇧 dependent visa cancelled.. Just 24 hours before the application was to be completed... because of gambling.

The future I had dreamed of… reaching the UK to complete my PhD, settling down there with my family, giving the next generation a better life, and traveling the world covering football tournaments… all of it seemed within my reach. Even those I was going to stay with had already shown me the environment, my room, and were eagerly waiting for my arrival.

To my surprise, everything I had built over five years, including the relationship I thought would eventually lead to marriage, shattered before my eyes in less than 24 hours.. all because of my addiction.

She never wanted any of this. She couldn’t cope with my gambling addiction or all the money I had wasted. In the end, she decided to end everything.. the relationship and even my dependent visa application.

Almost everyone lost hope in me. Nobody believes that anything good can still come from me anymore.

I have moved on, but the memories and the pain still won’t let me rest. Why? It feels like a mystery... one I’m still yet to understand. Not because I’m eager to reopen old wounds, but because I still don’t understand how I suddenly turned into the greatest enemy of my best friend in a single day.

Maybe one day, before I die, I will meet someone who can explain it to me. It’s strange, because even till today, it never feels like she truly left.. yet in reality, she is gone forever.

I won’t give up… I mean, I really won’t give up… until I achieve that dream. It might be delayed, but I will not rest until I achieve those beautiful dreams (sob 😭).

I pray I can forgive myself… this is my deepest pain in life, even to this moment.

She left me for good. She warned me, but I was so overwhelmed by the power of gambling addiction. And perhaps God did not want us to end up as husband and wife... it remains a mystery.

I wish her well in her future, and I hope that one day she will hear my name and say, “Even though things didn’t work out between us, today I thank God for your life.”

⚠️ Please! Stay away from gambling before it makes you its victim. You might be enjoying it now, but the future will not be kind. Don’t fall into irreversible pain.

Àlàbí Tolúlọpẹ́ Michael ATM ✍🏾

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It might be worth it if you have the funds to implement it, but if you are crazy enough you can start with YouTube

Sensiblerealist:
Dangote does his own philanthropy too as I see person don already dey compare. In fact, he just instituted a 1 trillion education support fund for 10 years.
On the flip side, I thought the guy is Abdul Samad's enemy, after dragging each other in the corporate waters, dem low-key dey attend eachother's events

dem be cousins na, na their business dey fight no be them na

Kaczynski:
why do nigerian women like marrying bald men

they have lots of Kobo and cents that the baddies can't overlook

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Mirasteel:
His eyes is clear now. 😂


From the look on her face, she looks like a troublesome person.

thank you first thing that came to my mind, make I dash you the remaining 15 characters

omooye1:
pls I don't have time for that

just chat me up then I will get it done for you in the shortest of time, meanwhile its important you know that CAC does not issue physical certificates again

shortgun:
My own take is that I don't still understand why Christians will fold their hands and watch uncircumcised bastards subject them to these levels of wickedness.
So if America didn't react that's how they will all be killed?

na wrong teaching cause am, especially the area that doesn't like self defence putting it all in God's hand it took years for me to be out of it myself

omooye1:
Pls is there any CAC agent in Onitsha here , that can register ltd company for me with complete documents, if any pls drop your number

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These our baddies and their love for free things

Jakumo:
Those ranches should naturally be located in the ancestral homeland of the cow owners, which means they all need to be constructed in land either owned or bought by Fulanis in their homeland of Futa Djallon Highlands in Senegal, or in the very far north of Nigeria, so there will be no further reason to see those hideous terrorist kidnappers and their cattle anywhere that civilized people reside in Nigeria.

the sad part of it is the cattle owners do not have any land originally, they came into Africa from the middle East the cattles were just fronts for assimilation and manipulation until they take over territories they have done it in so many countries in Sub Saharan Africa

Says an almost gone northerner. Shariah wey be scam, only for the poor

eejo:
Why do Africans especially Nigerians hate their country and says negative things about their Mother land.
Why do Africans support overseas football clubs and cannot remember clubs in their community
Why do black Africans women wear white women hair to feel like a human
Why do Africans sell everything and travel overseas to do a job they will not do at home
Why will Africans change the way they speak when in overseas to feel human

These behaviors stem from deep-seated issues like cultural alienation, historical trauma, and systemic inequalities perpetuated by neo-colonialism. This leads to internalized inferiority, where Africans unconsciously prioritize Western norms and values over their own, affecting identity, preferences, and self-worth.

My first question to you is this What does God means in the Bible, is it just a name or a System?
Second, do you understand the context of the whole Scriptures and it relates to life itself?

YoungLionken:
I pity so called feminists in Nigeria . They should know that they can never beat us men to the game..

wetin dey pain me pass na the femi inside it, wetin Femi do this people