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[quote author=Tee_Jay link=topic=708677.msg8675727#msg8675727 date=1310114559]I totally disagree with you, some of the so called corporal punishment is nothing but child abuse.[/quote]Some, not most right?

[quote author=Tee_Jay link=topic=708677.msg8675727#msg8675727 date=1310114559]A pupil comes late to school, the teacher applies 12 strokes of the cane, how is that humane?[/quote]Next time don't come late to class--- (lol), Plus I'm sure the teacher told the pupils previously that if they come late they're gonna get their a$$es whopped. So----

[quote author=Tee_Jay link=topic=708677.msg8675727#msg8675727 date=1310114559]I went to school where teachers victimised pupils for anything from not bribing them or the in the case of the female ones for refusing to sleep with them.[/quote]Now those are unacceptable! These are the kinds of situations where the lines showed be drawn.


[quote author=Tee_Jay link=topic=708677.msg8675727#msg8675727 date=1310114559]Teacher beating a pupil over 24 strokes for asking another pupil to return his eraser during an exam. How can that be sane?[/quote]The rule says "No talking during the course of the exam". Why are you talking and sharing then? I think 24 strokes is too much though. 3 is ok.

[quote author=Tee_Jay link=topic=708677.msg8675727#msg8675727 date=1310114559]There are other ways of disciplining errant pupils, and may i add that the teachers i actually respect are the ones that hardly flogged yet they have the respect of the students.[/quote]Actually students love the ones that flog (not necessarily flogging) out of love (with good intentions) and yet respect the students. Students "step all over" the ones that only respect them.

[quote author=Tee_Jay link=topic=708677.msg8675727#msg8675727 date=1310114559]Discipline is not all about flogging till there are lacerations all over your body.[/quote]Ok. Your philosophy.


I bet you didn't read my post very sef. Like I said--too much of CP can be bad. Plus if it's imposed with good intentions, I see nothing wrong with it.

Pain is memorable---Nuff said.

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M neither a fan,nor a groupie,but can i join in your discussion?

so you're neither a fan nor a groupie and you want to join my discussion? Well you have to choose one---

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[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=707344.msg8663879#msg8663879 date=1309970401]the best way to seduce a nigerian man is not to set out to seduce him?

you might get more than you bargained for.[/quote]That was funny but it's actually quite true (for some of them).

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=706682.msg8662388#msg8662388 date=1309958329]@ poster

i feel that she has lost faith in "marriage" with you
you deflowered her, but didn't marry her and it is now 2 years gone by
Ask her to marry you and see if her behavior changes to being loyal to you
"I read this here your post" some days ago and withheld my tongue so your words could marinate in me
it is my firm belief that she wanted you as husband
she is now seeing her vjj as non-virgin and seeing herself as non-wife material to other men because you had her virginity
the more time passes the more it is becoming transparent to her "in her mind" that she will have problems marrying because of the taught "virgin wife" syndrome around her
"call me crazy" - but it appears that it is dawning on her more and more that her vjj is cash register opportunity - since husband in her young mind is "out of the question" because the deflowering didn't lead down the path that most girls are led to believe that it will lead to, which is the bridal alter
i believe that your answer lies in asking her to be your wife and being serious about it
that's my 2 cents - i could be wrong - but what harm is there in your taking that route?
you sound very angry and upset - which tells me that you love this girl - what do you have to lose by asking for her hand in marriage to her family and to her?[/quote]

Interesting spin.

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