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platinum - what happened to LSU?

cutler doing his thing as usual. dude has no help.

Ogaga4Luv:
[size=13pt]I would never want to be a member of a group whose symbol was a guy nailed to two pieces of wood.[/size]

lol

kurt warner, abeg now. this is not necessary

doyin13:
mehn. . .where bawo. they wan kill the Bears sha

tell me about it.

time to get my xoloft prescription.

return of the mapomeji

he should go the gary payton route and play for a contender.

is this information the latest mapomeji track?

he was obviously a religious fundamentalist.

lmao. this is real funny

jagunlabi:
Especially if the god is a false god like the christian god.

lmao that gotta hurt.

muffins:
Hell Fire is a place of torture, so what do you expect?

u believe this

Deep Sight:
Its really amusing.

But guess what? Hell exists.

Not as a physical place, but as a state of being.

A state of mind or spirit.

This very world, is hell already for some peeps.

can you explain this state of mind calling hell.

i agree with the thread though, a religion based on love shouldn't spend so much time scaring people.

biina:
If u dream of Wade playing for Chicago, you should wake up and apologize

Dwayne wade would rather play with derrick rose than be stuck with a lunatic like beasley

allen iverson just took a leave of absence from the grizzlies. this won't end well

yeyeruzi:
Please back your theory if you can

dude its simple, anyone confident about their sexuality can't be "bent".  You have to be at least curious (ever heard of bi curious folks?) to engage in such an act.   The average heterosexual man would be repulsed by a gay dude hitting on him. 

oyb:
with all the righteous rage in cyberspace , it should be clear why bent men prefer the closet - the real world is clearly much worse. imagine being  openly gay in nigeria - na soso them go dey fall into ya house everyday to deliver you from satan before you send everyone in your neighbourhood to hell 

lol i know right.   family members won't let that person rest.  We also have folks like alhaji sauron who would want them dead 

spikedcylinder:
Thank you.
The number of "see it my way or you die" people in the world is alarming.

I agree. if homosexuals are happy with who they are, why the urge to change or condemn them?

FL Gators:
Is that what the problem is?

Its not just winning the game, is how the game was played. . . .I think what made the game interesting is the rivalry that Gators have with other teams, like LSU, Alabama and Georgia. Like nobody really cares about the Game coming up this Sat., But there was a lot of commotion going on the week b4 Gators vs. LSU/Alabama/Georgia games.

I guess its because IOWA aint that popular. . . .

whatever jare. iowa lost today. The SEC get's way too much love, especially florida and that running i mean quarterback

biina:
Still cant believe that Miami handed Denver their first loss; it was practically a blow out leading by 28pts at a point
Heat are off to a great start of 5-1. I need to enjoy it while it lasts.
I feel Chalmers was a steal for them and will develop into a solid PG.
All we need is a quality big man (read Bosch or Amare) and a dynasty is not far off.

what's gonna happen when your shooting guard leaves for chicago? dynasty my ass.


shaq's love-vendor hand is strong.
http://blacksportsonline.com/home/index.php/2009/11/shaqs-love-vendor-focus-is-strong-sleeping-with-gilbert-arenas-fiance-we-got-emails/

[quote author=z-murda link=topic=348085.msg4880150#msg4880150 date=1257623571]I think the whole concept of the hajj and Jerusalem thingy is sheer stupidity anyway. I know my muslim brethren would argue its one of the five pillars of their religion. The christian brethren do not have that luxury. I should think the government should discourage people going for glorified tourism in the name of religion. if it refuses to do that, then as a secular state we claim Nigeria is, the Federal Government should DESIST from sponsoring anybody or animal for that matter to Mecca, Medina or Jerusalem. It is sheer waste of limited resources. These resources can be used to pay our lecturers, build roads, used for better health care or it can be looted by the political class (here I appeal to their greedy stomachs)

Here in Naija Hajj and Jerusalem 'pilgrimage' is a class thingy. I think its one of the most stupid activities of the year, no one comes back better. They remain who they are. Maybe its the titlemania issue with the Nigerian pysche. I would have loved the guys who smashed the windows to have been arrested just to see a diplomatic row.

I have digressed and vented my spleen. We will never be treated with respect as long as our leaders don't treat us with respect. Make no mistake about that![/quote]i agree.

any "straight" man that was bent wasn't straight to begin with.

that's really sammy sosa.

everyone looks good against the knicks. remember defense is a no-no for any d'antoni coached team.

florida wins a close game- oh they are so good, the heart of a champion. the quarerback is a warrior.

iowa wins a close game - oh iowa isn't that good.

off topic. Sammy sosa seems to have gotten michael jackson disease.

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May kelly:
You must serve Jehovah God or you perished.

I guess have perished

lol funny parody

it's a broad generalization to say 99% of terrorists are muslims.

Instead of Obama worrying about changing the "dont ask, dont tell" policy, I think its better to review the policy of sending muslim soldiers to fight against their brothers in the Middle-East. In situations where there might be a possible conflict of interest, muslim soldiers should be put on non-combatant duty to stop this ish from happening again.

they could easily be conscientious objectors. But why join the army if you won't obey orders. He most likely was just looking for free money to go to medical school.

chidichris:
the truth is that obj has become a brand name in the corruption kingdom.
his skillful and dominant position in aso rock has made him the saint of all time.
he has assumed the position of a private owner of nigeria as he creates and destroys at will.
the big question here is, will he be this owner for ever or how long can he occupy the position of an owner of nigeria?

what did OBJ and ribadu do to you?

michelin89:
Everything is better than Christianity.

lol everything?

kokoye:
If you get a derogatory / disrespectful answer, then you are in the wrong relationship. Move on

you are speaking the truth. I don't know why people persevere in abusive relationships.

michelin89:
Ahahahhahahah! Right on point but you missed something: I never said I was with him.

Do you know how many times I have read on this forum: "Is that the way to speak to a man?" "Don't you know you must respect men?" etc

Sorry but either men or women respect must be earned and money isn't equal to respect.

gbam gbam gbam

MyJoe:
This is a summary of my post on a similar subject else where.

There is a pervasive misunderstanding of homosexuality about, which is not surprising since they are the minority. Outright hatred and persecution, known as homophobia of heterosexism is still prevalent even in countries where homosexuality has been legalised. Homosexuality is not something anyone ever decides to take on. The idea that homosexuality is something people are lured into in all-boys schools is scurrilous nonsense. It is now taken for granted in the scientific community that people are born homosexual. Thus, homosexuality describes an attraction, an orientation, not just a practice. Homosexuality is pretty widespread in the animal world. Says American Psychology Association, "Sexual orientation is not merely a personal characteristic that can be defined in isolation. Rather, one’s sexual orientation defines the universe of persons with whom one is likely to find the satisfying and fulfilling relationships that, for many individuals, comprise an essential component of personal identity." Scientists are still trying to determine why people are born with their orientation and they believe certain factors are involved. These include genetic factors, environmental factors, prenatal hormone exposure and prenatal stress on the mother.

Religiously speaking, homosexuality is unequivocally condemned by the"holy" books. Thus while the Anglican Church and others have in the spirit of new age liberalism opened the doors to openly gay people, they are in violation of injunctions clearly stated in the Old and New Testaments.

Health wise, there are also inherent risks. The human anal canal, up through the rectum, is lined with delicate tissues which are easily ruptured when penetrated.  The chances of this happening during anal intercourse are high, opening up direct blood-to-blood infection channels. This is why the AIDS pandemic in the West decimated the gay MALE population, while having a substantially smaller impact on the straight population. In fact when the virus came to light around the early 80s, I think, it was known as "The Gay Plague."

Given that being a homosexual is not something one chooses, but one is born that way, is change possible? Several psychiatrists who believe that homosexuality is a disease have tried to change people and they have ALL had one result, FAILURE! Says the American Psychology Association, "Sexual orientation has proved to be generally impervious to interventions intended to change it, which are sometimes referred to as 'reparative therapy.' No scientifically adequate research has shown that such interventions are effective or safe. Moreover, because homosexuality is a normal variant of human sexuality, national mental health organizations do not encourage individuals to try to change their sexual orientation from homosexual to heterosexual. Therefore, all major national mental health organizations have adopted policy statements cautioning the profession and the public about treatments that purport to change sexual orientation."

Does that mean there is no help for homosexuals who feel strongly about their way of life and would like to change? No. Right now, I can think of FOUR options.

1. You accept your situation and remain the way you are. Being gay does not make you less of a human being. But you don't want this, that is why you opened this thread. So that leaves you with three options really.
2. Sex change. Since you are a man who feels attracted to men, you can go for a sex change operation so that you become a woman, complete with a tear rubber pair breasts and a vulva. You can then have all the penile sex you want in the right orifice. This suggestion is radical and expensive. But many people have taken this option.
3. The third option is celibacy. Just as some heterosexual people choose not to have anything to do with the opposite sex, some homosexual people do it. I have read of priests who are gay by orientation but chose celibacy. Whatever anyone might tell you, it is possible to live without sex. Some Catholic priests who choose to stay faithful to their callings do it. There are people who maintain their virginity into their twenties and thirties when they get married.
4. Impractical as the fourth option may seen (if you are not bisexual) to anyone who has taken time to study this issue, I am including it because it is not impossible. You stop having sex with men and take on women. You marry a woman. The problem is that you are not attracted to women in the first place so you will find the sex unsatisfying. Your partner may notice this and leave you. You may live a "false" life for the rest of your life or find yourself sneaking out to find male sex partners. But if you try hard enough, and if you are lucky, it is possible for you to abandon homosexuality.

I people get a tad less judgmental about these things.

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[quote author=na_so link=topic=347596.msg4875815#msg4875815 date=1257537439]Yes partnership but Who leads?[/quote]who ever has leadership qualities or personalities.  It could even be equal.   We have seen women become president of countries and CEO, so why can't they lead in a marriage or be equals?

davidylan:
Marriage is a lifelong partnership that requires one partner to be led by the other. But of course you can go with the liberal idea . . . its no wonder 50% of marriages are over before 2 yrs. You'd think they'd last longer if one partner didnt have to submit eh.

leaderships isn't a requirement for all marriage to be successful.   There is no standard template for a successful marriage.  Yeah liberalism is the reason marriages don't succeed  .  I guess the Nigerian family is all roses thank to the alpha male. There is no need for power tussles in a marriage.