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ShopAdvisorNg:
I'm 21 years old with a small boy stature. I'm being insulted and looked down at because of this. Ladies look at me as a kid. men I'm older than look down on me. pls recommend me a good and effective beard growth cream to improve my masculinity prowess. I'll really appreciate your inputs.

NairalandAngel:
Please give a brief description of what this business is about or what the money will be used for

AnalQueenluci:
love is more dan dat plsssss.

Dnt tell me u ar a coward?

Bass123:
she said she doesn't want to come back to America

That America is cold and lonely

Which normal person chooses nigeria over America

Wiseandtrue:
I know this man is short and portable!!! Can someone please mould him into stone and use him to stone Buhari already

lillyontop:
I know a company that install trackers on car and since I installed tracker on my car I can tell the where about of my car even if I send someone on an errand..... No only that you can geofence your car with tracker that is if a friend or someone lend your car and say is going to oshodi you can imstruct the car not to pass oshodi and if it does the car goes of onless you are informed another point is that it keeps record of places it has been taking to even for a period of a year and if stolen you don't don't need internet you can take a small phone and command the car to off that's all I can say about it and really it's important in a car

greatnaija01:
lol awesome piece I must say but it seems you are already a victim

NOW LET ME EDUCATE YOU ON NIGERIAN WOMEN

1) Very desperate for GREENER pastures

2) define greener pastures as a Man with LOADS of MONEY or WHITE MAN

3) Will cook, clean, wash and do all chores even as a Girlfriend just to win the Jackpot engagement Ring

4) Put up all necessary appearances just to be BLAMELESS and appear perfect till MARRIAGE

5) After Marriage her real character shows, when KIDS her born then she becomes the BOSS

6) will not DIVORCE you but can KILL you with African VOODOO and take your wealth

7)ready to use AFRICAN VOODOO LOVE CHARM to get you to LOVE them HELPLESSLY without finding a Fault(you seem to already be a Victim)

will NEVER AGREE to relocate to Nigeria to Live permanently with you here.

9) Can BEAT you or arrange for you to be ruffed up by tugs

10) will NEVER TELL YOU THE FULL TRUTH ABOUT HER BODY COUNT AND PAST SEXCAPADES WITH GUYS.

11) Will never let you near other ladies she sees as threats to her place in your life either because they know BITTER TRUTHS that u will never know or they are the REAL ONES you should have married.

12) She already has ENEMIES who use VOODOO charms and other Spiritual means against her and you just joined her in the battle so be prayerful

13) She will always have a secret african dude that satisfies her sexually in rough ways you can not begin to imagine.

TOO EARLY TO CELEBRATE BRO, TOO EARLY.

REX106:
Am 22 and a university student

In less than two months ill be in my finals

But heres my problem… ..All my years in school i suffered from social anxiety… though i love people and come around them in social situations… .i have always found it sifficult to participate in the social situation



My anxiety has always made me quiet… ,.and have hindered me from being able to be comfident.,,,i know this is because of the family and area in whivh i was raised


i was the last born with my immediate bro giving me six years gap… he bullied me as i grew.,talked down on me and prety much non of my other sibblings ever talked normql to me… .


everyone seemed to literally see me as a house boy good for only errands and staying alome and being the object of their bossines and anger……


my parents werw not social people… .in my house i used to stay alone and had no one to talk to… ,,This somehow affected my ability to see myself even as equal yo my own mates in school… .coupled with seeing kids who had a free mentality as opposed to me further created in me an inferrioriy cpmplex

Bass123:
Admin put this on the front page if you can pls.
I am in love with this lady since from tertiary institution and the only thing stopping me from getting married to her ever since was money.
Now all of us are working but the income is not upto what I expect myself to keep a lady at home as a wife. I am a crusader of feed your family well and properly. I love seeing my wife healthy well taken care of.

Awhile back, she'd stayed with me for good 3 months and some weeks before she got her apartment.
My problem started when she made a male friend at her working place and they became pretty close enough so much so that she'd stayed and made love to him and each time if I asked "she'd told me we are just friends with benefits " its kills me each time she said that.

There wasn't any conversation I will have with her she'd not mentioned the guys name. Even when I told her not to go to his house she will say yes but somehow I'd found out she has gone to his place again.
I told her I really need her to trust me so we could build a family together, she'll often say no we are not meant to be together.

The challenge now with me is that, I want to break free and move on with my life but I am finding it very difficult to let go of her. What can I do to be free, sometimes I'd think I should go violently on her but that is foolishness. I don't know what to do save a brother.

I am addicted to this lady, she don't call me if I don't call. When she was with me the guy will call and she will rush to pick his call but when I call her she don't pick sometimes. Don't forget I call her always I don't spare my units before you will think I don't call her as the other guy does.
I remember some months back she traveled and I called all through out that day to know if she has arrived safely but she didn't pick up the phone, so I called again the next day she picked and told me she was busy that was why she didn't pick.
Same week when she came back to my place, she was in a hurry to put a call to this guy, she has not even removed her cloth or anything that the guy has been calling her, she had to call back. I was furious by that decision after the call I told her is disrespectful to do that, having in mind she did not return my call with such urgency when I did call.
She apologized but I was hurt.
The question is how do I go away from her?

ExtraExtra:
Women are the backbone of the family, they make or mar the home, since they help bring life to the world suffice it to say they sum up what we call family, 99% of successful, longlasting home or family is the ability of the woman to hold the "forte".

My attention was drawn to this forum and this topic https://www.nairaland.com/4617351/husbands-pride-wants-ruin-home#69371294 and it is sad that most people drew conclusion on a one sided story though i wouldnt blame those involved because they judged based on what was said and the individual involved needed public validation for her wrong doing, a public display i dont approve of but since external persons and relations are already involved i'd like to clear some details.

"Dee" comes from a very well to do family while i dont so when we got married, i made her feel we are in this together, not one above the other but as partners in EVERYTHING. To be fair to her she brought up the business idea we did years ago, in other to put forth money to start up, i made sure i had equal money as her for it, goal was to own a property, build et al. Unfortunately my dad's ailing health deteriorated to the extent that he had to be flown out, when the profit came, i told her and she agreed, she decided we split it into two so she use hers for the initial plan. As the first born i went with my dad, back here she got the property and started building, when i came back the remaining money with me was used to complete it, what was left was used for my parents house. Being a trust worthy person i feel she is, i didnt bother to check documents cos i felt she would do the right thing by putting both our names which she kept in a bank.

Now, i work and own other businesses so i'm always in contact with alot of people from both genders so to her she feels i may have lost guard by cheating which is not true: i dont have password on my phones, i always make and receive calls right in front of her but she still think i'm hiding something and that was the genesis of the problem weeks ago, i rebuked her to cut it out immediately but she was out for blood, she insulted me like never before, when i didnt give her face, she extended her TOXIC words to my parents, my family, my background and my personality, that was when i lost it, if not for my cousin that was there i would have hit her, out of anger i told her to get the hell out of the house which of course i didnt mean, then she shocked me saying the house is ONLY in her name, i was numb and speechless, in other for me not to react in a brutal way i left the house, told her i would never step there again if she doesnt change it to my name ONLY. My cousin who was there when it happened told my people, they called me so i had to explain things, right now her family knows what happened and none is supporting her.

YES i said she should put my name only cos she belittled and betrayed me which tells me if it was in both our names she will raise shoulder and feel above me.YES i requested for transfer and i will go through with it, i cannot be away from my kids and still be in the same state, it doesnt make, when it is sucessful, i will get a place conducive amd comfortable for my kids, they will be with me. I told her recently not to bother with the name change anymore, she can have the house all to herself for all i care.

I wont divorce her because i dont believe in that, once i move with the kids she can come along if she wants but right now we are seperated. I wanted a partner, she displayed stupidity not smartness, what the future holds i dont know, she made her bed she should lay on it.