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RomanceRe: For Those Who Can't Forget Their Ex While With The Current -it Could Be Disaster by Babe2sure(f): 9:00am On Sep 24, 2015
For him to go to the extent of disemboweling. Hehehehe!
A serial killer will be on the prowl, if he is dare let loose.
RomanceRe: Revealed: Why Lagos Women End Up Being Single Mothers by Babe2sure(f): 7:42am On Sep 24, 2015
angry angry
Why use Omoni Oboli's picture when she is not a single mother?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Babe2sure(f): 6:42am On Sep 24, 2015
muphasar11:
Am here
How is everyone
Dre11
Missmossy
Babe2sure
Zyzxx
Good morning
I'm fine.
Forum GamesRe: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by Babe2sure(f): 8:21pm On Sep 23, 2015
ReneeNuttall:
SOMETHING WENT WRONG IN THE NIGIRIAN ECONOMY SYSTEM
System can be a closed or an open one. Which do you think the earth is?
FamilyRe: Be Careful Before You Turn Into Someone Everyone Wants To Avoid!!!! by Babe2sure(f): 10:47am On Sep 23, 2015
Davedoz:
SPOT ON!!!! Sister, we're both on the same page! If only 50% of NairaLanders can have this mentality!
Yeah!
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Babe2sure(f): 10:42am On Sep 23, 2015
Lero15:
Not far. Maybe 30 minutes less without traffic.
But that ain't possible
Okay.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Babe2sure(f): 7:58am On Sep 23, 2015
Lero15:
Traffic ooo.
Yeah. Thanks jare.
Good morning.
gringrin
Mi ti mo wipe traffic yen na ni.
Is your place of work very far from home?
Mine is just 40mins.
FamilyRe: Be Careful Before You Turn Into Someone Everyone Wants To Avoid!!!! by Babe2sure(f):
Davedoz:
Yea. I agree with you a lot! From your post, I noticed you're a strong person psychologically! But not everyone is like you! what of those that are weak psychologically. Lemi make what I'm saying clearer to you. Sometimes when people make mistakes, and you see them admitting and being remorseful, I don't think that's the time to, start being a critic. That's the time to be shoulder the person can lean on. Every kind advice you give then will not be forgotten and will go a long way in helping. But with the criticism the person may feel judged and may not like to share more hideous things with you. When they brought the woman that was caught in adultery to Jesus, what did HE do? He showed the critics that all of them judging her and criticizing her, are not better than her. And Himself (Jesus) that is better didn't even criticize her. And she went on to be a changed woman. I can give more examples but, my patients are waiting for me, make them no fire me!
We are still saying the same thing. Everything you said here, I have addressed in that post. It depends on the matter brought actually. It is not every matter one needs to be criticised on, that was why I used[b]some[/b].

People should emphatize with people who seek advice and not make jest of them. I remember a thread a particular guy opened concerning is health. Come and see people making jest of him, I was like WTF!!! He would regret opening that thread that day. I gave him an advice over the issue. But I was surprised about the way people go about responding to his thread. You don't kick others when they are down, nobody knows tomorrow.

And I said, even if you are to criticise, it shouldn't be harsh. Some people are not strong psychologically, they are vulnerable to verbal attacks easily.
And I said, people can be excused sometimes because of their temperament, it plays a major role in how people react to issues often times. That is why one should strive to develop thick skin.
It is an anomaly that should be addressed, really.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Babe2sure(f): 7:20am On Sep 23, 2015
Lero15:
These days ehn, Lagos has been dealing with me sad

What about you?
How? In terms of traffic?

If Lagos push you, you push it back and if it gives you lime, you make Lemonade. Don't allow it to deal with you.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Babe2sure(f): 6:56am On Sep 23, 2015
Lero15:
Happy Holidays in advance grin
Yeah, looking forward to it with so much glee.
How have you been?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Babe2sure(f): 6:45am On Sep 23, 2015
Lero15:
I gentle ooo. Longest time smiley

How have you been?
Its a long time, indeed.
I'm gud.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Babe2sure(f): 6:33am On Sep 23, 2015
Lero15:
Babe2sure!!!!
What's up? cheesy
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Missmossy And Friends Crib¤¤¤ by Babe2sure(f): 6:29am On Sep 23, 2015
dre11:
[size=16]Who dey here[/size]
I dey here. Lero15 sef dey here.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Shocks Longtime Friend, Rejects His Trailer Of Rams As Sallah Gift by Babe2sure(f): 5:44am On Sep 23, 2015
The friend want to give PMB the gift with the right hand and collect it back with the left hand.
He should know him by now than to present such gift. What an embarrassment!
FamilyRe: Be Careful Before You Turn Into Someone Everyone Wants To Avoid!!!! by Babe2sure(f): 4:09am On Sep 23, 2015
Nice one from OP......


On every issue, one should expect potpourri of reponses, we see things from different view-points. The responses to an extent are a function of our temperament. Someone with melancholy temperament will react to issues differently from someone with sanguine temperament e.t.c

Criticism is good sometimes, but it should be constructive and not destructive. It makes one retrace steps oftentimes, more than words spoken is soft tones.
However, one shouldn't say words that will further dampen the mood of the person who seeks opinion on an issue. We react to uncivil comments differently, some people take things to heart, they are very emotional.

All in all, one should just pick the treasure from what is said, disregard the trash, and move on.
CelebritiesRe: Shocking!!! Man Brutally Kills And Rips Out His Girlfriend’s Intestines by Babe2sure(f): 3:36am On Sep 23, 2015
He's got this creepy look on his face. You don't need to be told he is a psycopath.
RomanceRe: Is Common Sense So Scarce In Africa Or They Are Just Plainly Stupid? by Babe2sure(f): 2:55am On Sep 23, 2015
Which planet did you come from? You are hearing or watching this for the first time?
Oh, don't forget to watch the male version too or confessions from yahoo-plus guys.
So that the equation will balance.
CelebritiesRe: 2face Reunites Dbanj, Don Jazzy by Babe2sure(f): 2:50am On Sep 23, 2015
Tubaba, the unifying force.
CelebritiesRe: Funke Adesiyan To Omotola: You Wore What Your Daughter Should Have Worn (photos) by Babe2sure(f): 9:48pm On Sep 22, 2015
It is okay to defend your colleague, but bringing Omotola into the brouhaha is a no-no.
Bimbo does not look like someone who cares whose ox is gored, so save yourself the stress.
CelebritiesRe: (photos) Top 10 Most Beautiful Nigerian Actresses- No 2 Will Shock You by Babe2sure(f): 9:32pm On Sep 22, 2015
mikool007:
Dakore is finer than ini nd damasus
Dakore finer than Damascus?
Check well.


OP, why did you say no 2 will shock us. That position is meant for Omotola and she is in her rightful position. No arguement about it! smiley
CelebritiesRe: Has Peter Okoye Gone Mad? by Babe2sure(f): 9:04pm On Sep 22, 2015
I elieve he can post it. Peter is an attention seeker. He lives and thrives on attention. He will come and deny posting it now, after gaining the attention he sought. smiley
CelebritiesRe: Like Wizkid, Davido Also Push Back His Album Release Date by Babe2sure(f):
Hehehe! Strategic management in the music industry.
Let's watch and wait. If he pushed back his album release too, that means their music destinies are intertwined like co-joined twins.
CelebritiesRe: Meet Current World's Most Hated Man by Babe2sure(f): 7:35am On Sep 22, 2015
That is the implication of monopoly power.
Forum GamesRe: Let's Play This Word Game Called Last Man Standing by Babe2sure(f): 7:23am On Sep 22, 2015
talk2riel:
Hand akimbo, she walked off the stage
Stage a worldwide protest.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Laws: Simple For The Low Class But Complex Interpretations For The Rich by Babe2sure(f): 6:10am On Sep 22, 2015
This is a very fundamental question, going by what is playing out in the country. It is one problem that is so systemic now.
""The rule of law" is a doctrine that is only clamoured for but barely enforced, there is travesty of justice everywhere! Our justice system is a joke!
I
It is in our DNA as human to show preference. That is why the system targets some people while letting others escape.
It is an uneven and unjust system, so are the system we design.
We can start by righting this wrong, because injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.

About our law having lapses? I am not sure, but I think there should be ammendment from time to time.

The judiciary deviates from the law of course. Most, not all. People do not have confidence in the judiciary any longer. They stopped being the bulwark of the poor and helpless. All this have violated the basic right to equality before the law.

Independence of the judiciary is very crucial, so that there is public confidence that judicial decisions are made without bias.
EducationRe: He Has Been Rusticated But Refused To Leave !!! by Babe2sure(f): 4:16am On Sep 22, 2015
Don't report him! You will be surprised those people may not keep your identity very anonymous and therefore expose you to danger, or part of the people in authority are in cahoot with him and his gang. Why did you think he wanted to work his certificate through, if he doesn't have someone in authority to help?

I think your parents should still be your last option, if all else fail. Have a serious meeting with them, tell them the dangers of living with him, tell them that they will expose you to more danger if they should tell his parents, (exaggerate it) that your best option is to move out of the apartment.

You will see the speed by which they will get the money even if it is to borrow it. And I don't think any parent will still go ahead to tell the guy's parents, despite telling them the danger they might expose you to.

Apart from the troubles it might land you, if the school authorities found out you are harbouring an expelled student. You risk being attacked by rival gang, who will think you are part of his gang. Living and moving with a culltist is risky.

Act fast my friend!
PoliticsRe: How Fulani Herdsmen Abducted Olu Falae by Babe2sure(f):
Fulani herdsmen again? Their menancing activities needs to be checked, and fast. They are so volatile and aggressive. Their weird behaviour is getting incessant and nightmarish!

They don't seem sound, mentally. They cannot differentiate between human and animals again,because of the ways they are reported to be slaying and terrorizing people.
And now this!
FashionRe: Shocking!!!:secret About Rice We Don't Know In Africa,a Must Read!!! by Babe2sure(f): 6:43pm On Sep 21, 2015
Hehehe! Never heard this before, it's a new one on me! I will try it.
CelebritiesRe: 9 Craziest Pictures Of Nigerian Celebrities That Will Shock You by Babe2sure(f): 12:18pm On Sep 21, 2015
Pictures to bad gan!
OP, e no good o, you dredged up this Wande coal pics again! cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Iyanya Under Fire For Serving Hennessy & Groundnut At His Album Launch (photos) by Babe2sure(f): 11:18am On Sep 21, 2015
Imagine! The treatment is below par for 400k. Yeyebrity!

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