elantraceey:


Wait..... So it's wrong for a man to pound yam that he wants to eat?

lefulefu:
nope its not wrong but if he does it frequently and the wife is always in the sitting room streatching her legs then something is wrong with such a man

lefulefu:
op i agree with your post but then you cant deny some men are really foolish and weak minded
when a man starts washing the underwear of a woman and snaps and uploads such a pix on facebook
or a man knows his wife is cheating on him and dares not confront her cos he is scared she would insult him
Or a man is in the kitchen cooking while the wife is in the sittingroom with her friends drinking,laughing and watching african magic
or a man sponsors a girl from primary six to jss1 to ss3 and sponsors her waec and jamb and keeps on paying for her university fees but when she graduates she dumps him giving reasons that the man is too bush for her and too old for her
or a[b] guy pays a girl montly allowance under the guise of girlfriend and yet she still calls the guy a mumu[/b]
WHAT then can u tag such a guy with?

Nezzjnr:

So wishing the owner of nairaland Happy birthday has turned to a crime??

Look son..... I don't spend most of my time here Shouting simp.... Engaging with girls here in all these E-battles


A real Alpha Male won't be spamming all threads shouting Red pill and so on

lefulefu:
exactly!
like some funny threads i see where a guy will be asking that a girl on facebook asked for for 100k and weda its ok to send her the money
so common sense no tell the guy he"s about to get scammed
u dont need any whatsap group or chatgroup to know wen to act like a man

elantraceey:



But if it's the woman doing always and he's sitting watching football, it's okay ba?

Nezzjnr:

To whom brain is Given.... Sense is expected

Once they get scammed by the Girl.... They'll come to nairaland and start shouting Red pill... Meanwhile behind the scene.... They still dey beg the girl for Knacks

lefulefu:
op i agree with your post but then you cant deny some men are really foolish and weak minded
when a man starts washing the underwear of a woman and snaps and uploads such a pix on facebook
or a man knows his wife is cheating on him and dares not confront her cos he is scared she would insult him
Or a man is in the kitchen cooking while the wife is in the sittingroom with her friends drinking,laughing and watching african magic
or a man sponsors a girl from primary six to jss1 to ss3 and sponsors her waec and jamb and keeps on paying for her university fees but when she graduates she dumps him giving reasons that the man is too bush for her and too old for her
or a guy pays a girl montly allowance under the guise of girlfriend and yet she still calls the guy a mumu
WHAT then can u tag such a guy with?

lefulefu:
op i agree with your post but then you cant deny some men are really foolish and weak minded
when a man starts washing the underwear of a woman and snaps and uploads such a pix on facebook
or a man knows his wife is cheating on him and dares not confront her cos he is scared she would insult him
Or a man is in the kitchen cooking while the wife is in the sittingroom with her friends drinking,laughing and watching african magic
or a man sponsors a girl from primary six to jss1 to ss3 and sponsors her waec and jamb and keeps on paying for her university fees but when she graduates she dumps him giving reasons that the man is too bush for her and too old for her
or a guy pays a girl montly allowance under the guise of girlfriend and yet she still calls the guy a mumu
WHAT then can u tag such a guy with?

stanliwise:

What you wrote here is very true.
But let us not tell a lie either, we have heard cases where women have been played by men and even to an extent some women spend all their hard earn wealth infact their fathers money on a man and yet such men broke their heart into pieces.
The lie the so called redpill don’t say is that innocent women are being played too on a daily basis.
The typical redpill wants all guys to man up and play all girls.
I call this misanthropic view on women evil.
If Redpill want to be healthy to society, it should advise men on how to take control of their life’s and avoid everyday social games. But telling them to become the gamer is not all healthy if you ask me.
It is fine to play games on players, I agree but when you now like to make it a one-sided sexist(male) movement. You cheer guys who play girls and call men who are been played “simp”. Then something isn’t right.
No wonder the Protestant has arisen now, the people we men Created from bare dust ... “The feminist”.
Redpill will only lead to more feminist movement, especially those played by men and the stone keep rolling

stanliwise:
The truth is your daughter will certainly not like a simp. A simp is more like a man who has social acceptance problem(from women especially) and instead of working on himself he tries to behave calmly to people who pride over him so that he would be accepted. SIMPS are normal people with a poor social intelligence.

lefulefu:
exactly!
like some funny threads i see where a guy will be asking that a girl on facebook asked for for 100k and weda its ok to send her the money
so common sense no tell the guy he"s about to get scammed
u dont need any whatsap group or chatgroup to know wen to act like a man

ubunja:

SteelMcqueen:


From your writings I see you're grounded, balanced and logical.....good stuff
Some men need these teachings to act like men, there's so much disinformation out there.....you're a solid guy, but their millions out there that have been influenced by music,movies, books, the media in general is anti masculine, these men don't know any better.......

stanliwise:

What you wrote here is very true.
But let us not tell a lie either, we have heard cases where women have been played by men and even to an extent some women spend all their hard earn wealth infact their fathers money on a man and yet such men broke their heart into pieces.
The lie the so called redpill don’t say is that innocent women are being played too on a daily basis.
The typical redpill wants all guys to man up and play all girls.
I call this misanthropic view on women evil.
If Redpill want to be healthy to society, it should advise men on how to take control of their life’s and avoid everyday social games. But telling them to become the gamer is not all healthy if you ask me.
It is fine to play games on players, I agree but when you now like to make it a one-sided sexist(male) movement. You cheer guys who play girls and call men who are been played “simp”. Then something isn’t right.
No wonder the Protestant has arisen now, the people we men Created from bare dust ... “The feminist”.
Redpill will only lead to more feminist movement, especially those played by men and the stone keep rolling

stanliwise:
Deep down you know you’re a SIMP but you try to live in denial by acting rude to girls. . Hehehehe I have a lot of you on my list. Please if you respond to this message it mean you’re a frustrated chump looking for pussy

lefulefu:
ok whatever u want to call such men dont u think they need help?
lets say God forbid sha u happen to visit ur younger brother who is married and u find him bending down on the varendah steps washing his wife's pant while the wife is in the sittingroom streatching her legs and yawning..how will u react?
or in ur presence the wife is calling him a useless man or maybe the man forgot to heat up the egusi soup they had last night and the thing got spoilt then the wife got angry and slapped him him and called him a good for nothing man and that theres nothing he can do around the house...how u going to react .I know u will react the way i expect
we dont feel the pain until it happens to our blood .weda we call them weak or not such men need to stand up and if they cant then someone needs to call them out .

ekoson95:
Am I the only one not understanding what the OP's point is?

stanliwise:


A man doing a women’s work out of low self esteem need help and need awareness..

ubunja:
maybe you can tell us how joining NL has benefited you financially. Because your last thread you were simply wishing Seun a happy birthday Lmfao

ubunja:

lefulefu:
he can help if he wants to.When we were kids it was my mom who pounded.sometimes my dad helped her or my uncles when they were around.but one thing my mom was never in the sitting room while my dad was in the kitchen.As we grew older me and any of my other brother helped my mom.she would insist we leave the cooking to her but we could do other things if we wanted to.These days in many modern homes u would see the grown jup dauthers and the mom in the sitting room watching film while it will be the man in the kitchen doing everything.sometimes if the man goes to the market and didnt bring the complete change the wife will insult him .thats the modern family we now have now .many modern girls today dont even know how to do anything.they cant even boil egg.only very few can prepare something.Tday sef its men who can better than women cos most stayed with their moms of the older generation in the kitchen.

lefulefu:
u have said it all
could be what ubanja and co are trying to do

elantraceey:


These ideologies doesn't always work. I started pounding yam when I was 9 because I'm the first child and my mum developed waist pain and my dad was the 'man of the house' and would never enter the kitchen but his pounded yam must be served every evening no matter what. You don't use what works for you to compare others, things are no longer the same. You can as well wish things returned to how things were at the thing of your parents now in terms of technology and all. A man cooking while his wife is resting doesn't make him less a man. Cooking should be a husband's duty as much as the wife because it's the both of them and their children that eats the food not just one person and they both should contribute to the home. Now, this can work for one person and not another, so find what works for you and don't judge another man for doing what works for him.

elantraceey:


These ideologies doesn't always work. I started pounding yam when I was 9 because I'm the first child and my mum developed waist pain and my dad was the 'man of the house' and would never enter the kitchen but his pounded yam must be served every evening no matter what. You don't use what works for you to compare others, things are no longer the same. You can as well wish things returned to how things were at the thing of your parents now in terms of technology and all. A man cooking while his wife is resting doesn't make him less a man. Cooking should be a husband's duty as much as the wife because it's the both of them and their children that eats the food not just one person and they both should contribute to the home. Now, this can work for one person and not another, so find what works for you and don't judge another man for doing what works for him.

stanliwise:
God forbid.
The misogynist just prays for a world where men would trample on our daughter and sister and mothers. I don’t like when men are played by women with entitlement mentality but I can’t go to such extreme.
Read “The truth” - A confession and renouncement of the great PUA artist Neil Strauss.
After being a great man that picks women he later confess how you grow dark in mindset later on

lefulefu:
u dont need to to take ubanja's advice word for word though .there some things he is spot on but there some tins he is equally wrong.Yes u can speak ur mind to ur wife and tell her u dont like such a treatment but that doesnt mean u should beat her or call her a LovePeddler.no she is the mother of ur children.there was one statament that ubanja made yesterday about the type of women a man should help.He said apart from the man"s sisters,mom,wives or siblings he doesnt owe any other female a dime.I think i agree with such.Imagine a girl from the blue cos she said hi to me on facebook and the next day she is asking me to give her 150k and i said no even if i had the money so does that mean i am an azz ? i can give if i feel like giving but then that doesnt mean i should be compelled in giving her money cos she is female.It does not work that way.
some of his preaching he said men should stand for themselves i agree to that but some i dont agree.

stanliwise:
Please forget all those failed men. They have some quite bad experiences with women. The bad ones they attract, now they have turned into women worshipers. Their sole aim in life is to sleep with women and use women. It is they only joy the have in this life. The bitterness of what some women did to them is so much

SteelMcqueen:
You know results of Ubunja's teaching and the effect on his followers?
A bunch of brats shouting SIMPs all over nairaland.......does that portray Alpha? Does that portray a man in control of his emotions? Do you think a brat like that can control is environment? Do you think a brat like that can manage a woman's emotions? Answer is No!!!!

ubunja:
how many Miseducations have your read?

SteelMcqueen:



I don't need to.....the conversations I've heard with some of your followers, their responses, your responses, tells me everything I need to know. I read the man not his writings.

ubunja:
You're being dramatic here.

SteelMcqueen:


It's cold hard evidence, that everyone on nairaland can see, it's why I opened this thread.

baiaon:
That is the mindset of the average Nigerian for you.Kissing the backsides of those in authourity so that they can be recognised and some crumbs will be thrown their way

SteelMcqueen:


It's cold hard evidence, that everyone on nairaland can see, it's why I opened this thread.