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Alexander71:
Are you in the US even if it's not for moral sake do it cause of legal consent in nigeria it's 18 and except you want trouble avoid her

Age of consent in Nigeria is actually 11years

SkyFlint:
If you think a 16-year old child is a "woman", then I have nothing more to say to you.

The USA(the country many consider the leading light in the world) age of consent is 16years in 38 of its 50 states.I don't blame you for your dismissive post though,you are a Nigerian hence you tackle issues with emotions rather than logic

SkyFlint:
It is FOOLISHNESS to contemplate sexual intimacy with a 16-year old KID

Here you are on this page calling out white knights while white knighting a 16year old young woman on thesame page without even realizing it

niqqa:
Been following this thread, this is actually my first comment here, I had to look fo a way to regain my password so I can be able to ask this question, there is a girl at my place,she is 16 but barely looks her age like she’s so tall and all that,obviously she’s still a teen and act like that cause I tried talking to her on Facebook,she admitted on having a crush with me and other guys too lol. She’s still a Virgin but not ready to date yet till she becomes an adult, how do I go about this?
I don't want to have sex with her yet, just want to be friends and keep my options open?

That young woman is neither attracted nor interested in you.She is clearly now aware of her high value(youth,fertility) in the sexual marketplace that's why she said "she has a crush on you and other guys" those other guys are your fellow competitors and guys who have also declared interest in her.She is indirectly telling you to chase her.DON'T!! Back off her.She is playing mind games

holocron:
Including "... grabbing them by the pussy", according to Donald Trump. Lol!

That wasn't all he did with them

ubunja:
maybe you can tell us how joining NL has benefited you financially. Because your last thread you were simply wishing Seun a happy birthday Lmfao

That is the mindset of the average Nigerian for you.Kissing the backsides of those in authourity so that they can be recognised and some crumbs will be thrown their way

ekoson95:
Am I the only one not understanding what the OP's point is?

Men should constantly work to improve themselves while women should do nothing but cross their legs and file their nalis because "they are amazing just the way they are"

Skepticus:
I co-sign.

Women have always been about their purpose and that's why they have more Reproductive Success [RS] than men which is all nature cares about in evolution and survival. Most men who are often ignorant of this fact throw themselves into this cognitive dissonance of "Women are always confused".

In her mind, the bîtch is laughing at his confusion.

Two of the most hilarious comments on nairaland "Women are always confused" and "Women have fish brain".Men in general and Nigerian men in particular under-estimate women.I hope someday they realize the human female is born redpilled

kongolo:
As for ozo and nengi,she is simply leading him on.Ozo will not even get a cheap feel out of her.She is a lady who seems to receive alot of attention from men.So she knows how to handle men.If I were her and I received attention from men I wasn't really interested in,I would do the exact same thing

Nengi isn't interested in any "sweet boy" in the bbn house.Her interest lies with the "moneyed men" outside the house.Men who can pay for her travels to exotic islands and post photos of herself on instagram in front of a Gucci store holding a Gucci bag.That was why she also got a butt surgery.To attract those calibre of men.That is her sexual strategy.Even the way she dresses raunchily in the house has been discussed by ubunja in his article "on scantily clad women"
As for ozo two ladies in the house lilo(when the show first started)and Dorathy(about two weeks ago) showed genuine interest in him but he shunned them probably because he is so fixated on Nengi or he completely missed their signals.Unfortunately for him the only light skinned big butt woman he will get will be outside the bbn house

femi4:
Is Cantona not a legend? Did he possesses those qualities there, its all politics

To work for Pep as a player,you must be ready to bend the knee and kiss the ring.All he wants in his teams are yes men with no personality.He had issues with zlatan,etoo and yaya (who mockingly said pep would scratch his head during games for people to call him a genius because he was thinking hard).With or without a statue,football followers know Yaya is a man city legend

I generally listen to 90s american hip hop music and try my possible best to avoid everything from the Nigerian music sphere because it is highly bluepilled.Women are their main listeners/customers so they pander to them.Women listen to their songs,followed by children,then men

GLYCOLYSISS:
-- Women loathe being sexually objectified by lesser men, crafting their disgust for the unworthy into a veneer of moral superiority. Yet hidden within this guise of upright disgust is a depraved desire to be objectified by a powerful man. The weak man gets nothing, the strong man enjoys her perversions.

On and offline,men she deems under her level are punished and shamed for flirting with her and even accused of sexual harassment sometimes but attractive,high value males are allowed to flirt,make sexual comments,tease and so forth at her

Iriruaga100:
The op is ill informed!! The law is targeted at Nigerians doing business in Ghana. You have lot of Chinese, Lebanese doing retail business in Ghana yet their shops are still open for business. You don’t see them targeting Ivorians or Togolese. We leave this for foreign affairs minister to tackle.

No one ever punches a rock but there are always quick to punch pillows

Openbusiness4:
See dem condemning d OP dat he is short, but nobody is saying dat d girl is short, shorter sef cuz d OP tall pass am OP leave d girl alone. All dat excuse na wash. She is not into u, she has sumwan else she is chasing, dazz d real reason y, not all dis short excuse. U are juz her spare tire she is using to catch trips. Sumwan else is driving her engine, not u. Is

Many people including men dont seem to realize the world is harsher towards them than women.If the OP were to be female,kinder words from both genders would have been all over the thread

mablie:
As a man,always do to women what they do to you.
If a woman calls you short next time,tell her she has a big forehead or her legs are crooked or her lips are too large.If she asks you why you approached her if her forehead or like are too big,tell her you took pity on her and you were only trying to help her market.

If she is tall tell her she is long like an ostrich

Skepticus:
Lol.

"Toto" is vulgar here too. You'll find some nairalanders use the word "Kpekus". It means the same thing too. Lol

Funnily enough,there is an American band called "Toto" that was formed in the 1970s and had a massive hit song in the 1980s considered a classic today called "Africa" .I have never really known what to make of their name and the song


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qKaXt1PYKXk

When you first met her,she was in the age bracket of 22 to 23years old.She must have had alot of suitors and options.Hence her nasty attitude towards you because you weren't her spec.Fast forward 3 years and the suitors and options have dried up hence her desire to get married as soon as possible to any available option that's why you see her cooking,sweeping and other bullshit that easily impresses Nigerian men
If you eventually marry her,she will change back to her nasty attitude when you first met her.Classic bait and switch

benhope222:
I met this last month in a cab , I assumed that a guy saw her off , so after little discussion I collected her number . each time i call her she will be behaving like someone who's not interested , so I texted that of she's not interested there's not point giving me her number ... last weeks weeks she invited me at work place she's learning fashion & designing although I was traveling through that way I had to stop by..


Last week she demanded for airtime I sent her... she didn't even call me for once , always flashing .. I no reason that one ... so I started asking her out so can we can see and spend some time together to know each other more . she keep giving me excuse so I had to tell her that I'm not inviting her to my house...

On Monday , she said that she needed something From me money for her hair I asked her how much she said 3K ... she's expecting to come to her place of which I disagreed . she stays with her parents ..

Girls self my question is before I met her ,she has other boyfriend's .. most times we guys aren't interested in sex but na Dem dey cause am . when you think say she wan use your head ..

you're afraid of coming to my house but you need my money...

This day's na Fake Love everywhere....If your money never Involve Serious Friendship Never start oooo....

@Emboldened
That was a huge mistake.
You should have ended your correspondence with her right there and not sent the airtime.
You are a man.Women are supposed to bend to your frame.Unfortunately for you,you kow-towed to her frame by sending the airtime.Thereby,displaying your weak frame and lack of confidence

Hypergamy usually leads women on a cyclical,never ending journey
This lady called Ifu is generally interested in famous,wealthy badboys e.g The musician called CDQ.Unfortunately for her,the majority of men like that will not give her what she really wants--emotional,financial and physical support.
A few years from now,as she ages more and more, she will settle on being a babymama for one of the men she really wants or marry a man who lacks the features she truly desires

rawpadgin:
Who dash am?

Millenials.If one mention names like Nonchalant,Lady of Rage,Missy Elliott,Lil Kim and Eve,they'll respond with..Who?

Danielfx:
I was a perfect gentleman but even at that my girlfriend was always careful not to hurt my feelings by saying words that could annoy me..

So, i have never laid hands on a woman before even when i feel insulted, infact i despised it. My ex girlfriend nearly made me a hardened kind of guy but i jumped over...

Straight to the point, my girlfriend left town to visit her cousin which she did not tell me. She just told me about taking her little sister there for holiday and would be back the next day( she was scared i would say no..). On finding out, we resolved everything through phone and when she finally came back to town i took her for a date in a fancy restaurant, from there we went to a luxury hotel. I booked a room just so we could spend the evening without outside intrusion....

We got in and then she settled down and turned on the TV while I glanced through my phone, she started murmuring about how i went to a beauty pageant because of my ex while she was not around, i was so angry that i lost control and slapped her. She feel on the bed and said something about my mum being a bit*h, that made me so angry that i pulled out my belt and flogged her. I reminded her never to travel again without me consenting....

Strangely i realised what i have done but she was already on the bed crying profusely, i was totally ashamed of myself. I opened the door and went to the swimming pool session to calm myself. I spent most of the evening there with my phone and strangly she texted me an apology. I was fucking amazed, i empirically wanted to apologize and break up for her own sake since i was transforming into someone abusive....

I went to the room, she knelt down and apologized. The love became so intended and she became completely loyal...

Today, i ordered a new laptop for her because she complained about her system battery but when she received the laptop, she told me to accept half the payment from her.... The girl is completely different now. Nigeria girls are strange, very strange

@Emboldened
Nigerian girls maybe slightly different culturally from other women on planet earth but they are basically still women.
Her behaviour is "strange" to you because you have been drinking that bullshit cool-aid of "never hit a woman".
As a man,never reward bad behaviour in women.Inform her of your rules and let her know there will be consequences if she breaks them.
Remember,If women hated violent/aggressive men,they would not be sending tons of love letters to serial killers in prison

Khalil1103:
Omo we blacks don suffer.. Racial discrimination from Americans, Asians, Europeans and now Arabian

Steve Biko said it many years ago "Blackman,you are alone".You lots should forget about those groups you listed and concentrate on yourselves,focus on yourselves,improve yourselves.Strive and acquire what is in the best interest of your group.Stop fighting yourselves because it is an unwinable,unendable and hopeless endeavour.
We as a group possess the capacity to achieve all these but we simply lack the mindset and discipline

omoharry:
All the black Indians belong to the delit cast..they are untouchable and not recognized in their society.
Just the way our men have fetish over our fair ladies in Nigeria that is how Indians fetish over more lighter women.Their women also use bleaching creams like our Nigerian ladies.But the difference is that its only enhances their already white skin while our own dey change completly into doll baby.Hmmm!Let me stop here before my sisters come for my head.

You are a typical Nigerian woman who always blames Nigerian men for all your deficiencies.Nigerian women bleach their skins because they see other Nigerian women bleaching their skins
If Nigerian men have a fetish for fair skin women as you erroneously claim,how did dark skin women like tiwa savage,Genevieve nnaji,ini edo and mercy Johnson become sex symbols among Nigerian men

Martinez39s:
Just one of many cases.

Cc Zabiboy

TRUE STORY:About 7-8 years ago in Kaduna state,a woman ran into her burning house to retrieve her school certificates while leaving her sleeping 2 year old son to burn to ashes

Falz also warned Nigerians against praising scammers about 18months ago.I vividly remember how he was viciously attacked on the Nigerian cyberspace

Eagba:
oga the average black man penis is over 5". I remember saying that "size isn't everything". oga bye bye

I referred to the average penis size of Nigerian men in my previous post.I dont know anything about the penis sizes of the Blackmen in Brazil,Canada or Namibia

Eagba:
your are talking about average, and you know that whites and Chinese makes up this number. while we are black. we have our own special average anyway, small penis no be big deal, just make money and find a loyal, understanding wife to call ur own.
small penis will be a thing of the past

Enough of this braggadacio.The average Nigerian male penis size isn't over 5 inches even while erect.6 inchers aren't generally common in our male populace.Men are just bragging

tobby20:
Obviously a snake hiding behind a female moniker .. Good luck bro

She is obviously a woman.Women are generally unconcerned with the struggles of men and she has shown that mindset on this thread

Dobson43:
Guy your penis is normal. Below is the average size of a penis. Rather deal with your insecurities

The OP is sexually inexperienced hence his insecurities.His penis size is VERY okay/normal.Unfortunately,in today's world with the easy accessability to porn and unusually large pen.ises in porn clips,it has led to many males feeling inadequate in terms of the size of their pen.ises

Zabiboy:

@Xanos...
Forget all these people bashing you here....
They'r jzt bitter you got something for free when others are willing to pay for it...
My only problem is why you broadcasted it ..bcz it wont change the fact that men would still pay for sex and its a pity...

Nothing is as simultaneously fear inspiring and arousing for women as a man she suspects is self-aware of his own value ....

If every man on earth knws this (above), civilization would cease...

GL

The OPs post touched on cold approach and fundamentals.The males are upset at him because he successfully attracted and had sex with multiple females without paying financially for it.An ability they are incapable of and the females are upset at the op because he listed qualities that work in attracting them.If more males acquired those qualities,then their purses would remain forever empty.These are behaviours from both gender men encounter when they improve in various aspects of their lives

SIRTee15:
U guys should be very careful how u subconsciously push the racist narratives of white supremacist....

Now u assumed the black players in contention are Africans....
Well, there are only 2 African players in Mainz first team, Taiwo awoniyi n one other Cameroonian....
The other black players in the team are German, Dutch, Austrian n Swiss nationals....
They just don't have the type of skin colour he would love to identify with those countries.....

That guy didn't complain about white foreign players in the team.....
He's moaning only about black players...irrespective of NATIONALITY.....

He's a racist.....
Don't be fooled by his smokescreen.....

Both online and offline,Nigerians generally don't understand micro and passive aggressions directed at them from other races.We are an incredibly naive people

kongolo:
All Nigerian bloggers and the moderators on Nairaland care about is getting clicks which generates a profit for them.They do not care about the harmful consequences of their actions.Lalasticlacla has been pushing "rape" stories to the frontpage for the past 3days just for clicks.It is an absolute disgrace.There is a story on the frontPage about 24 women accusing a guy of raping them.There has been no police report and no arrest.Just social media posts and yet the guys' photos have been pasted everywhere including Nairaland.If I were him,I would sue the blogs and forums for defamation

It is embarassing.It is the wild west out here