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The nylon business will still make her move about or treck to meet buyers. If she can cook well and you can secure a space for her around your neighborhood......build a wooden "mama put" food corner for her. She will buy cooking utensils and food stuffs. She can be selling white rice and stew, jollof rice, fried rice, beans, amala, etc. She can employ one or 2 teenagers to help her serve. Gradually she will grow.

She can also decide to open a small shop and sell provisions, but the food business is more profitable

It's not hard. Relax. Tomorrow go to any of their branch and complain. They will explain it to you.

Just thinking out loud. Not like I have any.

If one gets Apl from connection or job buying, how do you confirm the authenticity of the Apl?

How do I apply? I speak English, Pidgin English, Yoruba language, Igbo language

Iyajelili:
Some ambitions or dreams cannot be achieved without money also, Nigeria does not recognize or compensate talents so why not make money. However, if you're the ambitious type, I'll suggest you travel out of this country (which requires money).

I mean that we don't really pursue what we want to become because of the situation of the country. A mechanical engineer or someone who studied mechanical engineering who plans to grow in engines and all that has to do with mechanical engineering, gets so frustrated that what he/she eventually wants is just to do any job or be fixed anywhere in govt job and just earn

Eldinot4:
Lol you made me laugh. May God's favour reach you

It is funny, but it's so bad and sad, that the country has made us not bother about career! Everybody just wants to earn. Everybody wants a job; fed govt job most especially, nobody wants to grow a career. Just let me enter any fed govt job and just earn money. Money money money! It's not like nobody has an ambition of becoming what they want to be, but the economy and the government has made everyone not interested in a career! Just any job that pays well! Whether you know the MDA or not, just fix me up somewhere, so I earn a living!

It is really sad! God help the youths of Nigeria.

The truth about girls on this dress is that, it makes men go crazy and it all ends in sex. It's hard to wife such ladies that wear these skimpy dresses. I'm talking from the African man mentality.

vanvickie:
Pls OP did u in any way do the bolded?

No, I did not.

Juliearth:
Do not relent, you shall recover all in no time.

Amen. Thanks and God bless you

Standing by me isn't enough. What did you do to assist me in my predicament?

I will go for the 2nd option

Ishilove:
When you get to Sabo ask any bikeman to take you to MFM. It is not more than 100naira max

Ok. Thanks. I appreciate

Johnwick64:
imagine you never found out she was married,what would you have blamed your misfortunes on?

This is another angle though.

I would just say it's an act of God

Ishilove:
You can go to MFM HQ in Sabo, Yaba for counseling. After counseling you will be booked for deliverance.

Thanks. My place is not far from sabo. Where exactly at sabo is the MFM HQ located?

Ishilove:
The most popular deliverance church I know is MFM, but there are many smaller churches also conducting deliverance.

Ok, thanks. I'm in Lagos. Which of the location, when and what time do they conduct the deliverance?

Juliearth:
I can feel your pain bro. Its a good thing that you have admitted your wrong and you are sorry for it. You are on the right path. Continue to pray to God, fast if you can and I trust that God would look down upon you with mercy. All will be well with you bro!

Thank you so much. I appreciate deeply

PrimadonnaO:
The real crime here was that you probably took advantage of her.

No, I never did. I developed feelings for her like normal human beings do. I was attracted to her. I had started issuing purchase orders to her long before I got attracted to her. She was a good vendor.....so even if she had turned me down, the orders wouldn't have stopped. She likes me too. The problem was that she didn't tell me she was married.

I never took advantage of her. I have never ever taken advantage of any woman and I will never do that. Stop accusing me of what you know nothing about.

Some of you just judge people like you're so perfect and you're God.
Stop worsening my situation!

Ishilove:
Have you considered deliverance?

No I've not. I only just pray and go to church. Where's the deliverance at?

Reex12:
@bolded are fvcking kidding me?

you went against your official code of conduct, took advantage of a helpless pregnant married woman who in the process of the adultery lost her seed because of such unholy and abominable copulation

"If you have no sin in you, then throw the first stone"

I never took advantage of her. Read the story very well pls.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
No, they won't hear. They want to sleep with everything that has a hole and come here to brag how they've slept with all the women bother married and single. They want to proof that women are useless and cheap. But they won't come out they say when they start experiencing set back.

I don't sleep with everything that has a hole! She was not the only female vendor I had. I also had female colleagues who are single, but she was the only one I had something with cos I like her humble nature. U don't just sit in your house and judge people. I don't need this kind of talks. U don't know what I have been through in my life, for a mistake that didn't come from me. Stop judging me. Leave me to nurse my problems and cry to my God. You're not my God

Aderr:
It's not sleeping with a married woman that's really the problem here. Problem is that you misused your position. I have a feeling you inferred to her that she wouldn't be getting what she wanted unless she slept with you.

That's not true. Please read the story well or check above

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
I have banged several married women and have never had such bad luck.

Your bad luck is merely coincidental or because you exploited her by using Your position to obtain sexual favours.

I never exploited her. If you read well, I had already started issuing her PO before I wooed her. I chyked her just the normal way a man woos a woman. If she had told me she was married, I wouldn't have continued and it wouldn't have stopped the POs

Ginaz:
in fact, once I know you're married , I keep you at a distance.

What if you don't know and the person doesn't wear ring and the person lied that he's single?

Aliyeous:
hmm have you thought of other possibilities other than that.

Like?

I will like to shed more light on this thread below:

https://www.nairaland.com/6499558/ever-bad-luck-after-premarital

Yes. Sleeping with a married woman/man can bring bad luck.

My Story:

She came to my office seeking to be a vendor for the company I use to work for. Black beauty, busty and good ass. After coming to meet me for about 3 times, I decided to make her a vendor with little supply; low PO(purchase order) value. After some days, I wooed her and invited her over to my place. I had asked ab initio, if she was married and she said No! No ring on her finger.

We had sex and after the sex I discovered she wasn't happy. I asked and she said nothing.
Later, I increased the value of the PO and even directed her to a bank where she could get loan for the supply. Bank marketers usually come to my office asking me to send down my vendors to their office for PO financing.

After some few months I was transferred to another state. She came to my new office with a bulgy pregnancy and I got so shocked. I immediately took her outside for questioning.
She said she was sorry for not telling me she was married. She said she did it cos she wanted the PO badly. Her husband lost his job and she wanted to do something to help out. She said she was pregnant the day we had sex and she was sad cos she cheated on her husband.
I prepared a PO for her to supply, with a very high value.
After some months she called that she lost her babies(twins) while giving birth. I felt so bad for her.

Not quite long after the incident, I lost my job. Came to Lagos. Stayed few years at home, got another job in Delta......lost it within 6 months. Came back to Lagos again. Stayed some years jobless. Got another job, lost it within 2 years. While all these were going, all the relationships I ventured into, crashed. I got another job in Lagos and lost it within a year.
I had lost so many job opportunities....I mean jobs that I had almost gotten would just slip away!
Nothing has really been working in my life since then.

I tried calling the lady but for years her number has been switched off. I guess she doesn't use the number anymore. I have prayed and prayed for forgiveness.

It is really not my fault cos she lied, but then I should have been more careful. I should have paid attention to little detail about her.

Maybe the sex wasn't the cause of my misfortune.....I really don't know, all I know is that my life was going on smoothly before the sex with her.

Please, you all should desist from sleeping with married men/women.

That it didn't affect Mr/Mrs A, doesn't mean it can't affect you, if you try it.

Gimli:
Though depend on your negotiating power, but 2m is cool.

To add to this, in case your connect disagrees, 2.5m is good. Na custom! The guy should just be careful not to fall into the hands of scammers. Dem full Abj anyhow

I'll Sue the plotters. He could pass out or suffer paralysis due to shock

hapydaddy:
Pls which area in yaba..

Just opposite the beginning of the tejuoso mall. Don't meet the abok1s standing outside. Enter through the tiny road to the shops

RedAlert08:
You didn't play your cards well.

Alright then, poker master

RedAlert08:
And you didn't fucck her? Na wa for you o, nwokem

She refused. I can't force her

Why the hatred for Nsukka people in Enugu? Even the FCC commissioner representing Enugu; Ginika Tor Williams hates Nsukka people to the extent that she never helps anyone from Nsukka to secure FG jobs.

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