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This is simply nice .

I'm at that age when pretty much every time I get on social media, someone else I know has gotten engaged or married. The ring-finger picture with the "I said yes" caption is a daily occurrence. I'm always happy and excited for the friend who gets to start a new chapter in her life. OK, almost always. This trend started in my early 20s, when the couples getting engaged then still got the "aren't you a little young for that?" look. As I climb toward my 30s, I notice more than ever that I'm starting to get those questioning looks, but now people are wondering what the holdup is.
Ticktock goes the marriage clock - especially considering that I have been in a committed relationship with my significant other for several years, moved across the country with him, and lived with him for quite some time. I definitely understand that the topic will naturally come up now and then.
Here's the thing: I think marriage is great. For some people. For me and plenty of others out there, though, it may not be the right way to go, and that's really OK - despite a more widely held notion (held most of all by my mom) that my life, in fact, is not complete until I tie that knot.
While there are many pros to getting married for some people, the alternative is true for those who decide not to get married. And don't get me wrong - who knows what will happen down the line? But in the meantime, here are some reasons why choosing not to get married, ever or until later in life, can be a good thing.

1. YOU GET TO KNOW YOURSELF AND FIND YOUR PERSONAL HAPPINESS
One isn't the loneliest number! Being unmarried offers you a unique freedom to spend time with yourself and make mistakes and learn from them - without having to worry about how those mistakes may affect your spouse. Putting yourself first may sound selfish, but it really just means that you are eager to grow as an individual, and that's definitely a good thing. Within a marriage, it's easy to become dependent on one another for your happiness, but ultimately you have to be the one who decides this for yourself.

2. YOUR FINANCES ARE YOUR OWN
Some of the biggest stressors on marriage are the financial aspects of it. Combining assets, joint bank accounts, disagreements on where and what to spend money on - all these things are extra weight on any relationship but especially on a married couple.

3. THERE ARE OTHER WAYS TO DEFINE COMMITMENT
Who says that marriage is the best way to show someone you love them? Commitment to a person and real love for them can be shown in a million ways - marriage is just one of them. Plus not marrying someone doesn't mean being alone forever - it just means doing things a little differently!

4. YOU CAN TRAVEL AND BE SOCIAL
Unmarried couples and single people tend to travel more and engage more socially with new people. That's not to say married couples don't - but it's sometimes easier for unmarried people to have that freedom without as many conflicts when trying to do so.

5. GETTING MARRIED CAN COMPLICATE OTHER RELATIONSHIPS
Getting married changes everything. It can mean moving away or spending more time with other married couples, and sometimes it just means that relationships shift and change. While some may strengthen, others are at risk of weakening.

6. YOU CAN INVEST IN YOUR CAREER AND FUTURE
Instead of spending money on a wedding, honeymoon, new house, etc., you can be putting those dollars and efforts into building your career and growing in a field you love. Taking marriage off the table can make room for things that otherwise may have taken the backseat to wedding and marriage plans.

7. MARRIAGE IS SOMETIMES DONE FOR OTHERS, AND THAT SHOULD NEVER BE THE CASE!
If you aren't getting married for yourself, then you shouldn't be getting married. It's easy to feel pressured by people around you, but if you don't want to get married, you simply don't have to.
8. DIVORCE IS A POSSIBILITY
With any relationship comes the possibility of a breakup, but with marriage comes the possibility of an even more complicated and painful ending - divorce.

9. YOU CAN STILL BUILD AND HAVE A WONDERFUL FAMILY
The idea of family is almost always tied in with marriage, especially when children come into the picture. But the definition of family is extremely diverse and personal for each family unit. Not being married doesn't mean that you can't have a happy and healthy family with or without kids.

10. SINCE LOVE IS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE, THE SAME TRADITIONS DON'T ALWAYS APPLY
Love is personal. It's specific to a person or relationship, it's constantly changing, and it's always unique. If love is so changeable and diverse, then in some cases, confining it to an institution like marriage isn't what's best to help it thrive.

http://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/relationships/10-reasons-you-dont-have-to-get-married/ss-AAfuhae?ocid=UP97DHP#image=11

when you dont put price to your post, people may think its too expensive

SOLD SOLD THANKS

some of the pictures are from movie scene

Them dey dance for parlour ni

darmys:
You can tell money was spent here!
It is a bit masculine as id rather have a comfy sitting room with fluffy throw pillows everywhere.
See me talking as if it is my money

What do you guys think?


https://www.instagram.com/p/BAPRy45xvjK/?taken-by=rudeboypsquare

Caption: Abuja in a bit but need to finish this movie home chilling

CC: lalasticlala

Taken that the Shiites group has always nursed a hidden agenda disrupting the peace of neighboring Nigerians and constituted authorities like the armed forces and ultimately forming a parallel government, I have some few questions concerning the recent attack by the Nigeria Army that Killed about 61 members of this group as reported in the media.

1. When the CAS's right of way was denied by the group in spite of several entreaties by the CAS and his men, could riot policemen had been called in to disperse the crowd or force them apart since the same police was used to detain the leader later on?

2. If there was enormous provocation that would not warrant or give other options, was reasonable or commensurate force used and was such force used in the heat of the passion created according to law.

3.If the dissidents drew their weapons in the course of the disturbance, did the Army act purely in self defence while zeroing in their offensives?

4. What is the meaning of 'protecting a VIP with all means possible' as stated by the Army spokesman?

6. What is the meaning of 'rule of engagement' in such uprising as stated by the Army?

Check the name on fb and see that it's not scam. Everyone is like 'thanks for accepting me your Excellency'. And his birthday was equally recorded on the accurate date.

He just saw this message to him on facebook and has been itching to have another response and further chat with His Excellency which has not come. The 'Hello' was sent almost an hour before he saw it sighing profusely for not seeing it on time. Does he need to send further message or patiently wait for his response. Please advise him.

maybe because of his popular Hausa head

olayinkamuiz12:
The online community in Kenya known for being vocal and for their total lack of chill on Tuesday returned with another hashtag. The butt of their jokes this time was the BBC. The British news platform was briefly roasted for refering to Kenyan Interior Cabinet Secretary Joseph Nkaissery as Nigerian.
The trolling came after a story on the Air France flight No 463, which was on Sunday morning forced to make an emergency landing in Mombasa after a security scare was aired on BBC with Nkaissery’s clip captioned as “Nigerian Cabinet Secretary for Interior”
Kenyans, being who they are took a screenshot of the photo and shared it on Instagram and Twitter in an attempt to stage an African audience boycott against the broadcasters. The hashtag #SomeOneTellBBC didnt trend though. Below are a few of the tweets:
@Jwaigi tweeted, “#SomeoneTellBBC, there is a difference between Kenya and Nigeria.”
@DavidMaina_N tweeted, “#SomeoneTellBBC #Nkaissery is not from Oga land.”
@icaiser tweeted, “Iko sida #SomeoneTellBBC”
@ RooneyNjeru tweeted, “#SomeoneTellBBC, Nkaissery is the KENYAN Cabinet Secretary for Internal Security and Not Nigeria”


http://www.9japariolodo.com/someonetellbbc-bbc-was-the-butt-of-jokes-after-refering-to-kenyan-minister-as-a-nigerian/

The person that set the deadline is dumber that LIE Muhammed

SignalNG1:
http://www.signalng.com/nigerians-will-hold-lai-mohammed-responsible-for-boko-haram-attacks-the-third-force/
https://www.naij.com/677144-nigerians-hold-lai-mohammed-responsible-boko-haram-attacks.html

A 20 year old man needs advise here. His dad who attends a white garment church had always referred to himself as Abraham. He kept saying he must sacrifice his son as Abraham did.

It calls for concern how the detained leader of IPOB is looking during the last court sitting. He seemingly wore the same bedraggled shirt and looking hirsute. I compare this guy to other people in some countries being tried for more serious offences. The authorities make sure they are well dressed in well tailored suit when attending courts. What is happening to Nnamdi? Where are the human right groups? Where are his lawyers and his fellow Biafra compatriots? EFCC, Nnamdi Kanu's appearance is a National shame.

YES COME. CAR IS COOL, GRAB IT

Jonathan is a man that will enter EFCC office and deny anything and everything. ...

EFCC: Sir, did u give this order?

GEJ: No.

EFCC: Is this your signature?

GEJ: I don't sign, I thumbprint.

EFCC: But we always see u with NASS people when you're signing budget?

GEJ: Budget? What you're showing me here, is this budget?

EFCC: Do you know Dasuki?

GEJ: Know as in how?

EFCC: Did you appoint him?

GEJ: IBB did.

EFCC: But you were the President?

GEJ: So what OBJ appointed me too.

EFCC: What? You were elected sir?

GEJ: By who? Can you swear with your mother's grave that you voted for me?

EFCC: Okay sir. Do you know Okonjo Iweala.

GEJ: World Bank appointed her.

EFCC: But she wrote you concerning Dasuki's request on Abacha loot.

GEJ: World Bank wrote IBB on Abacha, how that one take concern me

EFCC: Sir, do you know that $2.1b was squandered in this saga??

GEJ: $2.1 Where dem see am?

EFCC: HA! Sir, you have been indicted.

GEJ: For wetin now? I didn't give anyone money and nobody gave me money.

EFCC: Dokpesi said you gave him a publicity contract of N2.2b?

GEJ: Dokpesi na IBB boy and na hin and Odili dey do business. If Dasuki say hin give Dokpesi money.. e fit possible. ..na IBB dey pay IBB.

EFCC: So what is your own responsibility as the President?

GEJ: Thank you, now you're talking. My main job is to issue condolence messages to victims of terror, no one can fault me on that. I Also stopped ebola, if not, you will not be here asking me stupid questions.

EFCC: Thank you sir, we will still call you later. Do you care for coffee or tea?

GEJ: You guys don't know me at all. Me tea?? Coffee A beg give me ogogoro!

EFCC: Why ogogoro

GEJ: You know see as journalists full your gate outside??. Na me dem wan see.....by the time I shack something, I will even deny that I come here right in front of your gate!!!

LOL......

Still available

Showcasing effect of some kind of weed yet Akpabio no decode.

tamunoibrahimi:
Is this car still available?

yup

I need the car to be bought. End of year things

Maitommi:
Why is price so cheap? What's wrong with the car?

lol

dont get the code

millhouse:
uykpl

Chelsea FC of England appoints the gentleman in the picture as the new manager.

Unconfirmed sources and fleeing residents said there has been another attack after the weekend bloodbath by the same islamic jihadist where around 30 villagers were killed. The numbers of casualties are still sketchy. Soldiers are among the people feared killed by the group.

The members of the deadly Boko Haram sect have killed a Lieutenant-Colonel, other officers during a battle with the Nigerian army.

Daily Post reports that the militant group had attacked the convoy at a town along Bama/Konduga axis.

A source said that the soldiers were traveling in a convoy of 3 Hilux cars when the insurgents appeared and opened fire.

While some Boko Haram fighters were killed, a number of the troops received serious wounds as the militants were believed to have outnumbered them.

The dead Lt. Col., who was one of those with serious wounds, gave up the ghost after battling for his life.The others soldiers are currently receiving medical treatment.

https://www.naij.com/669530-boko-haram-kills-lieutenant-colonel-others-last-ambush.html

http://dailypost.ng/2015/12/16/lt-colonel-terrorists-die-soldiers-wounded-as-boko-haram-ambush-troops-along-bama-konduga/

https://www.nairaland.com/2805377/neatly-used-accord-evil-spirit thats the deal man. Its even within your bugdet. Than your star. Call asap as the car might not last

Maitommi:
I need honda accord from 2008 urgently. It should have leather seats, good engine and gear. Budget is 1.3m. Pls sound cars only. Thanks.

still available

time wasters. mcheeeew. They shall know the truth and the truth shall set them free. Christ is the only name given among men for the redemption of mankind.

henryanna36:
Shiite sect members in India took to the streets to protest the killing of their members by Nigerian army in Zaria.

This is really getting out of control.Don't you think the story is generating a global attention which is likely to tarnish our image at the international scene?The earlier President Buhari arrests the condition,the better for Nigeria.

Source: http://trezzy2..com.ng/2015/12/shiite-sect-members-in-india-protest.html

It has been gathered from unconfirmed sources that the detained leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra has been released by DSS who has held him in detention. More update on this shortly.

http://sunnewsonline.com/new/ipob-leader-nnamdi-kanu-released/

Yes sir, 900k asking

libertyfather:
And is that the price you hv on the topic?