bawomolo:

yeah because women like maya angelou and susan b anthony regarded female liberty as a reason for women to sleep around.   I know you guys hate feminism but please be realistic.

Tiger woods was actually hounded because he acted as a role model when he was a plain freak.  If snoop dogg did what Tiger woods did no one would care.   Is beyonce really considered a good girl?

no one is denying that but such behavior could ruin your marriage and force you to pay alimony.  I know Naija women would rather fast for 30 days rather than file for divorce so yes it's a Naija man's world  .

my problem with this thread is the belittling of feminism.

~Sauron~:

It's part of their plans.
When u give a woman the freedom to do whatever. . . . .banging around the corner is imminent.


The concept surrounding feminism is pure fuckery.

platinumnk:

from now on, when they brag about sleeping-with, ill assume its men

do u want me to really state what society thinks? really?
Do you have a brain for yourself? Does society tell you what to think?
Gosh, then i should be a slave

1) a woman slaps a guy, society looks the other way, a guy slaps a woman, hell breaks loose!
I dont advocate women hitting men.

2) guy is Hot and asked a woman for s3x and she said no, the guy is suppose to understand, society agrees but a woman is Hot ask a guy for s3x, guy declines and society wonders if the guy is normal, some thing must be wrong with him
Since when? I wouldnt think so. Men should have the same standards as women.

3) a woman does not work and provide for her family, society thinks no big deal, a man does not work and provide for his family they say he is not a man
Both partners must provide for the family in their own way.

4) woman despoils a guy, society is slow to take on the issue feeling a woman is not capable of despoiling a guy, a guy does the same to a lady and they cry crucify him!

Hes needs a better lawyer.
5) a woman cheats on her partner and society feels there must be a reason she did it, must be something the guy is not doing right. a guy does the same and they want his head on a platter of gold
Women are just as castigated for cheating, what are you people doing here?  

6) car breaks down on the highway, woman and society looks at the guy and say fit it! the very ideal of being equal becomes faint
I have fixed spare tire before, Most people call roadside assistance.

7) woman yells in the house to put hubby in his place but once there is a break in at night by armed robbers she wakes hubby and says go and see who that is, u are the "man of the house". society thinks this is ok, i declined, if u can shout in the day time be ready to do so at night when there is danger
Women these days are trained with guns, why not train your wife then  
There was a news report where a women used her training skills to disarm an attacker while she was jogging.

a woman spends a guy's life savings at the mall, society says she is a woman what did u expect, a man does the same, they say he is an id1ot, a good for nothing man!
Why would you give any one your life savings? Commiting sucide?

9)when there is a war, society says lets say women and children, sure the men can die for all we care!
In Jos men, women were killed. In iraq men women and children were killed.
men and women both serve in armed forces.

10) a woman spends 10hours in the bathroom and in front of the mirror b4 going out, society looks the other way, a man does it and they question his sexuality

this is irrelevant. Unless you have hair, then I cant see how long it takes to get dressed. One of my exs had long hair, it took him time, but I didnt make a fuss  

etc etc etc! dont preach about societal injustice to us -
Do you think for yourself at all?  

**rolls eyes**

H2O2:

na2day?  we can see it so clear man.  we know the truth.
leave it to beavers to avoid bringing up the double-standards that favor them. i'm glad you know why some women are huge hypocrites.

follypimpi:

Well it is what it is Love,these rules has been on going way before i was concieved,who am i to complain if the society frown on MEN who r too broke to look after their family,who can't house his family or pay the bills the list is endless,

davidylan:

I dont support them, but i cant tell them what to do either. Its an unfortunate reality of life, it is accepted and ENCOURAGED for men to sleep around. you'd be surprised how many mothers beam at the fact that their sons are serial daters but would frown at a daughter who spent 2 extra minutes at a guys house.

bawomolo:

yeah because women like maya angelou and susan b anthony regarded female liberty as a reason for women to sleep around.   I know you guys hate feminism but please be realistic.

Tiger woods was actually hounded because he acted as a role model when he was a plain freak.  If snoop dogg did what Tiger woods did no one would care.   Is beyonce really considered a good girl?

no one is denying that but such behavior could ruin your marriage and force you to pay alimony.  I know Naija women would rather fast for 30 days rather than file for divorce so yes it's a Naija man's world  .

my problem with this thread is the belittling of feminism.

follypimpi:

Well you are too birrifull to be looking for a real MAN on here,they shld be on you like antz on sugar.

bluespice:

God bless you sir

~Sauron~:

It's part of their plans.
When u give a woman the freedom to do whatever. . . . .banging around the corner is imminent.

How is she bad? Has she fellated you before?

Polygamy is not ruining marriage in Nigeria. . . .It is sleeping around that will ruin it.

platinumnk:

May you be blessed with beautiful obediant children  

na2day?:

take a survey of women and ask them and see how many actually have done what u posted up here and yes i think of myself so plz roll your eyes on urself.


calling them hypocrites is putting it mildly, hope this pic helps  

bawomolo:

so what should be done, put women on a tight lease or encourage men and women to respect their bodies? oh wait we have to test drive the ride.

I wish


isn't Polygamy a cover for sleeping around?


they also better be rich like bill gates and dangote or else

platinumnk:

You said it yourself, Society dictates them, does it dictate you.
So Society is your scapegoat?
In the past Society said we should be slaves.
Is thinking past "Society" that hard, or are we lazy.

bawomolo:

so what should be done, put women on a tight lease or encourage men and women to respect their bodies? oh wait we have to test drive the ride.

isn't Polygamy a cover for sleeping around?

~Sauron~:

They should respect their bodies - They are the weaker vessels and thus they have so much to lose if the relationship breaks down.
A man will just up his strut and jump into the next available relationship without nursing heartaches from the previous one.
Men are built like that.


But Naija society allows it.
Show me 6 countries where Polyandry is widely accepted and i will show 600 countries where Polygamy is the norm.

platinumnk:

But arent these your brothers, your daughters future husband could be in one of their genrations?

davidylan:

my daughter's future in-laws arent on the web. I dont have the right to tell grown men what to do.

Mmmbop:

Oh give me a break

~Sauron~:

Right. . . .
You have been broken.

platinumnk:

- You dont do society- then all the points you made was irrelevant.

Society didnt think we shouldnt be slaves?   If according to society we were the weak ones then why arent we still slaves?

Or perhaps people began thinking for themselves?

Mmmbop:

Oh give me a break

davidylan:

my daughter's future in-laws arent on the web. I dont have the right to tell grown men what to do.

na2day?:

oh they are every relevant since it has been your song about how society is not fair to women, as u are blinded to the other side of the coin, i decided to educate u. as us being weak, wrong again! once upon a time, black kingdoms were the dominating force and they slaved other races but tables turn and tables are still turning. there is no particular race that can be said to be weak as life keeps throwing curve balls, adaptions by a particular race is better than others but not forever.

platinumnk:

abi o, like the Letters to my EX thread isnt filled with men replies, bullcock  

platinumnk:

Am I talking to Society or Nairalanders? You guys brag about humping around then have the guts to call someone a slut.
And When questioned, instead of thinking for yourselves, you blame society.

platinumnk:

- Seems we going to have to agree to dissagree ladies and gents, now guys are saying they respect themselves.
Then its all good, but dont help support those who cant face who they are

na2day?:

just like u are helping support those who choose a sluty life style in the name of casual s3x? 

Mmmbop:

Sigh  

platinumnk:

I support equalism.
and I dont judge people.

na2day?:

really, then those points i raise shld be your bread and butter for u to preach to your fellow women. as for me, i judge ppl

follypimpi:


Oya listen to Platz,she want all the dudes on here boasting of promiscuity to put a big STOP to it and if you can't when the Ladies r speakin out loud of theirs you shouldn't call them names but praise them.Thank you.

na2day?:

really, then those points i raise shld be your bread and butter for u to preach to your fellow women.

na2day?:

as for me, i judge ppl

follypimpi:


Oya listen to Platz,she want all the dudes on here boasting of promiscuity to put a big STOP to it and if you can't when the Ladies r speakin out loud of theirs you shouldn't call them names but praise them.Thank you.

na2day?:

maka why? i am praising the sluts now, i am only asking them to wear their crown high and tall