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Abeg mk she find another job jor. Dann dann wani?

klassiquette:
I'll just see you as one that doesn't have manners at all..... Did you really have to be aggressive cos you're trying to make a point?

I was not aggressive nah

klassiquette:
So you hit her back?

woman go nd sitdawn abeg, stop being sentimental nd justifying wat is wrong. I'll nt hit a woman but dnt com here nd be telling us reason why a woman can hit a man nd why a man cn not hit a woman.

klassiquette:
By being manly and letting her know that you're a man... Hitting a lady only brings you down

lie!

flokii:
@OP you fvckup

tho. m not claiming saint o. buh I've never and will never (God help me) hit a woman

they can be so annoying.. even God knows

buh instead I'll just walk away...

m full of principles.. dnt mind.me

we'll see whr ur principle will get u..... as 4me I'll neva raise a finger against a woman, plus am not principles, but I do wat I gotta do

raydatluvs:
what are you taking about agreesion, the young man was hurt and I do not see any abnormality in his actions. Wana expantiate?

I feel most people read with their minds closed so they don't try to understand the situation before commenting. Most people do this on NL.

ahn ahn, e concern u? Na ur brother d guy be?? U just carry d mata 4head like gala

obiorathesubtle:
if na my guy. Why not? But if she cum for my bedsheet. Him must wash am, the last time, the girl cum for my bed, him dy give me story, say make I consider am? Consider am for wetin? Na me fÙck the girl? Come wash my bedsheet! E no gree o. I get to pay my younger brother 200naira to wash am

I go still give em space another day sha. But e must bring him own bedsheet come!

I no go fit say no because one day sef. I fit get emergency and him house dy free.

hahahaha badt guy

PunkyVeer:
Wow @ her receiving money from you via her father's account. Smh. What kind of father is that?

is he even sure that was her father. Maybe it's dis same guy she's getting married to now

kaykash007:
Nairalanders please what can he do or if any of us is in this shoe?

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC)
in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on
one condition (NO S*X before marriage). I gladly
accepted. Our love was a major gist in town
because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved
her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so
much respected her for that…I spent 75% of my
allowee on her in addition with my personal
savings…
On several occasions, she lost control of herself
during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my
promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit..
Her love for me grew stronger because of my
self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in
search of greener pasture. Things got tougher
because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I
struggled to send her some money through her
father’s first bank account (she was 18yrs then).
Once in a month, I traveled from Lagos to
Owerri just to see her….Our love was so
strong..But since inception of this year, things got
pretty bad that I could not meet up with my
routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job
few days ago in an oil company and I was so
enthusiastic to relay the good news to her….But to
my greatest shock ever…She sent me an apology
SMS that she will be getting married next week…I
was preparing for Sunday service but the news
automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up
and feeling abnormal…She is calling but I can’t
imagine myself taking the calls…Pls i need your candid advice on what to do..


My people kindly save a soul today and God will bless
you..Thanks

I can never be in his shoes

alterswerve:
Dude! You know its being rich.

You just wanna give yourself hope.

Go sidon abeg

lolz. U na correct guy jor

richie9093:
Did you read the part about me rejecting her first? do you even know what friendzone means?

stay der nd b deceiving ursef. Beta move on nd find a partner 4ursef so u can boastfully say ur in a relationship nd nt friendship!

Zonal chairman of friendzone.

mykel231:
Somebody should tell them that assembling and manufacturing are two different things.Others are getting advanced,you guys are still celebrating mediocrity.

never despise a little beginning

arresa:
Shouldn't Wike himself be arrested and prosecuted for bribing a public official or is this not a criminal act?

na beta u talk man!

Bro u need to understand journalism, if they don't put it lyk dat it won't make punch line nd won't draw attention! God bless our media officers.

FREEEMANAN:
Junk journalism as usual... Buhari didn't sack him. Buhari just approved a recommendation brought before him by the NJC which places the Justice on compulsory retirement....


The NJC found him guilty... And Buhari has no business with the NJC.... Smh for today's journalism...


The human above didn't even read the news.... This is typical Nigeria....

missKiffy:
Why will a guy cheat on his girlfriend?

. Both shuld not. We are not here to say one can do it nd d oda cn not. We are saying it is wrong to cheat on ur partner! Whether na temptation abi na roll it!

Ginaz:
Some people doesn't even know the true meaning of love, I know its very hard to forgive a cheating partner but that's when love comes in. We're all humans, none is beyond temptation or below it. It can happen in any situations and a lot of things might trigger it.

Now let me give you an example of a lovely couple I had the chance of knowing, while trying to sort out my relationship problem I went to him for advise. What he asked me was, why are you truly in this relationship? What do you understand by forgiveness?

He told me a story about how when he was dating his wife, she cheated twice but he forgave her and helped her put an end to it. He said, he would have left her but for the sake of LOVE and what he saw in her far out weight any flaws. People called him stupid and foolish, but he never weaver. And today, he's the happiest man on earth because he's very happy with his 10 year marriage.
He said to me, you dont make love, you create it.

He said if he had left his wife, she would have lost herself and wouldn't have been the kind of woman she is today. When I see both of them, I see the meaning of the word love. Indeed, you can create love.

I left him feeling filled with wisdom, and I wanna take his advise seriously and apply it in my life. What I'm trying to say to whomever that is reading this, if your spouse cheated on you and is truly repentant, you should take them back. Love can do the impossible, I so much believe in that.

Marriage is not made up of two perfect creatures, NO! It is two imperfect creatures that makes it perfect. If your spouse is lacking behind, you can help them be a better person. Cheating is bad, I'm not supporting it but for those that are TRULY REPENTANT forgive. Afterall, God still cares for us upon all sins.

if your friends calls you fool and foolish cos you're thinking of taking that poor girl that has been begging for forgiveness, you are the one that is a fool. Cos you are not man enough to be a man of your own self.

nice write up but I disagree wit u my sister, u ar tlking about temptation, Joseph nobe human being weh run 4 potiphar wife. Dat's nt even an excuse, no be she carry her leg waka go where she cheat, abi wen she gave d guy number, strtd doing romance chat, or wen she agreed to go visiting she no knw den. So she go der com use her back by herself liedown 4bed, u com deh talk temptation. It wasn't temptation, she got wat she ws luking for. As 4me I can nt take back a cheating gf, cuz once a cheat is always a cheat weneva dey get anoda chance to do it!

JumpingChicken:
Bullshit.

lolz

Highcuerayte:
The overlapped transitory is, if i am right, the misuse of words, a fiancee is under engagement to marry (Probably done introduction) while a girlfriend realistically defined is just a girlfriend,a female friend with no obligation of sexual sincerity.

"Cheating" can only be recognize in a situation where both parties,formerly sheer friends have now,agreed they will be marrying each other. Until there is this defined discussion of relationship transposition that makes her your agreed wife to be, if she has sexual relations with someone else she is not cheating since she is not under sexual commitment to you.

oga abeg waka pass! Who udeh give lecture here, wen u strt dating sumone let dem go nd ride on oda dicks outside nd den we'll c if u sit down nd be defining girlfriend nd wife 4her

Highcuerayte:
I think I have to, at this moment, as a neccesity make an educative obbligato note on the OP's view on the present contemporary subject of discussion, rephrased, Forgiving A Cheating Girlfriend.

First and foremost, I will like OP or anyone who cares to,explain how a 'girlfriend' can be cheating on you,having in mind the realistic definition of a girlfriend not in the unrealistic context of Oxford dictionary which defines it "an inamorata" but the consistent realistic definition,opined, is your female friend with no string attached; "string attached" here is "Engagement or marriage".


That in mind, if defined correctly,mutatiamutandis,accept my perspective, why won't you forgive someone who hitherto is nothing but a female friend to you and not yet be,if soon may, under any agreement of marriage with you when you can easily forgives your male friends?

I think we should learn to learn and acknowledge, appropriately,if necessary,distinctively draw the difference between a "Girlfriend" and a "Wife." A girlfriend I submit cannot cheat only a wife can.

so na d day u see woman u go marry her bah, u won't date/court. abeg gerara here!

PrimeMinisterr:
next time he/you wants to masturbate , he/you should use relaxer, (ozone relaxer preferably)

. Hahaha baaba u funny o

faith551:
When I dey reason how I go buy fuel, person dey here dey tell story

. Hahaha. Dis guy sef

TheNextAce:
If I didn't spend on her, I would have eventually spent on something else. Besides, I gather lesson learned and move on to the next. By the way, she would have spent herself. It can never be one sided

hmmm. Seriously?

queenstlll:
Nothing Much, It's Just That I Need Friends.
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swaggprofessor:
I never truly believed in love so I tried double dating so as to prevent ever giving my heart the opportunity to do so. It was going perfectly well for me cos I decided the pace of the relationship and there's nothing as lovely as having different ladies use their credit to call you every single day ( or so I thought). it was fun for me and when they get all attach and hoping that one day I might popped the question then I look for the slightest argument and am off and there's no coming back.


It seems all happy happy endings for me never having the inkling that my whole lahlahland will come crashing down in my face faster than a pack of cards falling under gravity.

It was on a Friday morning, my cousin brume who I haven't seen for 6yrs came to spend the holiday with us, I was showing her around when she drew my attention with a loud woowww like a child who just heard the sound of a thunder I turned swiftly towards the direction of her sight. When I saw a figure that could only be imagined never seen. My eyes located a radiating dark complexion lady with a waist not more than 28, hips close to 42, 5ft7, long dark hair, brown eyes and a Damn killing catwalk. For the first time in as long as I can remember. B4 I could regain myself my cousin had gone to her to have a chat her and she somehow stylishly introduced me to her and that was the timing I was looking for and I grasp it with both hands with sweet gists that she gladly asked us to walk her she told she just moved into the area and was glad to have us as friends.

Instanter, After the long walk me she gave me her number and showed me her house telling me she would me glad to have me visit her anytime. I went home feeling as a ghost gliding on air all thanks to my cous( though am still paying her for it till date).


Flashforward, 2months later we were like the best couple in the area with me been a poster of change most girls try to advertise to their unrepentant flirtitious boyfriends. All of a sudden I was embracing love with both hands. For the first time I could say I truly fell in love and for just those moment I felt loved(or so I thought). Having sex with her was an undescribeable fun.

On a Saturday afternoon, all kitted up in my man united jersey ready for the barclays weekend when her call came in. she told me she all alone and she needed company, I jumped instantly forgetting the club game for my personal away game armed with different brand of rain coat. I got to her house in 3mins which is my personal record of my walk to her house.

before I cud count 1-10 backwards it started raining inside her apartment so I bought out a variety of my raincoat instantly like a soldier in a bring back our girls mission after 2rounds of the race in her peak she said " it's the best sex ever,BB" I was dumbfounded cos I am BJ and my bestfriend is BB.I just got dressed and walked out.

Pls, I need your advice cos am going out of my mind ryt now. she gave 23miss calls this morning. What do I do cos I can't stand her presence now.

guy abeg uno get name, abi na BJ ur parent name u? Might av been a mistake sef cuz d name sound like Rice nd Beans. Well well ur gf shuld. Call u ur name, most tyms sumfin diff frm wat odas call u especially ur name in full or sumtin. Nd not using symbol. BJ ko Mouth Action ni

TheNextAce:
If she is lying, I don't lose anything. I'm not the kinda person that loves blindly. You Bleep up, I leave you. There are 3 billion women on earth for Pete's sake

I mean after u must av spent ur money and time nd energy on her

Karleb:
Atimes I wonder where you guys get those sort of girls... I can't stand 1 per cent of the stress you stood.

One advice for you anyways: the moment anyone threaten to block you on a social network, that's the exact moment to block them. You don't wait or beg them not to block you, you block them immediately.

That's the 49th law of power.

correct! The best time to block or delete someone is when they are typing. That feeling ehn, imagine am

younghartz:
abel's real name is JAMES

#profiler

u are doing ursef. Grow up!