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PoliticsRe: UAE Official Says Visa Restrictions Not Lifted For Nigerians:CNN by Backpedal: 8:43pm On Sep 15, 2023
Disgrace
TravelRe: FG Makes U-Turn, Says No Timeframe On Resumption Of Emirate Flights by Backpedal: 10:30am On Sep 15, 2023
Liars
PoliticsRe: Chicago State University Refuses To Authenticate Tinubu’s Submitted Certificate by Backpedal: 10:26am On Sep 15, 2023
Jideji:
The Nigerian court said its a pre election matters
Which is shameful
PoliticsRe: Durojaiye Ogunsanya: Purported Tinubu Classmate Doesn't Exist —David Hundeyin by Backpedal: 7:33pm On Sep 13, 2023
Sharpsharp00123:
hundeyin is presently the hero of the igbos cos he’s looking for all means to get tinubu attention so he can use it to file asylum so anything from him irrespective of how stupid it is igbos most post it

Reno was once their lord n hero till he got tired of playing with their brain
What do Igbos have to do with this now ?

You guys have problems
PoliticsRe: The Diversity Of Nigeria Is Worth Celebrating. An Encounter With A Taraban by Backpedal: 1:00pm On Sep 13, 2023
GanagiBitrus:
Our Leaders/Politicians employing Divide & Rule tactics have made us never to speak with one voice, by dividing us along Ethnic & Religious lines.

&Fear of Insecurity has also prevented many Nigerians from visiting many interesting places in this Country.
Yea
RomanceRe: How To Find Love In The UK, ONE Secret Strategy by Backpedal: 6:58am On Sep 13, 2023
Expand your options

It's not a must you marry a Nigerian/Black person
PoliticsRe: Udi/ezeagu: Tribunal Sacks Reps Member Umeha (LP), Affirms Pdp's Festus Uzor by Backpedal: 8:20pm On Sep 12, 2023
Pipefitter:
Men this people are prepared to relegate LP to oblivion
We shall see Sha
BusinessRe: Flutterwave Launches Swap To Solve Nigeria’s FX Problems, Backed By The CBN by Backpedal: 8:38pm On Sep 11, 2023
ecolime:
God bless you.

We keep deceiving ourselves. A nation that imports over 80% of its consumption will always have FX problems.
Well
Let's continue to deceive ourselves lol
PoliticsRe: UAE Lifts Visa Ban On Nigerians As Tinubu Secures Landmark Deal by Backpedal: 8:30pm On Sep 11, 2023
Rilwayne001:
Obidients will soon come and cry grin

Fact is, Buhari is a total failure.

A man not worthy of any leadership mantle whatsoever. His nonchalant attitude to the pain and suffering of Nigerians from the day he assumed office led us to the current situation that Nigeria both internally and externally found itself.

His 8years really took us back and hopefully God will through PBAT will arrange everything to be back on track
The same PMB that Tinubu supported for 8 yrs
BusinessRe: Flutterwave Launches Swap To Solve Nigeria’s FX Problems, Backed By The CBN by Backpedal: 3:27pm On Sep 11, 2023
Cosmetic solutions never work
PoliticsRe: Soludo to BAT: SE got Best Ministerial Positions, despite Giving you Least Votes by Backpedal: 8:30pm On Sep 10, 2023
Its utterances like these that make their peers have little regard for politicians from the south east


Must you run ur mouth all the time ?

Can you imagine a northern gov saying same ?
TravelRe: After JAPA - How Long It Took To Make Your First 100 Million by Backpedal: 5:03pm On Sep 10, 2023
MT:
Seriously, the bolded always comes up as a reason when it comes to a matter of going abroad.

What do you really mean when you say "the future of the children are secured". Who secured it? How? I don't seem to understand that argument.

This is just an illusion. Yes, they have infrastructure. However, it is just the children that take the opportunities that will excel. The place is filled with lot of distractions and the laws restrict the parents to take either preventive or corrective actions . Most of their children don't do well in life. Mostly in rehab, doing one silly course, roaming the streets while relying on handouts. Just a few of them make it big.

No country signs any guarantee securing the future of any children in the world. Success is solely a function of how a child is determined to make the best out of life, irrespective of geographical location.
Fair argument
But let's be truthful
A child who grow up abroad has access to and cam become what most Nigerian kids who grew up in Nigeria can only DREAM OF

That's a fact so don't even bother arguing

The spectrum of what you can be in Nigeria is very much limited
FamilyRe: If A Man Doesn't Marry When He Is Broke. Marriage Becomes Difficult When Rich by Backpedal: 5:29pm On Sep 09, 2023
SyrusdeHansome:
My mom was in ss3 when my dad met her.
Interesting
PoliticsRe: CBN Under Investigation Over Financial Crimes, Smear Campaigns by Backpedal: 4:35pm On Sep 09, 2023
Ewedegubbler:
The level of fraud that Indians are perpetrating worldwide is mind boggling but it won’t make headlines. Wait until one naija person is caught with 10k$ worth of drugs in their filthy country and you will see Nigerians talking trash about their fellow Nigerians whilst the real criminals are actually those smelly Indians
Imagine
TravelRe: After JAPA - How Long It Took To Make Your First 100 Million by Backpedal: 11:32am On Sep 09, 2023
BreconHills:
As some one who works from three countries - let me ask a question re bolded - for how long? Few people want to grow old abroad. I advise everyone working outside Nigeria to have a plan for their old age. Uk, US, Canada is not it and time moves very first.

Play the game from the end not from the beginning.
Well
I beg to disagree with your assertion Sha
TravelRe: After JAPA - How Long It Took To Make Your First 100 Million by Backpedal: 11:30am On Sep 09, 2023
ajimo54:
Do not be pained! You can afford a better life for yourself in Nigeria if u truly earn like the OP! What life is abroad? One of ur people living abroad duped me of $ 6,000 in 2018. You all talk of future? What is future without money? Europe looks so bleak! I actually don't see future there. Future is in Nigeria!
Future is in Nigeria with Bulaba leading it?

You are tripping
TravelRe: After JAPA - How Long It Took To Make Your First 100 Million by Backpedal: 11:28am On Sep 09, 2023
AllBlack:
the pleasure, adventure and carefree side of life has been stolen from Nigerians. it is a cruel cycle of chasing money and more money and the thing is, many will live and die without ever knowing they have been robbed.
Facts
TravelRe: After JAPA - How Long It Took To Make Your First 100 Million by Backpedal: 11:27am On Sep 09, 2023
Kenn55:
After you make the first 100m what next? Make another 100m?
@Raydos, this is what I was trying to talk about in your thread. Every talk or argument about Nigerians is about money, more money, more more money and it ends with money.
Nobody seems to give a damn about any other thing apart from the money they make.
This thread will degenerate into an argument on who makes more money, the stage is set. This is all we care about as a people.
Lmaooo
TravelRe: Beyond Borders: From Naija To Heathrow. by Backpedal: 11:22am On Sep 09, 2023
Following
TravelRe: Why Do Most Nigeria Streets Look Like This? by Backpedal: 12:52pm On Sep 07, 2023
LegacyB:
Dumb actually. Go back to history.
ok
TravelRe: Why Do Most Nigeria Streets Look Like This? by Backpedal: 11:19am On Sep 07, 2023
Simeonjoe1:
Made up undecided
It's not ooo

I had a former madam who used to think same

I kid you not, as ridiculous as it sounds
TravelRe: Why Do Most Nigeria Streets Look Like This? by Backpedal: 11:15am On Sep 07, 2023
capacino:
You think this shit is found only on Nigerian streets? Go to Ghana, Kenya and you'll find similarities.. many cities in Africa from Accra, to Lagos, to Brazzaville, Nairobi and Kampala all have these type of street views and they look alike.
The topic is on Nigeria

Let's stick to it
TravelRe: Why Do Most Nigeria Streets Look Like This? by Backpedal: 11:14am On Sep 07, 2023
SmartPolician:
This is soooo brutal! grin

The truth is that everyone doesn't have the same mental capacity; I found out in the university. In school, some of us read to learn.

However, I was shocked when I met a course mate who could cram the text of an entire page of a textbook and reproduce it without looking at the page word for word. I am not kidding. God knows that I cannot do that. He graduated with 4.23. He nearly made a first class.

Meeting that guy exposed me to the fact that there are things one can never be, no matter how much one tries. Humans are not the same. Humans don't have the same mental capacity. Genetic makeups differentiate races. For Black Africans to come close to Caucasians in mental capacity, we have to invest massively in education.
Facts
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi And LP's Case Dismissed At PEPT by Backpedal: 7:53pm On Sep 06, 2023
Racoon:
Well,.it was a hard fight. A fight between good and evil, law and lawlessness, due process and impunity, legal and illegality, then constitutional & unconstitutionality. History will forever vindicate those who fought against this evil under the APC. Peace!
As long as a decent proportion of Nigerians condone and support evil; Nigeria no fit good
FamilyRe: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Backpedal: 2:16pm On Sep 02, 2023
izonborn098:
First marriage is not for two strict people, one has to fall mugu or better still overlook and accept many things.
A graduate is more advance and have some white man mentality because they are educated and can read whatever both online and offline while am uneducated woman has am africa mentality which she knows the man is the head of the house, she can accept many of his mistakes just as u forgive ur children of their mistakes but am educated wife take everything serious because of pride and entitle mentality there by competing with her husband.
You can take advantage of ur uneducated wife in so many occasions compared to the educated one.
If u have an uneducated women who is business minded and has understanding then just open business for her and have a happy family e.g orhobo and igbo women are very good examples, while an educated working woman will some times prefer her work more than the marriage all because she want to be dependent.
Op their are more but just
Hope u know that the uneducated man overlooks a lot of excesses from the wife too

They are on average more tolerable than rhair educated peers
FamilyRe: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by Backpedal: 7:57pm On Aug 29, 2023
Yugoslavia247:
Okay.

I said my piece. Say yours without commenting on mine
Still insensitive
FamilyRe: How Do I Confront My Husband About This Issue? by Backpedal: 7:50pm On Aug 29, 2023
Yugoslavia247:
Your marriage is about to see shege.

Do you bother about your husband sexual feeling the same way you bother about him cheating on you.

Most times that's what you all do.

Like you don't know it is the sex he needs.

Focus on understand his sexual appetite.

If Vicky leaves the scene
Antonia
Anabel
Cinderella
Senorita

Are waiting in line.

Now he would become smarter or furious.

She must have worked so hard to satisfy your husband for her to ask such questions.

Who is sweeter between me and your wife?

Imagine the kind eyes she go dey use dey look you.

Anytime you are at peace with your husband she go dey vex.

Better up the game and claim your husband not just from Vicky but others.

Be insightful.
Observe him
Know why.
What if na the gal give am green light.

You don't need to rush.

If you rush you no go fit borrow oven.

Sit your husband down and discuss it.

It might be difficult but try. Don't try and fight the gal. You go embarrass yourself, your husband and the family.

Call his family instead.

If possible make una go out and settle the issue because you na go too shout.

You need to be smart.

Imagine that you know and act like you don't.

Even your husband go fear.

Leave the gal and face your husband.

Na im get problem.

E Kon be neighbors

Kaya mata self fit dey work.

Maybe the gal dey wear braless cloth and pantless.

The thing he want the gal understand

U want use Vicky hook up play.

She go Sabi suck dick

When last u suck him dick.

That alone go make am never leave Vicky hook up.
This is insensitive
FamilyRe: I Made My Ex-girlfriend(who Is Now A Single Mother) A Deal, Would You Take It ? by Backpedal: 3:34pm On Aug 29, 2023
beekind:
I am in my mid 30s, very comfortable and a dual citizen of Nigeria and a first world country.
I decided to relocate back to Nigeria because of starting a family and having my own children.
Since arriving the country and based on my experiences so far, my plans have changed.

I decided to first focus on having children as I found out that the Nigerian society has become almost worse than the west in terms of sexual debauchery.
People have sex for indomine, girls commit abortion without remorse, the worst thing is that no one here uses protection and by the time your average Nigerian girl reaches 30 years old, she has aborted 4 times, slept with almost 100 men and contacted several stds in the process.

What this means is that disciplined men like me are left with these category of girls, worst still is that they come very entitled and empty and can even ruin you with their lifestyle as they are usually impossible to reform.

Solution:
I had to go back to the drawing board and re-evaluated my plan, I have an ex-girlfriend (29 years old) whom I am very close with. She fits the bill in terms of who I want as a life partner but she is a single mother.
So I gave her a choice.

Have 2 children for me, those 2 children will automatically become dual citizens and I might consider marrying you and adopting your child but even if I don't marry you, your 2 children that you have by me will be taken care of and being dual citizens of a developed country they can turn to a blessing for you and your whole family in future.

Now, let me explain, I still love this lady and my decision was premised on how uncertain I am of what my choice will be in the future as such I wanted to be very open from the beginning, but even at this point, I can not guarantee I will marry her but I could depending on what happens in future.

She's going to give me a feedback later and I am quite positive she will take the offer.

If it were you faced with this option, what would you do ?
Interesting conditions.....


Well it's up to her to accept or reject
CelebritiesRe: Steve Harvey Shuts Down Claim His Wife Cheated On Him by Backpedal: 11:16am On Aug 29, 2023
Microwhy:
You have a soon to be 2yo, a 4yo and 6yo male kids, unfortunately you caught your wife cheating.
Please what will you do. They're your true bloods so save yourself from paternity.
That's the thing
A lot of people here don't seem to get it

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