₦airaland Forum

Abekeade08:
H202, you and chic2pimp dey dissapoint me ooh. H202 na you especially dissapoint me,  I believe you are Yoruba, paying brideprice is part of our tradition. With the way people are embracing western values, if we lose the little things that differenciates us from other countries, then I believe we have lost an inherent part of ourselves. I am definitely not a commodity, but whoever I marry must follow tradition and pay my bride price. Money does not have to be exchanged, tubers of yam, plastic bowl, palm oil and whatever else tradition dictates is enough for me.

does that include western clothes and using the internet?

i personally think all these tradition talk is just plain crap.   most of you women won't accept a polygamous household where ifa was worshipped (oh wait is Christianity traditional?)

peroxide - sharrap with your simping self.

rip

ayettymama:
lolz

no formin here

if the money is plenty why not share?

so you won't mind being in a polygamous relationship?

it took 3 years to nullify an election

[quote author=Diva 2.0 link=topic=420268.msg5775713#msg5775713 date=1269640620]If he can do the traditional rites for all of them, sure.[/quote]for real, that's nice.

ayettymama:
if u can afford many wives and have the heart for plenty trouble why not??

the family is bigger

me thinks you women are forming but there is hope for traditionalists like me

[quote author=Diva 2.0 link=topic=420268.msg5775690#msg5775690 date=1269640209]You shouldn't jump to conclusions too quick darl. Major turn off.[/quote]my bad so why don't you date these nigerian savages. I'm different so talk to me

quick question for the i'm so traditional women.

are you down with polygamy? shebi we are now traditional

ayettymama:
according to some traditions

they do!

how about that!

like what? paying for the aso ebi

[quote author=Diva 2.0 link=topic=420268.msg5775649#msg5775649 date=1269639726]I don't date Nigerians[/quote]ha clap for yourself, i guess nigerian men are the only misogynistic men around.

keep on listening to tales by moonlight though.

fifi09:
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@davidchidi: R you a male or female?

If you're a female, how can you even consider helping your husband-to-be in paying your OWN bride price?

and you wonder why men treat you like property after marriage.   those same in-laws chasing your man away won't help with the wedding bills.

Some guys pull the tradition card too. If she doesn't serve you the food on her knees, she's going back to her father's house lol.

most young nigerian men do not care about a woman serving food on her knees. you must be dating some sugar daddies.

well if its how u want to present urself to your inlaws then of course!

shiit most of my freeloading in-laws would be locked out from my reception at dodan barracks

i actually am working and earning my money but i just feel he can be more proactive.

no be only proactive na clearsil

you have never been to an engagement ceremony before?

follypimpi:
Funny how some ladies remember tradition when it comes to bride price.

ha nice shot at the casual relationship crowd

be a man and marry all of them.

case solved.

why not just avoid the whole bride price?

u give gifts to people to show u appreciate them dont u??

would a one dollar hallmark card be considered a gift? cheap and still fulfilling tradition

i have suffered.

I would reserve my comments for playoff time

you guys better switch your tv to CBS

a great NCAA game is going on.
chiogo too is laughing, let the playoffs come and then i shall laugh

chic2pimp:
^^^^^^Berra go and have a Self-Service fest b4 you die off stress. shiorrrrr

i got the blackhawks

i need some time to myself 


kai just end this damn season

smh@this bulls-heat scoreline.

MClite:
They are asking not to be disrespected you dumb little boys, i.e want to be in videos still but as a love interest, the lead, you know like even a white boy like justin timberklake can do in like i love you and Robin Thicke who always does, he's married to a black woman.

They are not feeling left out for not being able to shake their butts don't be so ridiculous, they mean as in an option as a love interest you know like say in Usher's burn video playing his partner as opposed to snoop dogg's h0e or something .

who cares, how exactly would that benefit black women? you need to be placed in a video before you feel proud of yourself?

if not giving a shiiit about whether a blue woman is the love interest in a music video makes me dumb, then so be it.

[quote author=tpia. link=topic=241597.msg5762125#msg5762125 date=1269480127]^^ please do not be an irritant today.


You've been warned.[/quote]Go warn your fellow pigs in the stuy. idiot

stillwater:
Na wa o, so bawolomo's yeye liberal mindset can make him think straight.

he he, the doctor said i should be straight as long as i keep up with my medication. 

anyway lets get casual

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=344420.msg5768579#msg5768579 date=1269556463]So what if the Mavs spent 70mil on a center why you dey vex? Is it your money? Mark Cuban likes to trick[/quote]tricking on erick dampier, i knew dallas peeps have low standards

alley oops to kendrick perkins and that garnett agbaya are now assists 
chris paul would average 15 apg if he had the talent rondo plays with.   rose wouldn't have to score as much if he had the talent rondo plays with.

what team with common sense would double team rondo 

and dwayne wade is coming back home  . the playoffs need to come quick, someone needs to deal with these celtics.

ha ha well knowing the history i feel less sorry for her.

keke is aiight.

Gabby wins this in a landslide.

chiogo:
The Nuggets are a weak team??  The Chicago bull[i]s[/i]hits are any better? I don die!! 

Seriously, Bawo, you need to stop posting till at least late April, don't let what happened few weeks ago repeat itself.  Where's A-40, Chicago BS killa!!

they have struggled without george karl.  that's not the same nuggets of earlier.
everyone knows derrick rose is the best PG in the eastern conference. are we talking about the same rondo that can't shoot past 15ft. only thing he does better than derrick is rebound and steals.

be very afraid when the bulls roll up on the east with a line up of wade and derrick rose 

chiogo:
Look at this one. tsk. Whose name was all over the TV yesterday?
I was like "That's my husband" Jealousy! Derrick Rose coo Derrick daffodils nee.

let us rest jo, the celtics beat up a weak team and we no go rest

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=344420.msg5768153#msg5768153 date=1269551113]@Bawo
Keep waiting for free agency! Osho-free! The best you can get is Joe Johnson abi who wan play with Jerk Hinrich,Joking Noah or Luol Dung?[/quote]dwayne wade and boozer should be interested. All we have to do is bribe wade's momma and he is signing that contract by force.
as for luol deng, i have giving up .

joakim noah >>>>> than that center you gave 70 million.

chic2pimp:
Buhahahahahaahaahahahaha I Laff In Ikoyi

You were making a valid point there until you mentioned the 'D' name 

why not, he is a top 5 young PG along with chris paul and deron williams. You are crazy if you think guys like tyreke evans or devin harris are better.
don't even mention rajon rondo or else na fite.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=417101.msg5767812#msg5767812 date=1269546584]It's part of their plans.
When u give a woman the freedom to do whatever. . . . .banging around the corner is imminent.[/quote]so what should be done, put women on a tight lease or encourage men and women to respect their bodies? oh wait we have to test drive the ride.

How is she bad? Has she fellated you before?

I wish  

Polygamy is not ruining marriage in Nigeria. . . .It is sleeping around that will ruin it.

isn't Polygamy a cover for sleeping around?

platinumnk:
May you be blessed with beautiful obediant children  

they also better be rich like bill gates and dangote or else

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=417101.msg5767702#msg5767702 date=1269545256]I have always known you are fickle-minded.[/quote]yeah because women like maya angelou and susan b anthony regarded female liberty as a reason for women to sleep around.   I know you guys hate feminism but please be realistic.

The society still allows a man to sleep with as many women as he wants without really batting their eyelids.
Imagine if what happened toTiger Woods happened to Beyonce Knowles. . . .

Tiger woods was actually hounded because he acted as a role model when he was a plain freak.  If snoop dogg did what Tiger woods did no one would care.   Is beyonce really considered a good girl?

It's a man's world.

no one is denying that but such behavior could ruin your marriage and force you to pay alimony.  I know Naija women would rather fast for 30 days rather than file for divorce so yes it's a Naija man's world  .

my problem with this thread is the belittling of feminism.

GL:
i don't think i can be in a casual relationship, at least not for long. i don't see any problem with a girl or guy wanting a casual relationship, as long as they would be straightforward about it and not string the other person along. i don't like the idea of casual intimacy however.

word if you want to do, go ahead. Just don't catch feelings or else even dr phil no go send you  

H2O2:
That's running off course.  Be cogent and stay on point!
This particular topic addresses the issue of female sexual promiscuity.

Ashewo, sluts, hoes, whores, twats as cadillacpimpin has called them are all befitting titles. loud lol.

what about the men who sleep with these women?  Why not respect yourself and avoid such women.
It seems strange men in this thread are bragging out one-nite stands but condemn women for engaging in such behavior.   who are these men having one-nite stands with, other men?