₦airaland Forum

tobianthony:
Baba one should naturally want to take care of their partner ...the prevailing sentiment here is that every one should learn to get their finances in order and not depend wholly on their significant others .

Yes if you are in a relationship or marriage its not a bad thing if you shoulder part of the bills in relationship regardless of your gender or roles .

No more house wife ohhhh ..or house husband .

If the bread winner gets fired by the bread maker nko ?

Bakery go close ?

And because the bread business isn't moving does it mean the partner shouldn't respectfully help out ?

Speaking of bread ..I'm hungry .

you guys are not getting what this girl is trying to point out,all she is saying is that women prefer to date rich guys,but with the prevalence of broke men,its a struggle for them to settle with broke men,its only natural,as a man you shouldnt be expecting your gf or wife to help u out financially only when you are in dire need,a man should strive to be as financially dominant as possible,this ensures a stable relationship,but when the man starts expecting a woman to handle things for him he looses credibility and respect.trust me its more fun when you have so much more and your woman depends on you totally,u will enjoy her so much,buh when shes shouldering some responsibilities she becomes fustrated even if she is rich,women want to be taken care of,mens goals should be to strive for financial success and marry or date a beautiful ,good woman,not to be seeking for working women

Cinderella5:
whats the fun in a relationship where the guy cannot meet some financial demands of a girl? Cannot take her out to fancy places cos no money, we are just being realistic, call it leeching, doesnt matter.

you are right cinderella,the ways guys reason these days is sickening

Safiaa:
The problem with you men is that you want to pick and choose when you want to be equal with women. It's either one or the other, you cant be on the fence. I personally don't believe men and women are equal. Therefore, the financial power should lay more on the man. Its as simple as abc. You want to be equal with finances, but when it comes to sexuality you don't want to compete. You're being hypocritical. Pick one side.

trutalk girl,the guys here are so hypocritical it irritates me,men shud be able to take care of their women,thats a real man,nt all ds guys saying girls are broke,when girls start making money now and asking them to be househusbands they will start ranting

guys here dont understand women,its natural for a woman to seek men with high financial status just like men like beautiful women,i dont know why guys these days are seeking for rich women,a man should be able to shoulder the financial responsibilities of his woman,now that guys are giving up on that responsibility dont expect respect from women

virtualcard:
Its a tough decision...im a guy still trying to find my feet tho i decided to go into business after graduation. Im still a work in progress. I dont have much to offer her...infact i dont have but she blivs so much in me cos she knows i have a plan and a purpose. She gives me ground breaking suggestions wen it comes tobusiness that is because her dad is into d system. That is one thing out of many i love about her. So if a guy is broke doesnt mean a girl cant fall inlove with him. But if a guy is broke and has no plan at all bliv me i dunno wat dat girl is doing with such person.

tru talk,i dnt knw why guys on nairaland justify their brokeness and start attacking ladies,i support women dating only rich guys,that shud motivate you as a man,but the guys here are so weak,they pushing girls to thrive for financial independence,then when girls talk about their sucess they start ranting and calling them feminist,i dnt just understand this nairaland guys,were are they from?

how come girls are now coming top in mathematics and science,what is happening to these younger genration of boys

kuchikau:
...........Let me use dis opportunity to advise guys who foolishily follow/live their lives to please girls. U are on ur way to your early grave.
See the way nairalanders adores some stupid girls here makes me go gaga. I dont really undastand whats so special about their toto or nyash or breast.
It takes only a woman to bring a very strong man to his knees.
For Gods sake why do men follow women about like sheep with direction.
A gal dat mensturates evry 28days, wets her dirty smelling pants, yet u behave like an idiot before her. Wetin they hungry u for her stupid body?
ThankGod for my kind of friends.

correct guy,i dnt know when men would learn,especially these nairaland guys,they are pussies,there nothing special about women,men are just being indoctrinated to pedestalize women

kuchikau:
...........Let me use dis opportunity to advise guys who foolishily follow/live their lives to please girls. U are on ur way to your early grave.
See the way nairalanders adores some stupid girls here makes me go gaga. I dont really undastand whats so special about their toto or nyash or breast.
It takes only a woman to bring a very strong man to his knees.
For Gods sake why do men follow women about like sheep with direction.
A gal dat mensturates evry 28days, wets her dirty smelling pants, yet u behave like an idiot before her. Wetin they hungry u for her stupid body?
ThankGod for my kind of friends.

correct guy,i dnt know when men would learn,especially these nairaland guys,they are pussies

Pidgin2:
American Idol, Super bowl and keeping up with the Kardashians have all been on prime time TV which has millions of viewers tuned in also Beyonce, Kanye West and Co are celebrated in US and can actually swing votes during elections

Nigerians are basically lazy. A PhD holder in Nuclear physics should be looking into research e. g "How to use nuclear energy to generate power for us here, do you think a company interested in providing alternative energy will not sponsor him or her? But instead the only thing such a person will be thinking of is how to get government job

Even private indigenous companies or persons can fund such a research but all we keep hearing is how our bests brains are not harnessed. Was it the US government that funded Albert Aistein's researches? Most of these PhD holders are on scholarship, if they could apply and win scholarships it's not impossible to apply and win research grants

this pidgin always makes sense,girls now reason so logically while guys reason emotionally now,i fear for the future of men,women have taken over totally

Justiceleague1:
The bloody cone head shud be left there for a long while until he learns never to assault a woman again in his life. Bloody cone heads,thats their hallmark everywhere,like their ferocious but lazy agberos who would attack a bold lone ranger like a pack of bloody hyenas buh wud be 'flash' enuf to 'flash' to mowe ibafo Idp @the sudden firing sound of a burst tyre or @the sight of a black toy gun..

women beaters and cone headed criminals sophisticata

you nairaland guys are so ultra feminine it disgusts me,the women here are defending the man,while the guys are whining,men have now become feminine,the tables have really turned

this is stupid,men shouldnt let their wives go through ds stress,no woman deserves this,after giving birth to your children,u still expect her to struggle ds way,its nt fair,men should wake up,men stop letting ur wives go through all ds

lovelygurl:
Frustrated old single women? Heart broken ladies with complex issues? Well look at her picture I don't think so especially since she said MUM AND DAD are the head of the home. But then again, those are words you throw out at every lady who is not of your opinion. I wonder what your problem is. She's living her life, why not live yours and leave her alone? Why are you so worried, why do you care?

Don't tell me you are SCARED and INSCURE of and about people like her and her beliefs because I don't see how it's your business. I mean can you stop her? NOOOO

You still think that marriage is everybody's goal. Wake up. More and more people don't give a f about marriage, all people care about are kids

guys please stop fussing about head of the home shit,just be a man,whether your the head of the home or not,as a man you will have your way,the women cant rant all they want,i think more men should start leaving more responsibilities for women and just enjoy their lives,forget about all these girls,just Bleep them,they are cheap bitches

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thank me later

putit:
Brother, that's true. If things continues like this, men will lose their relevance. Guys need to wise up..

what relevance do you as a man have now that you are afraid off loosing??its everyman for himself now,work on yourself and become relevant in future.pls guys start reading google these sites...return of kings,charlessledge,relampagofurioso, masculinedevelopment,illimitablemen etc.you will be glad you did

oxmale:
putit you got it all right.. I once read on nairaland where a 28 year old guy(actually an untrained fool living a useless life) was telling us how he planned on sleeping with a 15 year old girl he met on facebook. And the funny thing is he received appraisals from other fools.

If things continue like this men will lose their relevance. I do not think the male man will be as relevant and useful in society as they are now in the nearest future,, the tables might be turned.

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what is wrong with a 28year old man sleeping with a 15years old girl?? what do u mean by the male loosing their relevance??

Trina0936:
As if we were not the ones carrying the burden all along....smh! Smart kids won't even look at you after you abandon them and their mother just few stupid ones.

since you are advocating for women to be single mums,when more girls adopt the concept,it will become a norm and children wouldnt be bothered if they dnt know their fathers,also men will learn to live without knowing their children.isnt that what u women want?? men will always get the better deal,just like i have come to realize that feminism is also a better deal for men,it relieves men off responsibitilies and empowered women are hot and they provide more cheaper and better sex,more and more women should be empowered,the only problem is that women cant sustain and maintain civilisation

Trina0936:
You mean the lazy ones who don't want to work!

am not surprised at this trina,one of these confused man lookalike girls of these days ,i wish more and more ladies will be like u,i prefer the concept of single motherhood,the women should carry the burden of raising children alone,it will be all fun for boys and men,

[quote author=funmisticqueen post=55856974]yinmu[/quot


i kinda feel am nagging,i give up on this women issue,i wud stop complaining,i suddenly now think women should have their freedom

sosa993:
doesn't change the fact he's tying all or most blames on women. you hardly see a woman fail in something and then blame the opposite gender.

this is pure nagging, I think the first thing this new generation men need to become real men again, is to stop NAGGING, when that is settled then talk about controlling your dicks

when men are talking about their issues you are calling it nagging,nobody is blanibg women we are just highliting some issues facing us men,young men need to talk about this issues,on platforms like this because we dont normally discuss this issues,now u trying to shame men for talking about their issues,nobody is nagging or blaming women,we are jus enlightening ourselves as men.you women delight in the fact that men are supposedly geting weaker,u want us reduced to your level ,fortunately it will not happen,its a conspiracy .the tables,whatever it is have not turned,it cannot turn

Trina0936:
Just see the number of posts on this thread just because of women. If only most women can be smart and know they are the real rulers of this world.
I am glad though that its only because of kids most women get married these days. Many single mums everywhere because they all know they dont need a man,just make your own money and if you want a kid get one!! Then you can choose any man you want and get free sex every time unlike the male folks!!

thats the roots of women problem they destroy everything good,you think u will raise children that dont know their fathers and everything will be ok?? with time you women will learn the hard way

Trina0936:
Just see the number of posts on this thread just because of women. If only most women can be smart and know they are the real rulers of this world.
I am glad though that its only because of kids most women get married these days. Many single mums everywhere because they all know they dont need a man,just make your own money and if you want a kid get one!! Then you can choose any man you want and get free sex every time unlike the male folks!!

its a better deal for men too,men dont need to marry old hags,we just keep fucking young sweet girls,the women can have their money and kids,i dont know why women think men desire women to need them,we dont need women too

sarahade:
Guy nobody is stopping you from dating your fellow man.
Im sure they have more sexual grip on you.

Mtcheeeeew pained gay oshi.

its the truth,all i see these days are ugly women mostly,mostly only the young girl are still pretty,the married old spinsters are just hags

NotOfThis:
Most def.

lol,the weak always desire for the strong to become weak,the spirit of envy rules women,they desire what is not meant for them and what they cannot obtain,they therefore rejoice and desire the downfall of men and they actively pursue it,but they will reap their rewards

proudafrogal:
Adam and eve story Is a fable. men and women have have their unique strengths and weaknesses but we are one in equal humanity.

women are becoming uglier daily,their sexual grip on men is reducing

OLANIYI1985:
its funny, when we were growing up the women were totally submissive and obedient to there husbands, now adays women are rude, they talk back, they even do whaat ever they like. shout out to the old gees that had there wifes on the hook.

these same men that had the best of times are now the ones encouraging women to be rebellious.e.g emir sanusi,who was supporting his daughter for slapping a man

[quote author=proudafrogal post=55848720]misogyny is dying

misogyny is dying[/quoti

i dnt believe in so called misogyny but men will arise again in future and put women in their place,we have allowed women to ruin the world in a very short time

proudafrogal:
there is no place for misogynist in the 21st century. the world keeps changing.

but theres a place for feminists in 21st century right,

misogyny as just started,it is coming in full force in future

proudafrogal:
pained misogynist sorry

yes am pained,buh its the truth,guys are waking up to the true nature of women,the conspiracy against men must end ,the destruction of men will bare down on women too,so men have to take action to protect society,

the dumbing down of men is already affecting women

men who are the protectors of humanity have to wake up to save our civilization

queenbetsy:
una never see anything.
this is just the beginning...

it will end soon,younger guys are waking up,and we will soon start training men to put an end to this menace of society

putit:
In recent times, men are getting weaker while women are getting stronger. Most men now act weak around women. That's why there are so many spoilt n disrespectful young women out there.

It's damn crazy..

There are so many wussy men who now eat up and condole these girls bad behaviors because they need sex from them. These spoilt women now feel they can eat their cake and have it. That's bad

Women can't live without men and they know it.. It's no surprise all my life I have heard women say they would rather hangout with male instead of female because they tend to get along with guys. And note that women with more male friends have more sex but not actually with them.

If a woman is placed in a jungle were there are wild animals, I doubt if she'll come out alive but put a man in a jungle full of wild animal, there is possibility he'll survive because men have physical attributes that can help him fight predators. Men have the body suited for fighting both animal and man.


Women may not possess the physical attributes of men but they have the ability to emotionally manipulate men..It's no wonder a girl of 20 years old can make a man of 45 years old behave like a 5 years old boy. Sex is the most powerful tool women have against men


Women are the gate keepers of sex while men are the gate keepers of commitment/relationships. Women knows they are the sexual gate keepers, and they know some men can sacrifices their kidneys (or even their life) for sex. That's why they take full advantages of it to emotionally manipulate men to get what they want.

Everybody always tell women to be cautious when it comes giving men sex but nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women.

SEX is the most powerful weapon a woman have against a man

ATTENTION (or validation) is the most powerful weapon a man have against a woman.

Men are not taking advantage of the power ( of attention) they have. Women needs men attention. That's why they spend long time making up and painting their face before stepping out of their house
Attention is important to women ( and I think they love male attention more than sex itself). A man can manipulate a woman’s desire through adjustments to the amount or intensity of attention he gives to or withholds from her.

That's why a woman will chase a man that pay/give less attention to her.

putit.u are a greatman,i really respect you for this write up,keep up the good work

NotOfThis:
I like the title of this thread.

you are happy men are getting weaker right?

this is a great write up,i didnt know men like this are out there,pls all men should wake up,i have been talking about this for a while now,men in the west have been feminized and pussified completely,it is gradually creeping in africa,i always complain about this,there is a conspiracy against men in todays society in nigeria,old men who have been manipulated by women and women themselves are cleverly manipulating society against young men,in other to hand over power to women in the future,they are cleverly subvertly doing this through government aid mainly from western governments,NGO's and sponsorship by successful women eg linda ikeji,they want to boost female power through exclusion of young men and boys,its a wicked conspiracy by women against us,old men as well as pussified estrogen filled younger guys are their tools.pls young guys lets wake up and bond together and help ourselves,the women have infiltrated mens groups and associations breaking the bond of men,while they form women only associations were they secretly plan their agenda,look at the nigerian defence academy were the pussy president allowed girls in,thereby watering down an association of brothers,pls men lets bind together and crush our enemies,women will know they cant compete with real men so they cleverly manipulate and pussify men,unfortunately men are falling for this,pls men lets wake up