₦airaland Forum

Amstupid:

landmark86:
But many of them will never mind borrowing 20mb from their network provider to follow up with BBN thread on Nairaland comes 2020.

God punish the devil

Chipink:

fairfora:
E don teeeeeey . It's now girls are bold enough to speak about it. Fear indomie generation. Dem no dey fear anything oo,

franchasng:
In as much as we will all try to attack and condemn the lady for saying such, there is lot of truth in what she wrote, and I will explain:

Back in the days of our fathers, there was no GSM, no internet, no cable TV, so it was never necessary for a man or woman to own a mobile phone, buy internet data, buy airtime, pay for cable TV like DsTV or GoTV or Star Times, etc. In fact there was no need to have a fridge/freezer before you get married because there were electricity only in few parts of Nigeria, mostly the cities, and only less than 20% of Nigerians then lived in the cities, and maybe less than 5% of those city dwellers owned a TV set, a fridge/freezer.

There was no need to own a washing machine, only the elites did....there was no need for electric or gas cooker, no need to talk about owning a car to think of maintaining and fueling the car, only few elites owned cars.

Back then, all schools were government owned, private schools were seen as useless schools for dull people, and most government schools then were free, the ones that needed to be paid for were peanuts...so you don't need to stress to send your children to school, all they needed was school uniform and books.

Back then, there were very few private hospitals, all existing reputable hospitals were all government owned and well equipped and competent, today is different....to take care of your wife's delivery and children health, you must pay through your nose if they must get adequate healthcare.

All the reputable schools now are owned by private individuals, and their tuition is on the high side that, someone earning that amount she mentioned can never be able to send his children to any good school, sadly that's the reality not what we wished was the reality


Before you can get married today and have a relatively happy home, you may need to rent a 1 bedroom flat at least, you will pay for electricity bill monthly, buy gas for cooking, pay for refuse collectors, pay estate or community security which was free in our father's time, you may need TV, GoTV which also requires monthly subscription, you must own a mobile phone, including your wife, and who will be buying the airtime, the internet data, maybe Buhari

Honestly, to live a decent life in Nigeria or run a decent, modest home in Nigeria now as a married man, you will need around 200,000naira monthly income, which is why every Nigerian lady now should make it a priority to have a job or a business or a trade or something earning her legal money of at least 50,000naira monthly before she accepts to marry any man.


Gone are the days ladies bring only their body to marriage, ladies your body is no longer enough, you must bring some money too....a monthly income!!!


That guy that replied her and saying he is earning 57,000 and he is married with 2 kids, he should also tell people about other ways he earns money to augment his 50k monthly salary; or he thinks we don't know how corrupt majority of Nigerian civil servants are, collecting kickbacks, bribes, and engaging in all forms of office corruption to makeup their low pay

He should also tell us if he doesn't get one or two financial help from one of his big brothers or uncles living somewhere else either abroad or in another city, so let him STFU that income is not enough to run a family in today Nigeria!!

If you are not earning enough income to raise a decent home, pls stay single, its not a crime to remain single, it is a crime to give birth to kids u can't train or give decent life, they will grow up to become societal problem and easy tools for crime/violence which is why Northern Nigeria and in fact Nigeria is so messed right now!


Stop giving birth to kids u can't train or hoping for your uncle or brother or sister or aunt or friend to train them for u, the world has changed, this is not 1980!!

dominique:
Pained guys everywhere with bruised egos. A person should have the rights to reject the advances of someone they're not attracted to without shamed. When a guy broke up with his girlfriend because of big brother Naija, you people were hailing him. Now a lady wants to turn down a guy she's not interested in, you're heaping curses on her. Bunch of hypocrites.

You go shaming ladies at every opportunity you get, open female bashing threads on a daily basis. Now the females you love to hate are finding love in other countries yet you're still pained. Shouldn't you be happy that they're leaving you alone for foreigners? Oh! I forgot. They're the only ones that can stomach your bullshits, them and the obese, one foot in the grave foreign women that show interest in you.

solmusdesigns:
Simple question to you, if Innoson builds an 800va generator (tigger i better pass my neighbor ) and says its price is N800k would you buy it ?

Emilokoiyawon:
At the presidential villa? O boi dis guy get mind pass lion

dannybrasky:
This man Duped my friend and I close to 50millon naira! I followed her on many occasions to the villa at his office when we were chasing the contracts. Fake award letters were drafted and signed by him. I even attended some of his disability programs at the national mosque Abuja.

Now this is where Nigeria is in a huge mess,this man has one inspector and a mopol following and guarding him every where he goes,and then having an office at the presidential villa made us fall for his scam.

Nemesis has finally caught up with him. I'm so going to drink to this.

byrron:
These are the good people giving Nigeria a good reputation, no wonder the thread is very calm and the deafening silence of all known carrier resident Nairaland tribalist can be heard by even those in the grave.

festacman:
In as much as I am not a fan of Big Brother show due to its poor educational value and high immorality content, I am CONFUSED about this call for its abolition coming from Civil Liberties Organization.

If you ponder over the two words 'Civil Liberties', you will appreciate my CONFUSION. Ordinarily organizations like CAN and MURIC should be calling for abolition of BB show while organizations like CLO would be opposing on ground that every Nigerian is at liberty to do any lawful business including reality shows.

Confusion everywhere!

Chipink:

Nobody can guess why I'm laughing at the pic

crazycrypto710:
Who remembers this classic SUV, Lada Niva? It has thesame features with mercy’s Vehicle

BeautifulMind2:
How many can you afford

Omooba77:
Honestly what is really happening; we need the MERCY of God in Nigeria. It seems we have lost it, only God can restore us....

QuizSavvy:
Women, every real man knows that there are only two ways to get stretch marks.

Either you were slim and became fat or you were fat and became slim.

Any man that makes fun of you for your stretch marks is not worth getting whatever that is on his account.

Love yourself. That's all that counts

post=82945574:
Nothing do you Kiki.

We will sponsor you to go and continue your education abroad in a matter of weeks and stop referring to yourself as a 'drop-out'.

You did a very good job that many graduates, all Nigeria Newspaper and TV stations cannot and refused to do.

Your name will be written in GOLD in the annals of our nation.
We stand with you dearie.

alizma:
I hope you read everything before this your comment?

aviato:
Like your mom

zukky79:
Guys also experience pressure too. I was almost 36 b4 I got married and I endured enuf Go And Marry advice. I feel ur pain sis. Just hold on prayerfully. Also check ur list of exes. There could be one nice guy amongst them who wants to settle down. Try reconnecting. Also look out for that serious minded guy around where u work or live. Remember that there could be diamond in the dirt close to u. Keep ur eyes open. May God grant ur heart desire. Peace

donstan18:
t was a mutual and consensual sexual relationship.