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Islam › Re: Nairaland Islam Section Debate (NISD) by baba11(m): 1:16pm On Dec 26, 2014
yeyenati:
what do you eat with? Your mouth rigjt? But how many parts are in there?

A house: bedroom, kitchen, bathroom, e.t.c.

I want tall, slim, bald men who has a job but also not too egotistical to know that I matter. And not just by saying it.

Or does variety confuse you? I like your type then, no 2nd wife in the horizon. grin
Woman will not cease to amaze me till I die

They can't be separated with money

No money,no love.....
Islam › Re: Nairaland Islam Section Debate (NISD) by baba11(m): 1:11pm On Dec 26, 2014
Slitz:
On the issue of a lady looking for the tall dark and handsome man, we must understand that its not really about that, a tall dark and handsome man who does not look neat and presentable would still be a NO NO!. If the short man would take more time to dress well and the fat one would ensure he smells and looks good, then why not?
Really!I hear you. What should we now say about a sister that after she gave birth to a child,what we really looked for when marrying her has been a shadow of her former self I.e she's dirty, doesn't look tidy,lazy, beauty fading.Should we divorce her at this stagehuh?
Islam › Re: Nairaland Islam Section Debate (NISD) by baba11(m): 1:07pm On Dec 26, 2014
Slitz:
On the issue of a lady looking for the tall dark and handsome man, we must understand that its not really about that, a tall dark and handsome man who does not look neat and presentable would still be a NO NO!. If the short man would take more time to dress well and the fat one would ensure he smells and looks good, then why not?
Really!I hear you. What should we now say about a sister that after she gave birth to a child,what we really looked for when marrying her has been a shadow of her former self I.e she's dirty, doesn't look tidy,lazy, beauty fading.Should we divorce at this stagehuh?
Islam › Re: Nairaland Islam Section Debate (NISD) by baba11(m): 12:58pm On Dec 26, 2014
To yeyenati, semioyin and slit:Let me tell you,if we continuing talking about education!education!! education or career!!!we'll never achieve anything or much in life

Can anyone here who want to become more Pope than the Catholic tell me he has never dated and this is pure haram.Why not go for something which is clear than this distorted and wrong path?!

Marriage is all about individual involved. If your partner support you,you can both achieve great thing together.Cased study is the Muslim sister I posted up there.Despite her marital status(married ),she was still went on to become the overall best graduating student.How many of you can claim such feat despite your single status.I THINK IT'S HIGH TIME FOR YOU TO WAKE UP FROM YOUR SLUMBER#AN ADVICE....
Islam › Re: Nairaland Islam Section Debate (NISD) by baba11(m): 12:04pm On Dec 26, 2014
In addendum,our sisters do not need to engage in any blame game rather they should be ready to accept the failure on their part.
We can not force them to do things against their wish but I implore them to change their respective orientations. Though,world is now a global but that doesn't mean we should trampled upon Islamic jurisprudence. They are even at the receiving end because in their early years ,they have choices but the moment they're in their thirty, they have no more control about the kind of brothers they want,besides at this time,menopause,difficulty in procreation may set in.Ladies,put marriage first,career second and stop finding excuse. Remember, no one is infallible except Allah (swt ).
Islam › Re: Nairaland Islam Section Debate (NISD) by baba11(m):
Asalam alaikum warahmotulahi wabarakatuhu

The present economic situation in the country has greatly affected our brothers in a way that marriage is the last thing they think of no thanks to unrealistic demands from ladies they want to marry.

Imagine a sister that expects her man to spend lavishly on her for nikkah ceremony and also wants it to be the talk of the town.In this case,such brothers may withdraw from going ahead with it if he's financially incapable of meeting such excessive demands.

The poorly defined concept of "gender equality" has also crept into the psyche of many single Muslim sisters whereby they are clamouring to be given the same treatment as their male counterparts. We have many Non-Governmental Organisations (NGOs) championing this cause but what they fail to realise is that Allah (SWT) created us different. Women are naturally meant to be submissive and supportive to their husbands according to our religion and societal customs but now, they have become more confrontational and get thrown out of their marital homes. Hence, the alarming increase in single mums. This has become alarmingly rampant in recent times.

Gone are the days when there was widespread early marriage but nowadays, the practice has nosedived to the point that some parents want their daughters to attain Msc/PhD status before thinking of marriage! I have seen several cases like that but what they fail to understand is that nature can never be cheated, it'll surely take its course.

There's nothing wrong with women continuing their education after marriage in as much as there's great understanding between both of the spouses involved.A case study here to buttress my point is this married muslim sister that attained overall best graduating student at OAU some days ago: https://www.nairaland.com/2052467/oau-best-graduating-student

That we have the same degree doesn't mean we are equal. Whatever happens, the man is still the head of the family because it is this simple principle that keeps a family strong. Imagine a situation where a lady tells her husband that "they both have Bsc", indirectly telling him that she's not going to be submissive in any manner.
Any brother that's serious in settling down with a woman needs a submissive one. Though, they may never be aware that we are on the look out for this, nevertheless, we have a way of identifying their true worth and character without going outside the jurisdiction of Islamic rules and regulations.

Generally speaking, we brothers want women who have better understanding of Islam rather than the 'my papa is doing Islam, I need to do it too' type. In essence, I am not saying we don't value and appreciate muslim sisters but we want someone who can call us to order whenever we are threading the wrong
path or we are becoming lazy with our deen. May Allah give us the best of spouses (Ameen).

If our ladies want tall, rich, handsome, caring, gentle etc in a brother, how will they marry when that is almost non-existent in one man. I can confidently say now that because of these and many others, they find it very difficult to settle down.

I just hope that they will learn from these so that we can have a society devoid of sina (fornication and adultery)and other Islamic misdeeds because where ever nikkah is difficult and expensive,sina thrives in there.

Ma salam
Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by baba11(m): 1:41pm On Dec 24, 2014
^^Present economic situation can't be wish away When considering settling down....

Both couple has a role to play in it.....
Islam › Re: Muslim Singles, Let Us Have A Talk by baba11(m): 11:19am On Dec 24, 2014
maclatunji:
No one to answer my question. It is very easy to make theories and assertions but when they are tested many fail to hold any substance.

Is it safe to say that the assertion that "there are few suitable single men available for marriage has been debunked"?

I think so. tongue
I don't agree with you because I have witness several scenario whereby a guy was ready to settle down but couldn't see/meet her 'taste '.Although, no thanks to the present economic situation in the country.... now tell me.. who's going to marry a liability as wifehuh
Celebrities › Re: Buhari Operating His Tablet (picture) by baba11(m): 9:35am On Dec 24, 2014
Sai buhari all the way....
Romance › Re: Signs You Are A Boring Lady by baba11(m): 9:25am On Dec 24, 2014
Nnamdini:
I have made a research based on this topic and i found out the major factors responsible for such attitudes.Not every girl is like this mind you.i have up to 200 super ladies who're amazing friends both online & offline

1)Most girls are not intelligent like guys.so they are usually limited in different topics that comes up for discusion

2)Some of them are usually reserved especially when they're with guys.not as if they don't talk or chat per se but the idea of a present male friend/lover makes them mute naturally

3)Some girls have this mindset about when she's with a guy,it means it's the guy's job to do everything on a date/chat while she jus stares like a corpes

4)A topic a guy chooses with a girl is another factor.most girls don't wanna chat/discus politics,sports,business etc..they're more into discusing Love/Relationships.this is d central theme of their chats.anything outside this to most of them is 'duuuuuur'

5)Finally,when most girls are with guys,inferiority complex sets in.they start thinking about what the guy's opinion about her becomes making them to be almost mute/silent in a chat/conversation
I agree With you oon these............they can't give what they don't have....chikena!
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jumia Job Interview by baba11(m): 8:48am On Dec 23, 2014
I received call not mail yesterday....
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Sobbing After Looking At Various Jobs I Have Lost by baba11(m): 8:36am On Dec 23, 2014
Luvola, you again!!!****joking ****
I believe there're some key area lacking in your ability which needs to be filled urgently....

Don't rest yet on your oars......
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Sobbing After Looking At Various Jobs I Have Lost by baba11(m): 8:33am On Dec 23, 2014
donpy:
@op..many immatured guys arnd here on NL..snd me a txt nd lets meet at No 60, adeniyi jones, ikeja on sat..fix u up wit sometin...nd for u guys talkn bout ritual can a ritual be located in frnt of a barracks, or wuld a ritualist wnt to meet sum1 anywhre in adeniyi jones as open as it is..Grow up guys nd be wise wit oppurtunities dat life offers u nd dont jst fool around
What do you have to offer?
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Sterling Bank is Giving 2nd Chance by baba11(m): 8:09am On Dec 23, 2014
adewumiopeyemi:
@baba which call do u receive...and which post do u apply for then
I can't even remember.... I'll call the line this Morning.....I saved it on my phone...
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Sterling Bank is Giving 2nd Chance by baba11(m): 7:52am On Dec 23, 2014
adewumiopeyemi:
igues u guys are ready to work and trick in ths sun everyday all because of bank marketing job.......and if u don get the target for themonth sack letter waiting the pay is 50k ...i just leave diamond bank marketing job... that why am saying this at least am now confortable working in jumia... i wount be thinking hw amgoing to get a customer,,,, grin
Is jumia recruiting now because I received a call supposed ly from them yesterday, though I was supposed to receive mail to that effect but not which make me to doubt the authenticity of the whole thingss........
Science/Technology › Re: Electronics Circuit Design From Concept To Implementation by baba11(m):
acorntree:
Your email?
Pls, send to me too @
Politics › Re: Passing Out Parade Of The Nigeria Police Force (supernumerary) by baba11(m): 7:34am On Dec 23, 2014
all4naija:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/1964793_dsc0024_jpegf25a218113ee2869dcd7e5e5619a3873

What is that dirty water at the foreground? I agree Nigeria is the dirtiest nation on earth after seeing that image! cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
You have come here again?
Politics › Re: Passing Out Parade Of The Nigeria Police Force (supernumerary) by baba11(m): 4:58pm On Dec 22, 2014
What does it take to become one of you?
Politics › Re: Passing Out Parade Of The Nigeria Police Force (supernumerary) by baba11(m): 4:57pm On Dec 22, 2014
What does it take to become one?
Politics › Re: Passing Out Parade Of The Nigeria Police Force (supernumerary) by baba11(m): 4:52pm On Dec 22, 2014
eluquenson:
Thank you sir, just the reason for not attending the yesterday Namusorg meeting.
Islam › Re: Who Is Your Most Respected Muslim Lecturer (scholars) by baba11(m): 11:34pm On Dec 20, 2014
Mine is Ismael mufti menks from Zimbabwe
Politics › Re: What Lessons Can You Learn From GMB by baba11(op): 11:20pm On Dec 20, 2014
FastShipping:
Rubbish! IBB never said anything like that.

Rubbish from you.
I thought so....
Politics › Re: What Lessons Can You Learn From GMB by baba11(op): 10:52pm On Dec 20, 2014
I doubt if ibb ever said that...if he said so,Where's your proof!
Politics › Re: What Lessons Can You Learn From GMB by baba11(op): 10:50pm On Dec 20, 2014
sufido123:
Not to incite violence when you are a leader.
This was just a mere threat...if truly he meant it,Why did boko haram wanted to kill him?
Politics › Re: What Lessons Can You Learn From GMB by baba11(op): 9:44pm On Dec 20, 2014
That is why i love him more and i will henceforth go and study his history and will wish to be like him.HE IS ALREADY MY ROLE MODEL!!!
Politics › What Lessons Can You Learn From GMB by baba11(op): 9:25pm On Dec 20, 2014
The events that unfold at present pertaining to General Muhammad Buhari have made me to critical check myself and i have found out that i am far below this particular man of honour.What that make him to stand out and can work in his favour to become the Nigeria president come '15 are:Consistency,integrity,resilience,straightforward,incorruptible,dependable and timely.He is unarguably the only politician in Nigeria that anyone no matter his or her orientations can vouch for anywhere and anytime .My simple advice to anyone reading this is that whatever you are doing,try to do it well! Imagine someone that has been gunning for a post for the past 12years unyielding;and it seems now that his time had come!!!So my peeps here,what lessons can you learn from Sai Buhari so farhuh
Career › Re: Am In Search Of Great Minds To Join My Team by baba11(m):
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: De Skyline Hotel Vacancies by baba11(op): 9:52pm On Dec 19, 2014
oche123:
PLS whats d address
You will see it at the entrance of the domestic wing of muritala Muhammad airport.It's adjacent to the building of arik airline.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: De Skyline Hotel Vacancies by baba11(op): 12:34am On Dec 19, 2014
Check this out also...

Education › Re: Thread For PHD Students by baba11(m):
all4naija:
I am interested to know what you find amusing in my post. No, I am not!
Don't worry...
Education › Re: Thread For PHD Students by baba11(m): 12:08am On Dec 19, 2014
all4naija:
Write like a post-degree holder. Jeez! What messages are you sending to the world with those scribbles you put up there? angry
Never mind!It's Nothing!!
happy now!? grin grin grin

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