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Anyss:
Woow. New love can be swit Eeh. Wish u best of lucks dear

. Lol. New love can be so swit until it gets to one year nd sum frogs start peeping into it

Cholls:
my sister i love her cuz she actually knows how to chop my money without remorse. #nobodynobodycandrivemedown.

hahahahahahahaha. Ok now am crying 4u

prettythicksme:
I hate my boo,dont ask me y

seriously?

missyadorable:
I don't love my boo neither do I hate him

LIKE is a better word.I LIKE him a lot cos he fits into my social class,is educated,averagely good looking,soft hearted and LOVES me!

. U get heartt o. Kai u wicket![color=#006600][/color]

rexkexmilan:
Well, No Bae, So I can't Answer your Question .

denn don't comment

Exponental:
The day my brother saw his wife, he concluded she is d one he had been looking for. Though he couldnt make his intention known immediately cos she was a client n many others were waiting. Just imagine he was on break or met her somewhere else, he wouldnt let her go when he had such feelings. They are happily married with a baby boy now. Sooo..... It's possible n that doesnt mean he is not real.

so did ur brother propose 2her d next day nd married her d following weekend??

Cutehector:
People get heartbroken cuz dey allow demselves to be heartbroken...

I see no reason why a matured lady will come to tell me I broke her heart wen

1. I ddnt hav sex with her


2. She neva gave me any dime


3. She neva visited me



4. She neva cooked for me..

mitchewwwww. Wat is dis one saying now. Do u understand d topic at all?

GlassDoc:
All these ranking don't mean anything outside naija. Where's unilag abi na maulag in the world ranking? nowhere! anyways, up Alma mata... lol

do more of Ethnocentrism instead of xenocentrism. Cherish wat u got!

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
,
I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

. 14years if Ambode catch u!

IamLEGEND1:
Boko haram

Orange is the new black

Isis

Wailing wailers

Taliban

Bukola Saraki

Syrian refugees

PDP senators

. Abi o. Amechi, narrate movie, Boko haram...

zaragal:
U will be the architect of ur own misfortune ijn...u are very very stewpid idiot

. Haha. Lolz. Gurl take it P

zaragal:
No pls don't keep all does close as a lady, I was a victim....

All dis relatnship stuff sef..

just bcuz it didn't work 4u doesn't mean it won't work 4odas. Ur just a victim of negative circumstance, nd who knows, u culd be d architect of ur own misfortune

PunkyVeer:
Yes, shut, bolt & hire a bouncer for "the door".

hahahahahaha..... Lmao oooo. Kai u funny die. Bouncer ke!

Luckygurl:
So when the relationship comes crashing, you'll experience double the pain.

Oh please!!! Being in a relationship doesn't mean you shouldn't have friends of the opposite gender especially when they add positively to your life and ofcourse with no strings attached.

Them never born the guy who go yarn say make I end my friendship with my close male pals

. Luckygal u cn only deceive ursef. Ur bf shuld be ur bestfrnd. Every bestfriend u kip wit anoda guy will surely end in bed sumday. Am a guy nd dat's d truth. Ehn if u knw u can nt end a frnshp 4 a relationshp den u shuld b able 2 end a relatnshp 4 a friendship. Simple as that!

misspicy:
Depends on the type of relationship and the time for settling involved,for a lady who is not ready to settle down they can lock all doors buh for a matured lady in need of settling down,its better to kip every doors open

Same goes for guys...

Note: its d reality

. Mr why are u contradicting ursef. If he/she is ready to settle nd serious dat's wen shut all doors. Simple!

Elosky20:
i wil comment after seeing ur marriage certificate. marriage before sex pls

why not go to her house nd visit her. Nonsense. Ar u tryin 2say she could b lying? If she's not married she will specify it nd. Won't come here to say she is. Try to be diplomatic sir!

Aieboocaar:
sweerie i guess i'll be seeing u at shiloh 2015

[color=#990000][/color]hahaha... baba I get dat jerk o. Her prayer point may just b one

danbrowndmf:
We need to sue which ever school you are graduating from .

Lolzzzzz.... baba na u o

Cutehector:
I duno why people get worked up in life.. Dat someone cheats on u without u two being legally bound doesn't mean u will begin to do all manner of things against dat person..


I will sound this to evryone readin my comment, evryboyfrnd or girlfrnd is absolutely free to do whatever he or she pleases as long as they havnt made any vows whatsoever to u. U don't own them, and they don't own u.

Mr oga just bcuz we ar all free nd nobdy own d other does nt mean we can do watever nd mess ourselves up arnd. A future u fail to plan 4, u plan to fail in it. I put dis question 2u. Would u just meet a lady today nd marry her d same day? If NO, do u den mean btw d space of u date/courting nd wedding day, she can go nd mess herself around bcuz u don't own her yet Abeg let's be logically sincere 2ourselvs!

Richiy:
One million likes.

God bless u my brother. No mind d guy

Seculent:
Stop encouraging people to cheat.

@cutehector. Mr oga just bcuz we ar all free nd nobdy own d other does nt mean we can do watever nd mess ourselves up arnd. A future u fail to plan 4, u plan to fail in it. I put dis question 2u. Would u just meet a lady today nd marry her d same day? If NO, do u den mean btw d space of u date/courting nd wedding day, she can go nd mess herself around bcuz u don't own her yetAbeg let's be logically sincere 2ourselvs!

Mr oga just bcuz we ar all free nd nobdy own d other does nt mean we can do watever nd mess ourselves up arnd. A future u fail to plan 4, u plan to fail in it. I put dis question 2u. Would u just meet a lady today nd marry her d same day? If NO, do u den mean btw d space of u date/courting nd wedding day, she can go nd mess herself around bcuz u don't own her yet Abeg let's be logically sincere 2ourselvs!

EggovinMma:
DEPENDS!!!


IT MAY TASTE LIKE OKPOROKO DRIED FISH
SOME TASTE LIKE KOTE FISH
SOME FIT TASTE LIKE KPANLA FISH.

PLEASE DONT EAT SUYA BEFORE GOING DOWN THERE


HAPPY IS THE GUY WHO EATS A WELL GROOMED POCCCCY!!!!FOR THE BLESSING OF THE LORD OF KONJI WILL BE FOREVER ON HIM!!!

LOLzzzzzzzzzz! Ur real dad!

She mean make u waka

Lol! Ur ordeal is funny yet sympathetic. I don't know how much sorry can heal ur wound. But bro, the only consolation u got now is dat ur new good job. God has consoled u. So encourage urself in d lord, hold on to ur job.

But sha u were foolish o, u shuld av detected dis frm d start, a girl dat dnt won't sex bt always loose control during romance. Hmmm.. No sex indeed. Nd may I ask u. U spend 70% of ur allowee on her, so she's got her own 100%+70% frm u. She got 170% nd u got 30%. Mehn dat's nt love it's foolishness, nd it shows u don't even av a plan 4ur future, d relationship was money driven nt love as u purported. Oh less I 4get u also gv her ur personal savings. Will I be right to say she got 200% nd u get. 30%. Bro u were foolish, uno wise at all!!!

godG:
Let her go. Obviously, you guys are not on the same wavelength. Wait brother, you must be kidding right? At 24, still on your Bachelors and thinking of marriage in 3 years? A bit unrealistic.

For her, these are the likely odds:

1. She is probably not willing to wait that long.
2. She is probably a nymphomaniac.
3. You are not showing her enough reasons to wait.

Above all, I feel you should let her go. As it's, inferring from your post, she isn't ready to buy your idea of no-sex. And here you are, you are not ready to bend - that which I appreciate. See, do not listen to folks mocking your inability to 'shine her kongo' as expected. It's your life. If you are sure you haven't done anything bad, let her go - I can't emphasize this enough.

One of the hallmarks of a man is his ability to know when to walk away! What will miss you will not meet you and what will meet you will not miss you.

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Abegiiii! D guy had sex wit her 6times already, nd eno like sex, so na now he know say sex before marriage no good. He seh decieve himsef. How ar yu sure he has no cinister motive sef!

The gal is not a wife material. Simple!