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yeyenati:Woman will not cease to amaze me till I die They can't be separated with money No money,no love..... |
Slitz:Really!I hear you. What should we now say about a sister that after she gave birth to a child,what we really looked for when marrying her has been a shadow of her former self I.e she's dirty, doesn't look tidy,lazy, beauty fading.Should we divorce her at this stage ? |
Slitz:Really!I hear you. What should we now say about a sister that after she gave birth to a child,what we really looked for when marrying her has been a shadow of her former self I.e she's dirty, doesn't look tidy,lazy, beauty fading.Should we divorce at this stage ? |
To yeyenati, semioyin and slit:Let me tell you,if we continuing talking about education!education!! education or career!!!we'll never achieve anything or much in life Can anyone here who want to become more Pope than the Catholic tell me he has never dated and this is pure haram.Why not go for something which is clear than this distorted and wrong path?! Marriage is all about individual involved. If your partner support you,you can both achieve great thing together.Cased study is the Muslim sister I posted up there.Despite her marital status(married ),she was still went on to become the overall best graduating student.How many of you can claim such feat despite your single status.I THINK IT'S HIGH TIME FOR YOU TO WAKE UP FROM YOUR SLUMBER#AN ADVICE.... |
In addendum,our sisters do not need to engage in any blame game rather they should be ready to accept the failure on their part. We can not force them to do things against their wish but I implore them to change their respective orientations. Though,world is now a global but that doesn't mean we should trampled upon Islamic jurisprudence. They are even at the receiving end because in their early years ,they have choices but the moment they're in their thirty, they have no more control about the kind of brothers they want,besides at this time,menopause,difficulty in procreation may set in.Ladies,put marriage first,career second and stop finding excuse. Remember, no one is infallible except Allah (swt ). |
Asalam alaikum warahmotulahi wabarakatuhu The present economic situation in the country has greatly affected our brothers in a way that marriage is the last thing they think of no thanks to unrealistic demands from ladies they want to marry. Imagine a sister that expects her man to spend lavishly on her for nikkah ceremony and also wants it to be the talk of the town.In this case,such brothers may withdraw from going ahead with it if he's financially incapable of meeting such excessive demands. The poorly defined concept of "gender equality" has also crept into the psyche of many single Muslim sisters whereby they are clamouring to be given the same treatment as their male counterparts. We have many Non-Governmental Organisations (NGOs) championing this cause but what they fail to realise is that Allah (SWT) created us different. Women are naturally meant to be submissive and supportive to their husbands according to our religion and societal customs but now, they have become more confrontational and get thrown out of their marital homes. Hence, the alarming increase in single mums. This has become alarmingly rampant in recent times. Gone are the days when there was widespread early marriage but nowadays, the practice has nosedived to the point that some parents want their daughters to attain Msc/PhD status before thinking of marriage! I have seen several cases like that but what they fail to understand is that nature can never be cheated, it'll surely take its course. There's nothing wrong with women continuing their education after marriage in as much as there's great understanding between both of the spouses involved.A case study here to buttress my point is this married muslim sister that attained overall best graduating student at OAU some days ago: https://www.nairaland.com/2052467/oau-best-graduating-student That we have the same degree doesn't mean we are equal. Whatever happens, the man is still the head of the family because it is this simple principle that keeps a family strong. Imagine a situation where a lady tells her husband that "they both have Bsc", indirectly telling him that she's not going to be submissive in any manner. Any brother that's serious in settling down with a woman needs a submissive one. Though, they may never be aware that we are on the look out for this, nevertheless, we have a way of identifying their true worth and character without going outside the jurisdiction of Islamic rules and regulations. Generally speaking, we brothers want women who have better understanding of Islam rather than the 'my papa is doing Islam, I need to do it too' type. In essence, I am not saying we don't value and appreciate muslim sisters but we want someone who can call us to order whenever we are threading the wrong path or we are becoming lazy with our deen. May Allah give us the best of spouses (Ameen). If our ladies want tall, rich, handsome, caring, gentle etc in a brother, how will they marry when that is almost non-existent in one man. I can confidently say now that because of these and many others, they find it very difficult to settle down. I just hope that they will learn from these so that we can have a society devoid of sina (fornication and adultery)and other Islamic misdeeds because where ever nikkah is difficult and expensive,sina thrives in there. Ma salam |
^^Present economic situation can't be wish away When considering settling down.... Both couple has a role to play in it..... |
maclatunji:I don't agree with you because I have witness several scenario whereby a guy was ready to settle down but couldn't see/meet her 'taste '.Although, no thanks to the present economic situation in the country.... now tell me.. who's going to marry a liability as wife ![]() |
Sai buhari all the way.... |
Nnamdini:I agree With you oon these............they can't give what they don't have....chikena! |
I received call not mail yesterday.... |
Luvola, you again!!!****joking **** I believe there're some key area lacking in your ability which needs to be filled urgently.... Don't rest yet on your oars...... |
donpy:What do you have to offer? |
adewumiopeyemi:I can't even remember.... I'll call the line this Morning.....I saved it on my phone... |
adewumiopeyemi:Is jumia recruiting now because I received a call supposed ly from them yesterday, though I was supposed to receive mail to that effect but not which make me to doubt the authenticity of the whole thingss........ |
acorntree:Pls, send to me too @ |
all4naija:You have come here again? |
What does it take to become one of you? |
What does it take to become one? |
eluquenson: |
Mine is Ismael mufti menks from Zimbabwe |
FastShipping:I thought so.... |
I doubt if ibb ever said that...if he said so,Where's your proof! |
sufido123:This was just a mere threat...if truly he meant it,Why did boko haram wanted to kill him? |
That is why i love him more and i will henceforth go and study his history and will wish to be like him.HE IS ALREADY MY ROLE MODEL!!! |
The events that unfold at present pertaining to General Muhammad Buhari have made me to critical check myself and i have found out that i am far below this particular man of honour.What that make him to stand out and can work in his favour to become the Nigeria president come '15 are:Consistency,integrity,resilience,straightforward,incorruptible,dependable and timely.He is unarguably the only politician in Nigeria that anyone no matter his or her orientations can vouch for anywhere and anytime .My simple advice to anyone reading this is that whatever you are doing,try to do it well! Imagine someone that has been gunning for a post for the past 12years unyielding;and it seems now that his time had come!!!So my peeps here,what lessons can you learn from Sai Buhari so far ![]() |
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oche123:You will see it at the entrance of the domestic wing of muritala Muhammad airport.It's adjacent to the building of arik airline. |
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all4naija:Don't worry... |
all4naija:Never mind!It's Nothing!! happy now!? ![]() |
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