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Enahi:
Oh jeez you are right, now i understand what you meant.

LOL in which industry do you work?

Enahi:
Huh what ads? I don't understand

Your thread obviously emphasises a selling point of yours.

Noone holds a smart guy ransom.

Enahi,

Are you aware that Nairaland charges for ads?

Felitsa187:
Not true. Dont just conclude, bruh!!

It's refreshing to have someone with a different perspective.

So in essence you're different from the rest?

A girl of 20 hasn't really experienced life sha... she's still in her prime and probably still in school... she won't minding dating someone with Swag that flashes some cash. Yes typical Nigerian chic.

When she ages, her orientation may begin to change and she'd look for stability and security in a guy

And for you OP, I think first impression matters. Unless you had ulterior motives or you acted rather irresponsibly when you first approached her, no sensible chic would brush you off since it seemed you were in a social gathering. The reason I'm saying is cos you stopped over to see her again... so maybe if the disrespect and shaming truthfully came from her part, you would have tried all possible ways to avoid her subsequently. I'm just saying

Not to be a downer but I hope these pics remain valid till this time next year.

Everyone is single until they're married.

EbuDox:
Why u con resemble one OSU gal like that.. With that ur "Gaucho Ronaldinho"-like legs..

That's not a way to talk to a lady. Hian. Nigerian men. Pfft!

Bisjosh:
Its really a beautiful thing when you grow old together as a couple

Yes so beautiful. This is us someday cc: tohphunmie

Swissheart:
..not about the age nau....just not a fan of 'roadside wooing'.

So what kind of wooing do you fancy?

Swissheart:
.....then I will ignore you

Well you look like you're in your prime you can afford to ignore boys at the moment

Just kidding.

How are you?

2dice:
u don't even need much grammar/English diss days
Let her know u like her without being too forward
If she likes you ...everything u do will look perfect

LOL Mr. Love Doctor

I agree 100%. If a chick likes you, the stupidest things you do will be the funniest.

Mznaett:
The word of God iyaf suffer for some people hand o chai!
Na pple like dz guy go dey drag position for hell~fire aswear

They'd use God's word as a means to do sh!t with 'em ladies fvnny enough they'd even back~up their false and silly interest on "God showed me last night" that you'd be my wife

I know am not d only one that have encountered the ilks of this self~acclaimed preacher

You no even get small pikin conscience sef U close eyes dey drill d honeywell and now d magical power don dey torment ur soul buhahahahahahahahaha now U come dey think of lubbish U neva chi chumchin my brother


Myfriend,,I'd advise you start now to think of how ur punishment in hell 'd be like cuz U're done for

Madam self righteous,

Who made you a judge over him?

chowlade:
Being virgin is not a stigma but some Naija virgin self are like;

1.They cannot handle relationship better
2.They laugh like kids (big turn off)
3.They flirt and pay too much on their looks as if they want to be beautiful like that of a lady.
4.They also want a virgin like them
5.They r mom's pet and can be shy
6. He's Inexperience and controlling in relationship as if he own you.
7.They asked meaningless questions all d time
8.Bad body languages, No alpha male qualities in them. i.e they are not always tough
9.They can leak d secrets of d relationship they r into when they shouldn't.
10.They usually not on top of their game unlike the Non virgin guys.

My own perception sha.

Your perception is skewed. Everything you mentioned can easily be exhibited by non virgins.

By the way, how the heck does laughing and virginity relate? Like are you serious?

Nairaland should start having psychometrics for newbies, yikes!

AwesomelyMade:
I won't say I love because I don't want any lady to have control over my emotions. I am just ok with her, may be she wants more, I don't know

Dude are twins or something?

LOL Geez my thoughts precisely

In naija you can't tell a girl 'you have my heart, keep it safe', instead they'll hold it to ransom most of the time.

rawpadgin:
young man u did well

a wise man once told me.......

never trust a beautiful woman, expecially the one that's interested in u

LOL its a red flag when a beautiful chick is out to get you.

prettythicksme:
Why dont u stop her when she was kissing u?cos i see no reason u should refuse her sex and accepted to kiss her!

Smh this is so wrong. Even people kiss in public...does that give them a license to have sex consequently? LOL such flawed logic.

FYI Cuddling et al is one thing, sex is another. Except for those who sleep around randomly, sex is a really big deal.

kendrick9:
You area a learner... person put free food for your mouth u no gree chop now cow u are coming here to write epistle....
Advice ko,vice city ni

Ever heard of class? It's for men not boys.

henribj:
credible sauce?

Incredible chicken

tohphunmie:
Goaway jor

But I'm deeply sorry

ganiyuadeoye:
Is there anyone applying to Dalhousie university for Msc? Kindly contact ASAP.

Thanks guys

Yes please. I'm open to a PM.

tohphunmie:
I miss you too husby. I'm sorry, my phone's been acting up lately.
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And that's how you forgot my birthday's today.

Happy Belated Birthday darling. My message may be just a little late but when it is someone so special like you, my thoughts towards you are always on time.

We can take a rain-check on the movie, and you'd get double kisses and hugs as bonus for my lateness...

tohphunmie:
Awww Hope ur good tho

where'd you go? I miss you, it's like it's been forever

ajbabs:
Sack Mourinho for me, please.

Win or lose, we'll get behind our team. Fergie didn't have it rosy all through the years. Mou is in for the long term and he needs our loyalty. Glory hunters may think otherwise.

If it's not blue, it will be.

obum88:
Maybe he is a major distributor

OMG best post ever. Take a bow mate!

LOL some days back my buddy and I were still debating if it's 'okay' for a 26y/o to date an 18 y/o and now this comes along... Hahaha

Some girlfriends will be a perfect sub for a parrot though. Just saying

Tales by moonlight

Tohphunmie, this would be us someday

Dear VICTORIA91,

"Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated." - Confucius

You don't have to be confused, you're a woman, put yourself in the other woman's shoe... and whatever you feel is right, go ahead and do it.

tohphunmie:
I wont even date a fair guy sef not to talk of the one that bleaches.....i like my man dark, not too dark tho. #Black is the new cute
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Btw where's Bamz, my ehusby

Oh moon of my life, my sun and stars... been a little busy, sorry.

Our kids will have your complexion. I'm not as radiant as you are.

SeverusSnape:
I've experienced this before, It happened about two years ago. There was this hot and sexy girl in my department, She was asking me out, Now I don't have a problem with a female asking for a relationship with me because it's not something new to me, But I had to decline because she was a mad runs girl, mehn hers was just too much. I didn't mince words, I just told her simply, "You're just not my type, and there's nothing that can go on between us", I'm not the type that 'chop and clean mouth' if not so eh...I would have done the undo able with her.

She persisted, But when she realized I was not giving in, She had to find her way.

Nice one mate... people like us still exist.