₦airaland Forum

seriously osisi i cant imagine giving a man money to sponsor or better still marry me, thats wat it sounds like

my parents no go even allow me marry such a dude, i have 3 sisters dat did not sponsor theirs, same with me, why should i? im not desperate ojare

funny how notions of equality erode when "gender" roles favor women.

^^

see what religious fundamentalism can do to one's mind.

I am not going into a relationship to give up the final say when it comes to myself. Am I wrong to say so?

i thought marriage was supposed to be a union.  you seem to be taking your feminism to feminazi levels.

Spot on, Whether we like it or yes, a man is the head, He could be understanding or not choose to be, he's still the head.

the man being the head of an household is nothing but a social construct. Gender roles aren't rigid and women seems to be taking leadership roles these days.

i don't see any reason why a lady should submit. marriage is an equal partnership IMO

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=344420.msg5312531#msg5312531 date=1263458277]no thanks to the silly mavs [/quote]you would never win anything with dirt nowinzki

chiogo:
^ LOL, they're in my prayers too. . . .assuming they need it. Haven't been following 'em this season sef. lol

Chicago @ Boston come Thursday. I won't say anything, Bawo.

smart move on your part because i smell an upset coming

you guys must really enjoy these gender wars

[quote author=tpia. link=topic=380497.msg5310282#msg5310282 date=1263424219]I agree

Serious wars are going to burst out soon- probably within the next decade.[/quote]you guys do know natural disasters are a normal part of living one earth right?

honeric01:
They have a population of 9 million people in the whole of the island, do you mean it's only 9,000 police they have or just in Port-Au-Prince?

9000 in the capital with a population of 2 million. this is an overcrowded island with little infrastructure

that whats i call a sharp pastor.

FL Gators:
[color=teal]really, but yet you cant speak yoruba[/color]

how that one concern u

MrCrackles:
Bawomolo you are ridiculous. . .
Did you just notice when the schitzo has been going down for a long time now
Bushman. . . .You are prolly used to seeing men rock dunlop and "pam" slippers. . . .

see this emasculated alhaji.  you wear ugg boots too huh 
wait till i tell your imam about this latest development

SEFAGO:
^ sharrap all of you

Anyways I wear boots too and they look sezxy on me

i bet you have a passion for fashion 
na so cross dressing dey start.

may the ugg boot wearers stand up

The committee was set up yesterday in Ibadan after a prolonged deliberation on how the Yoruba nation could get off the claws of its oppressors and have a remarkable progress.

you mean oppressors like gbega daniels and alao akala who happen to be yoruba?

ghana hasn't produced any decent piece of cinema since inspector bediako

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=379793.msg5308982#msg5308982 date=1263410061]This happened to moi in UNILAG but it wasn't chocolates, it was SUYA.
I turned up late for a date and the witch in question threw temper tantrums, i left the SUYA i brought with me on her table and she threw it in a bin(still wrapped though). I left the room and went back to pick up something i cannot remember now and alas. . . .The whole crew were devouring the SUYA.[/quote]kai why do girls have to form, nigerians can be obsessed with image. no wonder you are hard on this women

oyb:
naaa  

unilorin chicks no too dey form like that at least when i was there - thats a unilag story


i knew the expired biscuits dude tho

was my classmate

guy na big boy in glo now - no more dissing from chicks

y'all just need to do hit the books get the grades and the good paying job - and a lot of all this shakara will be a thing of the past - a distant memory

word, that's the main thing. woman sure do like financial stability.

Sagamite:
Just like, it is the last thing most of us want for junior to see two men walking hand-in-hand in park, looking lovingly in each others eyes and then kissing affectionate OR be taught in school that it is a form of family unit.

I will recommend a segregation colony for those too, Haiti and Montserrat.

are you saying homosexuality is indecent exposure? I see nothing wrong with homosexuals hanging out hand in hand. What's wrong with such display of love and affection? Lewd display from either heterosexuals or homosexuals should be shunned in public.

why can't it be taught in school that same-sex households are a form of family unit? Ha that's a debate for another thread.

hey why not deport them to San-Francisco

Sagamite:
Why, did he harm anybody? He wants to live his life the way he was born, what is wrong with that? 

the last thing i want is junior and patience playing in the park being blessed with such an image  .
they have nudist colonies for his kind.

JeSoul:
Maven, girl don't get worked up, I'm certain the fellas while probably mischievous in their entries, truly meant no ill 

abi o.  It seems we would just have to let this one go.
just when i was about to start bidding on the bride price.

MyJoe:
I think you hurt the lady, Bawo, and I would apologise.

It aint that serious.

oyb:
the funny thing is that guys who toast naija chicks in a civilised fashion often wind up being derided by the chicks for being 'gentleman' or mugu - unless na hardcore butta u are toasting. . .

i remember one dude who was toasting this girl  - na so dem dey call the guy expired biscuits

anothr one ehen - the girl no gree - and she was bragging - i have the guys heart in my hand and i can twist it whenever i want to

you chciks

we all know those funny stories - guy gos to chicks room with chocs or some such - girls all gather to yab him - whats this rubbish you're bringing ceremoniously throw it in the bin - humilated guy leaves - finds he forgot his keys goes back to find the shakara biashes chopping the 'rubbish'  

lol is this a personal story. talk true brother

MyJoe:
^^^ Kids use the streets, Bawo.

that's why he should carry his butt to a segregated colony

Approved1:
Fine-- cutting off people's body parts and selling them for rituals may not be wicked to YOU, doing spells for the purpose of controlling someone else's life, fortune, and destiny may not seem like wickedness to YOU-- but many others would beg to differ.

Haiti was hit by 4 major hurricanes in 3 weeks time just over a year ago---- I'm just wondering if this degree of annihilation is linked at all to certain practices-- just makes one wonder.

umm haiti is in the Caribbean.  hurricane season happens yearly in the Caribbean so that's nothing special (except its a category F5 hurricane).  haiti lines above a fault line.  I do not support human sacrifices and all that but its silly to think GOD somehow killed over 100 thousand people to send them a "lesson".  I guess the children and animals killed deserved to get the lesson too. nonsense.

this earthquake could have easily happened in a place like california.

chiogo:
I heard. . . .it's so sad, considering how poor the country already is. Obama is supposedly trying to assist 'em. Way to go!

Hope this doesn't become Nigeria's portion. Nothing worse than adding to the country's problems. But then Haiti is an island, right? They're more susceptible to these things. No where is safe these days. Sigh.

its not only poor but an overcrowded island.

stillwater:
Wetin concern me?
Already thinks ugg boots supposed to be for men sef.

hmm why do you think so?

they should leave the guy alone jare. he shouldn't do this around kids though.

last time I heard that, I was like 6. . . . .by a Mallam in Lagos.
Dude was nice though. . . . free agbalumo.

oh boy is that the going price these days

Approved1:
Horrrrible!!!!!!
Haiti Earthquahe--Like the KATRINA HURRICANE that hit New Orleans---Both (Port-au-Prince, Haiti, and New Orleans, Louisiana) both have something in common, VOODOO!!

Is there a link between these NATURAL DISASTERS and their wicked traditions---or just coincidence??

people like you and pat robertson (who claimed God punished new orleans for immorality) are idiots.

this is a natural disaster that has nothing to do with voodoo. it's funny how eastern religions are considered "wicked' traditions.

[quote author=tpia. link=topic=380300.msg5301877#msg5301877 date=1263323291]yes, its bad and dangerous and has been going on for donkey years.

Of course prostituting is safer and carries no risks.

The women could try that I guess.

better than doing manual labor.

My mum hawked foodstuffs as a child- I guess I should look down on her and her parents for being so poor.[/quote]are we looking down on them by being concerned for their safety?

mavenbox - i have a few questions.

what if you are say 35 and still unmarried,would you continue to be a virgin?
would you marry a man that is not a virgin? 
how do you control ya libido 
is your choice to be a virgin based on religion or because you are worried about std's and casual partners?

Sex is natural – manifestly – and neither you nor Albert Einstein can contradict that fact.

he he tell it like it is deepsight. i won't let my liberal leaning sidetrack this thread.
let me step aside for a minute

FFA:
@ GOOSE1


REALLY LADIES/WOMEN WE ARE ENEMIES OF OURSELVES.IF WE HAVE IT AT D BACK OF OUR MINDS THAT D HOMES WE A DESTROYING IS ANOTHER FEMALE FOLK, MARRIAGES WILL WORK BETTER.

it's funny how men are given a pass for being promiscuous while women are home wreckers.

that's one poor country. they don't even have fire service.

9000 policemen for a country of millions!!!

faakay:
Update: All university in this province no longer accept Nigerians again, other province are following up

for real? wow that's crazy.

that's artest for you, he gets over his head on offense at times.