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Family › Re: My Wife Hates My Step-Daughter. Please Help by Ballo1292(m): 2:59pm On Nov 30, 2022
[quote author=Gudfadah post=118781077]Good evening nairaland.

I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old.
We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.

Before she passed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands.
I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day.
I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.

I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child.
She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.

She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth.
But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.

It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.

Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.

Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.

I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.

Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married.
Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses.
I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.

I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situationhuh



I will advise you formalize the adoption of the daughter legally. With that she will be a bonafide member of the family. But driving your wife out to another house is divorce in disguise.

Think about the adoption option and it would shut your wife up for ever.
Politics › Re: Photos From Bola Tinubu Meeting With The Business Community by Ballo1292(m): 8:15am On Nov 02, 2022
Humble1994:
Please someone should please help me with little money to be able to cook something to eat please haven't eaten anything since yesterday morning pls. It's hard for me and my family to survive please no matter how small, it will still help please. May God bless you and may you never lack
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GT Bank
Angel Oyom
Stop begging....
It is a bad spirit. Try to cast it out or is it a curse?

If ladies can ride Keke napep,do bricklayita d Mechanic, I beg go and work joor. No free money anywhere again.
Family › Re: No Family Planning, No Sex by Ballo1292(m): 10:15am On Oct 23, 2022
DamnnNiggarr:
My wife says– No family planning, No sex.
for the past four months, my wife has been mounting series of pressures on me concerning family planning and I kept on ignoring her, but these past weeks, she has shown me what shege really looks like.

Up to three weeks, my wife has denied me access to her sacred part, insisting on her "No family planning, No sex" rule, anytime a tried to make love to her.

I've Three(3) beautiful Angels with her and my last child clocked 4 Years old. She said, she's not ready for another child despite our last child who's our only daughter being 4yrs old and my second son is 6, while my eldest child is 10years( that's 4 years gap). she said she's done with giving birth.

I got the shock of my life this night, that she asked me to go and get c*ndoms, if I want to have my way to her sacred part or otherwise we visit the doctor for counseling or do the family planning, reason why I picked up my phone to write this. I'm fed up because I don't subscribe to this idea of family planning or anything related to it, due to it's several after effects.

But it seems like she's winning, but either ways, I would sincerely like to see some opinions from here before going to see the doctor whether to give in to her request or not.

You were lucky that your woman still respect you and seek your opinion on family planning.
Many would have done it without your consent and will just be nacking without result.

I beg rest your knogi if you can't see it from her angle. 3 children is okay with this econoi.

Please assist me for wider audience.
Crime › Re: Mum Who Poisoned Ex-boyfriend's Porridge And Strangled Him Jailed For 115 Years by Ballo1292(m): 6:14pm On Oct 18, 2022
Karlovych:
embarassed Agbadoiano's drugs causing havoc in the US again, Awolowo's free education initiative for his people sent him to the US to study and he decided to smuggle narcotics for different cartels. The young man's death is directly related to the actions of a cocaine lord from Iragbiji

What a shame!
Have you ever listen to yourself and see how broken and sadistic you are?

Note this scumbag, Tinubu that you hate so much that you can't breath without insulting him will rule you and your generations for the next 8years.

You children of hate can never taste the leadership of this country and you will never be allowed to secede. You and your Igbo generation will forever remain third class citizen of this country. Idiot
Family › Re: Once Husband And Wife Sleep In Different Beds, The Marriage Is Almost Over ..... by Ballo1292(m): 7:58am On Oct 14, 2022
Ilekokonit:
Once husband and wife sleep in different beds or in different rooms, the marriage is almost over and may not last for very long

Husband and wife have no business sleeping in different beds or in different rooms.

The excuse some women give is that they are nursing a baby who must breast feed through the night and thats a fair point but at some point, the baby will stop feeding on breast milk and at that point, the baby can go and sleep in his or her cot and not in the parents marital bed and after some time he or she or they if twins have to go and sleep in their own room and let Mum and Dad have the needed private time so that they can bond if their young marriage is to survive long after their children have left home (which they will someday).

But the mistake a lot of women make is to over prioritize their time with their baby / toddler to the detriment of their marriage. Why go into a marriage when at the first sign of a baby, the wife imports the baby permanently into her marital bed under the guise of breastfeeding and in some cases even when the child is more than 3 years old, he or she is still sleeping beside the mum at night and often times the man has been stylishly shunted to sleeping in another room and even if chairman wan nack during the day, the 3 year old child is furiously banging on the door for the parents to open the door because the child has been made to always feel he or she has to be beside the Mum.

But wives who want their marriage to last will know where to draw the line and give unto Caesar what is Caesar's in a TIMELY manner.

A word is enough for the wise woman who wants her marriage to last way past when the kids will have left home to start their own families.
It is a lie. I had been sleeping on different beds for the past 6 years in the same room and I love my wife the more. This was because I gave her enough space to take care of our baby.
Fashion › Re: World's Oldest Model Carmen , 91, Poses Topless For Risque Magazine Shoot (pics) by Ballo1292(m): 12:54pm On Oct 06, 2022
Corridon:
Imagine the dilapidated breast and cobweb infested rusty pussy.
You are a fool!!!

You lack respect and that had robbed you of progress in life.

You can't really go far with this your nauseating and toxic behavior.

Animal
Romance › Re: I Almost Murdered My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me. But GOD Stopped Me. by Ballo1292(m): 6:25pm On Oct 04, 2022
Festus30:
I and this girl have been dating over a year. I took her serious, I've sacrifice a lot for her and it made me so heart broken when I noticed she cheated on me reason I almost took her life.

My girlfriend and I live in the same city (Mowe) but I traveled out of the city 2 months ago for work things (ibadan), so around last month she called me that her phone screen (Samsung) is broken, that she's just managing her phone and to fix it is 35k but she already have 15k so she's in need of 20k to complete it. So I sent her 21k.

Fast forward to Friday when I came back to mowe, I went to see her, I saw her holding iphone Xmax. I was like who gave you iPhone? She was just telling me lies upon lies. At first she said she swapped it, then I was like why didn't you tell me you bought iPhone and who gave you money to swap it becus you'll need over 190k to swap. To cut the long story short..

I later found out that a guy bought the phone for her. The 21k I sent to repair her phone, she repaired it and gave it to her younger sis.

I was so heartbroken. For a guy to buy her iphone that means she have been dating and having sex with the guy secretly without me knowing. She has been begging me, calling & texting since Friday but i didn't reply.

She texted me she was coming to my house yesterday. The only word I said to her since on Friday was to meet me in a uncompleted building close to my house yesterday, I have this machanic slege hammer, it's one of my tools I use for working, so I held it while waiting for her.

My plan was the moment she enter the building, just a powerful whiplash on her head and she's dead, I felt so cold inside of me, I was also shaking while holding the hammer and feeling so heartbroken. Then I heard a deep voice inside of me saying "YOU WILL REGRET YOUR ACTIONS" (twice)

Then she called me that she's there, I already sighted her through the window, I came out and I told her to run away and never come back anywhere around me again. She was still begging that she's sorry. And I said if only you know what I'm about to do, you will run.

She left, I just sat on the floor feeling so heartbroken.
You want kill because of TOTO way plenty like water?

Your prison term will go FAR.
you want waste your precious life?

God save your foolish mind Sha.

I thank God for your life ooo
Romance › Re: Sex Worker & Her Customer Die In Lagos Building Collapse During Sex by Ballo1292(m): 7:24pm On Sep 25, 2022
Politics › Re: Tinubu: I Am One Of The Best Friends Of The Christian Community (Video) by Ballo1292(m): 7:17am On Sep 23, 2022
Bobloco:
Best friend will an evil intension
Your guts are full of dirty sadness.

You and you generation could neither match nor stop this man. He is God bless and made. Market your lier candidate and leave BAT alone.

He is not the cause of your miserable life.
Education › Re: Industrial Court Orders ASUU Back To Work by Ballo1292(m): 4:39pm On Sep 21, 2022
Can you pay any workers in your company that went on strike to press home their demand for a better pay and working conditions?

Can they be calling you from home to send their salary to them.
Nonsense must stop in this country. They know that whatever happens, they will get paid for those months not working.

Rubbish!!!
Education › Re: Industrial Court Orders ASUU Back To Work by Ballo1292(m): 4:37pm On Sep 21, 2022
Jflex07:
Is it the court that will pay ASUU members the outstanding 7 months salary? I'm sure this is a judgement passed by the industrial court which I know will be appealed by ASUU..Does a government who does not obey court order expect ASUU to obey the same court order? Time shall tell! ASUU can also decide to honor the court judgement for 24hrs,then go on strike again the next day.

They can't be wiser.
Can you pay any workers in your company that went on strike to press home their demand for a better pay and working conditions?

Can they be calling you from home to send their salary to them.
Nonsense must stop in this country. They know that whatever happens, they will get paid for those months not working.

Rubbish!!!
Politics › Re: 2023: Atiku Proposes $10bn Economic Stimulus Fund For MSMEs, Unfolds Blueprint by Ballo1292(m): 11:11am On Sep 14, 2022
divinehand2003:
•Vows to privatise refineries than utilise $1.55bn to revitalise them 

•Says he will propose legislation to remove electricity from exclusive list 

•Meets Makinde, South-west party leaders today, promises to help PDP win Lagos


Atiku -PDP had come out with his manifestos and program. Let OBI say what he intend to do rather than castigating and derogatorily malign other candidates.

It is evident that he had little or nothing to do to ameliorate the situation on ground.

Awon wereee




https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2022/09/14/2023-atiku-proposes-10bn-economic-stimulus-fund-for-msmes-unfolds-blueprint/
Politics › Re: 2023: Someone Who Claimed He Lost His Wealth Under Abacha Now Owns Planes – Obi by Ballo1292(m): 8:01pm On Sep 12, 2022
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NwaNimo1:
https://dailytrust.com/2023-someone-who-claimed-he-lost-his-wealth-under-abacha-now-owns-planes-peter-obi
From the way peter obi is going about his campaign of calumny. Trying daily to malign and castigate his opponent shows how typical Igbo he is.

Average Igbo will go any length to bring down anyone they perceived to have interest in whatever they are pursuing. They can kill, maim and scorn people anyhow.

Politics in 21 century are issue base and not this hateful and derogatory gutter one his playing.

If he want to curry any sympathy and favour from the voters, he issue itemize Nigerian problems and proffer solution to them all.

Igbo had never learn the true act of Nigerian politics and they will forever be bench if they continue in this part of self aggrandizement and hatred towards other tribe
Politics › Re: Military, DSS, Others Comb Hotspots In FCT, Nab Terrorists, Informants by Ballo1292(m): 9:40am On Sep 12, 2022
OnionBandit:
Sincerely, we have what it takes to fight insecurity but there is no sincerity in the fight against it. The kind of success recorded in the past few weeks is surprising. What have we been doing prior to this period? I am using this opportunity to urge our security agents to be tough against boko bastards, bandits, IPOB terrorists and other criminals gracing disgracing our headlines . Kill them all!
The things were responsible.

Abuja was being attacked -Prison and treat to attacked mainland Abuja.

2. Treat of impeachment on Buhari.

Less :-
Until this tension reach the rich and powerful, they continue to pay lip service to security in Nigeria.
Politics › Re: Queen Elizabeth’s Crown Not Her Own – Uju Anya by Ballo1292(m): 9:32am On Sep 12, 2022
AlfaSeltzer:
Afonja can never be this brave.
You are a bigot who spew blatant hatred.

Desist because it is not good for your health.

If you yeebos continue in this part of castigating others to get leadership of this country, it won't end well as you will continue to be an onlookers in the affairs of this country.

Onyiara, indiara & Wereee reee oo
Education › Re: Scarcity Of Teachers In Private Schools: What Is The Cause and the Way Forward? by Ballo1292(m): 2:32pm On Sep 09, 2022
Vinnie2000:
Was in a Tricycle going home and observed that most Schools put a Vacancy for 'Teachers Wanted'.

The driver now said 'Na so so Teachers dis Schools dey find?

'If dem dey see am, e for beta nah.The Guy next to me, said!

He now told us he is a Private school teacher for 5yrs and that these days, Graduates ARE NO LONGER INTERESTED in teaching jobs!

That they are all into Plumbing, Tailoring, Graphics designs, Online selling, Bitcoin trade, Yahoo, Hookups, etc.

SO, THE QUESTION IS

What is the cause of this?

If this Ugly trend continues, Who will Teach the New generation of Nigerian childrenhuh

Or in 2035 or 2040, will Education in Nigeria be something, Dispensable or Optionalhuh

Pls move to FP. Tanx.
Who want to they collect that useless salary they paying when the cost of living is skyrocketing?

Some pays as low as 10k for primary school teacher with NCE Certificate.
What can such peanut amount do for a person in a month, even without family?

I was a teacher before I JAPA to other area of life

Proprietors do have meetings where many peg salaries at such low amount and they collect much from Parents.
Politics › Re: Major J T Aguiyi Ironsi During An Army Training Exercise At Warminster England by Ballo1292(m): 1:03pm On Sep 09, 2022
Biodun556:
The man that removed federalism and replaced it with unitary system

He failed to prosecute the killers of Tafawa Balewa because they were Igbos setting the stage for revenge and civil war
You are a failure of history.

Gowon was never in the position when the Kaduna Ezeigwo, Ifeajuna, banjo Ademoyoga, etc. killed the Tafawa Balewa, etc.

It was the failure of Hausa/ Fulani soldiers that to obey brigadier Ademulegun and subsequent afront from Ojukwu who said he can't take directive Gowon.

Meeting were called in Aburu Ghana to resolve d the issue of those that were killed and many that left the northern part to the eastern side.

The failure of Gowon government to complied with the agreement reached in Aburu that led to Ojukwu declared Biafra state.

Google it and read history books.
Sports › Re: Tobiloba Amusan Wins Diamond League In Women's 100m Hurdles, Makes History by Ballo1292(m): 7:33pm On Sep 08, 2022
Omooooooo:
Where are those that use to shout Afonja with blood money are like 5 & 6?


Hope they can still remember she is an Afonja making it legit??

Well don babe……greater heights I pray
Must you turn everything to tribal war?

Even if the other tribal people dey reason with their ANUS, must you now join them to do same?
I beg, our creeds don't do that. Please stop misrepresenting us.
Politics › Re: Military Bombs Terrorists At Boko Haram Fighters' Funeral In Borno by Ballo1292(m): 11:47am On Sep 08, 2022
You will agree with me that their was an increase in the onslaught against insurgents after national assembly threatened to impeach Buhari.

It is quite unfortunate that we have been playing lip service until this moment.

Kudos to the military Sha.
Romance › Re: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask You For Sex Until Marriage? by Ballo1292(m): 3:19pm On Sep 07, 2022
Fahvvy:
Why not?!!!!!
Se.x before marriage is irresponsible! Just as expecting a guy you're dating to pay your bills is criminal undecided ...
You are sighted!!!
Travel › Re: Nigerian Woman Delivers Her Baby On Turkish Flight To Manchester by Ballo1292(m): 3:06pm On Sep 07, 2022
H100:
A Nigerian woman, Ifeoma Nweke Delivers Baby On Manchester Bound Turkish Airline Flight - Turkey Errand Boy

According to the carriers report on Tuesday, A passenger who is a doctor volunteered himself to assist Ifeoma who delivered a girl baby.

The flight which departed Istanbul Havalimani to Manchester UK, was diverted to Vienna International Airport, where paramedics waited for the new mother and baby upon landing.

Ifeoma was on board with her husband.

Make una no vex oo, which citizenship the pikin go come get now

Source: https://turkeyerrand.com/ifeoma-nweke-delivers-baby-on-flight/
The baby will be a citizen of the country where they in air space where the babe came out.

If it is on the ocean, that will be Oceania.��
Politics › Re: I Will Use A Contractionary Monetary Policy To Fight Inflation - Peter Obi by Ballo1292(m): 3:57am On Sep 06, 2022
nlfpmod:
https://twitter.com/PeterObi/status/1566527387986182145
I said so and Obi had confirmed it that he has little or no knowledge of Nigerian economic peculiarity.

Contractionary monetary policy would make Nigerian suffer the more.

Inflation we are currently experiencing is not demand pull induced as a result of excess liguidity in circulation. It is due to cut in production and supply chain and coupled with imported Inflation from abroad.

Using contractionary monetary policy would further cause shortage of cash in circulation and will push cost price higher the more.

On forex, letting forex market to adjust itself to equilibrium would hike the rate of dollars and other hard currency against Naira. This is because Nigeria economy is a consuming nature where we make constant demand for hard currency to go abroad for importation. Hence, hardship for common man on the street.

He is a business tycoon and not an economist.

Let Nigerian be guided and if he wins, expect serious hardship if he pursue that economic policy.

Thank you!!!
Romance › Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Ballo1292(m): 7:35pm On Sep 05, 2022
Havemercylord:
Hello everyone, I am 34 years old and I am here to get honest advice from experienced people.

My story will be short and precise.

I met a girl in April, 2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

Before I met this girl, I have what I need at least, i can rent a house, buy my basic needs and even have savings.

But since i met her, i was turned down in all the places where i was promised Good jobs and contracts.

When we went to make consultation, we were told she belongs to water spirit that she refused to give sacrifices or relate well with her fellow water mates, that the more she didn't do the right things for them, my own Life Will be affected too.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

We were told to appease her water mates, that afterwards, things will change for good.

And i have also heard from several people that most times after doing all the sacrifices, things might not change much for the man.

And all these sacrifices cost money!!!

WHAT CAN I DO?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?
Many of these write ups are fictions and tales of of the moon light.

They are not real.
You impregnate a woman with 3 kids from different men.

Just stop posting iranu and asking us for advice.
Celebrities › Re: Portable Blows Hot After Goya Menor Won "Best Street Hip Hop" Award At Headies by Ballo1292(m): 6:25pm On Sep 05, 2022
Umedia:
Singer Portable blows hot after Goya Menor won the "Best Street Hip Hop" award at the 15th Headies Award Ceremony after his disqualification.

https://youtube.com/shorts/1sgW9lcSW28?feature=share

Recall, that the singer was nominated for - 'Rookie of the Year’ and ‘Best Street-Hop Artiste,' but he was disqualified from the ceremony over threat to kill co-nominees in those categories and controversial claims he formed 'One Million Boys'
The singer later apologised for the threat and quickly retracted his statement, claiming that the One Million Boys he referred to in the viral video are his fans and not any cult group.
He recently went live on Instagram to throw jab at Goya Menor for winning the "Best Street Hip Hop" award.

"I'm bigger than the Headies awards. Goya Menor who won the 'Street Hip Hop' award, I'm better than him. Does he have another song apart from 'Dorime' Portable could be heard expressing displeasure of the headies choice of Goya Menor on his instagram live.

https://fb.watch/flT2HlONnW/
Stop begging for Monet. Don't continue to disgrace your family.

Mofos
Romance › Re: Passengers Having Sex In Traffic In Benin Caught by Ballo1292(m): 3:10pm On Aug 25, 2018
God is never tired of our case, never!

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