₦airaland Forum

if i had the chance to rule this country,nigeria will be a bad ass country,am not weak minded ,most nigerians are terribly weak minded,i dont mean smart,i mean they have poor self worth,africans dont have sense of societal preservation,we are too selfish,n we concern ourselves with so much irrelevant things

Okoh1:
The answer to your question is as simple as it is staring straight into your forhead. Look, guy, in Africa, we don't believe in nuclear war heads, nuclear cantonment or nuclear missiles. Our religiosity is a in a different level of nuclear arsenal. We will pray and fast and sing and speak in tongues. No weapon fashioned against us shall prosper.

When third world war breaks out, adeboye, tb Joshua, mouka, and the others will lead our soldiers of prayer warriors to the battle ground. In the same vein, the Muslims too will present all their alfas, mallams, imams to attack from the air..

So, Mr op, we don't need nuclear heads biko.

lool,guy u funny,its tru,africans are very unserious and weak minded

dovelike:
When men worked while women stayed back home. Today women are also working. Who will look after them as well?

Back then, women did menial jobs to support their husbands income or to keep busy, but today women are pushed to get educated and get a well paying job too because ''men'' now want educated women. Then when home duties slack, men will complain. These demands on women sometimes are insane.

Some men are just looking for someone to baby them and clean up after their lazy self.

Simple, a wife is a wife, definitely, but if she is going to be actively involved in providing for the family too, nothing stops you Mr. husband from putting the kettle to boil as well.

men did not start the demand or the pressure on women to be educated, women forced their way into education and the workplace true feminism,then men had no choice buh to accept women that way and have gotten used to it,now u women are saying we are pressuring and making demands on women?? women are funny

you have very valid points,nigeria needs a sincere,visionary dictator,to force adherence to law and destroy corruption,buh many nigerian men are too lusty and weak to be any such dictator,mayb we need a woman,the women tend to be more strict and brave than most of the men available

computergeek:
Dude stitch your hateful mouth and curseful mouth up..

hateful and curseful....

computergeek:
Dude stitch your hateful mouth and curseful mouth up..

hateful and curseful....that is too much to bear

ds woman will turn ds boy into a future simp,female worshiping loser

they want to turn men weak,their agenda has been exposed.

[quote author=Ladyhippolyta88 post=63699051]My stance remains, thank you.It will always be constant to change. [/quote

biology trumps ideology or conditioning,man cannot change lets he dies,society only revolves in cycles we will always go back were we started from,so boys will always be boys.

i'll Bleep ur ass if i see u

Ladyhippolyta88:
Oh Mr man the 21st century world and other centuries to come would be everybody's world change is the only constant thing in life.And one's capability is not decided by their gender prove yourself and it is your's.you said society was shaped by men I agree and such conditioning would always be subject to change.

21st century is the creation of men,besides what caused the conditioning in the first place? if nt mans desires,society can only be shaped as far as men are willing to cooperate, if men want the status quo it will remain,and if men change they are no longer men they become effeminate and gay and can no longer breed,therefore society ends

Ladyhippolyta88:
It is society clearly simple.And I don't need to argue about it with you.

lol,it is society lol,tell me what is society,society is conditioned by men and that is what men want,mayb women dont want it but men generally have historically been the shapers of society,its a mans world forever,every good or bad thing in the world is has been caused by men,mayb when women take over they can shape the world the way they want it,buh am sure women will take the world back to stone age

Ladyhippolyta88:
That is just society conditioning not necessarily a natural thing.

its natural,if it wasnt, society will not be conditioned that way,what is society? society is made up humans n humans condition society according to their natural inclinations,everything falls into its place,its from our inclinations that we shape society,how come all over the world theres the same conditions in place,if not because thats what n who we are.
society doesnt magically shape itself,its the humans with our natural instincts that shape our society.and since these conditions are generally the same all over the world from time immemorial it is therefore natural

simps....

Ladyhippolyta88:
I sincerely disagree and not all women like to be dominated and not all men as well.As for me don't try to dominate me I won't try to dominate you.

i didnt imply women like to be dominated,i only stated the natural occurence of things is that,all men naturally want to dominate women and other men,its a natural inclination,thats why men fight wars and cause unnecessary unrest everywere,men hold back because of the way the world is structured now,that is the origin of male ego,the desire to dominate,but women dont understand this,they think its a male flaw but its not its natural to men,they then try to shame men for being men,its just like the female desire to look good,women cant just help it,because its biological, the male desire to dominate also biological,so men cant just help it,its natural for men to always want to be in charge of their families and call the shots,women think its unfair,but its biological to men,men are also reasonable and dont just go about it in an oppressive manner all the time,any woman that doesnt like that cant live with a man,thats why there is so much disintegration of families,a woman can only have a complete family on the mans terms its just the way nature wanted it,even if women dont like it theres nothing that can change it,except if men stop being men which is what is happening in the western world were most of their men have been completely feminised and are turning effeminate and transgender

Ladyhippolyta88:
Some men not all and It is who has the highest pay that calls the shot.

it might be he who as the highest pay that calls the shots,but only men generally have the ability to command obedience and authority,a broke man can still dominate his wife,money doesnt guaranty authority in the home,even a weak rich man might not be a to dominate his wife and the wife will do as she pleases as the case with most white men,who are weak towards their wives,their wifes dont submit to them,its only men who still have that core manhood in them that are dominant.Women deceive themselves by assuming if they have more money they will call the shots,its only in movies that happens or if shes married to a docile man,money only guarantees easy divorce for women it doesnt guarantee authority in their homes.that is why women feel men are intimidated or jealous when they are richer than their spouses,a woman earning more usually triggers the male dominance instincts even more,most rich guys do not oppress their wifes,its actually the poor men whose wife earn more that actually oppress their wifes more.I have also come to realize that women do not understand the nature of men,they think men are like themselves and they judge based on their own nature nt realising that men are actually very different from women or try to deduce men from what they see in movies which are usually false representations

Mhissgaga:
I tell you most men can't stand independent ladies especially single ladies that are buoyant financially

In their mind they'll be saying"This one go old for him papa house"

Do you think it's easy for a woman to go to work morning till night,keep the house clean,cook for a man and have sex with him?She's not some machine...The moment the woman stops doing some basic things they tag as 'feminine duties' or whenever she talks intelligently they quickly say she has bad characters. To crown it all Most men aren't helpful

Nigerian men if not all can't stand women that are more experienced than them and that's the truth...They need the 'Yes-Yes' kinda woman...The one that will not argue with them..The one that will agree completely to whatever they say whether right or wrong...Those ones that will be nodding their heads to all of their conversation

They keep saying Nigerian ladies are shallow minded...They beg for favours and all that, one moment she's quickly tagged a gold digger...Give them a smart woman the talk will change...They will say she has bad characters...She's proud...Isn't that hypocrisy

men naturally want submissive women period,its hardwired in men,why you women think its a problem is because what you see with the western world.but these western people arent normal,their men have been feminised especially as regards their thought pattern.thats y u probably observe that they are subservient to their women,and nigerian women are lusting for that,but it isnt normal,all other races of men subdue their women,its totally natural for men its not peculiar to nigerian men

Safiaaa:
Yes some love dependent women. Very few love independent women, realistically speaking. But most if not all of you claim women have nothing else to offer but pussy? Can you please explain this?

the claim that women have nothing to offer by nairaland guys is just rubbish talk,its nt a typical mindset of many nigerian guys,most nairaland guys are very dull dont follow their talk.that statement doesnr make sense.you gals shouldnt access nigerian men through ds nairaland guys,most of them are a shame to realmen out there

ds putit,is a very sensible guy,a real man,nt like most of ds nairaland simps that worship women,

let us guys reason more like ds,work on ourselves and be successful,and stop all ds simping for women

Martin0:
Oh I see
U are still not making sence!

just get the idea into ur thick skull

Martin0:
U ve successfully constructed a very ineffective and non reasoning statement/comment!

Ciao happy Xmass

u dont get my statement cos u are a simp,u ass lick ur women/ur wife

Martin0:
I mean same rules should be apply to ladies also! Or don't u know ladies do propose!?

too much simping from men these days, most nairaland guys are ultra simps ,una disgust me

this OP is a big simp

one thing i have observed is that is a woman is not controlled by a man,either by father or husband,or brothers they tend to propagate degenerate lifestyles and whoredom

[quote author=Rityonyi post=63386201]yay! I love it!!

Gone are the days when women depend on men on virtually everything, we are hard working too.



Please Buhari need to hear gist like these so he will understand we have grown past the days women were only entitled to "the other room".


kudos to all the hard working women who work with their brain and hands minus those that spread their legs to get every penny the have and make men think its all we can offer and thus see us as tools for "the other room".[/quote

women are better as sex objects all these so called hardworking women can make a man puke,they are kill erection like crazy,besides if not for the deliberate exclusive of men by authorities these women will not get anywere,they hav to always exclude men before women can achieve anything

jaychubi:
It's not by first class what matters is the lawyer to make multi -millions and become an SAN n one can achieve dt with even 3rd class.

How many SAN mades First class, first class in theory aka excellent crammer is different from first class in practice.

Highest she will work in a law firm for below 100k or d girl will become a lecturer n end up a pauper professor.

D highest status in law profession is SAN

its true sha,i get ur point

[quote author=punisha post=63379425]you just proved her point...ur case is irredeemable.[/quote
lol u guys ehn,always so full of venom

nachW:
You are too close to the ground Look up

i dont know what you mean

igbo women always leading their men,when will their men rise?

Nowenuse:
I have hardly seen Nigerian men with beautiful, young and slim white spouses. If u have, can you please show me?

Yes, our women could also be marrying white men for money, but at least they are not so desperate. They take their time to find young and handsome white men.

Besides, most of the Nigerian women we see marrying white men look more polished, educated and middle class unlike their male counterparts whom the desire to escape poverty is very visible on their faces.

thats what am saying the guys are broke poor guys,they are not on the same level of women that marry white men,i cannot show you their pictures but there are men that marry white young women,black guys should have more self respect what is so special about white women,personally i dont find them all that attractive

cstr1000:
I hope you know the meaning of ''premium white chicks''. Daughters of Rich white SOBs that attended private schools all their lives, not just any white plain looking girl looking for a stable partner.

You see how easy it was for these white boys to sweep these fine Nigerian women off their feet and even marry them- Black Nigerian women who are probably from wealthy homes.
it would take a miracle for a Nigerian man to marry a white woman of that same calibre. You need serious dough and a reputation.

ok,i get u nw,its tru,black girls make themselves very easy for white men,buh its nt out of the ordinary,many blacks adore white folks,a white man is high status by default to most blackwomen no matter his class or pedigree,nd u knw women no go for high status men,buh a black man even if he is rich might not be seen as high status because of the stigma of poverty n backwardness of the blackrace,so it will be generally more difficult for black men,its just simple logic

cstr1000:
It takes a lot to marry a young white chick as a black African man. You need more than youth and looks.

Even African americans on youtube are complaining that white women are snobbish and see black men as dangerous meat , looking to rape them.

i dnt think so,i think its just ur mindset,though i wudnt say i knw wat d real situation is,buh i hav two friends who got married to young white girls,and they only recently moved abroad,besides they are not rich

Nowenuse:
Truth be say Naija men dey fall hand abeg.

Our women usually bring young and handsome white men home for marriage, but for us it is the clear opposite, fat, old and ugly. Kai, I dey shame for us o.

i dnt think those men dat marry old white grannies are d same category of women here that are marrying white men,they are ib the category of those benin gals doing prostitution in italy,they are not the average educated nigerian men ,many men do marry young white chixks

DIKEnaWAR:
Well, to all the boys, it is becoming a woman's world. Ladies excel better in education, science and other things. We hope boys sit up or they will end up cooking food and baby sitting.

i dont think girls excel better,theres just so much distraction for boys these days,n because they do not have guidance like the girls they are being left to rot